I'm a strong, independent man and don't need a crusty, dusty, entitled, broke, angry, and demanding woman. I prefer to go trout fishing and enjoy the solitude of the river without any attitude.
I get my 2 telescopes and make visual observations and simple astrophotography. Peace, silence and so many beutiful things to explore on the night sky. Moon, Sun (with special filter) too. So many things to do and zero headeche. Life is beutiful and peacfull I don't want women that will destroy any part of it.
Most women can/will not admit when they are wrong. Instead they double down on winning the argument with tons of emotion, tears, anger to turn it around on him that so he'll admit he's is in the wrong. She chalks that up as a win for her. Knowing full well it was her that didn't turn on the dish washer. At that point he begins to rethink the worth of the whole relationship.
I met a woman one time ,she drove 2 hours to meet me, so i asked her about her life , she loved her job.. woke each morning at 6am ..she had 2 kids ( not what i wanted ) during our chat her daughter rang 3 times ,, and her 14 yr old son hadn`t come home from last night,, so she was ringing him. She told me she comes home at 7pm each day, 3 nights at the gym, and sports for the kids on weekends, i said ... so where do i fit in ?? reply ... I dont know ? i said .. you need to meet a guy who lives 15mins away .. he can drop in when your not busy. They all seem to think we can fix things up for them, or just fit into their little parts of life .. Crazy !!🙄
women dont mature beyond 14, and they have zero value for ethics. they dont care if theyre rich because murder or theft. they just spend it and call themselves a good person. theyre children yes, and require discipline to be happy.
Unfortunately, your statement is true. My wife demanded "unconditional love" so she could do and act however she wanted and I would still keep loving her. In part due to her personality / temperament, and a few processing disorders, she has treated me not very well and sadly disrespectfully over the years. On the other hand, she manipulatively threatened me with divorce probably 5-6 times over the earlier years if I did something that she didn't want. I finally called her on her sh... telling her that by her words and actions, her wedding vows meant nothing to her. It really caught her off guard. She finally realized what she was doing. Her brother's been divorced three times, her older sister twice. Quitting runs in her family/siblings. While I wouldn't say that we have a good relationship, at least we have a tolerable one and neither of us have committed sexual immorality so biblically there's no moral grounds for divorce. Considering that option has certainly come up many times and I visited 4 really good divorce attorneys several years ago. Due to the size of the estate and my Christian orientation, the last attorney talked me out of it.
Also because a woman usually has a man on deck and can replace her sexual needs or desires much more easily than a man can. Starting over for a man can take months or even years.
Well that, and they usually get a parting gift of money prizes like cars and homes and then look for other men to give them even more fabulous cash, prizes, and attention.
One of the safest ways to date is to have both parties decree to keep sex out of the dating relationship. This allows both parties to relax and enjoy the dating process. This ends the one-night stands, that creates a soul tie, then rips your heart out. Soul wounds cause more problems than women want to let on. Sex is marriage, so jumping in to this too fast creates a soul tie without trust.
I’m 42 I’m too old to argue anymore with people that want to deny reality. You’re liberal great awesome! You’re a single woman telling yourself that you can do it and your career is important great awesome! I’ll keep walking.
@@M43782 ID10T. There were no errors. Punctuation is a little lacking, but there were no mistakes made between "your" and "you're." Apparently you're the one that can't figure out the difference.
I met my wife when we were 20. We wrote my motorcycle for 30 years doing day trips. Men are US and OUR and WE people. Now we find out women don't think that way at all. My wife left when we were 60 years old. That was 11 years ago. You don't get over it because a lot of what you think is real, isn't for them at all. Women just say they move on, because they really can. Men don't write love songs to women at all anymore. You know why? We now know they can not love anyone, even if they wanted to. So, this has changed men forever. What is plan B? I don't know, we never had a plan B.
going on 14 years. sometimes I wish we had the same heart as women. they get over heartbreaks in a flash and hop into another relationship like it was no big deal
@@mstrikesback168 No. This is a common misunderstanding that men have. They dont have to get over anything, because there werent any feelings to begin with Love is a business to them
Feelings are a facade for them. Among women, saying that they want to be protected by a strong man gets the laughter it deserves. They only talk to men like this, because it is what we like to hear
It takes a year to start a relationship, then 2 years to make sure it will work. Three years. Before she hits The Wall, a woman has 3 shots at getting it right. We understand The Wall better than women, 0% chance I'll start dating a woman who's 30, because I want a family
'She wears a white dress that she didn't earn'... well said. There's a reason female virginity prior to marriage was held in such high regard throughout the ages. There is a solution to all of this mess. The so called high value men (the ones women desire the most) need to reject non virgins when it comes to marriage. If this became the standard, you would see a positive change over time. Younger women would realise that the only way to get a quality man long term is if she saves herself for him. Men need to significantly raise their standards for this to happen. I think we're currently seeing this shift occur, even if most women and men aren't aware of it. I know lots of what people would consider 'high value men' and the majority of them want their future wife to have a 0 body count, not a 'low' body count. Women and simps are NOT leaders. It's the strong, high quality men who will bring about this positive change for society.
53 years old and I look great. I feel healthy and strong. My mind is at peace and I'm very happy walking the dog. We enjoy the beauty of nature and take a deep breath. Happy to be alive. What is the problem again women. What is wrong with you. Women slowly choke the life out of every relationship I have ever been in. Take your time,money and soul. TAKERS
@@NicholasBender-t4o I never understood it until after my divorce three years ago. Every woman I had a relationship with would do thing to sabotage the relationship and blow it up. For years I never saw it as a pathology. I only looked at each individual relationship separately from the previous. After my divorce I recognized it as a pathological behavior. They get what they say they wanted and then they do everything they can to destroy it. It’s mind boggling.
Women *_CAN_* have it all. Healthy family, formidable careers, loving husbands! *But not at the same time, and the clock ticks.* Be a career woman when your youngest kid is past 10.
A woman should be financially protected by her husband for life. Ever hear about the Uber driver with 4 kids who got killed? She was on video up until the moment her killer took her life, and that's just a small example of how (especially) dangerous the world outside the home has become.
@nicolejenny3969 I've been married 45 years. My wife was a public relations manager for Pepsi when we got married. She continued working for 5 years until we got a house. Then she left her job and had 2 children. When the children were 10+ she began working part time in my business from home. When the kids were teenagers she joined a start up company and over time it evolved into a 200 employee Corp where she served as the Chief Operating Officer. She now is the matriarch of a family of productive citizens who admires, respects and loves her. She spends her time doting over her grandchildren. She has had it all in an organized progression over time.
@@Steelhorsecowboy Good for her. Good for her whole family. Tell her this random guy on the internet got his mood uplifted a little bit from her rational choices.
I finally met the WOMAN of my dreams and married her. She was 5 years older than me. But I didn't meet her until I was 37, and we were together for 9.5 years. She passed away a couple of years ago. And I still LOVE her and I want to be with her in the next life. So I am staying single for her. I feel like I would be cheating even if I became friends with a female. And seeing these OLD CHILDREN STILL SINGLE, BELITTLING MEN AND IN THE SAME SENTENCE ASKING "WHERE THE GOOD MEN ARE?" THEY ARE A JOKE, YOU ARE A WOMEN THEY ARE CHILDREN.
My wife just turned 42 and looks fine without anything. But she has been obsessed with filters for going on a year. She also filed for divorce a couple months ago after 24 years of marriage! I have loved and adored her this whole time and now she's seeking validation from others.
@TGP109 most older men are perfectly comfortable aging. While I have been proud of my gray hair my wife has started dying hers, now uses fake eye lashes and has increased earrings from 2 to 8 and gotten tattoos.
The women that have hit the wall and have the balls to whine about it really gets to me. Paulina Porizkova ,a former model / actress , married a man who was famous in a band that was 21 years older than her, he ended up cutting her out of money after he died. She comes out and complains about men, and how they want younger women, how wrong it is that they do and she has trouble dating and isnt "seen" by men. She got old, and even though is fine shape for a woman her age ,cant comprehend that men are looking at younger women than she is, Just like it was when she was younger, she had no problem with it then, where was all her talk about older women of that time that couldnt model anymore , or get acting parts or whatever. Total hypocrite like most women with their feminist talk, when it suits them sure, when it doesnt, well lets just ignore that little tidbit.
You age quickly if you lack c-15 fatty acids as most people do. White women in particular may avoid saturated fats because they've been told it's bad or that it's cruel to eat meat. C-15 is in ruminant meat, cheese and butter.
What the hell, she/they intentionally got involved in those behaviours whose outcomes are known, did they think they are so special they would not have to pay for their past?
I’ve been a the lawyer for a local club for @15 years and consequently know a lot of regulars. I know several women who were real hot are now hitting the wall - hard - but still are deluding themselves. It would be sad if it wasn’t kind of funny.
I have no problem with women choosing whatever role they want to in life. I fully support them. But, they must be prepared to accept the consequences of those choices. Not interested in hearing any sob stories later on. Being an adult is about make choices armed with the knowledge of the consequences.
It’s fascinating to me how many people just accept the mistaken notion that men are the visual gender when in truth it’s women who are more visual. Yes, men are hardwired to notice general features of women - the eyes, smile, curves. But if you ask a guy the day after a date what the gal was wearing he very often would be more likely to be able to describe the meal than her clothes, jewelry, hairstyle, and so on. On the other hand, many women could tell you in minute detail about his clothes, hairstyle, grooming, eye color, and more. Women are the people typically who buy magazines full of images at the grocery checkout. Women are more likely to be aware of fashion trends. Yes, men will look at women, but not the way women think they do. So, yes, if a woman has become more happy, confident, and positive about life as she gets more mature, she does sometimes become more attractive. It’s not the Maybeline or the Revlon. It’s not the dress or the hairstyle. It’s the attitude. As men get older, they prefer women who bring a positive attitude that won’t ruin his peace. That’s attractive.
Hoemath is right. Even if the Princess gets Prince Charming, he is not secure if he is good to her. She will get bored and dump him unless he is a bad boy who treats her poorly. Think Giselle. She dumps Tom Brady. It sounds crazy. Why? Because it is crazy. Women are drawn to bad guys and destruction like a moth to a flame. Wow. And then fault men for it!!! 😂😂😂😂 So, who is the problem??? And women perceive themselves as the experts on relationships!!! Ha ha. 😂 And superior to men. 😂😂😂
How abour some math?. Assume she dies age 85. First daughter born age 30, grand-daughter age 60, game over. Now, daughter age 20, granddaughter age 40, great granddaughter age 60, great great granddaughter age 80. She will know her great great grand-daughter, instead of only her grand-daughter
Some woman called into Tom Leykis' show back in the day trying to flex on how she was a grandma at 30 😱 Only in America could you have no shame and be so ridiculous.
I was 24 working for a fortune 5 company 15 yrs ago. While having drinks w execs this very elegant blond around 50 started to complain to me that she works 70 hrs a week and has no life, no family... I kept thinking, "then stop!!🛑🛑" 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
Women mistakenly try and make it about looks or other things but 'The Wall' is when she hits 34ish and any child after that is at a high-risk of being handicapped or still-born...eliminating any potential 'good man' looking for family and legacy, which is the main reason a man would consider marrage. A woman can still be attractive into her 40's for fun, but her viability as a marriage partner for most men ends in her early 30's...hence why the Wall will always remain undefeated no matter the quality of the creams and lotions.
Yeah first major heartbreak took probably 5 years. Had two kids with her…. Then had another one accept a ring and break it off. The last one spent 4 years with her and we both agreed it was headed to marriage untill she walked away. 42. Never married and both kids just graduated. I’m not completely trashed though. I believe and follow Jesus and refuse to completely give up on marriage as its gods plan. But best believe I’ve literally experienced virtually everything and it’s hard for a woman to bullshit me now
The way one of my old psych professors put it, “Women mature faster, but men mature more fully”. The weight of age falls upon women as their beauty fades and the sad wings of destiny fall upon men as the lessons of their own shortcomings pile up. “I could have been this and I could have been that”..
The first love for years kept me from bonding with other women. Many years latter I found that I am infertile and when we were together she miscarried. Letting go of what I thought she was versus the truth. My relationship vastly improved.
Being a man who does speak 'man', I can tell you that guy had no phonecall to take. Even if he did, if a man really wants a woman, all other priorities are rescinded. It was just his way of saying 'Sorry, not interested.' If she was cold, and he were interested, he would have offered to take her to _his_ place (almost the perfect excuse). Instead he says 'I am sorry you are cold; I will let you go home.'
The most attractive women, to me, are the ones who are honest with themselves. Botox and fillers are red flags because they demonstrate that lack of honesty and accountability. There is no woman more attractive than one who accepts herself for who she is and is proud of that. She doesn’t have to change her looks, dress a certain way, she just is herself.
Its tragic, that so many women are not only denying themselves of a full and complete life, but for every lonely woman there is a man in the same situation.
Many women, and younger men, don't seem to understand that having fun and seeking joy, are completely different things, and lead to completely different places ~
Great video Erin. As a male at age 60, I worry about our work force in North America and Who will be running all the infrastructures that we have all come to rely on so much. If family values to get back on track, there may not be enough children growing up who are willing to do these tough jobs. Will there be enough young Men and Women ready to pick up the rains when all the Gen X's retire and then the Millennials who will follow suit after that. From what I'm seeing on a day to day bases, we are going to be screwed if society doesn't get back to basics and start making families. Younger Millennials and Gen Z are to busy racking up body counts and having a good time on social media that that they aren't making families when they should be. Sorry for the rant, but if this sh!t doesn't start to get straightened out, I'm going back to Mars...lol.
This fear is rather selfish. Small countries exist. Thrive even. A farm rotting away in the middle of nowhere doesnt matter if there are less people to feed. Your pensions are the only real issues, because they lead you to import immigrants to earn them instead of your missing children
Funny thing about the Wall…if a woman (or a man) works on all of the intangible qualities that make them appealing the “Wall” stops being a wall. Men can get lost in lust if physical beauty is all that is available. But we will work to love a woman whose inner beauty and character radiate out. The asterisk to this being that a guy is emotionally healthy and working on his issues.
Hi Erin! I’m LoL about how quickly you’ve become eduated about RP and the MGT-W movement. Welcome! Unfortunately, I didn’t discover the names of the feelings and understandings that I had became to understand, subconsciously, and developed throughout my 35yrs, as an International airline pilot career, until I retired. I’d been brewing these thoughts and I’m convinced about my marital experiences since I’ve retired,. That the Old Testament is actuate and true. You’re doing good work. - Blessings
Beauty only opens the door. Concentrate on building maintaining nurturing a relationship and family. Especially PEACE, no fighting, complete communication, INTERdependent
I recently saw a Jordan Peterson video in which he discussed Dante's Infernal as a search for ultimate evil. That evil, Dante believed, was betrayal. I agree. I believe that there is ligit trauma created with betrayal. I'm old enough to have known pre-Marxified women who understood marriage was a series of complimentary roles and responsivities. Even the crazy women from that generation managed to remain married. As a result, women of that generation were significantly less crazy and more satisfied with their lives.
The other advantage when a woman has a child in her early 20's is that her body recovers faster and they don't have the weight retention problems that older women experience.
Many good thoughts, but some people prefer to be home. I am one of them. That doesn't mean they want to be alone, but it's a logical consequence. I'd be open to meeting someone nice, but unless they knock on my door, it isn't going to happen!
Absolutely brilliant commentary. This podcast should be shown in every high school health class and by every mother to their teenage daughters if we are to have any hope at all of saving western society. It doesn't help that the most intelligent, naturally fit/slim and best looking western and Asian women have been producing the fewest children.
“That one” (one-itis). I had a friend,like a brother really; when his family moved away he lived with us. He was a good looking, tall guy. He dated a girl when they were both kids. 14. His first love. He met her again ten years later and they dated and married. The decade had not been kind. She was overweight and tbh I never found her attractive. She was MEAN. They married.. and five years later divorced.. which crushed and bankrupted him. He was living in my mothers house in my old room. She took him back they had another child and then she cleaned him out AGAIN. When my mother was on her deathbed she told me “if that woman comes to my funeral, I want you stop everything until she leaves.” Thankfully she didn’t come, I think my mothers wishes were well known.
Thanks for another great video! I've been watching one of your videos everyday for the last few weeks. I have learned something important in every single one. Please keep it up!
Maiden, Mother, Matriarch My wife and I were our firsts. We married and worked together for 5 years to get a house. She quit her job and then we had children. When the children got older she helped me in my business. When the kids were getting ready for college she joined a start up company and built it to a small corp with 200 employees where she served as Chief Operating Officer. She is now a loved, admired and respected matriarch that tleveryone comes to for advice. She is loved and cherished by me and finds her joy in her family. She spends much of her time doting on her grandchildren. First kiss 07/09/1973. Married 07/14/1979.
Men rate women not going by what women rates themselves. Men can see the age creeping in. Cruising free foodie dates for a good laugh. Then go fishing and have a few beers. Drizzle drizzle.
When my heart was broken in my early 20s it never did repair. Cheated,ghosted used and dissguarded, a large red suppository changed my life. Such that when my second wife ran off on Christmas eve she was replaced a few weeks later. A friend said I was cold to be unmoved at the end of a 10 year relationship. I told him only the loss of a good woman warrants a tear shed in grief. The loss of a bad one requires no feeling at all. Modern,post wall women don't have any emotional value at all. They are toys for fun if a man wants to waste time and money.
I’m 27 and finally healed from the first two relationships. Now I’m free from that mental prison and I’m not willing to go back to that mental hell hole with a woman
There is something to be said for the Jane Austin method of being Introduced to a potential mate; as the Old Lady said in Pride of Prejudice, Who are your uncles, who are your Aunts? Better to know what Family your potential marriage partner comes from, what kind of people are her parents, how was she raised, who are the other males in her life, her brothers etc. That is why divorce is at 50%, you meet in a club and go blind into marriage. Bad news.
Around c:a 11:00 - The guy saw the red flags in her and ran for the hills! "London calling!" :-D. Couldn't endure listening to the others. Like chattering boxes or machine guns sprouting words.
I do the same thing with my rescue Bulldog. She’s a rescue from dog fighting abuse (sweet as pie and very loving to her humans tho). No kids, I always wanted a wife and kids…. Had a very bad marriage and divorce. My dog fills a BIG void, and will never betray me.
What an amazing an interesting video, with so many key points to think, comment and consider, as always! How interesting!! Thank you!! I agree 👍💯 You are spot on
I am a 53 yo divorced Christian man. I am looking for a wife. Divorce was not my choice. Woman have forgotten how to be women. I don’t like drama. I prefer to be alone rather than having drama and problems from masculinized American women.
10:42 she had set a whole bunch of red flags - that's the reason the guy had to answer an "important" call and escape from that date. Unfortunately, those single ladies are single for a reason they refuse to recognize. Instead they double down blaming it on men and this creates a vicious cycle.
*_"I think we're headed towards entropy, you know, on a Japanese Bullet Train."_* - Erin / Far From Eden, July 2024 {I tried quoting that in the premiere video live chat, but it appeared my chat post 'disappeared'. YT sucks.}
At this point, They should just buy a $20 HALLOWEEN MASK, and save money. Instead of paying Thousands. They don't look like the same person anyway. It's the same thing but cheaper.
Day-to-day timing is a big factor in finding a guy. Decide how you'll carry your energy and intent. How many girls give the vibe "Why are you looking at me, I'm high value?". Before you enter the gym make your mindset "positive" "healthy" "happy" "sober" "approachable". It makes a difference over time.
