Honestly...Who cares why a man ghosts? It’s unimportant. Most likely reason: he thought he could do better. If he returns, his “new thing” didn’t work out. Don’t entertain foolishness. Send the Ghost peacefully to his grave.
I look at ghosting as a form of protection. They definitely did me a favor by leaving because they simply don’t fit into the lifestyle I want. Period. Dodged major bullets so grateful!! Looking forward to the men that are meant for me and the life I deserve.
If someone ghosts you, they did you a big favor by not wasting your time and letting you know exactly where they stand with you. This is better than dating for months or years and then having a break up. Don't text and ask what's wrong. No one is too busy to send a short text. He's just not that into you. Move on.
the funny thing they get mad when You don’t entertain them anymore 🤣 Just yesturday a guy I used to talk to decided to call me 3 times and text me after we haven’t spoken for 2 months, and got mad when I didn’t respond so funny. He really thought I was going to answer so pathetic . I Blocked him.💎😇✌🏼
Don’t waste your time with those coffee daters. I had a guy ask me out to coffee. I responded that I don’t drink coffee. He took me out on two dates and clearly that was his limit because he tried to sleep with me after the second date. I declined and he vanished lol. These cheap men have no intention (from the very beginning) on investing in you.
Ashera is so right most of the time they can't get it so they ghost you then they try you again and you say no again so they give up and if you don't give it up then you win
Yup... too much people in this world to waste your time on... just know what you want, how to get it, and live life. F*ck people's feelings... they will get over it.
Do you get ghosted? I usually don’t reach out but I did today and he ghosted me…. Last time we met he told me I was angelic, he couldn’t stop looking in my eyes, he wanted to hug me all the time and asked me so many questions but after he became so cold. I don’t get it
@@Emiliah1996 Yes, I did get ghosted and when I was a newbie into dating, it used to hurt my feelings. As you go on more dates, you realize to never take a man's words seriously and never have sex with him because you will get attached aka soul ties where it'll be very very painful to let go. Let this guy go, if he likes you he will prove it.
@@MissLexi333 understand thank you ❤️ he did answer me actually and wanted to meet with me again, although he lives far away so it complicate things but I’m happy he wants to meet again. What you mean with soul ties?:) I’ve slept with some disgusting people that I now regret, so I have a soul tie with them?..
I like that statement...don't put him in a permanent position that he didn't ask to be in!... I may have twisted up some but means the same! Those are powerful words to live by!
I recently did this and he ghosted me. I let my guard down and he’s older than me. I actually started to like him. I’m glad I came back to this video to remind me of who I am and what I’m not going to put up with.
A man shouldn't be shocked if a woman can move on easily. It's called "modern day". If he gets mad cause you aren't possessive enough then your way better than u think. Wayyyyyy better. 😁😉. She's awesome. Great vlog chica.
Everything has to benefit you...ghosting give you the opportunity to focus on you&what you want,need,&desire..laugh on the inside&stale face on the outside...
I really wish I had my mind frame and your encouragement years ago... The 20 something's that have u don't know what a jewel they have in you!.. But I'm 30 so not game over yet! I have a good guy but keeping myself on my game!
If a guy remembers u only when they are drunk, u are too good for him. U just don't know it yet. He's blocking your ability to make more money and get more opportunities. For real.
This is slightly off topic Shera but some young women are held back because they had multiple children, out of wedlock, at an early age. It might seem elementary but ladies don't slip up on using contraception !!!! Even in marriage, no more than 2 children; no more than you might have to support on your own. Also, if you have a lot of children your attention will be focused on them (rightly so !!) and not on yourself and your husband............
Yes I only have 1 child but I’m blown away when women with 3 or more kids out of wedlock are looking for a husband after the fact. It can happen but the chances are slim. I don’t blame men for not wanting all of that baggage.
You have told women this for years, but there are a lot of new subscribers. Thank you much for this video and all your videos that you do! It has helped me to find true love and that’s Self love.
They should put...NEWBE😆 in front of their Questions so she will Know they just joined her😊 P.s..... because she has a few sharp!😨 Daggers!😨 at times!😁
Can you explain that more? Because ghosting for any reason is so disrespectful and very hurtful. I've been ghosted once by someone who said he was blessed by God when he meet me and I was bad to the bone in so many ways. I knew it was not a lie because he was a broken man and i naturally picked him off the ground. He would say I was God sent and i was so good for his self esteem,ego and was so supportive it spoke volumes. I quit seeing him intimately but emotionally I had to ween myself off. Longer story
I had a boyfriend, we dated for a few months, met each other's families, and eventually he started taking an entire day to respond to my text messages before completely ghosting me.
Awesome Shera Community... I love this ... All the women commenting down here ..all real queens ... Best advices ... It's very helpful .... I'm glad to be a part of this community... Thank you Shera ❤️ ...
Dated for 1.5 years, he and I agreed I should move closer to him to move relationship along. He ghosted me after he knew I found and was moving close to him. I literally couldn't move back to my old place and ended up being stuck a few miles away from him and him just ignoring me. He had half my clothes and shoes at his house. That's the only reason I kept contacting him a few more times. Just a pure fiend.
Last date he took out we spoke about, how he wanted to travel and i said i would like that but due to my financial situation wouldnt be able to. That was the first time i wss was honest, i used to pretend that everything was okay lol. And i did notice on the date that he ordered a very cheap meal lol
I don't have to worry about that cause I'm married!😋 I just love watching sheraseven1 channel and a few others about beauty, life coach etc. I watched since I was single and leveling up. It helped me a lot.
All temporary ... she's right. Men give marriage as a excuse, because there's no jewerly, no ring from a jeweller, no paperwork. I hate when men get like that. youth should be fun. youth should be about travel and cute stuff (clothes, makeup, friends, apartments, car, etc),
What if I don’t want to get married or have kids and I just want to use men and get their money? The same way they just use women for sex. Is that a bad idea?
Antoinette Gorman Shera said even if you do have your own money you should still get their money. If you have a good career pretend that you don’t. Because men want to feel NEEDED. save your obey and make him pay all the bills.
We dated 3 times, he paid everything, he is good looking and funny. But he ghosted me for 4 months. During that time i was very sad, like you say "womans ego" is worst, i started doubting about my beauty, my intelligence, my attraction, education, worh as a woman, etc. I started watching youtube videos about why he ghosted me, about what men like, etc. All those videos were about pleasent men, not pleasent woman or making woman a better woman for herself. Then i found Mikis Channel, i started watching videos about pretty privillege, then after watching his videos i finally realice that im the Prize and that i have to level up. Then i found your Channel and i cant stop watching all your videos, now i realice that that men was not enough for me, he didnt finished his career, he doesnt think as a grown men, he still a child even when he is 29, still lives with his parents in a bad area of the city, he drives a motorcycle that i was scary to be in, and i couldnt wear high heels and dresses because i had to be with my legs wide open. Then you made me think about my future, about what i want, im 26 and i dont see my life with a men like that, even when he is handsome and funny, but he is not in the place where he should be, he is not totally build, so i cant be with him. He will drive me down. Im a career woman, got a degree, so i have to look for men like that and who lives in good areas. After watching all your videos, i realice i have to move from my parents and live in the best areas in my town. Ive already lost 10 pounds in all these months, now i need to loose other 16 pounds to look perfect. I actually see as a lack of respect towars me that he gosthed me and then he came back after 4 months, he didnt even came back to study in his university, he is still the same. But this time was worth for me because i found you and i learned a lot! I wont recive him again ever! I see that thanks to him ghosting me i found your channel ❤
Because women have low self esteem guys think they’re so great if you have high self esteem you could actually be worse then a woman with low self esteem. When the world catches up and stop the mind games I’ll be waiting everyone needs to get healthy. I was talking to a doctor and I could just tell he was checking my self esteem to try to keep what he wanted. I more then saw through it and now he won’t stop texting. But I would never continue a game to keep you , because I see you’re ill I’m out I don’t care to diddle with your nogin what makes you think I want that drama can’t relax always have to be on your toes with no one who’s actually loving the beautiful pure part of you. Yuck to guys yuck to this whole game
I didn't want to be a one night and he ghosted me but then circled again, he failed, again now and he even got a fake fb account I was like who is this and he send me a photo and I couldn't belive that he contacted me again, still I wouldn't sleep with him and just gotten more beautiful to rub it in his face because he lives near by and I see him often. I transmuted his rejection in I deserve better and I look like it.
Yes LIE!! They all lie! But make sure the age is believable.. I look early 20s but when I speak it's obvious I'm older because of life experiences and a little wisdom/maturity.... So I say 30.. still really young but also not a spring chicken either lol
What should i do if he blocked me and still has a expensive perfume and a tshirt at his place? Should i call his friend and tell him, he should give my stuff back?
Gabs but she said if you’re 30 you have to date guys that are 60 so if you’re dating a guy in his 20s that means you have to be 15 right or younger right? Or should you not date anyone at all when you’re 15? You should just wait till you’re 20 so you can date someone who is 50 then?
I wouldn't take that person seriously. When men are interested in you they talk to you at least once a day. So if he disappears for three days unless in the hospital should be unacceptable imo.
Auntie 💗 it why do men try to make woman jealous when they get a new girl narcissist at it again.Try make feel bad like you miss out on a good thing .what y’all ladies think about how should I react to it .or just ignore it all together
Christina Love Ignore it 😂 he wants you to chase and react. Congratulate them and get a better man. Honestly whenever a man does this I look at what has he provided to me that is beneficial that I can’t get from another man? Or has he contributed to me at all? (I’m 23 and have had this thought process since I was 19. Years ago I used to cry, grieve, than this thought process. Now I laugh and immediately go into this thought process. I recently decided to start having brunch dates and such with my friend. And going out to the nicer areas of Michigan. so we can both free style while expanding our horizons past night life in our crowd which is full of nothing but hookups and dusties. We want financially stable and wealthy men. Especially her since she has a child at 22. We’re both fairly cultured and I come from an Semi-Affluent background so I blend more naturally anyways. I never blended well with people that weren’t upper middle class I’ve been labeled as Bougie, stickup, prissy, etc. I was told by girls my age growing up I need to lower my standards or I’m going to be single forever 😒 Ik that’s highly unlikely. And had all the pickmeshas bobisha and bonnettas hate me on the sly because I’m different and want different from them.
