Why I Got Married At 17, Divorce & Did I Quit Education?... |Zeinah Nur 

I got married when i was 17 my older son is 25 now I'm 48 young mum still

Yes your right about not telling anyone your problems... when I got married my husband said anything that happens between us we will sort it out ourselves. Alhumdolillah I've been married for 13years and not a single day have I discussed anything with my family members.

Yassss! You hit the nail on the head! Absolutely, above all, find someone who supports your mental, spiritual and physical wellbeing. Us women work so hard to be there for others that we cannot forget to put on our own "oxygen masks" in order to be the healthiest we can be. I commend you for learning this lesson early in life😊It took me well into my 30s to start "getting" this

Love your marriage advice! Love you sister. I can relate to your advice as I got married when I was 17 too and now I’m 20. Still studying in college too and have a daughter. It’s gets too much sometimes but Alhmdulliah!

I’m 17 right now and I can’t imagine getting married right now. Maybe in 2-4 years would be perfect but everyone’s different

yes please make an advice video for newlyweds!

I remember you from university, I think we were in the same tutor group. I never got to see you a lot but I think you were genuinely a nice person. I love your videos. I feel like I can resonate with a lot of things that you talk about.

Getting married is a really serious thing, getting married to the wrong person is really dangerous, the pain is really serious, many people has made this dangerous decision and they have suffered the pain really bad, getting married to the wrong person is like offering yourself and life to be seriously damaged.

Loved this video, you made some really good points, I see a younger me in you. I'm 30 and got married at 17 too and from what you said our thoughts seem quite similar. Love and duas always 💓 XX

Your skin is glowing! And I love these types of videos bc your life experience is valuable knowledge. Keep up the good work. 💕💕💕

Spot on with the marriage advice about not talking to people about it👏👏👏

Your advice at around 7:00 minutes! Absolutely agree 💯.

I loooove your channel!! :) Everybody have a blessed day :)

Could you do a skin-care routine video? 😍 If you already uploaded one, I would be thankful if you could put the link down below. 🙈 Greetings from Germany

Mashallah, it's lovely to hear such positive thoughts on married life as recently I feel everyone is complaining about their spouses. May Allah protect your marriage and may He grant and make us all understanding and loving spouses with happy, healthy marriages ♥️

Thank you for the badge of honor. I loved this video just like I loved every video of yours

Great suggestions! Very true and honest advice!

Ofcuz, I made it to the end You have no idea, how much I enjoy your videos.❤

Completely agree about university. Left for the same reason as I didn’t need a degree in what I wanted to do! Your practical MashAllah

Love the video especially the advice on newly weds. That's what i tell everyone who asks me for an advice on marriage.

I can listen to her all day long ❤ such an inspiration ❤ may Allah protect your family ❤❤❤👏

Masha Allah its amazing that you understand each other, I myself get married at 19 and it didn't stop me from doing anything.

New subscriber here!! Only recently discovered your channel & obsessed!! Binge watched soo many vids. I feel like i can really relate to you as I also married young..i was 17 and I am 26 now with 2 kids alhamdulillah been married 9 years💜x

Mashallah you are so right abt your mental health... you're very lucky to have such a supportive and understanding husband! May Allah bless your marriage, stay happy always ❤😍

❤please make the Advice to Newly weds video !!xx

Masha’Allah looking gorgeous as always abaayo ❤️ loved the video

Yes advice for newly weds !!

Alsalamu Alakuim Allah bless and protect you all Ameen. Love you dear. 😘😘

It was easy and enjoyable to watch you till the end as you were engaging and thought provoking.... 😉

Mashallah such a lovely person. Thoroughly enjoy your vlog. Was very informative.🤗

I fell in lov with this Q&A indeed thanks for the advise my dear watched really late but iam enjoying wat iam watching

First time the first one🥰 i really look at your videos and get inspired expecially the cleaning ones i always get to cleaning after watching your videos. Good work❤️❤️ . Mashaa Allah keep it up😍

I think sharing housework equally is a good thing when both husband and wife works, but what about when the woman is a housewife, isn't it her job keeping house clean and cooking dinner if husband provides for her and works all day? I think this is where all asian and arab "women's place in kitchen" mentality comes from. Obviously I dont agree when inlaws push themselves in or use wife as slave and make her cook for everyone..but when hubby is out wife at home I think it is equally shared if wife does the jobs of the house.

Hey sis... are you going to do a video on feeding baby liyana, because I’m soon to be starting on solids for my lil one inshallah could do with some tips xx love ur vids x 😘

Alhamdulillah you didn't uphold alot of responsibilities towards your husband. In our Pakistani culture most husbands expect alot from thier wives in terms of cooking and cleaning etc. Its very difficult working fulltime after marriage and coming home tired with the expectation to cook often and uphold conversations all the time whilst living with in laws. I don't mean to sound harsh to anyone, but I would not recommend to live with inlaws. It's better to keep privacy of personal issues in a home where no one can hear your confidential conversations. It will also give you the reminder to focus solely on the marriage and can be healthier for future children to live separate without a mother feeling judged upon her parenting skills. I think the main thing is you have to make sure you are happy and your mental health is in the right state. If you are being abused in any form or tried to solve something major which is not resolving it is best to speak to your family in that circumstance before it gets too late. There are so many things I can say the list is endless because there is so much to be learned.

Please make a whole video dedicated to answering questions regarding marriage. By the way, the blue hijab suits you much love💕

This is random, you look so much like Meghan Markle

I got married at 22, I am now 24 ❤️

Loveeeee this❤️

Your so gorgeous😍❤️

Advice for newly weds video plz

Ur skin looks absolutely amazing mashallah!

Love the Advice it’s so true ❤️❤️❤️

MaaShaAllah love your videos sis 😍

I got married when I was 17 year old look now my son he is now 14 year old boy I have 4 children now I am 33 year old I am happy with my marriage

I agree with many of the points mentioned here but disagree on some points. I think one of the most important things to look for in a spouse is their relationship with Allah. A husband who supports you regardless of whether its opposing our religion isn't one to seek. I'm not saying this is what the sister is suggesting but didn't feel it was stressed enough. Surely we should seek a husband who will encourage us to become better servants of Allah. But sadly we are falling into this mentality that's spreading across all societies that we should be supported according to how we feel. Or we feel we need to fight this stereotype that non Muslims have of Muslim women. It doesn't matter if its right or wrong according to Islam. Secondly in Islam women are ordered to serve their husbands. Husbands have an important role such that their is a hadith 'Abū Hurayrah (raḍī Allāhu ʿʿʿanhu) reported that the Prophet (ṣallallāhu ʿalayhi wa-sallam) said, If I were to command anyone to prostrate to anyone, I would have commanded woman to prostrate to her husband' . Tirmidhī, Ḥasan Ṣaḥīḥ But the man also has a lot of responsibility and accountability as a result. He must also serve the family. And he will be answerable for his family in the hereafter. Seek the one who cares about your hereafter as he/ she is the one who truly loves you.

Every time you answer a juicy question you always say you’re gonna make another video on it just expanddd 😒😂😂

Love love love 💜💜

Advice to newly weds please 👍🏼

I love ur every video what ever u do.

I dont think i knew who I was at 17. I was a lost soul lol. So i dont think everyone knows who they are, that was a big generalisation and for me marrying before I had any idea about what I wanted in life any relationship would have failed...

Good advice 👍🏾❤️

Love you great advice ❤️

Great video 😊 please do a video about somali culture and the positives and negatives about it as I'm getting to know someone somali. Jazakallah

Good for her that things worked out But I definitely wouldn’t encourage getting married so young as at 17 you are still developing as a person and you still need to learn and grow and develop as a person before you can dedicate yourself to a marriage truly

I would have prefured it if u answered all the question that u read out, it's a Q&A so the whole point is to answer and finish the question n not link below, I watch ur videos wen I'm free n dnt always have time to watch them all as I have 3 kids, it's jst inconvenient

keep sharing thanks 100%❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Love u so much💜💜

I have recently started to watch you and love your videos! how did you get your make up to look dewy?

Keep going sister salaam Switzerland

Makeup and skincare please x

Please do a video on advice to newly weds.

Omg yaaaas, can't wait for this! I love you so much Mashallah Allahuma Barik 💗💗

Your videos are my favourite😘❤

NEVER EVER LIVE WITH IN-LAWS OR HAVE TO MUCH CONTACT WITH THEM. ITS THE BIGGEST CAUSE ID DIVORCE WHEN PROBLEMS START WITH IN-LAWS.

I love your makeup its beautiful 😇😇😍😍

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Its great that your hubby is so supportive, but isn't it islamically prohibited to go for holiday alone? I know we live in west and not everyone keeps everything in the religion ,I'm just wandering, but would like a discussion with watchers about it.

Beautiful & smart 💗

Love your videos

Mentally feeling fulfilled as a wife is literally like the heartbeat of a marriage. With mental neglect the marriage dies because you as a wife are deprived of the most vital part of yourself. And when that part dies so does everything else you can do or be for others. 💕 Loved your advice and I agree with all of them. May Allah grant all the sisters looking a righteous spouse who understands and fulfills them. May Allah swt bring peace and mercy between those already ready married and make each other who they want and need.

What a beautiful darling 😍😍, MASHA'ALLAH

Salam Alikum please can you upload a video on how you were able to convince your parents on getting married young... Cuz in that situation... Jazakhumullah khair

Asc sis love your video

I got married at 14 and was not my choice and I never quite nofing .

M.a may Allah bless you❤

mashallah you seem gorgeous inside and out 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

a lot of the questions could have been answered rather than saying "i'll cover in another vid" or "i'll link the answer below". I understand you want to get more views on other videos but it's a little annoying that we have to jump from place to place just because we want to get to know you. It would have been more personal if you just answered/ re-answered quickly rather than sending us on a chase. I hope this isn't taken in a negative way, I do think your a great role model!

You skin is glowing what do you use and do?

Mashallah beautiful 😍😍😍💓

Masha allah your looking beautiful dear

I got married at 16 alhumdulila it has its difficulties bt I'm making it now I'm 19 with a 2 year old and another on the way.

True never Shere

I got married at 16, divorced at 18 and left school in the 10th grade 😅🙈

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What a levels do you need to become a dental hygienist?

Don't knock ppl who went uni down just cuz u didnt go to university at the end of the day if u n a person who went uni worked same job guess whos getting promoted? Not u obviously.

From your latest video , I came to know you are divorced , is it for the second time

Lol is it just me or in the thumb nail she looks exactly like Catherine paiz

please take out the annoying beeps. Great channel.

I married at age of 18

Make up tutorial plz

Why so many ads. Makes it really hard to watch

Expensive makeup strapless bra thank you for sharing your brilliant content thoughts and wisdumb

Me first

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So if the guy doesn't cook and the woman feels it's not her responsibility. What then lol. The reason I'm asking is I know someone who thinks she shouldn't do anything house related. But keeps quiet when her mother in law cooks and cleans up after her. And btw it's not like they're loaded to afford a maid. Eeek!

You are very mature for your age n very Beautiful

mashallah i hope guys last forever I had a shit marriage and I regret

You got married young. In the pakistani culture a lot of women get married young. I have pakistani and Indian and all but one are not married.