Many doors have been closed in my life, and this is for me something adventurous and liberating. This means that new doors will open. I have burned many bridges in my life. The fire from these I use to light up my sky. As soon as something stressful, negative or difficult happens, I use it for something positive and disciplined. Like my old computer I am now writing this comment on. It turns off sometimes and stops working. Good! Then I read a book instead, meditate or do push-ups.
When I worked at Intel, there were three phases associated with success: You try and succeed, you try and fail, and you don't try and by definition fail! I always found that when I failed, I was much closer to be being successful. Most of my failures were due to dealing with the social dynamic. Even when I was technically correct, I need to make my solution viable from a social standpoint. This approach made my work life much easier.
I don't like labels! But this is true to my nature, never understood people who lingers in rejection as if the world ended, and the abundance mindset I totally have what I always say is that the opportunities are endless you just need to stretch your hand forward and keep on grabbing until you get a hold on something great and satisfying to fulfill your lifes dreams.
Turned out pretty good. I still wonder about my x leaving me at 68 years old and winding up having the guy who lured her from me abandoning her after only 9 months. I don't know where she is but from the last call she made to me, judging by the background noise, I suspect she is in a goverment retirement place for old people. Her phone is blocked to me so she has to call me which I doubt she will do. She created her own mess and claims I did nothing wrong to her, she just left one morning and never came home, no note, no goodbye, she just disappeared.
My gf in college is on her 2nd kid but I always feel better in the end because I had more fun chasing her n being “mysterious” than actually being with her. I look back n think I missed out but I truly didn’t want to be tied down
@@markh4926 That’s an impressive story, Mark. I won’t sully it with a trite reaction or analysis. It stands on its own. Wiser men of any age will learn from and be humbled by it. Others will merely express sympathy, or nothing at all. Cheers. 🙏
100% truth bro..ya can't call yourself a sigma just because your trying to behave like one..either you are.or you aren't..but yep.for sure,none sigmas can cherry pick the positive traits of a sigma and incorporate them into their own life..but we're born sigma.
MYTH-BUSTER : We Sigma do NOT control our emotions, or even pretend that we can or should. We embrace their nature but we do NOT control them any more than we control our instincts. At best, we manage our reaction to them. To pretend to control them would be not only to deny their spontaneous nature but, worse, to ignore their unpleasant messages. We NEVER ignore an unpleasant message !!!
I will choose my friends better. I am human and want human contact. Loneliness does create many fears. Forward always forward Everything else, yeah I can see it.
I wouldn't have experience 65 different jobs between the ages of 16 and 40 without thriving on rejection and not giving a F about financial security. My life has been several and every one an adventure.
Also that word "success", "money", "wealth" that is not the sigma way. These words can be side affects but is not the driving force of a sigma. success, wealth money can actually prevent you to become a true sigma because again it constricts you to social structures with is very limiting. You become emotionally death, your life becomes pointless and you die all alone. If you are a true sigma you have both an enormous developed logical skill set and a enormous developed emotional skill set. And you fuse them together as one entity. They must both exist. You expose your emotional side and weakness knowing that you will survive anything they throw at you and recover just like wolverine. The last thing you want to do is the shut down your emotional side because you got hurt last time. Sigmas don't go and expose themselves to get hurt. They get hurt because they get curious and explore areas no one dares to go. The consequences is that we have evolved to repair ourselves physically and emotionally at a faster rate. We may be able to heal faster, but I can guarantee you that every hurt really hurts. And it does not become less hurtfully over time. But we have overcome the scare to get hurt.
Sigmas don't keep their talent hidden from humanity. We expose it for all to see, you just don't understand it that is why you think we are hiding it. We don't manipulate you, we have to shape-shift the way you perceive us otherwise you have no clue what we are talking about. Also sigmas don't thrive on rejection, only losers would. Rejection is not just a tool for us, only emotional death people would use that as a tool. Negative emotions don't fuel us to success, we hate it. We hate negative emotions so in order to become positive again we have to rewire our own emotions so it turns back positive. Beeing positive for a sigma is a choice. We choose to become a light-source where there is dark. Rejection is not the driving force for us to become successful, only people that is locked into the social structure would come to that conclusion. Curiosity is what drives us, not because some social wrongdoing but because we can. Because in our heart we have this energy that would dwarf an fusion bomb explosion to find the borders of our capabilities but has nothing to do with rejection..
Alot of things hitting home here, I dont know what to think! I always turn my anger and frustration towards working out or reading positive material. In these times pandemics, dickheads with WAY too much power, I live I feel like the only thing I can do is train and be ready for that Nazi scene in Inglorious Bastatds where the Nazis are questioning the guy in his own house while he is hiding a basement full of jewish people... times seem to change but do they really?
