even if you were to start having respectable standards as a man, dating is still almost hard and pointless. I used to think the amish were silly, now i understand why they don't like technology. Social media makes the dating market a GLOBAL competition. you are having to satisfy hypergamy while competing with EVERY MAN on the PLANET.
From a biological perspective, it makes perfect sense. Life is unfair by default, but there are plenty of men with high standards (especially gay men) and women with low standards who've never been asked out in their life.
Be patient and don't be average. Women only choose the most worthy and the least worthy. Being the most worthy takes time and effort to achieve for most men. Once you get there ignore the women who wasted their youth choosing unworthy men, they should be as invisible to you as you once were to them.
Guys can improve but I do think it’ll be limited. If she’s looking for the best, then nothin really changes. The only thing that changes is the quality of the guy’s life alone. Because all a guy can do is up to a degree (however great or small) change his placement on the figurative leaderboards of women’s options. So the rankings will still be the same, just the name next to the rank can change. Which isn’t to say you shouldn’t try to change your own lot. Just don’t expect changing your lot makes the situation with women any better.
Hey bro, I enjoyed watching your video. You got another subscriber, keep making more. Dating is in the dumps right now, every now and again you meet a cool girl and it’s cool for a bit, that said it’s important not to over leverage yourself in those kinds of relationships. It’s important to build, especially building a tribe of good people around you.
There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death. ~Proverbs 14:12 Now, brothers and sisters, I want to remind you of the gospel I preached to you, which you received and on which you have taken your stand. By this gospel you are saved, if you hold firmly to the word I preached to you. Otherwise, you have believed in vain. For what I received I passed on to you as of first importance : that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day according to the Scriptures, ~1. Corinthians 15:1-4 Simon Peter, a servant and apostle of Jesus Christ, To those who through the righteousness of our God and Savior Jesus Christ have received a faith as precious as ours: ~2. Peter 1:1 God bless you!
I haven't seen a good dateable woman in about 8 years...aboit 3 years ago i tried dating this one chick named layna who was a truck driver but she just couldn't keep her legs closed...so sad
Everyone got they own experience why waste your time embarrassing yourself when you can work hard and achieve something and take pride in yourself. Women can have they “high value man” just leave the low value men alone. 80 20 rule 80% of women want to be with the top 20% of men
dating is useless because every woman gets free attention everywhere they go.and it’s non stop attention too.as long as technology keeps advancing things will never get better.yup women don’t have to put in work.to get any guy they want.
Hey bro! Dont know if youll get to read this comment but I hope you do. Im a bit older but I hope you dont discard my point of view. Let me ask you; what group of people do you align with? I ask this because who you associate with will impact your situation. I’m a guy who grew up in church, active in it for years. Church aint perfect, but at least I can say that it was easier for me to find girls that had better standards than the ‘common girl’. Of course, messed up people are everywhere. But of you got a faith community. If you befriend different christian families. If you organically begin a friendship that leads to a relationship with a christian girl from your faith circle; the odds will sit a little better in your favor. You will struggle to find a gemstone in the mud. What i’m trying to say, i guess, is this: do what you can to improve your odds of finding a good woman. You wont find her in the club, you wont find her on tinder. It’s a little easier to find girls with morals and values at church than in the streets. Just my opinion. Just my experience. You might think otherwise but its up to you! Praying for you!
Our world, or at least the scope of our world has changed drastically after the internet. Prior to that, your world so to speak really only consisted of 100 mile radius or so. Alot harder to meet people via classified ads lol. I was 14 in '04 and most people still had dial up internet. It was just coming on the seen 2005-2009, but not yet a major part of my life. I dated a beatiful girl from soph. year to grad. and I did not use social media. Cheating, monkey branching happened, but was NOT that common. Either way I feel your pain. I never could find a girl like my HS sweetheart. You should find a goo local baptist church and meet with the pastor.
