I’m proud of you for making such a massive step against your negative self talk. It’s not easy but you’re doing it! I still call myself an ugly woman and don’t see that changing anytime soon, but maybe one day I’ll feel differently. You inspire me to be better. I don’t like coffee but I love pumpkin spice flavored anything. Literally eating pumpkin bread while watching this lol 😂
*.....Miss, you're not ugly. I'm serious. You're not ugly. You're beautfiul, in the true sense. You're literally beautiful. And if it's hard for you to believe in yourself, then, you can believe in someone who earnestly believe and saying that you're truly beautiful. It's very admirable of you to be able to control your own negative self-talk. Even I still struggling with own negativities, for so many years. I hope I'll be able to arrive at the same point as you someday, in the near future.*
Im honestly so relieved to see this video ngl, your earlier content.. disturbed me, reminded me of my own struggle with Body Dsymorphia, how deeply it can distort your vision of reality and break you down. Whats worse is the loneliness of it all. No one sees the flaws that you see. And every compliment or reassuring word feels false. Anyways i dont know u but im really glad things are changing for the better because i saw myself in who you were. Were rooting for you ❤
Can relate once you realize perfection doesn’t exist it helps these days so much pressure on how people should be and unrealistic standards of whats beautiful instead of actually being ourselves
Not too mention how people like the Kardashians are making ppl think they need to have unrealistic body standards to fit into society, most people don't have millions to spend on surgery and surgery isn't needed 90 percent of the time, people need to accept it's ok to be non perfect, and things that people think are unattractive about them are sometimes what makes them special and unique.
You've taken a massive step forward id say. Your self perception is directly linked to how others also perceive you. In other words you have to love yourself before others can love you 🤗
You were never ugly i am proud of you for realising you are a valuable lovable person if i wasn't asexual and aromantic you are someone i could have a crush on i wish the best for sweetheart
It may sound cliché but I truly mean it. You are not ugly or unattractive! You are absolutely beautiful! ❤ You are pretty, kind, honest, caring and sincere! I don't know why youtube decided to recommend me one of your videos and I'm glad it did. After watching a couple of them, I reflected on what I've been feeling and experiencing in the past few years and definitely noticed a few BDD traits (even though I didn't know about this disorder before) which kind of explains it since I've been diagnosed with a mild form of OCD two years ago. Anyway, it's probably so weird and random, but if you'll ever need someone to talk to, I'd be happy to talk about all sorts of things 💜
All my life I been called, anything from fatso, ugly, beast , it, yada yada, I grew up in the late 80s early nineties, I had to learn to fight back, I had it coming from all directions from my family and school and guys, not to mention having a beautiful and successful cousin I was compared to, don't get me wrong I love my cousin and I'm glad she didn't go through what I did, and I'm happy for her but everyone comparing her to me wasn't cool, the bullying stopped about 10 years ago when I made the decision to change everything about my belief system around, recently I had a friend try to bully me about my weight he is over 100 lbs heavier than me and kept making fun about my weight, in the real world I'm actually not that big, I'm about Lana del Reys size now which doesn't result in gasping in disbelief,imo, however I mentioned to him I wouldn't be speaking to him anymore because of what he said to me constantly about my weight, he replied with f**k you...I replied back with a slew of insults directly to his face, no one will get to talk to me like im not a human anymore i will never tolerate it again, i don't associate with anyone any more and i feel much better and free, i live without judgrment and i want everyone here to realize no one has the right to judge you eitber you are all worthy 🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡
Keep it up 😀 dear.I am happy for you,now that you have won this personal problem😂.Proud of you❤. God bless you 😂. Love from Malta 💓.Keeptaking care of yourself 🌻🇲🇹💮💐🏵️🙋
This is what I like to see. You're growing into a beautiful swan. Your tape is your armor right now, and it's working, so do what you happy, but I'm just a dude saying that the difference is coming from within you. I find your story because it's so relatable to me, and people like what they can relate to/are familiar with (including repeating patterns of behavior). That's the secret to getting people to like something. Just think about it. Also, it's ok to have mental illnesses. Essentially everyone has picked up at least one. They can come and go over time. I had the skin picking/hair pulling in high school, it just went away with time and change. I've had braces twice in my life. My fire academy graduation photos are of me in braces in my late 20s again. Something I learned from a mistake... If you clench your teeth (maybe in your sleep), you can smash them out of place again. They aren't joking about wearing the retainer. I really messed up and didn't (totally my fault, but that's ok). I think your teeth are really great as they are right now. I think you are really great as you are right now. You're incredibly mindful and insightful about yourself right now. You have so many awesome things about yourself right now, whatever you're doing on this path and trajectory is working.
I seriously don't understand how you don't see yourself as pretty. Amazing lips, great teeth, beautiful hair, symmetrical face, YOUR GORGEOUS!! I'm not one to coddle or just compliment bcs I feel bad. You are pretty. To me, and probably to most others. If you were bullied by others, I'm not surprised. Jennifer Lawrence, Robert Pattinson, they were also bullied. Both very attractive. I'm not saying you should go be a model, but believe me girl, you are definitely not ugly. Honestly part of being beautiful is confidence, perception, style, or maybe even makeup. I know discovering my style with clothes and makeup has boosted my confidence and made me discover that I am beautiful.
i am a year older than you and recently had a tooth extraction (i have several permanent baby teeth that need to be extracted) and i can completely relate to it triggering my body dysmorphia. personally, my body dysmorphia began when i was in early childhood but it probably peaked when i was in high school. it never went away tho. having the extraction of a permanent tooth makes me feel disgusting and broken…so you’re not alone. and i hope you don’t mind all the comments from me. i appreciate you and am rooting for you!
Thanks for the message and you a really a lovely person and your honesty blows me away..YOU are a very LOVELY and gentle HEART and beautiful heart keep up the good work BRO Allen Australia 🤗🤗🦋🦋🌹🌹👌👌👌✌✌
I only found just found your channel and am still learning about the condition that you have. With your condition, when you are doing things that you enjoy (spending time with your cats, video games, making coffee with a very loud coffee maker, LOL, ect) does it distract you from the negative thinking and help you or are those thoughts always coming through even during those times.
Well done and man do i relate, even worse because iv been like this and im reaching my late 30s very soon. For me personally, im ugly, always have been and always will be but iv accepted it finally over all these years, im pretty cool with it now :) but i hope you keep growing and keep being strong and one day youll be very proud and happy with everything about yourself as you and many others deserve to feel.
Love love love this! I'm really glad that you are trying to establish a more positive inner monolog. You are growing so much more than we probably understand. Thank you so much for sharing.
I also have Bdd and I’m going through similar things that you’re currently going through. Like for example I wear a mask sometimes because I hate the lower half of my face, so I understand when you say you feel like you need to wear band aids just to help cover up your face. I personally think you look better without the band aids, but I won’t force you to stop wearing them. Also, I’m sorry that some people are saying that you're “trolling.” I think it’s because they don’t get why you're so insecure. I mean you have no reason to be, but again Bdd is a really hard thing to overcome, I’m honestly still having a hard time with it too ;-;, but I promise you things will get better over time!
Beautiful morning video. I also got a wisdom tooth removal but just on my lower left side and now can only kinda feel my lower jaw . 4/5 dentists don''t recommend dentists for wisdom tooth removal.
I'm glad you don't call yourself ugly anymore, you are not ugly !!!!!!! I won't doubt your body dysmorphia diagnosis, Though I will keep reminding you that you have very pretty eyes and very nice lips :) Honestly in this video I think your cute, pretty, and beautiful! I have a son your a little younger then you. If you believe in God kid, God will bless you and if not the Universe will bless YOU !!!!!
Believe me. Most of us want to hear you speaking POSITIVELY about yourself. And you being POSITIVE makes you even more attractive. It feeds off itself. The more positive you are, the better you look. The better you look, the more positive you are. So talk about your art, talk about your cats, talk about everyday events. And do some walks with the video going.
Sorry I asked if this is a troll, I just can't believe such a wonderful person feels bad about them selfies this way when you are such a beautiful person.
Please dont become an "influencer" i really like your authenticity and casual vlogging style. The overproduction, extreme lighting and editing appeals to children but kills the yt vibes.
@@DovisketchWhat's Your Problem? Crazy Lady Leave People Alone You Don't Control No Ones Life, Your Just A Sad Hater Who Can't Get A Grip On Your Own Life, Go Get A Life, Take A Hike For Crying Out Loud, Do You Really Think People Care About Your Selfish Comments On Others Wellbeing? No They Don't, You Don't Define Someone Cuz Your Entitled To Being Noisy And A Loud Mouth, Get A Life And Leave People Alone, Have Some Dignity.
You look great. You there are ways to get your spirit fulfilled, try a short prayer in the morning and see how that works for a week. Take your time and you may find a refuge in your Creator God.
As you should know,you are very good looking. I like you and I think you're a good woman. One I'd love to learn more about. You have a good day my friend. 👍✌️💛🙂🙏
some of the most beautiful people i’ve ever met have body dysmorphia…some of them are average/below average. people need to understand that it’s not correlated with one’s actual appearance i’ve had it my whole life and will always think that everyone looks better than me….though i have somewhat recovered
Pumpkin spice coffee is nasty lol it was a disappointing revelation after never trying it for so long hearing about all the hype. Pumpkin desserts are good though which is strange.
I can't watch this channel anymore it's like seeing the girl of your dream suffering and you can do nothing about it. If I had a chance I would not mess it up a woman like her doesn't come around every day.
In my book, you're a 5, maybe a 6 if you're well groomed. It's fine, totally fine. You are far from being ugly. For me, as a 5 (maybe a 4), it's totally fine. But the best looking guys are very demanding. The secret is to accept that guys with a rating of 7 and above won't be interested. But you can be happy with someone within your average range.
