Why Women Act "Crazy" | Emotional Volatility In Relationships

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When you learn the truth about 'crazy' or emotional women, two critical things will change: First, you'll like women more than you do now and second, you won't feel so threatened by their moods anymore. Relationships fail because one or both partners feels misunderstood, attacked or alone. By understanding the opposite sex a little more, you can create healthier, happier and more resilient relationships.
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Let’s not skirt around the issue. Women can be emotional. Sometimes when we’re emotional we act ‘crazy’, which is just another way of saying ‘unreasonable’ ‘irrational’ or ‘without logic’.
And our crazy drives men crazy.
But as much as I know you don’t want to get hurt again, I also know that you don’t want to be alone. If you did, you probably wouldn’t have bothered with this video.
Here’s the thing - women don’t want to be unreasonable. In fact, if we’re acting irrationally, we usually know it, and we’d like to change it.
In fact, most women are incredibly skillful at controlling their emotions. If you’re divorced like many of my clients you may know this well - often women are so good at masking what they really feel that their husbands are completely blindsided by the divorce.
And often those same women appear ‘totally happy’ immediately after the divorce, leading their ex husbands to wonder if they are completely heartless, unemotional beings incapable of love.
How is it that women can seem both too emotional and too unemotional?
This apparent contradiction is not something inherent, that women are born with.
It is an adaptation to the contradictory expectations that modern society puts on women.

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@rrmackay 4 месяца назад

No, sorry but being emotional is no excuse for acting crazy and having no integrity. I don't mind a womans emotions but when she starts to lash out and attack the men in her life justified by her emotions, telling lies, making accusations because she feels hurt inside there is zero tolerance for that. The #1 way men go to jail is because of toxic crazy emotional women. Its just not worth it.

@tomfarr1969 Год назад

Throw any excuse you want on it. Just go be crazy somewhere else.

@DUNEATV Год назад

You ladies have no idea what you want in life from literally one minute to the next. That would cause anybody to go crazy.

@agreetodisagree4751 Год назад

We want respect. It's not all about you being a hero and saving us, even though that is very much appreciated. You see, we actually think and know quite a lot. But if we show you something you don't know, you want to destroy us. Oh, and we don't like to be called crazy, because that means that anything we said before or after that gets noise-cancelling. However, it is understandable that you are probably here watching this video because the one you are in love with is very beautiful.

@DUNEATV Год назад

@@agreetodisagree4751 You are correct..Men want a loyal woman who can support herself financially and can have a strong sexual connection (true attraction). Women are wayyyyyy more complicated!

@hman2912 Год назад

Can't just paint a whole group of people with a broad brush like that 😅 . That statement is probably true of some, not all. Plus, it definitely applies to me at times, and I'm male.

@KatieLHall-fy1hw Год назад

@@agreetodisagree4751seems like another weird way of “might makes right”. Strength equals smarter, strength equals more risk-more reward (sometimes), strength equals bending others to your will in one way or another. It’s sucks but it’s how it is and how it will always be

@anthonyharmon9265 7 месяцев назад

@@agreetodisagree4751respect?? 😂 thats funny....you man haters are all the same lol. So typical. Did your daddy not love you enough 😢

@sameerroshan9542 Месяц назад

its not emotional suppression, its emotional control. its to know that we are not the victim of our emotions but generator of them!

@markabarca5520 Год назад

This was incredible insight rachael. I'm wondering do you have a reading list for men to learn more about these dynamics? I think it would be incredibly helpful for myself and other men that just want to understand.

@sarahwatkins4005 Год назад

Dr. John Gray's Beyond Mars & Venus as noted above in another comment is a great resource.

@stevenzaban Год назад

You've nailed it brilliantly, totally! Thanx for the much needed insights. I feel better.

@mymichiganmittens Год назад

You didn't talk about imbalances in our hormones. I would recommend Dr John Gray videos to these couples. It's caused by a hormone imbalance due to the fact that we are too far on the opposite side today. Women are too far on their male side, men are too far on their female side. This messes up hormones. For women to get back on their soft feminine side, it takes time and communication. Dr John Gray's Beyond Mars and Venus book and podcasts discuss biological reasons and science for what is happening. Please look him up. 🙏🌷

@michaelvan-vn9ku Год назад

Well, I know this is the case, feminine men and masculine women around us. I will have a look at what Dr Gray thinks...cheers

@jhvuvnik65s24 4 месяца назад

I have no doubt that all of this is accurate, but I just can't handle it. As a guy in my twenties and thirties, I used to think that I was just bad at picking women. As a guy at my late forties now, I have come to realize that the women I have shared.My life with were not all crazy, they were just women, and I don't really like women outside of short term relationships. The stress they bring to my life just isn't worth it anymore. Add to this, age appropriate women for guys like myself are at their crazy peak just before menopause. The PMS a lot of women start to experience in their 40's is more intense and lasts twice as long as it does in their 20's and 30's. I mean, who wants to cohabitate with someone that could go off like a nuclear bomb ten days out of a month. You really have to love a woman to be able to deal with that, and that type of love is not something i've been capable of since my twenties. I'm good with being single and just having a booty call. When I get too old to pull women, I'll probably just pay for it. 😅

@BK-lb8uh Год назад

Hello Rachael, according to various studies, the most common causes of divorce: 1. Lack of commitment 2. Infidelity or extramarital affairs 3. Too much conflict and arguing 4. Lack of physical intimacy Since # 2 is non negotiable. How do you bridge the gap #1, 3, & 4? What triggers her to be emotional out of 1, 3, & 4? This is complex. How do you negotiate lack of commitment? It takes the two parties to have a common goal. If she is not committed, then you cannot force her.

@cliffengle Год назад

1, 3, and 4 all occur once number 2 happens. Period, full stop

@user-bd1yp2lf7j Месяц назад

@@cliffenglegreat observation my my good sir, these creatures are only loyal to their feelings

@rrmackay 4 месяца назад

mens emotional suppression is self-preservation, as my 3 boys went through puberyt it was my job to teach them how to handle their emotions, I have always described it as: Suppress and ignore your first emotional response and wait for the second - because when you are riding high on testosterone your first response is to be violent. Prisons are full of men who never learned to suppress their first response.

@michaelvan-vn9ku Год назад

Basically, you never know what they think, feel or wether you are being manipulated...btw...aren't we all equal? Why don't we get educated on this when we are young ?

@DM-fj1qp 15 дней назад

Good God. Relationships with women are way too much trouble

@mw1606 Год назад

Yea, I don't know how long I have been watching your videos, but this is top 3 for sure. On a prior video I suggested that the video was supposed to be trying to humanizing women, but failed. This actually did accomplish humanizing women in a way that is understandable and relatable.

@alisonf6478 Год назад

Um, why do we need to be “humanized”? We are humans.

@multiverse-UFO 3 месяца назад

From an evolutionary perspective, this is what's complex. The "craze" would let people walk away are reduce the chance of survival, but such emotion has remained (unlike tails) throughout thousands of generations. This is another proof, among many others, that humans were created by imperfect beings.

@omowhanre Год назад

I’m really impressed by the few comments of men who seem to WANT to understand. Of course there’s always the defeated hurt person who wants to throw up negativity on even the most basic of information.

@michaelvan-vn9ku Год назад

It is not about understanding but dealing with or accepting the way it probably will be... unicorns don't exist as we are being told in the manosphere nevertheless I have seen a few exceptions...