Hey everyone! Before commenting please watch the full video so you'll understand the full scope of what went into this decision. Thank you for your support! -Cole
Do what is best for you. Trust whatever decision you make. You are a smart young lady. There's a lot of routes success and building a foundation for happiness. 😄🌷
I believe she did the right thing guys. My humble piece of advice to you today is; JUST BE YOU. You guys are a breath of fresh air to a good number of people out there. Keep up your good work guys. Cole, in my opinion, you are the most adorable person on planet earth. I am saying this as a health professional - ICU nurse specifically......
This is the single best decision of your life baby girl. You are young, take your time, pray on it, and let god guide you!! You have to have a passion for anything you do..this is your life we are talking about (as a OTR i promise you that you didn't miss out on anything my sister..i lost my passion for OT long ago..and i hated every moment i spent in gradschool pursing OT and i respect the profession but wish I was brave enough to leave when i had the chance..to not look back and pursue my passion which was medicine...but now time is not on my side and my hubby and i want kids...life just happened so fast). I am sooooo proud of you. I am in awe of you. You will manifest the life of dreams and will bring you everything your heart desires. My next passion has nothing to do with school and im gonna go out and pursue it, you inspired me babes. You are fearless 😍😍😘😘😘 Congratulations on your next journey, on evolving past the standards society set for you..you pushing past and above that. To find and pursue your passion is a double blessing. I am excited to see where your life takes you..its going to be AMAZING🤗🤗🤗💃💆🙌
Just because you have a RU-vid channel and share certain aspects of your lives doesn't mean you have to explain and divulge everything. People have to understand that , ultimately, this is YOUR LIFE.
You are an amazing couple I love to watch you guys Charisma is so cute and positive ,and Cole is so handsome and positive and so loveable the love is real God bless you (2)
Omg, that's happen me too. Sometimes I'm very angry of give explanation to every one about my desitions. Horrible. Is like if you change your opinion is bad.
she's a loser. so embarrassing to the black community.. she quick after she found out she was going to marry to the money. yes, he is not rich but he can keep her stable (money wise).
@@numberone-vm4gg How can you say this girl is an embarrassment to the black community? She is obviously in love with Cole. She pays her own bills and does not need your approval. There are plenty of ways for her to make money. She doesn't seem to be in it for the money. She is bright, articulate and hard working. She is not lazy. You should be proud of her in the black community. She's a very lovely girl who is spreading positive messages and offers encouragement. I love this young woman. She is destined for goodness and success.
She is an asset to the community and is a contributing member of society. I don't delineate because she happens to be black because that's racist. Be proud and pray for the nay sayers 🙏🙏 🙏.
I just love how Cole looks at Charisma. You can tell that he absolutely adores her and she adores him. I wish them many more blessings and even more success to come.
Nora Stimpson Sane. Expect I don’t have the .75 tacked on. I have a BA and never made above $12. I had worked at a magazine for 5 years and it was literally the worst. I hated it. The pay sucked, my boss was awful. COMPLETELY AWFUL. Took me 5 years to get out.
I'm sorry but I think it is rude as hell and demeaning for ppl to just expect Charisma to get a job to support both her and Cole. COLE IS NOT IMMOBILE OR UNABLE TO FEIN FOR HIMSELF. They are a team! God has a plan for everyone and there's always a reason on why you are feeling the way you are about certain situations. Keep pressing on Charisma and Cole!❤ STAY POSITIVE 💙💚
@S W Common sense would indicate that Cole is not struggling for money, he recently purchased a home. His parents are doing well , however it is best to have your own money. Cole gets paid well for speaking events and engagements.
Cole look very handsome. He said he lost weight it is also a healthy look. Charisma you are beautiful no matter what hair style and I think Cole love them all. Both of you are so good together ❤️💕 and it shows. Inspiring for me love watching ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️♥️.
Sooo very true we will continue to pray for you and your family.I will continue to watch you guys go forward in life as long as you allow me to watch your Utube.
I never had any interest in grad school. The moment I finished my bachelor's, I knew I was done. I always had a dream of being an old fashioned stay at home mom honestly. I went to university as a backup; incase I would not find a husband. When I met my now husband in my final year of my degree, I knew I was done with university lol
@@phurplkyxxex I understand your concern for sure. But I think she has the degree to fall back on. If you're industrious enough to get a 4-year-degree, you're industrious enough to find a job if you need one. Or even another husband is her love is being a homemaker. The job world is great for some; overrated for others.
There is only one person you need to please: yourself, and two people you have to answer to: yourself and Cole. The world can only benefit if you're being true to yourself and doing what brings you joy. Much love, light and blessings to you both!❤
Hey! I made the decision after 3 years of college to drop out and join my fiancé’s family in the business world. I remember my Accounting Professor telling me that I was making a huge mistake 😱 I still pursued my Accounting passion in the family owned business. 42 years later I am happy for that drop out decision. I am accounting educated, I work closely with our CPA. She is thankful for my knowledge and my expertise that makes her job easy ❤️ Life is GOOD 🤩❤️ Never feel shameful for making a decision from the heart ❤️
This is a great story. More people need to hear stories like this. I was in fact in a similar situation. I was born with a disability and have used a wheelchair all my life. I was in the top of my class all throughout grade school and high school. Then college hit me like a brick. My freshman year was the toughest time I had academically. In fact, I was afraid to ask for help because I felt like I would be seen as stupid and I was also afraid of failure. After a year, I dropped out and got a job helping people with disabilities. Fourteen years after I dropped out, I made the decision to go back to college and finish what I started. I'm still doing that today and I even help out in the disabilities office. I learned so much in those fourteen years that boosted my motivation to go back and do what I need to do to be successful this time around, both academically and socially. If you'd like to hear more details of this story, please refer to my video entitled "Pathway to College Success".
I have a useless degree that I have been trying to pay off for years. Half way through getting my BA degree I knew I was probably making a mistake, and with technology today it is outdated. Wish I had been brave enough to take a break when I was having doubts. I was so worried about disappointing everyone around me and now I realize how they would have supported me. I did struggle as I was unable to find a job in my field and have raised my 3 children as a single mom. I worked 2 jobs at times but still managed to be there for school programs, home work, bedtime, and special moments. I'm very proud of the adults they have become. Throughout those years I became aware that being a care giver is something that fit my personality, I found joy in, and had a passion for. I work in an assisted living facility for seniors with dementia and love my job. So I took a longer path to get where I was going, but it has been a happy and rewarding one. This is a place of positivity, so if anyone wants to criticize for you doing what you needed to do for you, they should move along. We each have our own journey, live your best life girl!
You don't owe anyone an explanation, people judge what they don't know anyway If it takes more energy and affects your health than taking a break or quiting is the best option, you already have a lot on your plate as it is
Well said and she is already a accomplished OT. Sadly it seems like she is in line for a stroke. At Times her speech is interrupted and her brain seems like the electrolytes are imbalanced.
❤❤❤❤ on point. Same thing I wanted to say. I have a masters and struggle with keeping my head a float. Wanted to push my children to go to college but not anymore. Its all a lie and people steal the money you have to pay back.
You don’t have to explain yourself. My daughter was in her second year of her doctoral program, 100k + in school debt felt the same way. She called and expressed the same fears. I told her to follow her heart and she feels so much better about herself and has started two business during the pandemic. You go for your dreams.
My husband a similar migraine that was stroke like many, many, years ago that was stroke like and stress related. He switched careers and, knock on wood, he hasn't had another. Do what you need to do to make you happy!
I left a 5+ career in accounting for a career in memory care - I still feel like I have to explain myself even though I am happier than I ever thought I could be in a career!
Wow!!! That sounded so overwhelming. The commute and the stress was not worth it. You just have to do what’s best for you. It just wasn’t your destiny. You’re just on a different path. It is exhausting to try to live up to other ppls expectations. Just do what makes you happy! It’s never too late to go back as well. You’re young and you have time. I went back to school at 35 and two kids in a totally different field from my first degree. Work at your own pace.
Wow how could anyone be disappointed in you? You are such a beautiful soul & Cole clearly recognised that judging by the way he looks at you. You’re beautiful together x
I'm in such a similar position right now! You've got to just focus on what you love and what makes you happy above all else! Life is way too short to be stuck doing something that your heart isn't in 💕
Charisma, you are being an OT and living an “occupational” life. The aim of an OT is independence-using life’s resources to enhance life. The education you would have received would have defined your technical professional skills but the life you’ve chosen to live, will be refined because you’re living your best life...living and loving and being loved and cared for by your beloved. You’re experiencing life.. girl or rather Ms. Charisma, live, learn and continue to be open to the changes your spirit desires.
Enjoying life is way more important than school. If you find something that make you happy go for it. Don’t worry about what people say just do what best for you and Cole. Stay positively
Charisma, the path you took led you to your true passion. Me personally, I'm proud of you for making the decision so many of us might be afraid to make.
I'm currently doing my masters and I'm often feeling so overwhelmed. I'm glad you made your decision to best benefit you. I'm scared to leave because I feel I would have disappointed so many people. I can't wait to just finish honestly
Your health is more important. I figured you weren’t in school but it’s ok. You really don’t have to explain. My nephew dropped out of school his senior year in college. He know works in his field and takes care of himself, has traveled out of the country 7 times, and is loving life. Most of all he’s happy. All without the degree. He does plan to go back but the company he works for is paying so now he doesn’t have the stress of student loans. Keep your head up, we are proud of you. You will achieve success in whatever you do.🥰🥰🥰🥰
Charisma we will ONLY be disappointed if we don’t get this wash and go tutorial lol. We all love you regardless of what you choose to do! I’m proud of you personally! 💗 Love you guys!
Anything that makes you sick doing it isn't worth it. I'm happy for you that you knew the right thing to do for you. It's your life you are doing great.
As a mom and educator, I do believe school is important, but it doesn't define you as a person. I am not a religious person but I know that we are all given talents that we are meant to share with the world. When you are doing what you're created to do it's not work and everyone benefits. I believe you were destined to meet Cole and have the life you are living now. You both are teaching the world so much. When you are doing what is best for you and your family you don't have to explain yourself to anyone. Take care of yourself first so you can take of those around you. You guys are amazing!
as a person who forced themselves through grad school and was unhappy the entire time, i am so happy for you! congrats on making such a great decision for yourself!!!
If you hadn't gone down the OT road then you wouldn't have met Cole. So now that you have met Cole, that road has served its purpose and now it's time to travel down the new road together.
Charisma, this is you and Cole’s life and you should always do what makes you happy and fulfilled, as long as nobody gets hurt! Y’all do so much to help others that it could be easy to lose yourselves in the process! I am proud of both of you for making this hard decision and always follow your dreams! The sky is the limit! Most people end up either changing majors or leaving school for their career or after graduation getting a totally different career choice! Such is life! Thanks for sharing everything so selflessly! Love and prayers! ❤️🙏🏻❤️
I’m very proud of you Charisma! I’m currently taking time off (on my second semester of taking time off currently), because I was assaulted (sexually) last August and I simply couldn’t function, and basically I failed out, and was very suicidal. Went to a mental hospital last May for a week and then was forced to live at home as I wasn’t trusted to live on my own (for safety reasons), and I’ve been home ever since. I am disabled as well (Spina Bifida) and am not allowed to work or I’ll lose my healthcare most likely (I bet y’all know all about that bullshit). So I’m currently at home doing nothing. I don’t have the money or motivation (still incredibly depressed) to go back to school, and getting a degree is the only way for a disabled person in this country to live really. It sucks and I feel stuck. The only way I won’t be in poverty my entire life is if I move to a different country, get a bachelors degree while struggling still, or die, either by natural cause, or by my own hands. It’s so hard living with a disability in this country. I realize that my mental health has to come first right now tho, but I feel stuck. I don’t know how Cole does it and stays so positive all the time. You are right that you don’t have to explain why you aren’t in school to anyone. It’s very hard for me when people ask me why I’m not in school, and I wish it wasn’t. So, I understand how that can make you uncomfortable. We’re here for you and we love you (both). ❤️
Congratulations, on your bravery and for following your dreams! We can’t wait to see where your journey takes you both. I took a 10 year break before getting my masters degree so don’t worry, take your time.
Never ever ever feel that u have to explain yourself to anyone only u know what u can do and how u feel. The Lord has so many more doors to open for and if u were supposed to continue u would have. We have a way of talking ourselves into doing something that we feel would make other people happy. I have learned so much from watching u guys and the education that u have given me and I thank u for that. Keep being great and may the Lord continue to bless you and Cole ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I love how open, vulnerable, candid this channel is. You both are very genuine hearted people and it shows. It’s good that you have a backup plan & honestly going to grad school For non profit studies sounds like a winner. ☺️☺️🙏🙏👍👍
WOW. I feel like it was fate that I ended up on your channel. This is destiny. I am in OT school right now, thought about doing PT before, because I thought I wanted to go into healthcare and now that I am in school..I have no drive, I have no excitement, I have no motivation and it is scary!! Mind you, I am in my first week and first year, but I just can't describe it and it is HARD to describe to others what I am feeling. The emotions I am experiencing. Thank you for making this video. I am passionate about working with seniors and planning excursions, dances, birthday parties, movie nights and making their lives more pleasant through the events I put on for them. I feel like that is what I like and enjoy, but it's hard to make that final decision. I don't want to live a life with regrets or be in debt for something that I am unsure about.
You don't owe anyone an explanation. I have changed my Major twice and I do not apologize to anyone. Just follow your heart and whats best for you. So glad you made the decision that is going to make you happy.
You make me want to cry. I love your testimony. You both are so encouraging. I think what matters is if whatever you do if you enjoy it , you'll never feel like your working a day in your life. Your love is pure God will take care of you both and your babies, with creative ideas.
Charisma you made the right decision. I’ve been an OT for 40 years and although I love it , the field has changed and healthcare is a big business. You’re a natural and I’m impressed by your abilities and how awesome you are with Cole and how you guys work together. You’re on the right track!! I wish you both success and happiness❤️
you guys are business people, entrepenuers for get 9-5, dead end. JUST OVER BROKE. dont get caught, trust me. Ministry is the way to go. you will get paid. Helping others!!
As a registered nurse, I am sensitive to the statements such as , “ if I didn’t get into ( fill in the blank), then I would do nursing.” Nursing should not be a fall back on if all others fail. Nursing is divided into two parts, science and art. Science built on research and best practice and art is the application of the science. Nursing school is not easy. I would not want a nurse to care for me or my loved ones because he/ she decided on nursing as a fall back to other health care professions. I know you didn’t mean to sound offensive and I fully support you both!!!!!!!
Vanessa Clark i don’t think she meant it like that or at least I didn’t take it that way. I think she meant nursing was singeing she wanted to do but she wanted something else too so she had to prioritize
No I don't agree, there is always the word "option?" I wanted to do either teaching and nursing because I love the sciences and every attempt to do nursing something blocked me so I'm teaching and loving it and I'm successful too
Thank you girl. Im also struggling and I just withdrew from my masters program this semester and I needed to hear this. It is hard sometimes and my mental health was getting a big hit so I had to do it. I still havnt found the courage to tell anyone yet, but this really helped me. Sending love from Australia ❤
You're so brave. Thank you for sharing your story with me. I'm glad you are finding a happy place for yourself. I'm thinking about doing the same thing too. I applied to grad school but I found out my anxiety and depression are back after another consultation. I've been struggling on and off for the past 6-7 years. Also, I had severe migraines and my left eye was twitching for like 3 weeks straight. I want to go, but also my mental health is deteriorating a ton. I don't feel present or alp there. Furthermore, I'm spending more money than what I bargained for.
Charisma I can understand the fear of telling your parents and Cole's because there are parents out there that are not that supportive of a decision like that and I feel so sorry for those that do not have the support of their parents. You and Cole have such great parents and both are just so supportive in all that you guys do. Both you and Cole have a great future ahead of you! I just know that! You both are smart and are driven with everything you do! I'm glad that you do not have that pressure on you anymore! And Migraines are no joke! I suffer from Chronic Migraines and it is not fun!
It's refreshing to hear someone feel the same way about OT and obtaining a master's degree. 2 years ago I tried to pursue OT (submitted applications and everything). After getting some experience, I felt it wasn't for me and ended up not pursuing it. I don't regret my decision. :)
I’m a COTA/L (Occupational Therapist Assistant). I chose the associates degree and graduated with very little debt. I went to a “trade” college and do not regret the decision at all. I worked full time while going to school full time. I’ve been in the field 15 years. People make comments on how I’m “only a COTA.” I don’t want the mountains of paperwork OTR’s have to do. No thanks!
If you believe that this is best for you then I applaud you. In reality only we know what we go through in life.. control your own destiny the best to your ability
Wow, what a powerful video. I would love for more young people to realize and understand that what they want is important. You made the perfect decision Charisma(by the way your name does you justice, you are a very charismatic young woman) Cole is smart to have fallen in love with you. I wish more young people would realize, that it's not about getting a job, but about doing what you feel passionate about. You can create your own "job", by using your creative mind.Awesome decision Charisma. You are doing what you love and enjoying your freedom to choose how far you can and want to go. Go for it girl. You and Cole were made for each other. Enjoy the ride.
Cole and Charisma you two are outstanding couple. I see love and this alone is so beautiful. I really enjoy “Roll with Cole and Charisma.” I feel these videos that you put out has really help so many people. Charisma, if you need time out from college then take it. Do what you really want. You will be loved regardless of your decision.
I have several advanced degrees from prestigious schools and the only one that makes me money (50-65$/hr) is my little nursing degree from Cleveland State University. Some bachelor's and associate degrees do pay... nursing was never my dream but neither was struggling for money... make the right decision for you, degrees for the sake of degrees don't mean a thing. Thank you for this channel and being brave enough to push in another and true direction.
Charisma you don’t owe anyone an explanation. Whatever your path is you probably won’t know you are on it because it won’t seem like work. It will be joyous and easy, it will just you being you! ❤️
Congratulations Queen! Continue To Be You!!! You have your undergraduate degree & a Master's degree will be a Bonus if you later decide to get one.! You are a beautiful, strong & intelligent young lady!! Your bravery is commendable. Do what makes you happy!!!
Your Health Is More Important. So im glad your in a place where your health is being taking care of. You got support from both families. And im looking forward to being on walking with you on your next journey. I love the way Cole said i would be there in an hour. That's love.
Charisma it's your life, all that matters is your own happiness!!!! No one has a right to make u feel bad about a decision that you made, that is this best decision for you!!!!! You are awesome girl, stay positive💞🤗💞🤗💞🤗💞🤗💞🤗
Paying off school debt for essentially your entire working life is a terrible burden. I wish there was another way for people to pay for an education. Good for you Charisma, for following your heart. I wish you all the best!! ♥️
I'm a full time college student going into year 6 and still have 2 more years and I'm struggling. I've cut back on work to focus on school but even then I've changed my major 4 times after finding out I wasn't on the right path. Just follow your heart! You're doing great!
I see many have said it already, but absolutely, you do not owe anyone an explanation for any decision you make! Having suffered migraines all my life, and knowing some of my worst ones were totally from stress and no one needs to feel that stressed to cause them! Take care of yourself, and make your decisions for yourself!
I don't want to be offensive but I think people in states are usually getting everything easily so when they are stressed they try to quit it. People from developing countries deal with hardship day in day out. That makes them stronger. You shouldn't have quit. You can take less credits and can finish in more time than it usually takes. This incomplete degree will always stay in your mind. Don't get stressed about getting A all the time but just finish. It will give you a sense of fulfillment. If your University is far then take admission somewhere near to your home. I think you should give it a try. Just my suggestion. You know your condition better though. Good luck!!!
Now, go back and think of your own life and decisions that you made that others were against. All of us have only our own life. We do not have the right to judge and tell someone else what they should do. This is her path, her life . Your path is uniquely yours too. The best that we can do for each other is to offer peace and happiness on our paths, not judgement which we are woefully incapable of doing.
This wasn’t about quitting as much as it was not continuing to do something you’re not passionate about. Charisma said it best, why spend all that money then have to spend a large portion of your life paying it back for something you aren’t passionate about? She plans to return to school
I know I don't personally know you but you never came off as the type to be flaky with aspirations. You definitely seem like someone who hates any form of "failure" and when you so have to try again you're even more determined. (I'm like that too) I know people who have aspirations but complain and come off entitled and when they are handed tools to succeed they take advantage of it and don't use it. It's like God sending you three life boats and you still managed to drown. (How sway?) That clearly isn't you. I had to start over after marrying my husband who is in the Navy. I had to start complety over after moving 3k miles from home down to finding a new career path since the degree I had wasn't compatible with a lifestyle of constantly having to start your life over in a new location every 3-4 years. Now I'm 30 with a 1 week old daughter and I'm just about finished my 2nd degree in ECE. Long story short, it sucks having to take a few steps back or feel like you failed, but it's not failure as it is a way of preparing you for something epic in the future. The fact that you recognized it early is fantastic. You're going to be fine. Always do what's best for you. At the end of the day it's your journey not ours. You owe us nothing. #staypositive peace In ✌️
First...... love your hair 💖 Next, never apologize for doing what makes you happy. We only get one shot at this life so do what's best for you & Cole. Blessings 💖
I have a second cousin who's paraplegic, he's been doing education for schools and people in small own Kansas. He owns a family farm, and gets help, but his wife is a school teacher who met him after his accident. Its been 20 plus years, he got sick this summer but pulled through.
Money does not make you happy. Love makes you happy! God is in control! You only need to make you and Cole happy! Look to the Lord for direction in your daily life. And be POSITIVE!
I've been out of school for 3 years now (going back in September) my mom was okay with it, but she hid it from friends and family. It was a subject I dreaded at any social outings. I worked my butt off and saved some money, I used the excess to travel for a year. When I do finish school, I won't have any debt and I will be well traveled.
I thought the commute was unsustainable. Grad school is hard without the added stress of a very long commute and very early start to your day. You and Cole need to be happy. That is what is important. You will find another path and you may not finish grad school. Accept the opportunities that come your way and embrace the new adventures. I am sure it will all work out. Wishing you much peace and happiness 💗🙏🏻
Omg I completely understand. I changed my mind alot too. I graduated in O.T. Got into the masters program and left the first semester. I still want to be in the medical field.
I went through OT school and eventually graduated. I agree with your points of paying back the grad school loan back for the rest of your life. I was the lucky few who owes $100,000. Others had $250,000. I'm 4 years out and still owe $71,000. During OT school, I went through extremely severe depression and mental break downs where I had to see a psychiatrist. Other classmates started coming to classes hung over, and even the best students took days off due to mental stress. Other things that you don't learn in OT school is the immense amount of unpaid overtime work you bring home as well how companies will push for you to treat patients in a group when some patients need more 1:1 sessions. I've had good and really bad experiences depending on company. New grads get paid starting $68,000 but taxes take a chunk, and after rent, utilities, daycare, car insurance, etc, there's barely anything left. COVID-19 certainly didn't help either... So I am happy that I stumbled onto your video about you finding a different path instead of OT school.
Canadian OT graduate here. Luckily our tuition is far cheaper but the struggle is the same. I went through similar challenges I burnt out so many times and had to go part time stop working. I’m 6 months post grad and not working as an ot yet not because I don’t want to but I can’t handle it medically. I still have a lot to do in my recovery before I can think of doing so. Financially it is hard but I know is the best decision for myself. I want to be fit and give my all when I work as an ot
@@lilcuty1492 I hope you are getting family support and psychiatric counseling. I am glad that you were able to graduate. I wish the best for you. On a side note for U.S. individuals considering applying to OT school, and want to save money... it's best to enter now before 2027. ACOTE and AOTA' will require OT graduate programs to be doctoral degrees in 2027 for U.S. So I can easily imagine those new OTD students will graduate with at least $250,000. But knowing that interest rates increase every quarter/semester, it'll be higher. I hope the salaries will increase to balance out the debt to salary ratio.
@@WKaznartist thank you. I am :) Wow! I heard about that that is insane. Our program in Ottawa is a masters level, 6 semesters, approximately 8000CAD per semester for residents and citizens. Probably double for international students but sounds like it’s still cheaper than in the US.
You both are so wise! You are so right, so on target, so insightful, so helpful, and in my eyes, absolutely perfect! I mean it from the bottom of my heart!
Doing what’s right and feels good for you and your family will always be right.😁 I got my Bachelors and Masters in Social Work (BSW/MSW) to only find that my true passion came through nursing and getting my BSN.🤗 Good for you in knowing what and where you want to go in life. Know that it’s always okay to change your path. Life is a journey.💚
Charisma, I completed a graduate program in rehabilitation counseling and later a law degree while while working full time and it was hard and stressful. I also started having migraines which were horrible, I also ended up with Severe RA, and later Cancer because I put my career aspirations first. I wish I could go back and rethink things but that's not possible. I know what you must be dealing with, ultimately you and only you know how much you can handle. I am glad you listened to your body. You have been doing a great deal and were in a new relationship that required a bit more commitment than most. Just take the time you and Cole need to plan your wedding and to prepare for your life together. You are young and have plenty of time to think about your next move or the right career path. I know that whatever you do it will be the best decision for you both. I am also now a licensed therapist and recommend you do some counseling before getting re-involved in school again. Praying for you guys; seek the Holy Spirit for Guidance, he will never steer you wrong.
Actually I can relate to charisma. I left grad school too as I can’t handle the debts and not being happy overall. The difference is my mum was not supportive and was telling me that It would be good for my future knowing that I am the sole breadwinner of the family and have many expenses to cover. I think we should be happy and free to do what we want to do and society has no right to judge. I thought I was alone in this and I thank charisma and cole for making this video.
