listen to the Most Powerful Meditation for Attracting a Relationship (Attract Love Meditation): ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-urLm5MfM1Tw.html
The 🥕 carrot on a stick was said about me about 25 year's ago by a few people. Funny Aaron mention's that...... 1 was the father of my 2 children......YOURE SO NEEDY DANGLING A CARROT! HELP ME! HELP ME! Is this why homeless never get anywhere?Are they the Leper's of the past? Aaron your Video's are alway's good! The spiritual realm shouldn't be like how you describe because it's so unfair to the victim's who are in much need of no fault of their own! This world is backward's to not help out the people who need helped out the most! I'm curious when Aaron Doughty loved himself for the 1st time? Was it when he was away from his stepmom? Eventhough he met other ABUSER'S just like her ..........Aaron got away from his 1st abuser or else he never could of progressed. I'm infuriated with my circumstances that I did NOT cause in any way! I'm a 51 year old victim telling the truth. Yeah I'm boring have nothing & know the most annoying people who happen to be like Aaron's stepmom! AWE!!!!!!!! Why? I never asked for these people to lie to say I need so much help? When they're the ones who are super negative & lie SO MUCH about my situation! I wonder why when you try to instagram a U-TUBER They're not real & tell you to Cause Aaron's so positive.....erase that top sentence & I have to say Aaron's true positivity has really kept me SANE from the ABUSER'S I unfortunately know! Well Thank God for Aaron a positive U-tuber 🤣😂😅😆😁😄😃😀🤣😂He does many people good!🤣😂😅😆😁😄😃😀🤣😂😅😆😁
I have mastered the art of LETTING GO, when I learnt that I have ALL WITHIN ME! I don't need to depend on outside situations and people to feel good and complete. All I need is me ❤💯
How did you master letting go? At times I feel like I'm getting better but then things like manifesting love for instance makes me doubt that I am. Ugh, I'm at just an imbalance!
@@sydasipah4170 Hi, I wanted to respond to Angelina's lovely post and I saw yours, perhaps I can help. a couple things that help me learn to let go are practicing presence which I designed a whole program around and working with affirmations / self-programming techniques. Society programs us with the belief we "Need"..or "can't let go" but we have the power to counter it and consciously reprogram our subconscious, that part of the mind which tells us how to feel and think in every conceivable situation in life, to achieve different results. The subconscious runs on programs. we can't just will change of responses to the world around us. We have to substitute negative programs for positive conscious ones IMHO
@@jessiezhou5759 If you rlly believe that you already have something then you will act like you rlly have that at the first place and your's energy would not block that when you will received that - correct me if I'm wrong
Indeed, you must first be that person that others are attracted to. Be such a dope soul that people crave your vibes. Acceptance and Letting Go are life altering lessons 🖖
@Gehn Saavedro let us all live in peace not making threats neither verbal nor by using other people for hating, spreading fear and be grateful what we have...being a kid should never be so dark ..we both know the truth .. 🙏✌️❤️p.s.I am speaking from my personal experience and can not deal any longer with someone's else's ego ..
Because "wanting means lacking". When we want love desperately, there is a thing called needy. That's always perfect reminder Aaron gives. Thank you so so much.
Whoever is reading this... Remember! You deserve love. You already loved. I know you have that love inside. Maybe you haven't found it yet, but don't look for this love in somebody else. The main source of love is you! Remember it, care about yourself, love youself💙💙💙💙💙💙
No problem sharing love you know the thing is love is scaers nowadays because people chase materialistic things more then love so it's obvious love is scaers so loving yourself so it just makes sense.
@@lifeisagameofknowingyourro6327 That's true. People more often try to find that love in things. Gagets, clothes, even in coments and likes. That's why loving youself helps not to lose youself in all those things)
@@DeliaLaven yeah but I think honesty and self worth plays a role here if u know your self worth or if u r honest with yourself loving and letting go becomes easy, some people think if they force or try to get something from someone thy will get their love, I think that's delusional because all u need is confidence to look for that person and believe in yourself enough to ask the person out if he or she says no that's fine the is a plenty of fish in the sea period.
“The best thing you can do for the person you love is to learn how to love yourself” “When you get addicted to another person, you stop growing” “You don’t need someone to complete you. You only need someone to accept you completely”
It’s true. I did your meditation for attracting love, and now I’m in a happy relationship for 10 months and counting. Thank you very much, Aaron. Much love.
Opening my heart chakra started with a loving kindness meditation where I gave unconditional love to myself and my past self. Then I extended it to my parents and family and then to my friends and community then finally to the rest of the world. Highly recommend taking the time to validate and love yourself first so you extend it to all those around you.
Release control. Have faith. Believe. Relax. Enjoy your life. Give it to God. Be in a place of being okay if does or doesn't happen. You will be where you want to be. ❤❤
Yes Aaron! Law of attraction is about realizing that you don't even need the thing that you're trying to "manifest." What's the point of a million bucks if I already feel like a million bucks? Great stuff!
I remember when I had barely any love for myself and the relationships I attracted where awful. But as I felt unworthy I also didn't want to give up the relationship as that's what I felt I deserved. When I did my inner work and focused on being the best version of me, I learned to love myself ( the most amazing feeling) and brought in the most amazing relationship, when I didn't even need it anymore as I already had all that love inside. The secret to getting your perfect man/woman, is within yourself, it truly is!
This is so key and it’s important to feel worthy and complete before continually trying to visualise or repeat affirmations otherwise your own subconscious will be cancelling out that process no matter how sincere or disciplined you are
When you are also dreaming most of the time the things that you see on your dreams, including other people, is also just a reflection of you. There's no other people. There's no outside. Only inside.
My mother was never emotionally available even until today.... I am aware now and healing myself. Your videos are great Aaron. They’re very down to earth. Thank you very much ✨
You are totally right about this. I have given up on all of it. I am concentrating on my writing and my family. I am spending time with my real friends and family. I don't care anymore about anybody else. Everything is changing and we don't need another person in higher realms anyway. I feel complete. I can create entire stories to write in my mind. I have tons of people in my head. I don't need one person other than my own friends and family. I hope everybody else understands that too. Go to your art, music, writing, or just whatever you enjoy doing in your spare time and you will feel whole and happy. True story!
Hi! I don't read the bible but I came across this short phrase that helps me. "As within,so without" . That says it so simply! Thanks for all your help! 🙏💞
Very true. Being too needy is not attractive. The vibration is low. I notice this now with people who give me too much energy. It feels uncomfortable. Right, it's best to just feel relaxed. ...Believe you have received and it shall be given.
Every time you explain this concept it become more and more clear. It's like a muscle you have to work out. Slowly the new habits and thought patterns are building. The first time I heard this concept I thought of it as "play hard to get" but now I think of it as more natural and not a game at all. Just very natural to be at peace with yourself. Not that I would refuse love if it came, but I really do not need it to continue my path. I'm doing pretty well on my own and have proven to myself that I am more than capable of providing the things I once thought could only come from another. I appreciate your videos Aaron.
You really woke me with thus video after being married for 8 years and being with the same person for ten years. I have been weak for years about myself and pushed that on my wife. But after watching my video has helped me so much. And thank u
I'm divorced, single mom of 6 kiddos...I pretty much just gave up LOL...but seriously, I'm focused on healing and navigating my spiritual journey and I know that my perfect mate will come into my life at just the right time.
As soon as I saw the title my first initial thought was that "wanting" to find love could mean you're wanting it to make yourself feel happy and not because you're wanting to give love out to someone else. It's like wanting to make yourself whole by using another person when in reality, you need to love yourself in order to love others. Great video!
This is incredible, alot of what Aaron's talking about can happen subconsciously, so its good if we can be aware so we can observe our emotions rather than be prisoners of them
ohhh Aaron, like you there's been so many times where I've really wanted something - not just with love/a person but literally anything - and AS SOON AS I let go of that desire, it magically appeared. The Universe knows when you’re able to surrender (and it will gift you for it, truly!!!)
@Gehn Saavedro the universe does love you without condition. it is our illusion that we must control everything which stops us from seeing this love flow into our lives naturally and effortlessly.
Beautiful song from The Beatles... Let It Be...let it be...😅 Let it bee 🐝 This reason why I don't want to go into relationship.🙂 I feel enjoying best myself alone.😇👍🏻🙏🏻❤ True your words!
We have collectively bought into the idea of separation and that we need outside validation to be worthy. In actuality love radiates inside all of us, we just need to find what blocks us from experiencing that, and then share it with each other. Massive paradigm shift is happening, guys💕
Love is the greatest gift we are all blessed to have .everything we are the fighter and warrior the protector are strength and knowledge are healer are heath and courage are spirit. Love is everything and all things it's the voice within us that lets us know we are all beautiful in our own ways but together in everyway.... Love is everywere but we allow are selves to be blind to eat because we don't see one another for who we are we only see each other for what we have and don't have ... Love is every were but it can't be bought or sold or be seen it can only be felt ... But it is everywhere cause it is everything
I can confirm that when I feel (and yes most women will feel this instantly 😄) that somebody is trying to get me or something form me - I will run or turn into my "avoidant" asap. Just think about this - if you're chasing someone, how can you expect them to relax and surrender into the union? : Speaking from a feminine side - women are "looking" for a partner that they know can fully take care of themselves plus have her back, not drain her (this for sure goes both ways).
@Gehn Saavedro you do that through putting out the energy that attracts (think as a magnet of it). Yes, I agree - both the men who chase and the passive women is the old broken paradigm. That's why we have to raise our Consciousness now and understand both sides have to be whole and complete to create 5D relationships :)
When a woman's womb is really relaxed and open, her feminine fluids tend to flow. It's something that she can feel quite readily. In that fluid state, her emotions tend to be more fluid, her heart more open to loving all others in an organic flow of life. It's not really about wanting or not wanting and it's certainly not about manipulation of any kind. All of that is mental and relationship is sacred...or should I say sacral? Love is the most beautiful thing in the world and I am lucky to know it, to share it and live it, more and more every single day.
You can't stop wanting things if the desires are based on core needs and we are dependent on others but the crucial thing energetically is to create abundance around feeling empowered to meet those needs through others not to pretend we don't have them
What needs do we have from others apart ourselves? I think he said everything is within I'm fine with that because that means I'm not dependent on some to love me or hate me i just kinda give myself love and go with the flow that 💯
To you all listening to this... abundance is your name...You're the express Image of God. You lack and miss nothing. Contentment is your name. You're the overflow of unconditional love
I was out hiking today, beautiful and warm in the Catskills of NY and when I got to the top of the mountain I meditated for a while and got such a message from my child-self about something I experienced that age which was at the core of my own neediness and self-sabotage so as always amazing synchronicity watching these videos. Spirit always guides me to the right ones and so often it's Aaron. That neediness to find someone I haven't had in a good while though. I 'm in such high vibes now and living and working alone....couldn't be happier really....so I know a new and amazing relationship is coming that matches the frequency of the love I feel within which is Spirit.
Love is sweet, love is life, love is amazing, don't give up on someone you love because love never dies; there's still assurance for you. I can recommend you to the spell doctor who help me restore my relationship
Love this! And the trick with this is to not want attracting love to be the outcome! Don’t want to let go because you know it will attract your desires, that is still a level of resistance - let go and fill up your own cup because it feels good! Have a blessed day 🥰
Yes I understand some people find it difficult and it took me practice to get my mind to a point where it doesn’t control me anymore and I can distinguish my mind from my higher self! Just don’t give up on allowing yourself to let go, anything is possible when we believe it is! ☺️
@@hettyeleanor111 i personally think ego death helped me if u go beyond the mind the is no going back it's kinda peaceful in that internal space that's if you r happy within
It comes unexpected you have to let go of fear and do the things you never done before. Forgive the past and move on. Know your worth be more kind but don't have to allow everyone in. You have to let go all the insecurity and things that bother you.
Thank you Aaron, a great reminder of so many things, I will dig deeper and will watch more of your videos and others. I have to break the pattern once and for all.
It's simple if you let go of that need to be love and it your cup is full,that person you want will come about easily trust me forcing people to love you is not fun I tried it once it's terrible.
@@lifeisagameofknowingyourro6327 what the point in being with someone if you are not in love, or have romantic feelings.. Love is about sharing those emotions 😂 i can be all by myself and be cold and detached.. Also I can have a healthy relationship with myself and still want love to be passionate..
@@licnitarot you don't get it,number you simply don't just be with someone for love,Making jokes and all that kind of stuff and having fun with the person is good enough,kissing and sex is more of merraige thing God said decided not me,And second of all Emotions r never stable one time it's high the next thing u know you r pissed off about an cold day u see that's what the human nature is but meditation Can help you understand emotions better and under line it as if u r not them emotions because you r not however the thing is you can be happy alone I have done it,You cannot be emotionally attach to a person nowadays because people can't be trust,sure you love and have sex with the person that's great but you must have boundaries and I tell you that other people have enough boundaries so what Is love? Is it a need or want ? This is your home work 💯
I think what the video is saying is if you want to attract a relationship, do it from a feeling of strength and not weakness. Believe you already have what you need. The relationships or love that we 'want' are just a part of our experience, but they do not make us who we are. Chasing a person is a turnoff. Being and acting needy is a turnoff. Being confident in who you are, with or without what you want, is attractive.
@@teeahtate Loving relationships require us to give ourselfs, and if you dont need or miss the person you love, do you really love them... Its ok to do all of that when you are with someone who doesnt love you back or doesnt want to be with you.. But when its not the case, its more about giving and taking, and not that much about protecting yourself all the time..
This was a great video on how to become. “The outside is not real... It’s a reflection of the inside... Be a full cup. Wanting is Lacking.” Wanting is lacking, you must be. :)
Dude, RU-vid stoped recommending me this channel even when I am still subscribed ಠ_ಠ. Thankfully, I found Aaron’s comment in a Jordan Peterson interview and remembered this channel haha
The example of the guy not planning on calling the girls shook me. He doesn’t seem to deserve a platform. Of course I could be wrong but maybe he was exploiting the lack in the girls.
The meditation Aaron talks about attracted the greatest love I’ve ever known. Started listening to it in August and met my bf in September and he’s everything I’ve ever wanted!
I was thinking the same thing. Why would you want to be in a relationship if you have not the 'want' in you? And why would you value it if you do not 'want' it.
That used to happen to me all the time, I would be all like UGh WHY ME WHY AM I SINGLE, then when I would enjoy my alone time and my vibe in solitude I would get all this unwanted attention. This is great. I love your videos and Ive been participating in your 21 raise your vibration, always say what I need to hear. Much love. xo