Why Women Want Men Who Don't Want Them/How To Use It To Your Advantage

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Why Women Want Men Who Don't Want Them/How To Use It To Your Advantage
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Explore the world of attraction with my latest video, "Why Women Want Men Who Don't Want Them" 🧲❤️. Ever wonder why the chase seems more thrilling than the catch? We're unpacking the psychological dynamics behind why women often find themselves drawn to men who appear unattainable or disinterested. From the allure of the chase to the mysteries of human desires, we explore the factors that make the seemingly uninterested men more appealing 🔍
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@OliviaAlexa 3 месяца назад

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@deewavy7182 3 месяца назад

Games games games instead of correcting women you are telling men to play their games wrong.

@Invisibility397 3 месяца назад

Here is some jokes for you.. SO HERE'S THE REALITY 11,840,000 Men 18 to 55. .80 × 11,840,000 = the Ostracized 9,472,000 Men. .20 × 11,840,000 = High Value Men 2,368,000. 18 to 55 American Women 11,470,000 × .90%~.9 = 10,323,000 UH-OH SKETTI OH'S Chasing 11,840,000 × .05 = 592,000 top 5% American Men ALL MEN __? ALL MEN __? ALL MEN __?

@AnthonyManzio 3 месяца назад

All all bs

@Light-dz4zp 3 месяца назад

A lot of Women don’t want to feel tied down they want variety.

@montewheezy 3 месяца назад

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@BB-2000 3 месяца назад

Take my advise from an old man who dated soooo many women. If a woman does not reciprocate to your feelings towards her LEAVE immediately. Most men (research findings have shown) tend to build walls in their head (in psychology it is called framing). They tend to believe there is only her. Once they reframe their thinking they realize the world is full of options. A successful man with women is the one who reframes the moment the woman does not respond. No attachment makes big difference with women.

@Umbrella_TV 3 месяца назад

Thanks, that's actually some great advice.

@fitstar7541 3 месяца назад

I agree. Thanks BB-2000 , Great advice to take it for lifetime.

@julianc.6589 3 месяца назад

i was fixated on an ex like that for the longest time, finally moved passed recently and it's been great since

@orvillemcpherson6417 3 месяца назад

Great advice pops 👍🏿. We need men like you to teach the young men about relationship dynamics.

@perrykeshahwalker5321 3 месяца назад

This must be something new or I missed it all together. This sounds like a bunch of childish games. I am so glad that I am married. I've been so for 27yrs my wife and I have a beautiful relationship. Not perfect but a good one. I've always been there for my wife and excitement in our marriage hasn't died. I taught my sons to be gentlemen but at the same time I told them to cut a woman off if she doesn't value you.

@OkayJayy_ 3 месяца назад

One of the biggest lessons I learned. Don’t be too available

@inconnu4961 3 месяца назад

Truth!

@voidwalker9223 3 месяца назад

just curious but why were you too available before? did you want a lot of attention?

@user-ni4bg7ce6t 3 месяца назад

Me too

@kennedymwanza-sk8ex 3 месяца назад

even in marriage right

@user-rc2xs5ti2w 3 месяца назад

Never

@Rcaneneophyte8906 3 месяца назад

Nice guys usually finish in either the friend zone or the bro zone. A rich Woman wouldn't marry a waiter/fastfood employee but a rich man would marry a waitress. Women are always on the lookout for better options.

@lloydenque 3 месяца назад

On Point. Very True🎉❤

@marcusmcgraw3519 3 месяца назад

Your own statement shows why you lose. Men treat women FAR better than they treat men, and as you said women would never do that for a man that far below her. Why even put yourself through this?

@moleahy6880 3 месяца назад

I'm very well off but there is no way I'd marry a waitress. I don't need a woman to provide money but she does need to add value by stepping into my world and showing that she fits in. Comfortably, naturally, and immediately. A waitress might be able to do that for a successful blue collar man but not a white collar professional. It's far better for me to marry someone within my own social class because I have no interest in spending my time, my energy, or my resources teaching and molding a woman. I want someone who is already what I need her to be.

@inconnu4961 3 месяца назад

@@educatednegro5897 Such as yourself? Dont pretend like you are above it all, bro! We know . . . we KNOW!

@georgeandy6923 3 месяца назад

@@moleahy6880I don't agree with your statement, as it seems that what you are describing is CLASS! There are many waitresses who have "Class", and plenty of so-called women who move in "Certain" Social Cirlces who have "No Class"!! It really just depends on the "Individual" Person.

@moheganson 2 месяца назад

The less you care the more you win in life.

@lca89 Месяц назад

I needed to hear that. Thanks.

@cristovaomacosso3575 22 дня назад

Lie

@marguskiis7711 10 дней назад

Not true.

@user-zx5fo5xx3o 8 дней назад

in your twisted mind

@moheganson 7 дней назад

@@marguskiis7711 stoicism at its finest

@robinsteendam1311 3 месяца назад

I as a man, want a woman who wants me also.. I lose attraction for a girl who does not want me and shows this to me. Why would I want a woman who does not really want me?

@marcusmcgraw3519 3 месяца назад

You’re losing attraction because you’re feeling defeated. That doesn’t make the girl unattractive, that just means you don’t know how to flip it in your favor. This is why men lose

@robinsteendam1311 3 месяца назад

@@marcusmcgraw3519 I want to feel wanted, needed en desired by a woman, because love is the foundation of marriage. If there is not love, there is no foundation for a sustainable relationship. You cannot conquer a man by rejecting him etc. You can only keep a man with love. Even a large grisly beer will become your loyal friend, if you convince him with love, let alone a human been.

@Raw.milk1 3 месяца назад

@@robinsteendam1311dude 100%. It’s as simple as that. And there are women out there that WILL give you that affection and attention. It CAN be equal. That’s real. It’s just very difficult now to find that other half. Brainwashing and manipulation is huge right now and with how social media is right now, there’s ugly chicks with huge egos, can you imagine average and above average girls? I blame it all on social media and these dating gurus.

@d.c.5033 3 месяца назад

Exactly 😂. It’s that simple and they’re trying to flip things. Just because you recognize someone does not like you romantically doesn’t mean you feel or are defeated. It simply means you are not delusional and know your worth!

@nostalgicbliss5547 3 месяца назад

@@marcusmcgraw3519 Some girls will simply not find you attractive, that's just life. You can keep wasting your time trying to flip it in your favor, but that's a scarcity mindset. There are billions of women around the world, I'd never fight for a woman's attention, that's simp/sucka behavior.

@harlemkid144 3 месяца назад

Understanding western women requires too much, it’s best to solely focus on self love fellas, building yourself up financially, mentally and physically. The right one you want and who wants you and who is willing to be an asset in your life rather a liability will come along.

@LP-kw3kj Месяц назад

And western women are not worth it.

@securityscorpion8687 3 месяца назад

I am DONE. Thailand here I come.

@detroitvcw 3 месяца назад

The game is changing overseas too bro...just an heads up. From feminist mindsets and occulturated prostitution is all throughout across the pond . yeah you get femininity on the surface, but in a place like Thailand, at the end of the day, it is prostitution.. take a visit for yourself and you will see

@antoniomitchell1883 3 месяца назад

I know they got some beautiful women there.

@djaftermath4313 3 месяца назад

Good luck, double wrap ya wood homie!

@liamthatiam2867 3 месяца назад

Can i go with You? lol

@detroitvcw 3 месяца назад

Places like that across the pond has become nothing but "exchanges"..yes you get femininity up front, but it's nothing different than a 👙💃🏾(prosti...)offering you a good "experience" especially in 3rd world countries...The world is changing brother..I've been there , and know plenty of guys that have went there.

@DeeDaKang1 3 месяца назад

As a society for some reason, very few people are actually interested in the people that are interested in them.

@RexJacobus-bb1vw 3 месяца назад

Because it's always polar opposites. Usually she is fat or ugly or both . I'll take an ugly girl if her body is nice. I saw one today in the store

@LuFromThe041 3 месяца назад

Damn, hate to admit this but this is true...most people don't date their types/preferences, they don't date the people that they are attracted to, they usually settle/tolerate who they can get.

@neworleansniper9592 3 месяца назад

So tru

@mobydick3895 3 месяца назад

that's basis behind the old Woody Allen joke, "I wouldn't want to go out with a woman who would want to go out with a guy like me". :)

@MrWhaatay 3 месяца назад

It's the number 1 rule of love. If you are interested in someone they won't be interested in you. If someone is interested in you than you won't be interested in them. This is how you know if someone likes you romantically. If you feel chemistry they don't. If they do than you don't.

@MrWhaatay 3 месяца назад

#3 everyone wants what they can't have. The problem is a woman will want a guy she can't have but as soon as he gives into her she doesn't want him anymore.

@jessemedina4482 3 месяца назад

DING, DING, DING.. BINGO! I'm going through it right now. She flipped 180 degrees basically overnight, strung me along and then disappeared after chasing me for months.

@MrWhaatay 3 месяца назад

@@jessemedina4482 I hear you. Same thing happened to me many years ago. Went from "you are in my heart and mind" and "from the bottom of my heart" to "I am sorry you have feelings for me" and "I would never date you" a week later. That was all I needed to hear and I ghosted her. Three weeks late got the "I miss you and hope you come back soon". I never replied and I never went back.

@MrWhaatay 3 месяца назад

@@jessemedina4482 Same thing happened to me many years ago. Went from "You are in my heart and mind" and "From the bottom of my heart" when giving me things, to "I am sorry you got feelings for me" and "I would never date you". I ghosted her and three weeks later got the "I miss you and hope you come back soon" text. I ignored her and didn't go back and never heard from her again. The woman I am currently interested I treat like I only see her as a friend. She seems to be ramping things up with more staring eye contact, finding reasons to talk to me, getting close to me, and touching me. If she ever says she is interested me me other than a friend I am going to tell her I don't feel we have anything in common.

@MrWhaatay 3 месяца назад

@@jessemedina4482 Even worse, I found the longer they chase you the quicker they flip once you give in. It's a fools game. You can't have them when you chase and you can't have them when they chase.

@antoniomitchell1883 3 месяца назад

@@jessemedina4482that’s because you riding around in that old ass Mark V

@tucobrasi3596 3 месяца назад

Basically play games with adults who act like children..

@isaacmettle 3 месяца назад

👍🏿

@r.williams8725 3 месяца назад

Sad but true

@liamthatiam2867 3 месяца назад

Yep

@coachk.d4213 3 месяца назад

Basically

@Jack-eDaytona 3 месяца назад

That's what I heard

@johnbrowne2145 3 месяца назад

I will forever be single because I am incapable of playing these games.

@inconnu4961 3 месяца назад

Same here, bro! And being ugly hasnt helped me none either! LOL

@dylansandoval2902 3 месяца назад

Same 😂 everything is just 1 big game out here 🤣

@Monke_boi13 3 месяца назад

@@dylansandoval2902check our soft life through Christ and girls gone bible the true 1%

@cw9790 3 месяца назад

I had the same exact thought

@winning3329 3 месяца назад

Just remember to stay celibate so you don't bring children that you can't afford

@igotthemunchies7292 3 месяца назад

This proves women don’t mature faster than men. 30 year old women playing Childrens games

@marcusmcgraw3519 3 месяца назад

If they’re children’s games, then they shouldn’t be hard to master and flip it on them so you can benefit from it. You just refuse to do the work because you want a woman handed to you. And that is why men lose

@igotthemunchies7292 3 месяца назад

@@marcusmcgraw3519 I don’t lose anything I’m a 28 year old man with 2 jobs never had a hard time getting a woman I just ain’t playing games at this age. If a woman is playing hard to get I just get another one no big deal

@igotthemunchies7292 3 месяца назад

@@marcusmcgraw3519 they deleted my comment so I must’ve ruffled a few feathers. I’m an independent man with 2 jobs dont got time to play games if a woman is playing hard to get I’ll just go get another one

@marcusmcgraw3519 3 месяца назад

@@igotthemunchies7292 lol sure you will. How can you attract another woman if you can’t win their games?

@inconnu4961 3 месяца назад

@@marcusmcgraw3519Okay Dr. Phil! is it time for your tv show yet? i think Oprah is calling you for her daily massage; you better not keep her waiting!

@quantumsolace5864 3 месяца назад

All these psychological escapades of trying to understand women; it's becoming mentally burdensome and taxing on the brain. It's a never-ending cycle that's not even worth the thrill of a chase. A brotha will somewhat lose his whole masculine frame dealing with the chaotic nature of Crazy. Life and relationships were never meant to operate in this manner. Relationships should not constantly be a chess game just to appease to the emotional state of a woman; doing the most just to fill her vessel of empitines. It's mentally draining. I got more important sh*t to take care of, that's conducive to my own sanity and well-being.😎

@nostalgicbliss5547 3 месяца назад

The Bible did tell men to not give their strength to women. Plus the only way to find a woman that will give you peace is if she is a Proverbs 31 type of woman which is very rare to find. An accountable, hardworking, honest and God fearing woman. Even just purely from a biological perspective things are fucked because of birth control and how it messes with women's hormones, TV, social media, feminism, the sisterhood and the music industry have all made the dynamic between men and women even more toxic and chaotic. It's just best to stay to yourself and do the things you love, be ambitious, take care of your health, both physical and mental, take care of your finances, learn to save and invest etc And put God first above all things, that's the only way to keep your sanity in this insane world lol.

@tanupprasai9245 3 месяца назад

Yep. If you are saying ' it's not even worth it' and ' I've got more important shit to take care of that's conducive to my well being and sanity ' ... its means you've got it. That's exactly the attitude the video is telling you to have

@pavanwilliams5714 3 месяца назад

1000

@KingCoCo 3 месяца назад

100% bro. Stay in your own frame and build your own success and let them come to you. You and only you comes first. Complete waste of time and a headfuxk chasing these broads.

@One_Black_Panther 3 месяца назад

@tanupprasai9245 true but by doing so, most smart men wont even bother with them past sleeping with them. Who wants to constantly be on an emotional rollercoaster dealing with a mind fuck for a women.all the time? That would be the ultimate jedi trick 😂

@danielmarai1005 2 месяца назад

1. Value can not exist without scarcity 2. The challenge factor 3. The allure of the forbidden fruit 4. The ego boost Thanks gurl

@ChangeforJonathan 9 дней назад

MVP comment💪🏿

@chestergloyd7530 3 месяца назад

A man naturally creates this dynamic when he puts himself first in terms of interests, hobbies and personal achievements. This is how things are supposed to be anyway and that's what attracts women. Women want someone they have to constantly chase (in one way or another). Women are very good at putting their own interests first, men should be doing the same....to some degree even when in the relationship. Never give up or change your life for a woman. Adjustments for the right woman yes, totally giving up your life for a woman no. Do that and they'll continue chasing you for a lifetime.

@nostalgicbliss5547 3 месяца назад

The scriptures literally already told men to not give their strength to women. The story of Samson and Delilah breaks it down perfectly and yet we still have dudes doing all the wrong things lol. Maybe if people actually followed the teachings of the scriptures things would make sense and actually be in order. Those Abrahamic religious dudes perfectly understood female nature.

@matthewbourne9647 3 месяца назад

Spot on 💯

@MrWhaatay 3 месяца назад

A man will never get a woman who is attracted to him because as soon as he gives into her she loses the attraction.

@moheganson Месяц назад

@@MrWhaatay not true. Lots of variables

@ChazW93 3 месяца назад

If you're a guy that women don't want in the first place, why would she care if you are using "tactics" to portray to be someone she doesn't want in the first in the first place. Women can select who they can entertain sexually, but both sexes can't just choose who they want to be in a relationship if the feelings aren't mutual.

@netsherrera7193 3 месяца назад

ONLY if you're attractive enough for her to actually care.

@detroitvcw 3 месяца назад

I agree. She didn't necessarily form good context in what she was talking about. Doing all the actions she spoke of doesn't manifest attraction from her to the man..she has to initially like you/have interest in the 1st place before all of that. The way she laid it out is a totally different context. Women that "care" after you deprive them of your attention, when she didn't like you initially, is just curious on her end as to why you didn't thirst over her like the rest...that doesn't mean she likes you or liked you initially..

@nostalgicbliss5547 3 месяца назад

@@detroitvcw But it can definitely still get you play. You have to understand that women choose their mates by pre-selection. So a woman might not find you that physically attractive, but if you actually show her that she is not your number 1 priority and you have things going for you, she'll automatically find you attractive lol. Unless you're butt ugly and sloppy as hell. If you're just an average looking guy, you'd always have a chance with every woman, it's really just about being in the right place at the right time. Looks are important, but it's more for hook-ups on social media when they are ovulating and extremely horny lol. For every other scenario, social skills, ambition, charisma, humor and a bit of mystery is much more important in terms of how a woman will rate you.

@TheShowOff2I 3 месяца назад

@@detroitvcw If you deprive a woman of your attention that isn’t physically attracted to you that woman will try to gain your attention or call that man crazy if he doesn’t give it to her. She still isn’t going to smash

@TheJaybass32 3 месяца назад

Actual factuals

@4hinson777 3 месяца назад

@@detroitvcw Good point. Definitely, on the same page. 👈🏽👌🏻

@user-er9hv4pl2u 2 месяца назад

Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it

@peterwilliams6361 2 месяца назад

there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

@user-er9hv4pl2u 2 месяца назад

its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.

@peterwilliams6361 2 месяца назад

this is helpful, I will look her up. I hope this works for me too, I really miss her.

@OBIORAMADUKA 2 месяца назад

Happy to hear about this

@jameshunt3504 3 месяца назад

I've dated women like this. They're better known as 😂 narcissist, or having the traits if not fully diagnosed 😂

@ackbuilder8262 3 месяца назад

If you look at 9 diagnose criteria of NPD/ narcissistic personality disorder, it’s interesting that most women display 2-3 of them from the get go - manipulation, deceipt, mind games, lying ( makeup, screen filters, photoshop etc. all are lying technics), silent treatment etc. presence of 4-5 traits out of 9 is considered enough to diagnose. Covert narcissism is the most damaging and devastating condition, because it’s invisible, does most damage to partner’s psyche. It’s like blood pressure is a silent killer for heart and arteries, narcissism is a silent killer for soul, brain, nervous system..Vet them well or don’t play the game.

@antonioarmando1938 3 месяца назад

@@ackbuilder8262Well said. We all have narcissistic traits. Women more so. But everybody should learn to vet narcissists. I learned this from experience with my covert ex. The subtle emotional jabs will create trauma bonding at the unconscious level. Go no contact.

@mcfrisko834 3 месяца назад

@@ackbuilder8262 Well said!! Man that's some real shit💯

@terrywilliams2349 3 месяца назад

This why you don't just give attention & validation freely. Less is more with women. SCARCITY creates value!! 🎯🎯💯💯

@MrWhaatay 3 месяца назад

Which is a fools game. She only wants what she can't have. Once you give in she no longer wants you.

@terrywilliams2349 3 месяца назад

@@MrWhaatay what you said 🎯💯💯

@MrWhaatay 3 месяца назад

@@terrywilliams2349 Thank you. So the point is don't bother because you will never get a woman who is interested in you.

@moheganson Месяц назад

Attention and validation is their daily heroin Be the man who makes them go to rehab.

@blackwolverine1 3 месяца назад

Stoicism, is my thing. But keep dropping those jewels Olivia, stay blessed.

@morristhompson9189 3 месяца назад

Mrs. Olivia, I love your content, but for the first time I respectfully disagree with you. You can do all of those things all you want, but NOTHING (I MEAN NOTHING) trumps genuine attraction. If a woman who you like doesn’t like you back (or like someone else), LEAVE. IT. ALONE. PERIOD. Find someone who loves you for who you are. Because even if you do the things you prescribed, once they “get” you, they will still get bored and leave you heartbroken anyway. During the pursuit of true love, there will be many people who you like, but don’t like you and vice versa, that just the nature of the beast in forming relationships.

@detroitvcw 3 месяца назад

...agreed, but here's the caveat - what you're saying is totally ideal, and you should strive for neutrality/tranquility, but what she is highlighting is the psyche of a woman in the context of an intimate relationship/marriage. Unfortunately, women operate with this psychology as an end to emotional satisfaction..which is what they will ALWAYS be slave to..rarely do they make the logical decision when their emotions weigh heavy/moderate in the circumstance...It makes absolutely no sense to a man, and totally goes against his proclivity to obtain neutrality/tranquility/peace. The "finding a woman that loves you for you" doesn't exist. A woman only/always "love" you for things you can provide her, and is very much conditional on things that exist outside of yourself. Do you not entertain the psyche of women in this context? Absolutely, don't entertain it, But do realize what it IS, and not what it should/ought to be. The phrase "genuine" to a man doesn't mean the same in the eyes of a woman.

@dtincworldnews8922 3 месяца назад

I'm guessing this guy dealt with ONE woman that did him wrong after he did everything that he thought she liked, which completely proves Olivia's point in the whole video.

@morristhompson9189 3 месяца назад

@@dtincworldnews8922 you guessed wrong. I formed this summation after a plethora of women. Fullt ransparency I was both "the spider" and "the fly" in these situations; along with countless testimonies with collegues, military memebers oversees, family, and friends. (Who also have been heartbreakers and ones who have had their heart broken.) They have had similair stories with similair results. Heck if you listen to the red pill community, they almost repeat the same narrative. My testimony is not that of a 16 year old hopeless romantic whom was stood up during prom, but of a person who has navagated the dating field over a substantial period of time. No need for subtile jabs, agree to disgree is still a thing Sir.

@morristhompson9189 3 месяца назад

@@detroitvcw Yes Sir, I am very ware with Briffault's law and the dating world, so my rebuttal to this is well then only pay attention (or give your energy) to the women to think you can provide something for them NOW. But to each their own.

@Michael.P247 3 месяца назад

Even after you’ve gotten her you have to continue being an asshole 😅once in a while. That’s how complicated women are 🤷‍♂️

@Askaa88 3 месяца назад

There might be a scarcity in men's emotional availability, however, if a woman has literal thousands of options, she won't wait for the 'hard to get guy'. By the time that guy is responding, he's already down the page so much that the woman doesn't bother scrolling down looking for that specific guy while the amount of matches are piling up. Eventually, the woman calls it quit because 85% of men are too thirsty on dating apps. The woman has lost interest and doesn't want to invest in finding the 15% of her matches that could've been good match(es), she is overwhelmed/overshadowed by thirst. So yeah, online dating is trash and ruins relationships before it even starts.

@marcusmcgraw3519 3 месяца назад

Which is why you don’t do relationships. They’re a man made prison and you’re doing time

@moleahy6880 3 месяца назад

Yes, BUT....the men she really wants aren't on dating apps. And the majority of men on the apps are just looking for sex. And most women know this which is why they ignore most of the men.

@marcusmcgraw3519 3 месяца назад

@@moleahy6880 this is the truth. I have much more success building connections outside of apps and at real events than on any dating app

@georgeandy6923 3 месяца назад

@Askaa88 And the "Smart" Man could care less! He looks at it as her loss!!

@nostalgicbliss5547 3 месяца назад

I don't think her example was about online dating. It was about meeting people in real life. Whether it is at school, work or other social gatherings

@eric44ism 3 месяца назад

Afghanistan has the right idea. They don't deal with this foolishness

@beerustv8782 Месяц назад

😂😂😂😂

@louieecastro1106 Месяц назад

Bro 😭

@eric44ism Месяц назад

I'm not joking at all. The only joke is our current Western society, a cruel joke.

@3rdHousePhoenix 6 дней назад

They also sexually assault and oppress their women and little girls regularly. Move there if youre sick in the mind too

@evidencegrande7097 3 месяца назад

If she loses attraction for you, leave her and move on. All you are talking about is game playing nothing else. A woman who wants me to be unavailable wants space enough to explore other options. CHEATING. The only rule we need to stay in a healthy relationship is LOYALTY.

@LearnCompositionOnline 3 месяца назад

Exactly. Women hate when you love them. When you don’t care you get laid so easy. Tested for 10 years this. It is depressing for any moral man

@JKingMustang 2 месяца назад

@@LearnCompositionOnline I’ve learned the more of an asshole you are the more you’re loved by the ladies. Treat them like shit and they will stick. In all my past relationships I’ve only got the best treatment from women when i stopped caring, calling, checking in, called them dumb or stupid, only wanted to f**k, no kisses, no hugs, no cuddles etc. Being an asshole gotten me more respect. But as a man that refuses to treat somebody i love that way i rather remain single and treat women that way only if i want sex at the moment. Crazy part is im 1000% more successful being a single guy testing all the options.

@starfeel6127 3 месяца назад

If there's one thing I don't like about women it's this right here

@ProdByProject__ 3 месяца назад

These are good points but I still say just to stick to being yourself. No point of changing

@inconnu4961 3 месяца назад

Are you the same person now that you were when you were 6 yo? So why did you change? Man, change is just part of the process. Change because you were going to change anyways, because of its longterm benefit, NOT just because of the girl. How about that? can we compromise on this?

@HeathenDance 23 дня назад

@@inconnu4961 Obviously what he meant was: don't FORCE yourself to change to please others. Don't lose your individuality. It's different from learing and improving.

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@bredman2011 3 месяца назад

Ms Alexa this applies to jezebels, these teachings don't matter, it only matters to attract jezebels. If attraction is mutual you won't have to worry about this.

@colinc5531 3 месяца назад

I TOTALLY AGREE !

@blackshadexl 3 месяца назад

Yep glad you brought this up. Idk why men are trying to adapt to Jezebel spirits 😭

@toaalta 3 месяца назад

U don't realize they all have a capacity to be jezebels

@colinc5531 3 месяца назад

@@toaalta most of them are !

@sights_set 3 месяца назад

Hectic. Jezebel is Inverted Feminine Energy. Ahab is Inverted Masculine they form the (Narcissistic/Codependent) Dynamic with all the Push/Pull Hot/Cold that usally results in Trauma Bonding.

@nicolasjones3378 3 месяца назад

This is excellent advise for someone looking for a toxic relationship.

@D1Snr 3 месяца назад

Women love toxic relationships. They thrive off it.

@K9amilo90 2 месяца назад

Quite the opposite

@nicolasjones3378 2 месяца назад

The modern woman wants a toxic man aka bad boy because, he gives her a non-committal relationship.

@Ston247 3 месяца назад

For two reasons. The guy that doesn't care has the power. Also, women really choose us, we don't choose them. It's nature.

@marcusmcgraw3519 3 месяца назад

Why would women be able to have choices when they’ve done almost nothing right, while I should have to beg for chances given that I’m more valuable? I’ve earned the right to choose who I want, why are you trying to take that away from me for being a guy?

@Ston247 3 месяца назад

@@marcusmcgraw3519 You have to embrace reality, women have many more options than we do. It's a fact of life. Once you come to terms with this, dating will become easier.

@marcusmcgraw3519 3 месяца назад

@@Ston247 who are the idiots who keep handing them options while complaining about how many options they have? It’s men, most of whom keep showing how desperate they are for a woman in the first place. But you’ll never admit to it cuz you’re a wuss. Face it. Men are the problem in dating

@Ston247 3 месяца назад

@@marcusmcgraw3519 And besides, nobody took anything from you. Women are the gate keepers to sex and that's how it is.

@nostalgicbliss5547 3 месяца назад

@@marcusmcgraw3519women biologically are technically more valuable. That is young, healthy and fertile women. 1 alpha male can impregnate 100 women, but 1 woman can never be impregnated by a 100 men. That's why women are hypergamous and constantly seek the best option for them. So a top tier alpha male is more valuable than every woman and way more valuable than the other males. So basically the average woman is more valuable than the average male, biologically speaking, but a male with top tier genes, looks, height, frame, athleticism, confidence, charisma and competence is by far the most valuable out of everyone else.

@charlesleuwaiseeleuwaisee5779 2 месяца назад

I show lots of love and affection in all my relationships, if a woman use that as a weekness of mine, then she is not the right one. A woman who is capable of appreciating what I have to offer, is the woman to be with.

@baggyclothes4life991 3 месяца назад

The real me is honestly brutal, harsh, and careless. I cuss a lot and say cruel things. I have a very offensive personality. This is who I am. According to Olivia, I just need to be myself. Works for me.😂😂🤣🤣

@GP.Records 3 месяца назад

lol ok edgelord 👌

@inconnu4961 3 месяца назад

@@GP.Records he sounds like a clown. he needs to find a circus! LOL But you are right, the OG Edgelord for sure! LOL

@RodneyDMickens 3 месяца назад

Very insightful information.Thank you for doing what you do.

@samg9038 3 месяца назад

Powerful message Ms. Olivia.

@user-qe7bt9dz1l 3 месяца назад

These are great insights into a manipulative relationship. I explained why in another comment here that’ll obviously get overlooked because people don’t like self responsibility. It’s sad what dating is. I’m gonna stay opted out until humanity learns to value more important things and EVOLVE!!!

@qforce3310 3 месяца назад

In my years of dating I have found as a man who is on his grind a woman will always enter your life. Either to drain or support. But in either situation your grind hits a stall or even a set back depending on what type of woman entered. My advice vice is don’t ever stop your grind if she is right for you and can keep up and not add more stress and at the same time shows she wants to be with you. It will work itself out the old saying the way you got them will keep them.

@olumide31907 3 месяца назад

A female friend told me in my 20s, don't be too nice to women, they'll walk all over you. I was shocked she said that because in my naivety I wondered what was wrong with being kind to a woman. The key is setting boundaries and firm in who you are and not a people pleaser. Scarcity does indeed make you more attractive.

@1bosstv 3 месяца назад

If you're attractive enough to begin with. A low value item wrapped in gold is still low value. If the attraction isn't there, nothing will work.

@alineharam 3 месяца назад

I am so wonderfully surprised at OA's ability to clearly compose and relate a series of ideas. I wish the viewers would also note her excellent script writing, and her spot-on delivery. Her pacing and loudness are just right. I hope she teaches a communications course at her local college.

@nostalgicbliss5547 3 месяца назад

She's really good. Best female guru on the internet. Doesn't come off as a grifter or pick me either. Hope she is truly genuine and practices what she preaches. If I had a daughter, I'd want her to look up to a woman like this as a role model. Well spoken, beautiful, intelligent and well researched.

@alineharam 3 месяца назад

@@nostalgicbliss5547 That is a high but well deserved compliment

@NJM4279 3 месяца назад

Thank you for the great content, especially the Adam and Eve part well explained.

@Goldiesmellgood 3 месяца назад

Teach us Olivia! Prior to the internet we did not have this info just out here down bad. Previous generations chose not to teach this information or give bad info on purpose creating a huge gap in this area unfortunately. Next level knowledge here very insightful. It all makes sense now. Thank you for this video.

@nostalgicbliss5547 3 месяца назад

This was supposed to be taught to you at a young age by your FATHER and MOTHER.

@Goldiesmellgood 3 месяца назад

Supposed@@nostalgicbliss5547

@techjutsu4066 3 месяца назад

Thanks for the light sis.

@darnellgrady313 3 месяца назад

I appreciate your content on this matter. You are the first woman that ever actually admitted this. Thank you so much for your transparency.

@coreygreen3627 3 месяца назад

This is a very good insight 👍👍👍👍👍👍

@LaVelleWhite 3 месяца назад

I usually don't share female content in the male space. Most is fluff but you hit the nail on the head with this one

@OliviaAlexa 3 месяца назад

That's a great compliment. Thank you.

@4hinson777 3 месяца назад

Number one is called the quiet storm. Olivia, sharing the passion button to the heart. 🎯 :)

@that_guy_dlo 3 месяца назад

The advice is top tier 🙌🏽

@jamesmcclain4588 3 месяца назад

You can't even trust what they do they could start off seeming to be everything you desire and out of the blue you'll be looking like WhoTF is this person?

@davebassi7340 3 месяца назад

I feel you

@boZReptiles 2 месяца назад

This concept basically states that all marriages are doomed to fail. Any man who is always there for her will become boring, predictable and lose the excitement and attraction thus she won’t be attracted and want to have sex. He will feel unvalued unappreciated and unwanted and his needs won’t be met. Leading to divorce.

@kabiruatojoko2142 2 месяца назад

That's why People marry more than 1

@nostalgicbliss5547 3 месяца назад

She always breaks it down perfectly

@olmecconsultinggroup2489 3 месяца назад

Enjoyed this! Information, right and exact. Thank you it justed confirms my overall practices from just focusing on my business and personal development. Once again, thank you.

@bigjohn5080 3 месяца назад

I love your videos ❤

@RudolphManor 3 месяца назад

Indifference. 💯

@kiruijonah 3 месяца назад

Olivia your advice always is the best and it's working ♥️💯

@smiles7631 3 месяца назад

Awesome video thank you!

@stanmoney8470 3 месяца назад

We will never understand the minds of a women🤦🏿‍♂️

@Antarmy2 3 месяца назад

Stay single, work on yourself, career, health, goals, thier not worth the effort.

@shrikanthnambanath 3 месяца назад

I appreciate how eloquently you are able to articulate your message... Precise terminologies and apt vocabulary straight to the point... You make an excellent orator... 🤩 Thankyou for imparting your wisdom... Really inspires us to work on ourselves and become a better version of ourselves.. 😊 Though most viewers seek your advice initially to find love from another individual, we ultimately end up disciplining ourselves and respecting ourselves to become an elevated version of ourselves.. 💯 You are a blessing, a guiding light to Mankind 🌞

@gordiannaught 3 месяца назад

Makes perfect sense, integrity, authenticity, responsibility, and bearing the enrichment of the fruit

@jayc5756 3 месяца назад

Unfortunately, a lot of us learned this in our 30s...after we bumped our heads in our 20s. Where were you at in our 20s sis? Mann. Lol But FR, you definitely speaking All Facts. Thanks for breaking it down and explaining it clearly to us ma.

@eke313 3 месяца назад

Delusional Level 10,000

@davebassi7340 3 месяца назад

Why are you here?

@randydavis7718 3 месяца назад

Thanks Olivia for another good learning video. 👍

@TheGentlemanscartel 17 дней назад

As always, thank you for the great content definitely appreciate it

@raheenholland703 3 месяца назад

Great video! I appreciate the context

@user-ue5yg2fn8d 3 месяца назад

Love all your videos it makes absolutely sense ❤

@snyder.4587 2 месяца назад

Everyone of your video consults are full of precious positive insight, dang, your the best

@raphaelmathis2550 3 месяца назад

Thank You!!!

@alwebbjrlw 3 месяца назад

Good as advice as you do so well. Good content been a following for a while now continue to help our community we need women like you to continue these videos. Thanks my sister.

@user-ki8jh5pl7y 3 месяца назад

Yes miss olivia your right

@Clarencehitsskits 3 месяца назад

Appreciate might have to watch it again for missed details ❗️

@david.9633 3 месяца назад

Thank you for another video

@ron6126 17 дней назад

Good info!

@basilbrookman22442 3 месяца назад

Olivia you are just so deep and dope…and what makes you most outstanding is the fact that your depths of appreciation for psychological motives and realities are simply profound and you are simply able to connect the dots of how they impinge or impact human behavior (ie.especially women) with so much clarity…you are clearly a distinguished and remarkable person/as well as teacher because your approach to teaching truly empowers all your subscribers(ie.students )I would want to believe

@kevindavis9862 3 месяца назад

Good job!

@KingPorter Месяц назад

Love the content Olivia, Out here looking like A Sensible younger Lala Anthony 🤣 Keep up the good work. I love it 👍🏾

@lifeonearth4223 3 месяца назад

Thanks Mama!

@D1Snr 3 месяца назад

Basically as a guy, likes who likes you. As a younger guy i used to like women who liked the thugged out, street guys who had done time in prison etc. Those type of women used to look the most attractive to me. But i got NOWHERE with those type of women as i was the complete opposite of what they were attracted to. In the end i eventually worked out what my level was and achieved more success. I was never going to be the type of guy who had a long list of girlfriends and baby mama's. Sometimes you just have to be grateful for what you've got, instead of being bitter about what you can't have

@egenerationegeneration 2 месяца назад

Right on sistah❤

@user-xp2bo5tm2h Месяц назад

Thank You ❤

@mr.magnetic8884 3 месяца назад

Thank You Alexa :)

@ajarnrichard5386 2 месяца назад

Good stuff!

@fletchersmith3795 3 месяца назад

You are Amazing” thank you for giving us the Blue print” that was good info 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥👸🏽👀🌺

@1212LeoSnake 3 месяца назад

Excellent video as usual. You really do love men and been reppin us for a long time. You're always spot on too. But let's also add daddy issues in the mix. Women who deal with this traumatic experience are still trying to be validated by the first man that ever broke their heart...their father.

@Bibleinformationandhelp 26 дней назад

Do you know what many men are hearing in this video? Basically, be a player. Don't give her commitment because she will grow tired of you. Women may say they don't like bad men, but they create them by accepting them. So if a man wants to be successful with women, they are kind of forced to be bad. When I was a bit younger, I behaved in ways I am a bit ashamed of. Guess what, some women were interested. I honestly believe it comes down to emotional attachment styles. When it comes down to women having anxious and avoidant attachment styles, this is when a person may feel like they have to play these little games. Acting like they are busy, not answering on the first ring, and other mess like that. What it looks like to me, not too many people have a secure attachment style. One of the reasons why a lot of games are played is because many people are traumatized out there.

@basilhenry-eyo6522 2 месяца назад

I get it now, I was too overly available for her and she took me for granted, this is very helpful!

@checkthemikecrophone9050 Месяц назад

Olivia you broke this down amazing I salute you sis 🙌🏾 you are speaking truths. Men feel valued watching this video by having a woman actually break down things in an unbias manner great video

@TheRahsoft 3 месяца назад

interesting point about the emotional high, which would include anger. Likely explains why some women pick fights.. and lose their man. Men are not interested in drama or manufactured indignation. I think it also goes hand in hand with domestic abuse.. someone who picks a fight with you for emotional highs is a red flag and you should walk away

@tonybrook7768 3 месяца назад

What places humans above animals is for us to actually think about our actions, and not be led by instincts, 'feelings', emotions, and evolutionarily inherited traits. Western culture seems to have gone backwards in this respect. If any woman fails to return the energy that a man gives them, he should move on quickly.

@nostalgicbliss5547 3 месяца назад

Exactly. All these primal instincts BS are just excuses for people with poor impulse control and discipline. If we are truly evolved to be intelligent and thoughtful creatures we should be able to control our urges and make sound decisions that are good for our future. Not making horrible choices and then not taking accountability for our behavior just blaming it on biology or instincts lol.

@PhillyDee215 3 месяца назад

Unfortunately the world they've built around us is why your average female or male thinks the way they do. Most standards we have aren't even bc that's what we want but bc of the way life has evolved around us. I personally blame the government for this bc they set the trends, standards and everything else that alters our minds and the way we accept people into our lives

@blackshadexl 3 месяца назад

Government and Social Media is to blame…

@nostalgicbliss5547 3 месяца назад

It's not coincidental. It was done to destroy the family unit. Feminism, social media, the music industry etc All used as agents to destroy family values.

@joeydinero9300 3 месяца назад

No more like capitalism is to blame. When was the last time anyone in the government set a fashion trend? I'll wait. Lmfao

@PhillyDee215 3 месяца назад

@@blackshadexl the government created social media

@PhillyDee215 3 месяца назад

@@joeydinero9300 the government does all of that, all they gotta do is put a commercial on ya tv about some sneakers or have one of their celebrities....ooops i mean puppets wear those sneakers and BOOM💣 there goes ya fashion trend bc millions will follow. That easy

@dbf70 2 месяца назад

OK yeah great thanks for the insight chest tattoo.

@brandonhanserd7832 3 месяца назад

Women hate us playing our PlayStation, but in all actuality they play more games than us

@arrmaxx8534 3 месяца назад

I love this channel

@Blessedlove8325 3 месяца назад

Amazing 👏🏿 ❤

@Apaxxiii 3 месяца назад

Gotta admit she aint tellin lies up here. A lot of the things she mentioned here I started doing the last few years and I gotta say the opportunities that came with it were astounding