Why Most Men Are Mentally WEAK 

“It’s not about motivation, its about ur discipline” made me realize that

Summary: 1) Focusing too much on motivation: Motivation only gives you temporary dopamine. Instead develop a routine and stick to it to overcome your emotions, give you strength, and keep you grounded. 2) Comfort: Know that your life could be worse. If you are having a bad day, someone else is probably having a worse one. 3) Comfort leads to entitlement: You think you deserve things (better pay, roof over your head, etc). Instead shift your mentality to provide as much value to society as possible and earn those things. If you're broke, you didn't provide enough value somewhere. You can be fat, fit, brown, black, white. 4) You lack self-awareness: Looking inwards to identify your weaknesses rather than letting them be mental barriers. If you're not smart, read more. If you're poor, work harder to provide more value. If you're overweight, go to the gym. If you don't identify and fix your weakness, you'll end up using them as a crutch. I can't do this because I'm fat/brown/impoverished. 5) You lack gratitude: Kind of related to point 2. Count your blessings and how far you've come. Don't compare yourself to the 1% in terms of what luxury they have. See that life is good if you have roof over your head, clothes on your back, and food everyday. Realize you have the necessities so now the only way is up.

Great tips! If you’re a beginner - the quickest way to learn to be “Mentally Strong” is by not shying away from life’s challenges. The more you face them head-on, and eventually overcome them - the more mentally strong you become - the more confident you are. So basically, the more courageous things you do - the more mentally strong and confident you become. The more you run away from your problems - the weaker you become! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

Man he is really like a big brother that everyone should have. thanks Jose I will apply these things, hope you hit your goals too!

Thank you for this video man i haven’t gone to the gym in 4 days and i was feeling frustrated until i saw this video and it made me think and helped me get better, that’s what its all about. Getting better and stronger everyday!! Bless up!!

This is undoubtedly one of your best videos yet. It really is all about the mental battle. Once you focus on the positive things that will set you up in life, you can get anything. The way you speak about yourself and how you got to where you were with little to nothing is hella inspirational. I’m working on this mindset day after day to get into a healthy routine that’s best for my future. Much Love Jose

You inspire so many who are struggling out there. Much love and respect to you brother.

i want to add one thing, while it is important to know that someone can have it worse, it’s okay to take a moment and let yourself feel things, it’s human. just don’t wallow in them too long, and learn to how to process your emotions in a healthy way🦾

This may the best video I’ve ever seen you release. Every sentence that was said I am in 100% agreement with. I’ve been keeping up with your videos for the last 5 years and it’s been amazing watching you grow as a person as well as helping me with some things of my own along the way. Keep up the great work brother ✌️

I was having a hard time emotionally and mentally. Thank you, i really needed it🙌

Thank you Jose, this video was a real eye opener. That’s the type of thing nowadays, where some people who can’t commit to long-term goals (it takes time to level up). Self-Improvements been a thing for me these last couple of months: I’m good at some areas, but there’s still room for me to grow.

This video was actually different from the daily videos .... It was more like a big to small brother talk ... Thanks for this one bro🔥

Homie thank you for this. I've dealt with depression since my teens and I'm the same age as you now I needed to hear this.

This was the perfect video for me right now. I’m about to head off to college, and I know I’m going to need to be motivated. The one thing I’m going to work on is not procrastinating. I did it a lot through high school, and passed doing the bare minimum. I know in college the professors won’t care as much as my high school teachers. Thanks for this video Jose!! 🖤💪🏻

Thank you Jose for this video this what I needed I literally had tears in my eyes because I need this drive to push me and I’m grateful that I got to see this God bless your soul keep doing your thing !!!!

Wow jose, this video of you sitting down and sounding the most sincere I've ever seen from you made this maybe your best video. This type of content and actually good tips is exactly what we want and need. Keep this up 💪

The way you speaking from your heart in this video makes it exceptional

after watching this channel for 3 years now, this has to be my favorite one, thanks for making this video. today i am turning 17 and i am glad i watched this

These type of videos that make you think about life, love it ,this the kinda motivation we actually need!

Jose should make more videos like these apart from relationship advice. This one was a banger. I feel like we connect better when Jose makes bigger videos and talks more to his bros/us.

A really great video by Jose, straight to your face this is the kind of video we need, nowadays i feel like we are always trying to find motivation which Is actually bad for us.

Bro Jose has helped me so much in the matter of months

this was probably the most realest video jose made and it highkey humbled me🥺

Always speaking facts thanks TEACHINGMANS 🙏🏾

One of the most straight up honest video I’ve seen in a while 🙌

New hair looks good! Thank you for all your advice.

Wow 😳. The way you articulated the message of mental weakness is spot on . Drive, determination and also understanding the importance of where you come from is and will always be an obstacle most people face. We strive to reach ceiling everyday and break through it. Your words are always a grounding platform to try and do better. Thank you 🙏

I was feeling down today and watching you made me feel somewhat better bro thanks for the tips my guy.

Thank YOU JOSE, this video was an eye opener for me and for thousands out there watching it. "Its not about motivation, its about discipline" that quote right there.... not many people say these stuff. Till yesterday I was person who completely relied on motivational videos, after watching this , I had a complete different view about life. THANK YOU SO MUCH JOSE MAY GOD HELP YOU BROTHER IN EVERY ASPECT OF YOUR LIFE.

Jose thank you, I improved from every video you make! 💪🏾 It was Touching.

My man Jose looks good with a buzz cut. P.s. I really needed this video, not only for motivation but also because you portray things so well and clearly, big up to you man!

love those type of videos jose , keep it up may god bless you❤️

Thank you for this coming at the right time

Thanks Big Brother ❤️.

This in my opinion was your best video yet. The value you provided has everything which normal motivation videos lack. Keep up the good work.

Loving the new style of videos

Watched Jose after a long time, and this was one good eye-opener. Thanks Jose!

This is a very calm video that actually made me more humble,aware and gratefull.This was better than a motivational video,to make me wanna go look at my books now😏❤

I really love the content upgrade. These styles of videos seem much more genuine than before.

Really helpful my big brother it’s really helpful especially about the motivation part I finally see it it’s like a dopamine, it’s wears out thank you bro it’s time to set things straight now. I really appreciate it

This video got super deep. I had this exact feeling today where i caught myself feeling low and started thinking about the things i got in my life right up to this point. It's only UP from here.

hi Jose I'm from Nigeria. I'm a student and we aren't at school right now. it hurts but seeing this video pushed that little beast inside me to wake up. Thank you

That was just great I mean wow man each and every single word just hits me so clearly. Appreciated! 👏🏼

Dammmnnnnnnnnnn man . Clean cutz man 💪🏽💪🏽

This is one of the self reflecting video I've watched...I appreciate it big bro

Brother trust me you've changed alot of us!, Keep it up.

Perspective and self-awareness are such equalizers nothing can take them away from you. Gratitude after all reminds us of how much lucky we are in the end so life doesn't feel like it sucks as much as we tended to think.

Woah.. Jose really felt like he was speaking from his heart.

I've been stressed for a few days. Watching this somewhat helped. Thank you!

Excellent advice sir, right on point!...

Great and inspiring vid bro💯

you videos are so addictive great work and i love you

The new way the videos aware being recorded is awesome, it feels like a 1 on 1 convo

This hit hard Thank you

Big brother Jose got our backs always, thank you man you've been a game changer to me

Needed this Jose🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

jose really putting it all out there in this vid, damn man. proud of you

This is the most valuable and genuine video i’ve seen in 2022 so far ❤️🔥🔥⛳️

I needed this talk

truly a great video, it inspires me to think I can do great things. i always wanted to do great things, and never lost hope, and i wanna keep working on it. i want many things, but it all keeps being so daunting. u inspire me to push through and give it my all. to always reach for higher and to be patient. after 11 years i finally was able to move to America and be able to stay. started working out 3 years ago to improve my body and self-image and confidence. worked on my social skills to be more comfortable around people. buying my first car soon, to be able to work more jobs and get around easier. i have a plan, it requires discipline. shit tons of it. i dont plan on stopping, idc how daunting it is, ill keep it pushin for as long as i humanly can

Thanks for the daily content

Awesome video! I am a Méxican-American hustling every day to be the best man I can be. My mindset aligns exactly to what you covered in this video. Keep up the great work! Respect.

jose making feel some type of way with this wisdom, it's insane! keep it up big bro!

From the jump.. this was powerful💯💪🏾

Much needed thank you ❤

You are like the big brother and father i never had! Love you brother! Amazing stuff you are doing!

This guy is my biggest icon... Honestly, I look up to you bro

great message

Your best video ever... I needed thos so much thanks tocayo

Honduras Gang!!! ❤️

This video is freaking gold. Keep grinding men, it’s only up from here.

Awesome Man.... Really great

im liking this new format. good way to switch it up a bit. keep up the work man

Awesome video. Perspective is everything.

One of your best videos indeed.

Man your videos really help me get through it

God Bless You, Jose.

Man this is one of the interesting video you ever made it in this year👏🏽 Bravo Jose ♥️

Bro am with u all the way 🖤

This video was from the heart

Thanks for the video Jose. Was starting to slack in parts of my routines, so I needed this for accountability

Used to watch you back in 2017, back now and glad to see the progress you've made!

I like the way the videos maintain a send of gratitude and awareness now. Jose knows he’s in the top 1-5% of a capitalistic society. Now he is giving value by telling us the exact methods to avoid in order to be where he is. Thanks Jose!

really liked your recent content, I like the direction youre takin my man!

I don't know why but the vibe in this video was wayyy better than usual, it felt more genuine and real. You should be like this more often Jose

Man thank you for this video. I really needed to hear this. Thank you

This was one of the best videos I’ve seen. It was genuine. Made me put things into perspective

Oh ooooh oooooooh, I'm liking these videos Jose, let's go

Man u R the best 🙏🏽🔥

This is my favourite channel. I especially like it when you explain everything so nicely. I wish you a lot of success with the channel and happy life

This is his one of his best video guys good luck to everyone

Motivation is a waste of time. Thanks for the advice José

best video . thanks dude

This is an amazing video. :) Thank you. Jon

Wow! You are spot on my friend! Wish there was more people with your worldview!

Super dope!! 🔥🔥🔥

Such a great video jose!

Loving these videos

I see you stepping up your game. Respect

This video's vibes are so different from your typical videos, man this helped me tons. Thank you, Jose. You're really the big brother I never had.