I was waiting for this comment. Women give terrible advice lmao. I see so many in relationships that WISH their man would just spend more time with them, unaware that he is busting his azz to provide such a quality life. The level of solipsism is scary
Women need validation from other men. Look at this chick. She’s hoping some simp will say “you go girl.” Guys, if you flat out don’t care, you’ll be way more attractive to women. But then again, you don’t care.
@@quadcoregt1946 my wife got mad at me the other day for working on my corporate finance class work lol she gets it now, but was mad because I didn't talk to her about it. I just dove into it.
@@praetorian3902 Thank you. I'm not trying to be all racist or that but sometimes when I watch these kind of videos I wonder, are most women really like this? Or... where do y'all live? I feel most of this shit happens only in America
@@ElsyOO366 It's mostly in America and the UK. Mostly. Outside of these girls are normal people on average. You can have a loving relationship with them. However every single country on the planet has its gold diggers and insufferable women and men (it's nothing new, it's been like that for tens of thousands of years). Loveless people basically. But I believe a good portion of girls outside of US & UK want to find love.
I've raised in a masculine environment and I found out nowadays dating style is very weird. However she's 100% right and I like this channel. Recommended
As with all advice, its only useful if you know how it applies to you. And it helps if the adviser has already worked through the problem on their own and can offer tailored guidance
Absolutely! It's sad how many guys I've seen try to fight for a girl that's less loyal than their granny was in the 50's. Modern western women are not worth it anymore. This is why many guys are flying out to Asia and Latin America to find a nice god fearing traditional girl.
We have to bring America back to Christian values and stop giving money to corporations that only provide men with shit jobs and shit income. Once the man couldn't truly provide anymore society has gone down hill and more and more women are taking the good jobs. This is a recipe for disaster and only more crime and mass shootings.
Normally you are right but in this case everything she said is 100% true. Do not seek validation from you women and never let her see your jealousy. If she’s cheating the truth will come don’t worry about it and do not snoop around her phone. Regular trips to McDonald’s will bore her you need to make life exciting for her so she resembles and exciting life with being with you. Be Fun Don’t show ANY of your insecurities Don’t let a women walk all over you
True, put down ur penis and start using brain. Women always manipulate and tell milion things what YOU must do, they think they are perfect walking queens.
@@dexter-wy5bo , fish don't talk to each other the way humans do. Before you bring it up - Dolphins are mammals, so are Orcas. Octopus kind are cephalopods. And any rare Cthulhu fish you bring up that can beat ChatGPT in an afternoon is not fished by humans as a dietary source.
Honestly as girl. We do not claim her lmfao If a girl loves you, and I mean LOVES you, she will love going to macdonalds with you just bc she loves spending time with you If she doesn’t wanna go to macdonalds with you, she wasn’t the one anyway
I don't think that's the point. She didn't say "a man who goes to McDonalds is bad." She said a man who ONLY goes to McDonalds and has no drive for a better life is bad. It's the bigger picture about a man who settles early and doesn't try to have a better life - most people want their life to progress and become better as they get older.
@@TraxisOnTheLinesits not about "getting better" its purely material. if you got a big house and a fat paycheck, she'll be fine going to mcdonalds everyday with you.
@@TraxisOnTheLines well many men and women have decades long relationships like that. The man does basically the same work for over 30 years at the same company, they have enough food on the table and go on holiday 1 or 2 times a year. But they are both still happy with their boring lives.
Don't forget men, you have to be the absolute best version of yourself, and never show an ounce of weakness, and a woman has to bring nothing to the table except her used up hole.
First off no man is Fucking weak. The flaw in week men comes honestly from the moms, and I can Kind-of blame schools for this but I'm not going to put it all on schools where they teach us that corrupt mindset of don't hit women when granted alot of women now and days are more then just Fighters, they can, as well as are Female Hitters. Talk to them with fully respect, Where they can say 20 Different Disrespectful things to a man or more. And it gets to a point, some men really catch on to that.
Yep I remember once I reached the finish line, but instead of going with the women waiting there. I passed the finish line and flipped them off and kept going. I don’t date at the finish line. You either are with me in my struggles or you don’t get me at my best, but I didn’t end up alone I ended up marrying into a wealthy Korean family, and me and my wife are building our life together here in Korea.
@@aingeal3986just say you are less than human and move on. We get it, not only are you sexist, but you think emasculating men by promoting your homophobia is somehow an example of their character. Your speech and actions speak volumes. Be demonic then. You are already
Women like this is why I'd rather stay single, every women I've dated has stressed me out so much that I had grey hairs by 17. Now that I only date people that I really connect with, my mental and physical health has gone up so much, so to all men reading this, don't let women control your dating life, take it at your own pace, and you will find someone who loves you as much as you love them. Edit: this goes for everyone, not just men.
Yeah, no one talks about it but we all assume - men and women - that if you're not dating as a man you're trying your best to find anyone that'll go out with you, and failing. If these types of women (generous term for this toxic human) are an industry, then they're all 100% dependent on that presumption that we're all collectively desperate for them, and that there's no chance of them being alone against their will. I wish we could convince all men to just hold the line and never call someone this shallow their 'girlfriend', but that's unrealistic
This. Words are cheap, actions speak louder than words. I'd like to see her Tinder swipes. Men are natural problem solvers, you don't think men have tried everything under the sun within the past 20 years about dating? We know the truth.
She is right it isn't top 5%, it's just the top 20% of physical attractiveness, literally nothing else is relevant unless it is in an exceptional extreme. Women will percieve anything an ugly man does as weakness and reject them for it. If an ugly man saves her from a mugging, she will consider that an act of weakness. Conversely, if a good looking man flees at the sight of a spider, it will just make him a big softy at heart and lovable for it. All that matters is how you look, nothing else.
Honestly it's probably less than the top 5%. Women absolutely hold height against a guy. And if you don't have a 6-pack then you're considered fat these days.
Too bad that's not what she said. Too bad once you make it to Thailand, you're still not going to find a trad wife, because trad wives actually like attractive men too.
Even people outside US are saying , go passaport bros.. just abandon that sinking ship. only thing what would fix the entitlement of american women would be a world war... would maybe bring them back to reality how nature works rofl . A lot of leftover women in america, according to current data, by 2030, 50% of women in america unmarried and childless... can you spell L O S E R S :D
That's it...work ethic, cause we all know modern wahmen get wet over a man's work ethic. Be a hard-working carpenter making $45k a year. Yeah, that'll turn her on. 🙄😒 Don't take advice from specimens that run on their fee-fees.
@@nathanknight6042 it’s all about how you carry yourself. But it’s a helluva lot easier to carry yourself like “that dude” when you are that dude & have the resources. Hell I know firefighters & tradesmen that flat out pull women, however they are pretty good looking dudes (no homo) so it’s not really a fair assessment.
As a women I feel men protect the things they love and are naturally territorial so if like a guy hit on me or said something inappropriate in-front of you and you’d said nothing I’d feel that you don’t care about me but that’s just me 🤷🏽♀️lol
@@joimonae4090 Defending women and getting jealous are not the same thing. Jealousy is an insecurity. However, if I notice the gal I'm with showing any kind of uncomfortable mannerism or body language I will immediately come to investigate. For example, we were at a pool party and a couple of guys were chatting with my date on the other side of the pool. I was about 30 feet away, couldn't hear what they were saying, but she looked uncomfortable, so I was there within 2 seconds to see what was going on. Turns out they were threatening to throw her in the pool. The guys apologized, claimed they were only joking, and left. But if she decided she wanted to go off and hang with those 2 guys I would of let her. If she doesn't want to be with me I have much better things to do with my time than to be with her is my attitude.
@@HateDietPepsi yeah i agree i never said jealous but as long as i feel protected i feel secure and loved by a man but if i don't feel protected then i don't feel loved like i said men protect those who he loves period
Me and my few remaining single pals chat about women frequently. A frequent theme that comes up in conversation is: “What do they bring to the table exactly? Besides their lists of demands.”
They bring the hole, which you and your pals are desperate for, otherwise, you wouldn't talk about women all the time. Women are not desperate for sx like men, so they are entitled to have a list of demands. When you will stop giving a sht about women, then you can ask what they bring to the table in order for you to care about them.
Interesting that women actually do love to validate their female friends, their children, their coworkers, and just about everyone else in their life except their boyfriend/partner, etc. This is one of the reasons why more and more men are just walking away from relationships like this all together. Every human being on the planet benefits from some validation
Thats kinda true tho like most women always say to their fat friend jow pretty they are how their friends who failed an exam is still smart but they dont really do much of this for men
Honestly as girl. We do not claim her lmfao If a girl loves you, and I mean LOVES you, she will love going to macdonalds with you just bc she loves spending time with you If she doesn’t wanna go to macdonalds with you, she wasn’t the one anyway
Such a bunch of rules. Do this but don't do that, be like this but don't be like that. Ugh no, who got time for that shit. My dogs love me just the way I am.
The first rule of guys dating modern women. Women are never truly single ever. The second rule of dating modern women. Never ever go to a woman for dating advice. No woman has a fucking clue what they really want.
People use the fish analogy a lot, but I think they're just overthinking a problem they have no hope of solving, because they think the obvious answer is too obvious so it must be something else. They think men are bank vaults when in reality they're 2 sided rubix puzzles. If you can cook and are generally pleasant to be around or not obnoxious, you win. Likewise, guys, just get a decent job you can progress in, have pride in your appearance, and smell nice, and you're on your way to a good life.
Been on semen retention for a year now. I don't care about women. They all want me, but my emotions are numb, so the feeling isn't mutual. They see it as confidence, when really I don't even feel confident, like I don't feel anything else. I only think with logic. And logic tells me yall ain't worth it.
This is all true. Yet so many guys are playing victim in the comments and preferring to ‘do nothing because looks are the only thing that matters’. This is completely false. Looks is not a necessity for women when looking for a mate, but it is for men. So I think men who say this don’t understand that the traits men and women look for a different.
Same here. But I'm still convinced that Ana Armas and a bevy of her attractive friends will knock on my door one day and they'll all fall in love with me. Just because.
@@JacoWium that was my thing i was lonely but wasn’t doing nothing about it. So I took action I was already in the gym had to improve my social skills Good sleep for energy and on. My way
" A woman doesn't want to do the validating".........she got that right. Women want men to be more sensitive, but when men show sensitivity, women call them weak. Just another example of why women are never happy.......
@@dianabalan men can’t show weakness. Only women and children are allowed to be weak. If a man loses an arm he’s still expected to lead and provide. I believe it’s time to tell women the free rides over. If you don’t care about what we men want and think your shit don’t stink then stay single.
@@SpobeY0543 a wii uprising! Wow. I know its a good game console, but if it takes over like it did back in 2007 i will be stoked! Thanks for the assurances, my totally-not misogynistic friend!
How you gonna expect a woman to be attracted to you / love you when you dont even love yourself ?? Woman pick up on confidence, so you can start with your attitude. Love and relationships arent free and require desirability on both sides. If you bring nothing to the table except for self loathing and pitty, who tf gonna want to be with you ? Believe me you can pull far more woman with a personality and sense of humor than you can with good looks.... Good looks only gets you so far. Good looks alone will get you lots of first dates. Nothing more Personality alone will give you everything. Everyone wants to be around you esp woman when you make them laugh and smile
It aint even about the women, we as men are most happy when we have a purpose and drive towards things in life... so you'll just be worse off with that mentally
@@Kieranerrington he’s just saying he doesn’t want to add the extra on top of the passion and drive he already has, in which he works for, that tires him already.
If that were actually analogy then it might relevant. Too bad its not. If you can't grasp how its not an analogy, well, your lack of intelligence might be part of the reason you're single.
Women who want a good guy need to 1. Stop posting half naked photos of yourself 2. Stop Letting your single friends get involved in your relationship 3. Say simple things like I'm proud of you or that I see you working hard and I love you OR let's work this issue out. We are simple creatures to please.
Don't kid yourself. By "good guy" they mean a 9/10 Chad. They could easily date an average looking man, but would never allow themselves to do that, even if they're average themselves.
I was single lonely and depressed, every girlfriend I’ve had has needed constant validation. I have to talk to her for hours a day or she’ll think I’m cheating I’ve given up at this point. I receive no joy from hearing her talk about Taylor swift constantly but I can’t decide if this is preferable to being alone.
She's right though? Particularly about the validation part even if it might be a rough realization for some. Most women can easily sense desperation. I know I've been turned off from some women in the past because of it (and I'm willing to bet turned a couple of away myself). For some the reason might be vain, such as enjoying "the chase" and trying to get someone they view as socially desirable. But in the end, everyone also wants someone with their life together. Desperation, and more specifically a need for validation which is common among many struggling guys, signals that you lack that. You're looking to love to try to fix or distract you from other problems in your life. People don't want to be used as a crutch for someone else's happiness. They've got enough shit to deal with on their own
I'm 6'3 and my problem is that I'm married already... The biggest tip I can give is to be comfortable in your own skin, stop trying to peacock, your car doesn't represent you, your job doesn't represent you... I got so many women throwing themselves at me because I was saving myself for marriage. Drove drunk women back to their house safely and generally was just a good guy, because I have values and wasn't an easy prey... Women want a hunt too!
Hahah this is so damn true :D thats why 'bad boys' are most desireable, but still after all these years there are women that cant get that. Bad boy really dont care, thats why he beats her and treat like shit.
I have proven this true with many women 💯 They are ruled by emotions, so ignoring them triggers a natural built in instinct for them to seek validation from you.... usually it's because of Daddy issues as a kid. The unfortunate thing about dating if you're a deep thinker and hopeless romantic like myself .....Is you often wanna put off the exact opposite impression of that ......and when talking about what women want ..... basically go for the OPPOSITE of everything they say , because they don't know what they want , because that's ruled impulsively by them.....What they TELL YOU they want , is simply the script of what society tells them they should want logically. So as I started to say ....If you're deep down a hopeless romantic like me , nowadays they are looking for the exact opposite , "a savage" And it just feels like so much game playin' and posturing to ever really feel secure in just loving them and 100% being yourself..... Because when they are actually genuinely loved....they interpret that as you being a "simp" it's looked at as a weakness , or desperation. This is why women just jump from guy to guy , that's why divorce rates are around 50% ... because most women have been taught to have so many shallow narcissistic qualities , they can never actually have a healthy , functional relationship that sustains itself.
Switching even to slightly different category of women changes everything dramatically. Don't chase these attention addicts and careerist psychos: you'll never be enough good for them anyways
Translating for all of you cynics that completely missed her point: stop trying to get women to like you. Go find your purpose in life, and take care of yourself. Treat finding a woman like it's the DLC, not the fucking main questline.
I’m 47. I’ve seen the older, the younger, and women the same age as me all looking for confident, arrogant men. They chase the confidence and receive the arrogance. They love the confidence and want to change the arrogance because they think they can. They can’t. So they either put up with it or get a divorce. I’ve watched this and I’ve concluded that most women aren’t worth the effort that a man has to give to receive them. The few that are worth it have already been snatched up. What’s left are the unattractive, broken, and miserable. At a certain age, singleness begins looking sweeter and sweeter. Sure, it would be nice to have a women’s love to keep you warm, but then there is the nagging. Sometimes a women’s breast can be the hardest rock God almighty ever made! If you are blessed to find a lady who is worth it, good for you! If you are blessed not to find one who is worth it, stay single and realize that it is still good for you!
Well spoken, sir. I am a 50 year old retired police officer. My pension is generous, and I have never been married or fathered children. I have always been comfortable flying solo, and I place great value on my independence. I enjoy female companionship as much as the next man; it’s everything required to get to that point that I find objectionable. For women, dating is like shopping. For men, it feels like a job interview.
Spot on .. I came out of a 9 years relationship at the age of 50 and all that's left is fat, ugly and poor women who hit the wall. If you find a nice woman she expects you to have a mansion waiting to give her your bank card .. I'm relatively wealthy and in good shape but I will never bow to these things you have to do to get a woman . I'll stay single and happy
Does she make a point? Yes or no. Because the problem with incels nowadays is that they never listen. As long as it's a woman talking, insult. And you wonder where modern day stemmed from
@ElsyOO366 *She said specifically "dinner at McDonald's won't cut it" meaning yall still expect to be spoiled at some fancy restaurant when this economy is trash and everyone's struggling 😒 you're exactly what's wrong with society 😂. No one said anything other than reacting BASED on what SHE SAID HERSELF, and you LAZILY call everyone who disagrees with her "Incels" maybe you just can't handle the truth 😂 if that's the case maybe you should find a NEW PLANET TO LIVE ON, CAUSE THIS IS PLANET EARTH and the truth is the truth no matter how hard you try and deflect the facts you're still probably just as entitled and SPOILED TO YOUR CORE AS SHE IS 😂😂😂 LMFAOOO!* *I feel sorry for you and I bet my LIFE you're single with no Boyfriend, this explains why 😂 👌 Best of luck to you and whatever incel falls for your Carrot Stringing UNGRATEFUL attitude 😉 😂!*
To my fellow men out there. Money can't buy love. Just remember that. Eat what you need to. Take your girl out occasionally. If she asks you to come to some kind of event, go. That's some solid advice I promise.
I'm sorry but the issue that many men are facing, including myself, is even getting a date in the first place, or even a text back. So this whole scenario is irellevant to the core of the problem. Although I'm aware how to solve my issue, I'm simply lazy and kind of held back by a low income
This is the secret epidemic hiding in plain sight that nobody wants to acknowledge. Men are not valued in the US. None are getting dates and have little reason to try anymore competing with top 5%
Don’t listen to a woman about what women want. Women don’t know what women want. Have a purposeful goal in your life and don’t be afraid of rejection, and you’ll be fine.
@@JimJones-kk8pb I will say the same thing to you.. Must suck being invisible in the dating market.... Keep coping by playing your videogames and watching red pill content
She can get away with a lot because of her looks. But I'm sure she doesn't care about looks, money and social status in men - it's much simpler than that folks! /s
@@MrRicardonz15I'm not really annoyed by her words, but just the trend of having those annoying letters placed on RU-vid Shorts. It's really distracting and I don't know why people insist on using them. There's captions for a reason.
Tbh coming from a woman the only things you need to attract a good partner are hygiene, a well thought out plan for the future, and the ability to talk through disagreements instead of nodding your head just to shut the other person up.
Coming from a guy that was that teenage romantic, I learned in the past few years that you just can’t take them seriously. There may be good ones out there but by the time you’re in your mid to late twenties like me your options for a wife are very limited even if you are attractive or have money. Then you just get more of who you don’t want. It’s very sad because I see tons of high quality guys struggling with women who just want to play games until they’re a single mom at 25, then they just get worse. It really is high time that men embrace their masculinity to the fullest and boycott the dating market but that won’t happen. All I can say is whatever you’re going through, if you’re frustrated, heartbroken, disillusioned, don’t let it jade you. You’re a man, you’ll be unappreciated, ridiculed, lampooned, and brushed aside, but you can take it, because deep down these females know they need you. Your silence will remind them of that. Stay strong.
Focus on your goals and drive. Focus on your hobbies and interests. Get to where you are happy without one then you'll have no issue dumping girls that don't match and waiting to find a plus. Still, always take your time, have options, and don't get whipped.
Yeah it sucks to be a romantic caring guy just to deal with all of these loveless hoes. There's no place for romance in this world anymore. These girls are cold hearted demons now.
Man you know what..I know your comment is 6 months old but I have to say your comment is the strongest best no truer words said to the point and the best comment o. Any social media responses I've read in a year!..Thank you whoever you are and may I have your permission to use that quote and post it as well on my instgram?
What exactly are these women actually bringing to a potential relationship? Buy this logic, these kinds of women aren't worth a man's time because he wouldn't need them for anything other than sex. Sex alone is not worth the effort of a relationship. The genders have never been more polarized. This modern era is absurd.
Billie: "A woman doesn't want to do the validating." Also Billie: "Are you still talking to other women because your girlfriend's validation still isn't enough?" Nope, no logical fallacies here.
the video is about why women aren’t attracted, yet talks about how guys are in relationships.. she skipped a step lmfao projection that women truly are never single
“Are you still talking to other women because your girlfriend’s validation isn’t enough?” is EXACTLY what women want in a man they can control. Men, if you don’t have options lined up, she can control you all she wants bc she has nothing to lose ALL THE WHILE she has all these dudes in her roster. Moment you step outta line, boop next! If she can have side hoes, so can you. Stay on yall grind kings
Not only that but a lot of other people are saying the exact opposite about that part. If what she is saying is true, why are so many women attracted to players? Women are attracted to the guy that has options. They would all rather compete with each other for 1 guy than having a mutually caring relationship with someone that is grateful to be with them. I call it the "my pussy tingle" effect because at the end of the day, women are just attracted to the person that makes their animal urges act up. There are no rational thoughts involved.
Just basically said this. Back when I was running through girls, most of them knew I was doing it, but I guess didn't care. Something about being able to pull multiple girls give you that confidence. And then the girls just come flocking. It's almost like the more girls you pull down, the more come to you, or the easier it is to pull more. I had 2 other friends who by the time they were 22-23 were well into the 70-90's on their body count. They said they weren't gonna give in and settle down until they hit at least 100. Idk if they ever did. But I think it's safe to assume they did. 🤷♂️
if your relationship is stable it shouldn’t be “well, if you have people to cheat with I can too!” it should just be out of the question on both sides. don’t stoop to that level just because they will.
Well if you are broke you make your life harder by bringing a kid in this world only to have to put him/her in already overcrowded underfunded public schools.
You dont need alot of money, you just need to be God, na nvm, even god doesn't meet their standards. But shes right, women hate weak men. Hell, men hate weak men too. Life isn't fair, get over it. We are not human beings, we are human doings. Be proud of it. Soon women will have to earn their own keep just like we do.
Remember guys, these rules only apply if she's dating someone she's not attracted to. My female friend told me herself how toxic her situationship is with this guy, how they always fought and how she even told him "if you wanna hit me, go ahead and hit me". Of course she always thinks about him because he's KiNd, CaRiNg,ChAreSmAtIc and CoNfIdEnT. It's totally not because of his looks, height or maybe even money idk.
I’m 56, divorced and living with Congestive Heart Failure. As bad as I feel physically some days that’s how good I feel mentally because for the first time in my life, I don’t give a crap what a woman says, thinks or does. I don’t care if she loves me hates me or whatever she feels, I am indifferent.
And you better give it to her cause of you don’t, she’ll only take it like you really are cheating on her. I just don’t like no one going through my phone. Not even my best friend or family.
@@ljss6805 its different, men dont get much validation and we dont give much validation, when we do its real unlike womens validation theyre fake just like their compliments to other girls
