When you learn the truth about 'crazy' or emotional women, two critical things will change: First, you'll like women more than you do now and second, you won't feel so threatened by their moods anymore. Relationships fail because one or both partners feels misunderstood, attacked or alone. By understanding the opposite sex a little more, you can create healthier, happier and more resilient relationships.
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Let’s not skirt around the issue. Women can be emotional. Sometimes when we’re emotional we act ‘crazy’, which is just another way of saying ‘unreasonable’ ‘irrational’ or ‘without logic’.
And our crazy drives men crazy.
But as much as I know you don’t want to get hurt again, I also know that you don’t want to be alone. If you did, you probably wouldn’t have bothered with this video.
Here’s the thing - women don’t want to be unreasonable. In fact, if we’re acting irrationally, we usually know it, and we’d like to change it.
In fact, most women are incredibly skillful at controlling their emotions. If you’re divorced like many of my clients you may know this well - often women are so good at masking what they really feel that their husbands are completely blindsided by the divorce.
And often those same women appear ‘totally happy’ immediately after the divorce, leading their ex husbands to wonder if they are completely heartless, unemotional beings incapable of love.
How is it that women can seem both too emotional and too unemotional?
This apparent contradiction is not something inherent, that women are born with.
It is an adaptation to the contradictory expectations that modern society puts on women.
15 апр 2023