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Why would someone cheat on the person they love?
There are many reasons why people cheat on their spouse, and we can help you understand what might be going on.
When you have a spouse that’s cheating, it can be completely overwhelming because you don’t even know where to start. The questions to ask. Your heart is hurting. You’re scared. There are so many emotions that go into that.
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Most people are good. They’re not bad people, but unfortunately, good people do bad things.
Now, if you pause for a minute and think about your own life, you’re a good person. And if you think back, you’ll look and see there are things you’ve done wrong. Remember, none of this is an excuse for the bad, or a free ride to do whatever you want.
Instead, it’s a reminder that we are all screwed up-every one of us.
We're broken; you’re broken. And there are things in our life that just don’t come together, things we don’t understand, or things we’ve adopted from childhood.
We’re good people, but they influence us in negative thinking.
Now, let’s discuss why someone would cheat on the person they love.
In this episode of Relationship Radio, we interview Stephen, a man who had an affair but is now trying to save his marriage. He talks about what happened in his marriage, how he is trying to repair things, and what you can do if you are going through a similar situation.
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@MarriageHelper 2 года назад

If you'd like to learn more about our Solo Spouse Workshops, please follow this link: marriagehelper.com/solo-spouse-workshop/ We hope to see you in the next workshop happening very soon. - Marriage Helper ❤️

@5700Guppy 2 года назад

I hope his wife watches this video and sees how self absorbed and deflecting of full responsibility he still is. She tried for years but now probably needs to reclaim her confidence and dignity in a new respectful relationship.

@jilly8372 2 года назад

They are always sorry when the wife is completely done.

@Sadiraaa 2 года назад

@@jilly8372 Even if that’s the case, human’s make mistakes. If he is truly changing himself & never repeats it again, then that’s amazing and he deserves to have that chance!

@JA-jm8bk Месяц назад

@@Sadiraaa "humans" not "human's".

@Sadiraaa Месяц назад

@@JA-jm8bk Thanks lol

@olamidebalogun3026 2 года назад

Thanks a lot for sharing. Such an enlightening episode. Sounds like a lot of work and I pray for grace d’or you. Praying that you do a video soon with her and your one year would have lapsed and no divorce. Wishing you much joy . Shalom

@apco1752 2 года назад

Good stuff here!

@nicole4555 Год назад

This person is probably not a good example of a spouse who wants his marriage to be saved. He has admitted zero responsibility but instead chooses to blame his wife for his cheating. Horrible. Blames her for communication issues, lack of “understanding” etc. The part where he references his 4 children and how she is still his “wife” whether she likes it or not…sickening. Where was that thought when you we’re screwing every woman who looked your way? Horrendous. I am very pro marriage but his ex wife in this case, is much better off with someone else than him. He has a lot of work to do on himself before he anyone even considers a relationship with someone so broken.

@LisaCulton 2 года назад

Because they don't love that person anymore.

@hc9485 2 года назад

Very commendable, it takes a lot for someone to admit their wrongs, seek help and not give up. I pray that your wife sees the love you have for her and your willingness to do the work for your marriage. You mentioned how important it is to seek the right help in this situation and I couldn't agree more. So many of us seek "professionals" that aren't specialized in this scenario which in turn can lead to a potential death of a marriage. Keep trying and have faith.

@zainabnassali20 2 года назад

Thanks much.....appreciated

@amaliagelle9188 Месяц назад

As an adult who had to survive a horrible childhood due to my Parents being incompatible divorce was a saving grace. Why insist on people staying together if they do not live another. Your site is helpful but you neglect what children have to endure Sometimes divorce should be done sooner than later don’t drag it out for the “ children “ That is unfair

@jamescxu 2 года назад

Keep up the good work, Steven. The LORD sees your hearts and desire and all the hardwork you are putting in

@johannafreymann8656 2 года назад

Am praying for you and your wife

@theresachiorazzi4571 2 года назад

There’s a song about. Love hurts if your not happy then get out of it I was so blessed in my marriage of 60 yrs listening to all the unhappy couples it’s pretty sad. It takes a lot of work and a lot love You can’t let no one else I cause that’s when your in trouble.

@Gunzo9978 2 года назад

Your wife was hurting when you brought up the couples workshop, I hope you understand now that she wanted you to feel pain. Remember hurt people hurt people.

@larryrichins7887 2 года назад

I've been married for 39 years I've been talking to my first love from high school for the past 10 months My marriage actually sucks I've been wanting out of this thing forever come to find out recently My wife was abused as a child by her stepfather and she is still carrying it to this day I now realize why she pushed me away all these years. I know she loves me but I have fallen out of love with her. It's a little bit late I'm ready to move on and I know I have a lot to lose.

@MarriageHelper 2 года назад

Larry thank you for sharing. It sounds like you have already made up your mind about moving on, but if you change your mind and choose to stand for your marriage, we are here to help. If you're still considering if marriage is worth it, this video might help you make up your mind. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-soYwtlw2NcM.html Blessings,

@larryrichins7887 2 года назад

@@MarriageHelper being rejected has turned me into someone I do not like. I just bury myself in my work I do not like going home, anxiety kicks in knowing that she will be there at home.

@lorimiller4301 2 года назад

@@larryrichins7887 As someone who has also been abused I just want to say that I'm so sorry. If your wife says that she loves you but has rejected you perhaps physically I would bet it wasn't personal. It wasn't against you, it probably wasn't even about you. It was all her stuff. Programming that was interfering, messing with her emotional responses to you. I'm sure you feel bitter, I get that but your wife is suffering. She needs love and support to go through with recovering her missing pieces. If you can't do it then tell her that and go ahead and go with grace. Just be honest, life is short. I hope the best for both of you.

@larryrichins7887 2 года назад

@@lorimiller4301 rejection in a marriage sucks after 40 years she has done nothing and never said squat about it until now that I want out I cannot deal with it anymore! At one time I would have gave up my life for her but not anymoreI I just want to move on I'm not even worried about the granted grass and other fans or whatever I just shouldn't be alone in the end I don't care anymore.

@sobiaperez4484 2 года назад

Before u do Anything and I promise u will regret it !!!!! She’s your Wife is hurting and sad and in pain Be careful how u let her down 😒 And your wife may be thinking the same Of u What a loser I married

@normarodriguez5535 2 года назад

Was that it?

@MarriageHelper 2 года назад

Hey Norma! You must've joined before this episode went live.

@prettypetite5712 2 года назад

Thank you for being brave enough to share your story. I am the faithful spouse and listening to you gives me hope that my unfaithful spouse's heart can change. We are in the early stages as well. My spouse has not demonstrated the revelations that you have gotten. In this dark situation thank you for being a light to the brokenhearted. Praying for you and your family

@sallyooko1464 2 года назад

I wish you well.I pray you both work through this that your marriage is saved.

@kena3537 2 года назад

He's selfish, it's just that simple

@joannawert3095 2 года назад

If the shoe were on the other foot I'll bet he wouldn't just "get on with it".

@joannawert3095 2 года назад

It's always a different set of rules for the faithful than for the cheater.

@TravelingFoodBunny 2 года назад

Thank you so much for sharing. I hope your wife will see that you want to save your marriage for the sake of love, not only for the kids or financial purpose. I hope she will see that you want her back because you love her and her love does matter for your life.

@joannawert3095 2 года назад

I don't know how she would see that. My perspective is that he cares more for his kids than he cares for her.

@albertguillen9353 2 года назад

The first time you had sex knowing or not knowing to late. No excuses. The virgin man or woman did it right to wait you don't hear them complaining. Virginity is the answer

@JeffMc2006 2 года назад

While these videos are helpful - the guests need some coaching on getting to the point. Most of this can be summed up in less than 15 minutes. You lose audiences with so much repetition, “uh’s” and “um’s”.

@MarriageHelper 2 года назад

Thank you for your feedback Jeff! We will be doing highlights from this season over the coming months and will likely have a much more condensed version of this episode for people to listen to. This was simply the the raw interview. But we hope you found it helpful and insightful! Blessings,

@lorimiller4301 2 года назад

Hard to be concise and polished when you're not reading from a script I imagine. I personally think the important part of this type of video is the sharing of raw emotion. Hard to be open and edit yourself at the same time. No wonder Toastmasters is a thing. Editing will make a huge difference but in the meantime the listener can always increase the playback speed.