Why Sevens Are the Coolest Women 

The 7s tend to classy but humble. They usually aren't ratchet like the bottom dwellers and they usually aren't arrogant entitled divas like the 9s and 10s.

I'll take a 7 with a good body any day

"I think beauty's overrated, cause that's something anyone can be. Attraction now that's something different. And thankfully you're both to me" -Musiq Soulchild This is what 7s are.

Shout out to the Adjustable 7

I think it's easier to settle with someone who's a seven. it's quite difficult to get a ten and even if you get her, everybody will want her. I'm considered a seven by some women. Some women find me attractive, some don't. You might want to deal with a woman who some guys find attractive and some don't. If you get a ten, you'll never rest.

9s and 10s are too much trouble, too much attention, too much choice so she feels she deserves more than she is worth relying on her looks which means long term investment she ain't good. a 7 just glows with natural beauty, doesn't reveal much publicly, doesn't wear much make up if any, comfortable in her own skin, down to earth and brings other qualities to the table. Shit, she might not even be aware she is that attractive and giving her a compliment is a lot more accepted because she doesn't get one as often as the 9 or 10. When she does decide to dress up she will blow a 9 out of the water because her warm and humble personality radiates throughout. She usually has a good smile too and a positive attitude. Her profile pictures will usually be her smiling, dressed well, not pouting or trying to pose for the camera in a seductive or in a way that says yeah im hot and everyone likes me. That's wifey right there.

A good 7 can always work their way up to a dime status..

I agree that 7's are the best because they are more down-to-earth and more approachable. Not drop-dead gorgeous but attractive enough to be desirable. Even better if she is physically fit with a nice shape.

Thing is you gotta treat your 7 like a 10. Even if she knows she a 7 you treating her like a one will breed resentment, cuz remember you're probably about a 7 or lower yourself and replaceable.

Dimes that know they're dimes ain't checking for average men. So if you're not a baller 💸💵, Mr. Goodbar, or on your way to be..she will just entertain/use you. Choose wisely. Don't let a dime have you out here looking stupid. Be realistic, Know what you can pull & be happy. 💡

If sistas cared about their health, were feminine, got rid of the weave, and stopped getting the absurd tattoos they would be irresistible. They just don't see the forest for the feminist trees I guess.

I live in a city full of 6s who think they're 8s.

Brutha RW, I know you did this two years ago but I've been spending my weekends and some of my drove time like a sponge catching up on your content. This one has helped alot. An adjustable seven is an awesome barometer. I almost literally can spot them right off the bat...this is 😎! Thanks so much for the intel! Peace and blessings!

The woman in the thumbnail is cute as hell.

Dropping gems, Fam. Great piece of advice. Also them 4, 5,6's if they have a great personality, some cake, a most important a great HEART!!!

I love my 7

Sevens are the new Tens

If it wasn't for obesity in the US, you would have a LOT more 7's and even some who are 8's or 9's underneath all that unhealthy weight. Imagine how many new 8's would join the dating pool if more women stayed in shape and are healthy. Currently, you've got brothers competing for the small group of women that value their health/fitness, which creates a HIGH demand for a SMALL supply. This is noticeable in many races, particularly the African-AMERICAN community Given all the race-mixing that happens on the U.S., the only thing stopping America from reaching the level of Brazil in terms of quality women, is that more AMERICAN women need to value their health & more women should not be afraid to embrace the beauty of being feminine.

I'm working it a Nigerian sista whose a 7 on a rough day, and you are spot on! When she dolls up or dresses all the way down ;) it's like Hallelujah chorus breaks out in the room 🙌🏾!

In my opinion every man has his on idea of "dimes". 7 in my opinion can be a ten if she has other qualities i.e. takes care of herself physical, cooks, good personality, passionate about life and HUMBLE. I feel the internetx in MY opinion, that the internet has ruined dating, especially FB, IG, SC. Attention/Validation is something that most women need like air. Social media already gives women that so they take it for granted. Back in the day, ppl had to actually meet FACE to FACE, have STANDARDS in order to meet someone specially. Now days high 7, 8, 9 or 10s get 1k likes with 5 mins. So in their minds they don't have to be humble, nice etc..

Nothin but the truth, especially if she stays in shape!

I agree with everything in this video except for the part where Rom mentions not worrying about not as many guys trying to go after your 7 while in a relationship with her. First off you shouldn’t care if guys are going after your woman because you have no control over that. Secondly with today’s social media thirst 7s are getting offers just as much as dimes are. Good video tho.

yeah I need a cool 7 for sure man them so called 10's are trouble

All of us men would love to have a dime but most times it doesn't work I think a woman who's a 7 have a quiet confidence about themselves .

I don't see why more men don't know this by now. The 6-8 are always the most humble and best women to be with. Everybody is chasing after 9 and 10's (the not so good women) bypassing all the good women, they claim they want. 9's and 10's are not marriage material, they're only good for a quick nut and that's it. I would never have a family with. When you have everything together women will come, but if you chasing after no good women and get burned each time, who fault is that. I don't get why people get offended off what people say on RU-vid, but the good thing is that I'm able to use my brain and know that RU-vid doesn't represent all black people.

Oh shoot this is Whats up. Average black girls, we're finally getting some props lol 😂

I saw the title and instantly had to click. Good vid Rom

This some great and reputable info...

I'd never tell her but my fiancee is a 7, and I chose her on purpose. Icarus flew to high and his wings melted.

Great commentary.

Is there any wonder that the number even in Scripture represents "COMPLETion".

So, i know this chick who is a straight 9. We have hung out a couple of times and she had men drooling before her. She is somewhat shocked that am friend-zoning her. With maturity am so satisfied with an adjustable 6. Am a simple man now! Lol

8-10's in ATL all day but most of them are no good.

This so true... 7 with clothes 10 without, would never guessed it

Beauty is skin deep ugly is to the bone always remember the baddest bitch becomes the average bitch

I don't know about men not competing tough for 7's shit they're stalking 5's, and 6's. If any mid level woman has a nice body it's over with in the Black community they don't really have to act like an 8-10 Black men will pursue them aggressively, and treat them that way even sum of the select dudes.

I've always said when a nickle is surrounded by pennies it thinks it's a dime!

Usually 7's are the ones dudes marry because they're the more humble wifey types.

Cheers 🥂 to the SEVENS!!!

I'm dating a 7 right now. And I got my stuff together and so does she. My last girlfriend was about a 9. And she asked me once why didn't I just get another 9 I told her I'm more attractive to the girl next door type. And we been together now about a year and everything u said about 7 in this video is true they appreciate you more too

Good video. All 7s (me included) thank you.

Hit us up with more of dem stories Doc Rom!

Interesting topic and dialogue. I'm gonna step back and start with the facts...57 percent of Black women are clinically obese(will post the link later)...This tilts the scale almost two standard deviations down. In short a "4" is pretty much the norm. When I went off to college(HBCU) there were lots of 6s and 7s...Most were pretty cool as there were a few 8s and 9s AND the ratio of males to female was almost 1 to 6... My target social demographic was the 6 to 7.5 and it was pretty cool. In the general population of Black America the "8" is often really arrogant as she's competing with a lot of 4s...With Latinas, the "8" can't be too mean because she's competing with a lot of 6s... I totally agree that the "7" is often a really good catch as she often brings looks AND humility to the table(often the maternal/moon and Elegant Rose combo) If she doesn't get lazy or complacent it's a slam dunk 😉

Man this guy is preaching...preach preacher!!!

That's the woman i'm with now 6 yrs strong

Who is the lady in the picture. She is more like an 8.5 or 9. I love to see women without tattoos. Plain skin looks more feminine.

Getting old Uncle Rom, turned 42 today

Homegirl in the picture is very attractive. She looks wifely... The comment about seeing the woman's body for the first time is hilarious! My last partner was 100% this way. Amazing body, fully confident as she undressed for me in full sunlight. I think about her all the time... I was the Mr Goodbar role with her so I respect her space...

LMAO Just give her a call. Great video. I have to scan the sevens very carefully. But at the same time have myself together.

I'm late today hehe happy almost Tgif Uncle Rom!!

Nice thick 7 about a size 8 up to maybe 12. Are excellent for a relationship. But to your point Brotha Rom, some 7's do think they are dimes. As a result they can be full of attitude. The good news is most 7's are adjustable.

It depends on what city you live in. Where I live, which is west Los Angeles, you'll see a lot of 7's and up!

Terrific advice. A 'Cool 7' is a good woman. I dated one I know myself.

Uncle Rom, i asked a 92 octane whether or not she agreed with ur last video. She validated everything u said was true. I didnt do it to prove u wrong, sometimes i like to get a womans opinion on the ur videos, thats all. Keep up the great wrk

Rom..please make a few videos how to find a wife. ...or better yet the WIFE MATERIAL type woman. It seems there are a lot of brothas out here who are struggling to narrow down the wife search. It waint EZ in the DMV where many are so jaded and the nite life is always on fleek. It gets tough finding the right one.

Those are the best ones. Secretly stacked- dont show it off to social media, have good morals, clean, respects man and cool as ice. Can hold a decent convo but not over talk you lol... Loves to blow the flute, O my....

Yo this so true. Out of all the females l chatted with l noticed the 7 and some 8's are the best when it comes to attitude but rom don't you think environment takes a big part? Using high school/work cliques as an example the popular girls be are the top of the food chain, for they're usually seen as 8-10 and theres always those few girls who are 5-7 but have the entitled behavior. Meanwhile l have met 7-10 who were super chill, nice, or pleasant to be around because there environment was different.

Rom, what about the 8.5's ? Isn't that the best balance of all ? (especially for the Masked Man who has been patiently waiting & building up his wealth and status)

Going by the topic alone, I’m a self proclaimed eight 😂, so what to do, what to do🤦🏾‍♀️. 😅😂🤣

Thank you for giving us average women some love.

Good morning brothers! Another solid vid by The Field Master... 9s and supposed 10s get passed around (check sports and musician stars girlfriend/wife resume). 8s are like 89 octanes (Issa Rae character's attitude). Upgradable 7s is the sweet spot. Unless she's a "good girl" gone bad!

Someone sent me this video and I read the headline and had no idea what a seven meant. Interesting video though I never really categorized women by numbers myself

Thanks again uncle Rom.

12:24 I’m looking up a couple of 7’s as you speak lol 😆

Good Discussion. When I was younger I Distinctively pursued 8's & 9's and Growing up in LA there's Quite a few of them to go Around. The Main Problem with LA in terms of Pursuing Women & Dating them is what I Like to call the '2 Level Overrated System.' Many Women in LA rate Themselves '2Levels' about what they truly are: 4's think they are 6's; 5's think they are 7's ; and 7's tend to think they're 9's aka Dimes. Women in LA tend to overrate themselves and there are 2Many Simpish Dudes out here that are willing to comply. To Be Honest Big Brotha Rom the Sista in the Display is a Solid 6 to me. Sistas in LA that look like Her are a Dime a Dozen.Guess you could say I have 'LA Standards'..lol. Beauty is also Subjective to the Beholder.

7s are generally my favorite. I typically date 6-8s.... because truth be told, 9s and 10s are extremely rare, at least in the Carolinas. I can go months before seeing an 8+.

yeah, 7s are cool in UK too. Thing is tho, a lot of sistas over here are very afraid of black men. On the street if you look in their direction, they think you're gonna kidnap them. LOL! We have some "alphas" out here on that mode 4 vibe, so these girls paint most of us guys with the same brush. But thanks to you Rom I know a way around it. A few days ago a 7 looked back at me straight in the eye in passing each other.

Rom I agree with you 100 per cent.

This is why the cold approach isn't a good strategy. Especially with 8s and above. In most cases and from my experiences the best relationships come when the women chooses you. If try choose and try the cold approach you may succeed but you will always be chasing her.

Most men have never had a dime. They have had plenty of 7's and treated them like a dime.

Hey. Fellas lets just keep it real. I would say that. The majority of us brothers will eventually. Have a long term relationship or marry a woman of six to seven stature and you know what there is nothing at all wrong with that. Thanks Rom for going in depth with this particular topic..... Appreciate ya as always

The one pictured is actually a *7.5.*

They have to compensate by being accessible. Well-known. It's called a "class drop" in horse racing and it's a powerful betting angle, like when an also-ran in the Kentucky Derby goes back into lower-level stakes or even allowance races. I had the same thing with 8.5 or below, and was hit-and-miss with anything above that in my prime.

Yes Bro so very true!

this is a very invalid question because a 10 to one man may be a 5 to the next, see it all the time.

From my perspective its as if the 5's on up (7), no matter the size all feel as though they are 10's. Aim high is the motto in ur youth then come down in ur 30's.

The title of the video made me chuckle a Lil bit

Diamonds in the Rough! #Good Dialogue ROM

Oh wow. This is a first. Did you find my picture by googling Average Black Girl? My SEO ( Search Engine Optimization) mind wants to know.

Great Video as always Rom, Some Women that are considered Dimes Have Shitty Attitudes! Also they are very Naive, and Shallow Minded!

7 to 8 is where I like to operate but A) here in the northeast (MA) those (black) women act like they're more than that and are hard to assume and B) a lot of people seem to have a vested interest in you not coupling with that grade of woman. Most people don't want a regular black man in that same range to have anything.

i'll admit i am NOT the hit it and quit it type. i have done it before. and if its mutual i probably would do it again. but in the long run i m more of a 1 woman man. as u said rom that's fair. a good woman, no combative. a team mate. but as u said if she's the most attractive in her circle she'll get a big head. and i believe that's alot of women these days. you already know social media, leggings, makeup and same pose different room. and a healthy 100+ likes. lots of 6'7' think their 10's. and men continue to treat them as such online and so boom. if a woman is interacting with me and she doesn't even think about pulling her phone out that;s the one.

The chick look like she going to prom

I lived in Atlanta for 12 years, and that is one place where you will see many dimes, so much so that when I moved to my current location in Michigan the first thing I noticed was the lack of them. It's a totally different world. Nothing but a bunch of smoked out, old looking, crackhead looking chicks. Dimes are much more rare. I'm talking serious culture shock!

Kinda fine women always been the wave. Not too fine not too ugly. Just right.

we really are cool and i'm like that attorney i wear bummy clothes when i feel like it too! oh and this is why i'm always asking where the fuck are these dudes finding these girls since they wanna say ALL..

She looks like Desna in the show Claws. Desna looks good too with or without makeup.

agreed. thats is all.

That Italian Ice👊🏽👌🏽

All very true.

You should do a paid video on how to spot potential adjustable 7's. I have learned that there s an art to it and you have to have an eye for it.

Funny because 7’s typically cooo with alot of dudes because they are so cool down to earth. But at end of day a woman is a woman 0-10

8,9 ,10 have many more attributes than a 7. 8 is visually more appealing to most men. 9,10 is a show stopper. A STAR! She has power and can make a man weak

Good video! I feel like my wife is that cool 7

Ron, are you referring to 7s by your observations or 7s in the woman's mind. Because, here in new york city, it's a bunch 2s and 3s running around here like they're 8s and 9s.

Check your inbox, Rom. I have something on the cool chicks aka, Miss Congeniality when it comes to a guy's 'love pyramid'...

You're telling the truth about the rarity of a dime.

Interesting. I like to hear a males perspective. Great channel.

The adjustable 7 is the mainstay of my diet.

Truth