Why Women Want Sex (THE REAL STORY) 

truly sorry....not far behind you.

if you have to negotiate with her then she doesn't desire you. its something she only deigns to do to keep you placated. unfortunately Karyn here can't help you. maybe no woman can... they know what they like but they've never had to do it - never had to be a man and attract a woman before. don't be nice to your wife. DO be magnanimous, proactively responsible, concerned for her emotionally, and focused on your own success. Men ought to serve the relationship, not their wife. Otherwise you end upon following an endless breadcrumb trail of appeasement, reckless generosity and self-debasement. No woman finds it attractive when a man loses himself attempting to impress her. You will stink of desperation and manifest only weakness because you're only willing to demonstrate strength and competence when you think it'll "get you some". They hate that, instead be excellent all of the time because you're an adult and you owe it your own life. Chore-play is a bedroom-killer, no matter what the journalists and studies say. Never worship her - women do not desire men who are beneath them. Toughen up by getting used to disappointing her, not because that's your goal but because you won't sacrifice your goals to her whims. She never likes hearing "no" but a man who always says "yes" can't possibly have a competent plan or the confidence to persevere if he's derailed by a mere request. And that's a man she very much desires, because if he can say "no" to her then he's tough enough to take on the world for her.

I told my wife that no one, no woman, no force is going to keep me from having wild satisfying sex any longer. She finally took me serious because I wasn’t joking 😅

plan exit, file first.

23 years here. Took a trip to Charleston SC in July 2023. Didn't try for sex 6 days. Went home 0 for 6. Never again will I take her away. Save the 2500.00 instead.

Well said.

Nice slogan. Did you get it from a bumper sticker?

@@JourneyDestination It's an old wisdom that's been around for a while. And as with all bumper-sticker wisdoms (we call them tiles wisdom in my neck of the woods) there are grains of truth to it.

@@broyout3586 On second thought, it sounds more like fortune cookie wisdom.

@@JourneyDestination Fair enough. Do you recognize anything in it, or was it so obvious it didn't merit consideration?

😮 god bless the ignorant soul

...that recount was true ..and brutal truth

Young and stupid and paid for it.

Huh?..

Oh shit You Made me tear in laughter!

How you do cope with having wasted years with her? Could you have learned your lesson sooner?

Better late than never.

@@beesmongeese2978You basically have a 2nd chance in life no matter how old you are. The sooner you realize that, the easier the healing becomes and you start to enjoy life again focusing on the things you wanted to do before you met her instead of focusing on the past or the time wasted.

What about alimony and child support 🤔. How much money 💰 she takes 😢. RAM RAM 😇 😊 🙏

Yep, it is a dumb double-standard. Sadly, it is a woman's world now. That is largely why it is so messed up.

Men actually do that.

@@wyleecoyotee4252 While I'm sure there are a few that do, it is an extreme minority (though feminist dogma spreads the myth that it is commonplace). In the case of women, however, it is the vast majority who engage in this reprehensible behavior.

@ABQSentinel Men typically think that only a minority of them exhibit unsavory behaviour, when realistically it's at least 50%. It's not a myth but a reality.

That's actually the appropriate response here. If she withholds sex then he should withdraw attention and resources. Match and mirror her interest instead of doubling down at "couples counseling"

-"...behind a paywall"... I need to print and frame that thought. Thanks!

This comment is gold👍🏼

Outstanding approach to the issue...very wise thought process. I like the response.

@@The1stGurehaundo Yes! I stopped to admire that idiom too. :D

Brilliant

And the fact today's women refuses to do housework....why should a man get married

Most wives don't even think that's a question they should *have* to answer. That answer flows from you to them, not from them to you.

You're wrong sir. It's so easy for them to rationalize everything...

Why only 46 thumbs up?? Damned straight!!

It just demonstrates their nature. Takers and receivers, just like their role in procreation.

that's not a theory, it's what it is.

It’s why so many women get divorced and are generally still miserable.

That’s true, it’s when wives or girlfriends lose sexual attraction and respect for their man.

@@gunner0162 Then you have a room mate. Send them packing. Or just don’t do silly things like getting married in the first place. Because women are lazy and get bored and expect men to be like a circus animal while paying all the bills.

You beautiful man bless you true love is right there with you now the journey you never walked away from❤ ❤❤❤

You are a testament to every man's hopes and dreams. To those who still have hope I hope your story inspires them. You're a lucky man.

God bless you, sir! How lucky of a woman to have her husband there caring for her!! Sadly, the women today aren't cut from the same cloth as your wife was - the "woman's movement" of the 70s, liberalism and feminism has poisoned women's minds and warped their reality - and now men today are paying that price. And the "good men" - such as yourself - are dumbfounded because most of us strive to be biblical men and yet women today don't want to know what a "biblical wife" is.

Glad to hear this still exists. Cherish the time you have left with your bride. She's definitely a keeper

You are old school, nowadays its another world.

Don’t stop trying my guy

Yeah my dude.. unfortunately or fortunately (however you look at it) with the internet information gets out there quicker and easier. When I was younger I had no idea about any of this.

You have much to learn then. Please remember, be kind to yourself first and put yourself in the drivers seat always. Your piece of mind will thank you.

The sea of emotionally immature women, fueled by feminism and woke ideology, combined with the force of family court have obliterated the value of marriage in this day and age... it's nothing like it was decades ago. Young men are better off living independently and building friendships with each other. Definitely have fun with women and enjoy some relationships, but keep them off that pedestal and set the bar for marriage as high as you possibly can because it's the point of no return.

Stay single my young friend...

Because women ruined it

Because there is nothing in it for a man

Correction. Its a nightmare for everyone: men, women, kids and the whole community. You are much better off single and child free (no kids suffering nonsense).

100% agree! Marriage is a Faustian deal for men, these days.

ANY educated and financially well off man that is contemplating marriage today should have their heads examined. Why buy the cow when you have the milk for free? This is all about "power and control" and nothing more. To Ms. Seitz....God Bless you for laying out the truth. I'm sure the NOW'ers and feminist's are boiling over with rage. Guys...you want to straighten out this God awful mess that's been created since the late 60's...legalize prostitution. You'll see how fast the worm turns.

So you girls are basically bags of cow manure?

Been married 20 years. Wish I had stayed a bachelor.

@@nogginthenoggfubar2862try 37 years. My wife had the life of luxury. I am just the security and provider. Great mom, but she lied to me during dating on how much she wanted me sexually. It was over in less than a month… 1986. Single men, this happened to almost every man i know. Don’t get married.

You are sick 🤢 you should be ashamed of yourself are you even a human

They know now .....

You can still wank

You can bet she will do to the coworker the same as to you

She will regret it...will probably never admit it as long as she has someone willing to bend the knee to her...but she does. It's interesting to me the amount of men who line up for a woman that chose to destroy her family. And in this case she s a grandma. Smh.

Yes, so many of us feel vindicated. Crushed and broken nonetheless.

Sorry for you, but happy that you were able to find the answer before being completely destroyed.

It’s rare. Most women don’t want to be bothered with actually solving problems. They like the chaos

You mean refreshing to see her admit she’s been an a-hole.

and the slightest positive thing she does , there is some man ready to shower her with praises ...and kiss her feet

Yes, it is somewhat refreshing to see her forthcoming with such truths. Many men have realized too late that their wife's very best had been willfully given away a long time ago. I am guessing that one reason why she is doing this is that the MGTOW movement is coming into full effect. Other women have recently given similar testimonials. I doubt that their collective efforts, though, will reverse or even alter the course of American culture.

It's refreshing to see ANYONE being honest and contrite, in a public forum......

the perfect husband with the imperfect wife

Total blue beta (soy boy) for staying.... unless he didn't care ab the sex, or was getting it elsewhere.

RP calls this competition anxiety.... does wonders to prevent laziness fr women.

He is perfect in nice guy territory, but not attractive enough for anything above this.

A woman cannot be satisfied with a man unless she has competition anxiety. If she's the only show in town, she'll increase the costs and cut the performances.

❤

The only switch you should be looking for is a switch to a younger prettier woman.

@@ez-g3090 😂😂😂

@@arthurdixon5890 you know it's the truth

The switch is in your hand

Rekt

Basically what I commented in another Video. And I don't even have these Problems since I am young and not married. Im just watching out of curiosity. But the lack of female voices here was very sad for me aswell. And very telling. They are literally the ones these Vid's are for.

​@@patriciahofer8704no this video is for u, so u don't put urself in that situation in the future

It’s because these videos say they’re for women but are actually for men, to tell men what they want to hear. But I’ve commented in a few areas if you want to look for it lol.

​@@kayekaye6111still not taking accountability huh? classic.

Sounds like the hot girl was a blow up doll..

@@freedomfunwithjlbfriends7193 well hello there bitter, angry feminist! Did your husband leave you as well?

@@jameskrobar7814 haha triggered jamie...

A quote I read elsewhere , “My wife turned up for the wedding , she never stayed for the marriage”

@@freedomfunwithjlbfriends7193 nah I don’t get triggered like you blue feminists do! 🤡 carry on simple one.

That’s where we disagree. How many women are on hormonal birth control? I was and it affected my sex drive. I am not on hormonal birth control anymore and my drive has increased significantly.

@@marieroxylox1456 Birth control hasn’t stopped any woman I’ve ever been with from desiring sex. In fact, I had more sex because there was no worry of pregnancy.

@@Yay-hovah Hormonal birth control has. It has for me. I want sex more off hormonal birth control than I did while on it

@@marieroxylox1456 I don’t doubt what you are saying is true, but I don’t know if that is true for most women on hormonal birth control. It certainly wasn’t true for my gf.

@@marieroxylox1456 Your personal experience is not wrong here. The logic error here is using it as an argument, because you are using 1 data point [yourself] to disagree with a sea of data points [general experience many men have with their wives]. You cannot rebut a macro argument with a micro argument, except to disprove an extreme assertion [e.g., ALL women or such-and-such NEVER happens, which is not the case being made here]. In short, the exception does not disprove the rule. I also noticed no mention of a husband in your comments. That's a relevant point as well, as single women wanting sex in general is not the same as a married woman wanting sex from her husband, that latter being the specifically relevant topic here, as men are comparing how their wives wanted it during the single/dating/engagement/married-going-for-children phase, then "turning it off" [bait and switching] on them afterwards.

No dog treat sex

Leave bro or get a side woman.

I'm 53. Had a relationship with a woman for 29 years, Sexless for the last 20 years. Never cheated on her. One day I decided I had enough of it and started going out again. The minute she became aware of my FWB relation with another women, her switch was ON again :) Never complained my decision to leave her and my daughter out of toxic family-life. Best regards.

@@guyringoir6879 when a woman know they have competition, they are more attracted to you

Sorry that you stayed

I am so sorry thank you for the advice

And not a very good one either. Women are pretty crappy friends.

or worst.

Flatmates

Wow!?!?? :)

When the sexual attraction disappears and you realise you don’t even like them…

That is for sure!

Fact

Hahah your not wrong

I actually think if you show interest in an uglier person the switch goes on quicker. I was in a dryspell in my younger years after a bad break-up. I said F it and went hogging. It broke my dry streak and for some reason women were interested in me more. . .especially after flaunting the "hogging" I did.

Yep

There's no sin and there's no God. Sin is just a guilt trip mechanism of religion to its followers

@@mr.atheist8848 I mean killing someone is pretty much a sin idk...

Similar, but she doesn't care if I look. Heck she probably doesn't care if I got a girlfriend as long as I keep bringing the money but I'm not wired that way. I want to be married to somebody that loves me back. Been hanging on miserable for way too many years. She won't even talk about it, so I guess will come as a surprise for her when I leave. Irony is, she's consuming graphic porn "romance" novels 24x7. Only reason I haven't left years ago is fear of financial impoverishment. No sex, no love, no love, no marriage. I've pretty much given up and just live as mostly a roommate. I don't even pretend to be married. Too bad she, I suppose like many women would rather just let it happen and play the victim.

I'm a few years ahead of you and I decided to stay. I've come to accept that my wife will never be intimate with me. In all other ways we have a very nice marriage and I don't want to walk away from that. Your sex drive diminishes as you grow older and become less important. You might not believe that now but it does happen. Still I understand your frustration.

@@tonycrouse6544 so now you are just room mates and youre ok with that? " "I've come to accept that my wife will never be intimate with me", not only is that a betrayal of your wedding vows - it abuse, pure and simple. At that point, divorce is the only answer.

@@tonycrouse6544 Learn some self respect. Sex is a physical need for men, and you've let the women dupe you into believing that it is not true. Is sex less important to me now than when I was 20? Yes. Is it still a physical need because I am a man? Also yes.

When you know what the right thing to do is but you postpone actually doing it, you are actively doing that which is wrong. Don't use your children as an excuse - you'll only end up resenting them too.

I wrote a comment yesterday but after sleeping on it I deleted it for this. Woman today run around sleeping with every bad boy who looks at them and when they are slogged out 304's and see that wall coming they use sex to trap a nice guy and once they have him they close their legs, at least to him. So the one thing they should have saved for the nice guy who was prepared to commit to them they gave away to every arsehole they could find and the nice guy who committed to them and put a ring on their finger and shelled out 20K or more for the wedding and her white dress that really should be filthy to accurately reflect her state of being, they deny sex too and if they are not doing it with him there is a good chance they are still doing it with bad boys on the side. You can't trust anything that thinks and operates like that. What the Hell were we thinking when we gave them the vote, what the Hell were we thinking.

The radical feminist movements that sought the vote to political power to control society towards women’s agendas, were and are a special interest organization that is not there for mens, childrens, traditional women’s, rights or benefits, but to revolt against the “ oppressive patriarchy” to slowly push for a matriarchial post modern society with women controlling as much as possible using feminist cultural marxism as an ideological spearhead. Women used to handle the internal inside “nucleus” of society like the family homebase, nurturing childcare, cooking/domestic responsibility, social/community work, and be the main gatekeepers of sex. Men used to handle the external outside political & career arenas, provide necessities like food, shelter, clothing, the safety/protection of women/children/vulnerable people etc, financial responsibility, teach community sports coaches or be volunteer Scouts leaders, and be the main gatekeepers of the money/bank account. Both had honourable roles in society, and exceptions were allowed for women who didn’t marry and focused on college post-secondary education or a career. Men likewise to were allowed caretake the homebase, cook, etc or pursue further studies or the single life. Both of these was not the norm, and it was not publicly shamed or shunned either etc. Each had the “purse strings” that the other needed and it naturally drew both together to communicate, negotiate, and compromise, so they could serve society, the community, the families needs as well as each others. Working as a team within their skillsets allowed both partners to flourish in their roles in benefitting the family unit and children as a whole. There was a relatively fair balance of power, leverage, control each sex had to keep the other side “honest” per se. The groups that didn’t have power (and wanted to wedge themselves into power) were the marginalized revolutionary radical leftists, ptsd man haters, lesbians, hyper masculine females who wanted to normalize “Men’s traditional roles, duties, benefits” in Western society for women, even tho 95% of women were happy already with the status quo where both sexes had complimentary duties, rights & responsibilities. These radical feminist groups wanted the same rights or benefits of men (while keeping their female rights & benefits too), without the responsibilities that encompassed those same rights or benefits. Essentially they wanted the BEST of both world’s with little to none of the responsibilities that came with it. Once the female radicals (lesbian, bi, radical leftists, female supremacist groups, damaged women from poor male role models, traumatic assault by males, female rights activists etc), were able to campaign and convince another 20-30% of women (out of 95% of women, still huge minority), that were mostly satisfied homemakers, wives, mothers, that “the grass must be greener on the men’s side”, and that they could go after more & more things then the tide shifted. Other special interest political groups, corporations and women’s rights organizations supported the movements growth and these women demanded the vote (on behalf of ALL women) to influence the external political/career arenas to women’s advantage. This is a major part of the downfall of the West, as virtually none of women’s rights organizations, politics, voting blocks have done much good to benefit society as a whole in retrospect. In fact over 100 years, women’s political influence has only galvanized the tribal nature and hive-mind of the feminine to advance the feminist agendas ever further (the fight is NEVER over) to the detriment of civilized society and breaking down deconstructionism of norms, morality, truth, objectivity, logic, reason, that were mostly put in place by rational, philosophical, logical, mathematical, physics, biological experienced men over centuries of history. This tearing down of the West, WITH NOTHING TANGIBLE or BETTER to have ready to put in place as a “better solution”, only opens a void for weaker ideas, corruption, chaos, to seep in. It’s the classic, “I don’t like the culture, norms, system or structure of my country or state BUT I don’t have a better alternative to offer in place of it”. Women now occupy many of the careers many men used to do to raise a family, but pursue it for personal growth, financial rewards, self-focused goals, pride/ego, etc without the benefit to greater society that a man doing the same career would bring to a wife, children, government or society in general. Women’s philosophies, marxist social-justice ethics, gender studies, women’s studies in universitys are vastly inferior ideologies that are marxist dogma beneath the surface. Women control the public square of policing free speech in many ways (cancel culture), and stifle freedoms in the name of personal safety, hurt feelings, offending others, inclusive or equality ethics that are basically subjective relativism with feminist agendas being pushed as tolerance/equality for all etc. Women get higher educations in universities on average over men, and well paying jobs to buy a house, have equal pay as a man , but then still want a potential husband to make alot more money than them, while most of her income will be disposable incone for her wants, while the man still pays for everything anyways, etc. In marriage most women are quick to get partial or majority control over the finances, bank accounts, the husbands paycheques (Japanese wives are famous for this), and seek control over this to minimize any natural leverage a man has to counterbalance women’s natural sexual leverage. Women also use sex as a “pavlov dog” reward treat for her man IF he does what she wants, or uses it in denial as punishment for the most trivial of reasons. She has surely also weaponized her sexuality to baby trap him, falsely accuse an undesirable suitor, victimize herself for ulterior motives, or manipulate guys, or men into helping or believing her often embellished subjective story. If she has a headache, is too cold, or too hot, or in a mood she will give her husband an excuse, until she may finally take pity on him and give him pity-sex etc. Sex has only been further leveraged for womens advantages in relationships AND Men’s financial leverages have been seriously eroded by women, wives, feminism, government regulations, court systems etc, while women have ALSO GAINED in financial incomes, equity, etc giving females vastly superior leverage to tilt the relationship “Teeder-Todder” fully to the side of women/wives and manipulate things at their whims. This IMBALANCE of relationship power has also sucked out alot of masculinity from men, and their ability to raise a family. You never hear of a women marrying a man , and she works, pays all the bills, he caretakes the homebase & children, and see her doing most traditional male roles, and still loving or respecting her husband faithfully till death do they part. It is so rare to see a successful relationship like that succeed long term, which is likely heavily biologically influenced by the unique abilities, gender roles, skills and strengths by men & women. Hopefully things improve soon…

The radical feminist movements that sought the vote to political power to control society towards women’s agendas, were and are a special interest organization that is not there for mens, childrens, traditional women’s, rights or benefits, but to revolt against the “ oppressive patriarchy” to slowly push for a matriarchial post modern society with women controlling as much as possible using feminist cultural marxism as an ideological spearhead. Women used to handle the internal inside “nucleus” of society like the family homebase, nurturing childcare, cooking/domestic responsibility, social/community work, and be the main gatekeepers of sex. Men used to handle the external outside political & career arenas, provide necessities like food, shelter, clothing, the safety/protection of women/children/vulnerable people etc, financial responsibility, teach community sports coaches or be volunteer Scouts leaders, and be the main gatekeepers of the money/bank account. Both had honourable roles in society, and exceptions were allowed for women who didn’t marry and focused on college post-secondary education or a career. Men likewise to were allowed caretake the homebase, cook, etc or pursue further studies or the single life. Both of these was not the norm, and it was not publicly shamed or shunned either etc. Each had the “purse strings” that the other needed and it naturally drew both together to communicate, negotiate, and compromise, so they could serve society, the community, the families needs as well as each others. Working as a team within their skillsets allowed both partners to flourish in their roles in benefitting the family unit and children as a whole. There was a relatively fair balance of power, leverage, control each sex had to keep the other side “honest” per se. The groups that didn’t have power (and wanted to wedge themselves into power) were the marginalized revolutionary radical leftists, ptsd man haters, lesbians, hyper masculine females who wanted to normalize “Men’s traditional roles, duties, benefits” in Western society for women, even tho 95% of women were happy already with the status quo where both sexes had complimentary duties, rights & responsibilities. These radical feminist groups wanted the same rights or benefits of men (while keeping their female rights & benefits too), without the responsibilities that encompassed those same rights or benefits. Essentially they wanted the BEST of both world’s with little to none of the responsibilities that came with it. Once the female radicals (lesbian, bi, radical leftists, female supremacist groups, damaged women from poor male role models, traumatic assault by males, female rights activists etc), were able to campaign and convince another 20-30% of women (out of 95% of women, still huge minority), that were mostly satisfied homemakers, wives, mothers, that “the grass must be greener on the men’s side”, and that they could go after more & more things then the tide shifted. Other special interest political groups, corporations and women’s rights organizations supported the movements growth and these women demanded the vote (on behalf of ALL women) to influence the external political/career arenas to women’s advantage. This is a major part of the downfall of the West, as virtually none of women’s rights organizations, politics, voting blocks have done much good to benefit society as a whole in retrospect. In fact over 100 years, women’s political influence has only galvanized the tribal nature and hive-mind of the feminine to advance the feminist agendas ever further (the fight is NEVER over) to the detriment of civilized society and breaking down deconstructionism of norms, morality, truth, objectivity, logic, reason, that were mostly put in place by rational, philosophical, logical, mathematical, physics, biological experienced men over centuries of history. This tearing down of the West, WITH NOTHING TANGIBLE or BETTER to have ready to put in place as a “better solution”, only opens a void for weaker ideas, corruption, chaos, to seep in. It’s the classic, “I don’t like the culture, norms, system or structure of my country or state BUT I don’t have a better alternative to offer in place of it”. Women now occupy many of the careers many men used to do to raise a family, but pursue it for personal growth, financial rewards, self-focused goals, pride/ego, etc without the benefit to greater society that a man doing the same career would bring to a wife, children, government or society in general. Women’s philosophies, marxist social-justice ethics, gender studies, women’s studies in universitys are vastly inferior ideologies that are marxist dogma beneath the surface. Women control the public square of policing free speech in many ways (cancel culture), and stifle freedoms in the name of personal safety, hurt feelings, offending others, inclusive or equality ethics that are basically subjective relativism with feminist agendas being pushed as tolerance/equality for all etc. Women get higher educations in universities on average over men, and well paying jobs to buy a house, have equal pay as a man , but then still want a potential husband to make alot more money than them, while most of her income will be disposable incone for her wants, while the man still pays for everything anyways, etc. In marriage most women are quick to get partial or majority control over the finances, bank accounts, the husbands paycheques (Japanese wives are famous for this), and seek control over this to minimize any natural leverage a man has to counterbalance women’s natural sexual leverage. Women also use sex as a “pavlov dog” reward treat for her man IF he does what she wants, or uses it in denial as punishment for the most trivial of reasons. She has surely also weaponized her sexuality to baby trap him, falsely accuse an undesirable suitor, victimize herself for ulterior motives, or manipulate guys, or men into helping or believing her often embellished subjective story. If she has a headache, is too cold, or too hot, or in a mood she will give her husband an excuse, until she may finally take pity on him and give him pity-sex etc. Sex has only been further leveraged for womens advantages in relationships AND Men’s financial leverages have been seriously eroded by women, wives, feminism, government regulations, court systems etc, while women have ALSO GAINED in financial incomes, equity, etc giving females vastly superior leverage to tilt the relationship “Teeder-Todder” fully to the side of women/wives and manipulate things at their whims. This IMBALANCE of relationship power has also sucked out alot of masculinity from men, and their ability to raise a family. You never hear of a women marrying a man , and she works, pays all the bills, he caretakes the homebase & children, and see her doing most traditional male roles, and still loving or respecting her husband faithfully till death do they part. It is so rare to see a successful relationship like that succeed long term, which is likely heavily biologically influenced by the unique abilities, gender roles, skills and strengths by men & women. Hopefully things improve soon…

​@@Matt-zp1jn Eventhough your description of the evolution and current state of feminism is somehow accurate, you're saying that it is a spontaneous phenomenon created by those who are currently taking benefits from it. This cannot be further from truth. The feminism evolved in waves, and each wave started on the ground that was prepared by the previous one. The first wave feminism was decided and put in place by MEN in power for reasons as simple as money: where society had families with a single worker (thus a single income to tax), they thought about bringing the other half of the population into workforce and get taxed along. What was the consequence ? A more fragile families with broken moral and responsiblity structures which produced weak individuals very easy to control This gave them (although I don't think it was planned at the start) the idea to destroy families evenmore. What could to this better than the sexual revolution, which came along with the banalisation and avalability of contraception. This led to second wave feminism which was more "rights" for women, including the critical role in voting. As women are way more easy to manipulate and push toward a specific agenda, this was the opportunity to operate the political radical shift that brings the third wave feminism, along with all the current destruction of all what society was built on. This is a short summary to point out that current feminims cannot survive by itself as it is a totally disfunctionnal ideology in all the meaning of this term. Yet being a political movement capable of pushing an agenda as agressive as what we are witnessing

Yup.

Wow, sounds like me (also raised 2 daughters now grown), except only 1 airplane (FW190 replica) and a lot more race cars, but I don't love her any more and would bail in an instant if I met somebody, though I never put myself in a position to do that. Love died when she stopped respecting me. If her health starts faltering she's on her own.

Get her on a low carb, no sugar diet. Give her healthy proteins like eggs. Have her drink water, green tea instead of sugary drinks. And take walks. Good luck

Your story rings true to me and I suspect the vast majority of men. How sad, what it could have been.

The Bible calls it fraud, as I am sure you are aware. 1 tried being a promisekeeper for 24 years, but I should have followed the Bible: if the unbelieving spouse departs, let them depart....

My mother is suffering from dementia and I see the stress it puts on my father. I feel you, man and hope you have support for both of you. That’s great that you are committed to caring for her. God bless

im atheist and thats my exactly thought on what is love

They won't do it. This has historically _always_ resulted in the irrecoverable death of a civilization. I believe that that's why the movement was started and organized in the first place. Go look up Erin Pizzey's experiences with the first Women's Consciousness-Raising seminars. There's also some good stuff in her book _Prone To Violence,_ which is mostly about her starting the first abuse shelters.

But women don't like WORK!!!

@@trallfraz Why should sex be work. Men have a lot of work to do to close the orgasm gap. Then it wouldn't seem like work if she's enjoying it as much as he is.

AND SO DO MEN!!!

Men do what’s best for us .. women do what’s best for her

never negotiate with terrorists

You geniunely just sound like a dickhead.

that sounds like an unbelievable story.

Tell the truth. She cheated on you when you said you were too tired.

@@Chillcuhcuh are you kidding? I couldn't have been that lucky. No she just changed her attitude and became the wife she should of been. Sorry to disappoint you Skippy.

Wow just wow you just described exactly my situation. It was over a year for me not initiating so no sex. She says it was 2 years and blames me. I still never really told her like you did. We did re-up the sex again, but it still wasn't the same effort from her like before our second child. She finally threatened divorce over me "not doing enough" housework even though I did (almost) everything. I finally got an out that wouldn't ruin us financially and moved out. She wanted me back and we're having sex again, more often even, but still bland unless I play mind games. She's a crappy housekeeper so I don't want to move back in, even though she wants me too.... What to do? Divorce? Dating life for men sucks bad. Just stuck in limbo and doing the best I can. Oh yeah she went through something, cheating even if just emotionally, bought a vibrator and lingerie she never told me about. Sexy photos in her drawer. Says she was going to give them to me LOL. Not worth trying to figure out the real story, and she snapped out of whatever it was.........Or he dumped her?

You can win, divorce her, go out with someone else!

They never initiate anything. They are inanimate objects.

@@cleanslate2247 Best i can advise is to not look at it winning or losing. If it's not working it's not working and the longer you stay the longer it will be before you're happy again. I gave up on dating a few years back and now my life is just mine. I do what i want when I want if i want and i have no one i have to explain myself to. Getting laid is easy when you're not trying to do it. Focus on what you KNOW to be the right thing for you.

Damn that sounds familiar! I bought her racy books hoping she would get in the mood, she never bought me anything, she never bought lingerie, just figures she was enough. I asked her to sleep nude, so she started wearing Pyjamas. She pushed my hand away many times and I quit trying.

Hopefully some big bucks too

I am in the same situation at the same age, only I’m female! My friends tell me to never marry , and my married friend told me she is actually jealous of me because I get the time to do things I love. She had to nurse a hubby with dementia! Single hood is truly a blessing from the Lord as the good book says. I often wonder why so many church folks do get married.

Same same

I hope you chose well. Because your body will betray you if your mind doesn’t first. You will spend your final days in a care facility with care takers that don’t care about you. You will be alone as the darkness closes in on you, knowing there is no one coming to embrace you or love you in your weakest most primal moments. You will be the last of your line. Or maybe not, it’s not too late for a man.

@@kellyTaylor-uv3coBecause we are ordered to “Be fruitful and multiply”….

Good for you. Looking at all the other comments here, this is clearly the only winning strategy. Men need to do this way sooner and way more often. If she doesn't want to meet your needs, then someone else will. Lets be real, she will have to find her libido for the next man. Every one of my ex partners tried this shit, found out the grass was not greener on the other side, and tried to come back. Hard no from me.

Good luck for the next 8 years.

Excellent decision

Well done

Good for you. I hope your lazy Ex regrets her treatment of you and is driven crazy by jealousy for the rest of her pathetic life.

Divorce courts have been completely undermined by women. It wouldn't matter.

why require prenups? this should be part of the default marriage contract.

The family court is set up specifically to encourage women to destroy families, our children and feed as much money as possible into the system. It has and is working exactly as intended for the last 50 years. Do not get legally married, stay away from childish, abusive American women and disconnect as much as possible from this insidious and contrived parent/child society.

witnesses are approved by both the plaintiffs and defendants attorneys... wouldn't happen in a million years. Her testimony is no better than a polygraph. which is open to interpretation based on the time, place and mood of the person being tested.

A marriage license should need to be renewed, just like a driver license.

Some of us are coming across this video. It's scarying the desire for marriage right out of me for sure.

Anything that can bleed for 6 days and not die is evil.

If she knows that extended no sex time you'll just go get it elsewhere it magically kerps them going. Every 6 months my female friend visits purely to remind her that there's competition, well worth doing ​@@oldgamesinvestigator7852

Ont marry an ex party girl. This why rich men date young women. You can never compete with the memory's of 20 plus stud bad boys she's been with before u after the honeymoon period.

@@nikitaw1982 no matter how good you are, as in all things in life there's always someone better

What man in his sane mind will even get married anymore.

Let's normalize stringing various women at the same time with marriage promises that never come.

GET A DIVORCE. Start living for yourself. Don't look back, but learn everything you can about redpill truth. You will be amazed how much you did not understand about women.

You are weak that is why

Don't live in misery- life is too short.

Don’t move out until the divorce is finalised, consult a lawyer and do as he advises to the letter and file for divorce before she does. Good luck buddy.

Make peace with God. Marriage is not the end-all. God is.

I don't know if women understand and see men's battles. I prefer to think they do. Even though I don't see it. I really wish you well.

Do you have a twin? I'm sick of my partner. Complete weirdo

You're a Unicorn.

Is your husband considered as a "bad guy", or a "good guy"?

@@vitalie96 Hahaha I see what you're trying to do here.

You didn't change, she did. What bothers me about a lot of this content is that we never call a spade a spade. Everyone here knows what "baby rabies" is, right? So why is it, that when I suggest that women of a certain age are actually IN HEAT, I get looked at like I have 3 heads? A lot of other animals on the planet go through this. Why is it so hard to admit that women do too?

if you changed nothing or weren't even in your office, but find something broken, its sabotage. Not your actions, but someone else's. She never desired you. Whatever you thought you had from her was never yours. She was letting you borrow it so you'd give her what she wanted. It was never yours and now you have no way to get her to even pretend it is.

​@scratch57 except to take away what she originally wanted..... but most of us don't have enough spine or balls to actually do it!

She didn't want you sexually to begin with. Manipulating her sexuality to trick herself to want you sexually, in order to obtain what she thought she wanted (sense of security, money, kids)

You have trillions of sperm. She only has about 300 eggs in total. There seems to be a mismatch. Created by narure. Direct your complaints to God, not to her.

To each their own. I won't have any relationship that isn't open.

@@kenofken9458If it’s open, what’s the point?

@@kenofken9458 Good for you. For average people, this approach just has a 90% failure rate. But I am sure you can make it work. Of course it is easier if the deal is clear from the beginning.

​@@kenofken9458I agree . Magonomy is a religious thing that has been embedded into society for a long time - but humans are animals and have animalistic tendencies - you can see by the 50% divorce rate that humans are not ment to mate exclusively for life... when women "turn off their switch" so to speak the men turn to other sources of sexual relief - either other women and in lots of cases other men - men will do whatever it takes to get some sexual relief depending on their age. In my opinion if a woman withholds sex for any kind of gain to her she might as well find her a street corner because she has reduced herself to the level of a prostitute... I think that in America marriage will slowly become a thing of the past - when I was young enough guys and gals got married either right out of high school or shortly thereafter- now guys are into their 30's and sometimes then they choose to just live with the woman with property and financial agreements in place ... and I dont blame them ... smart guys are learning from the mistakes of their fathers and rightly so - the us court system punishes the men and rewards the women in a divorce to a point that the guys are left destitute after a divorce for years...

After my divorce I’ve never remarried, my exwife is on marriage number four. Never been true to anyone in her life, it’s all about her

Make that three of us... I experienced LITERALLY everything you just wrote. I've been separated 9 months now and feeling like myself again, loving life. She calls every few weeks and begs for me to take her back. No thanks.

If she isn't giving you sex, just know she is getting it somewhere else. I want you to know that her love bombing and giving you sex out the blue is a way to Manipulate you to think things will get better. A women should be afraid to lose you and lose the time you are giving her, if it's the opposite that women isn't for you, and you are wasting your time.

Did you divorced her?

Monogamy is not natural. Women need that competition anxiety, they need to see that other women want their man and they need to constantly fear losing the best man. That's how their switch is kept on.😊

Amen, amen, amen! Did the same. Never getting married again.

No shes not. She said as women get older their switch turns on for safer guys. If he has no money it doesnt matter. So shes talking out her ass. Its always only guys who can provide the life style. If you can't they sense that. And the switch doesnt flip. But she said the switch flips off visuals. And it doesnt. It flips off security and thats money to women. At first its money or violence. But its violence that can be used to attain resources. Its never the broke sad guy who can't get any because hes kind and has no boundarys. Its either the drug dealer or the captain of the football team. Then one day. Just the captain. Then after that the highest paid friend he has. Women hate poor people with a passion. Most of the killers in the killing fields were young girls. Like 9 years old. Because women hate poor people.

eventually you will set new goals and find something better

Your married ..by law she must gettt it...be the man

Women are more trouble than they are worth. Slogged out 304's who trap a good man and then clamp their legs together and start bullshitting.

Look at it as breaking an addiction. An addiction to your wife.

We can't force chemistry and attraction

@@karentonks7581 but you can force yourself to not be terrible to your partner of 10 years

True, but why marry someone you're NEVER attracted to? Or did something instantly change about the man upon marriage?

@@googIesux I don't think there's a defining answer to fit every situation or individual. Maybe the person had sexual abuse and unconsciously feels safer but not so sexual. Maybe familiarity gets in the way. I mean for every human being going through such a situation there would be a story behind it. It's so easy to look into such a situation and find a quick remedy when you're not in it. We like to do that rather than understand it

Don't be naive, she will do the same to you. Lease them, don't buy them. You're choosing the expensive way to learn the same lesson.

You understand the game. Always remember that a woman reaches an age where they can't even give her Coochie away. We can still buy some as long as we live. I'm 68 and single / never married and I have never seen a Coochie in a Junk Yard. Hit and Run there's more out there.

Boss play brother, looks like a lovely mainly stress free life, plenty of women to date out there when you need some companionship

Yes and it all will go away because you don’t have a son to pass on your inheritance and family legacy. Selfish men are those who think materials are better than families.

​@@rustybridges4302 My money and possessions will go to 2 nieces and a nephew, so everything will still go to family.

@@rustybridges4302 Why should he care about legacy?

And if you're in the military, and deployed out of country, Jody comes around.

Because they know how to make women 🎉. Women’s body repond.

If they were married, it would eventually go off for them too (although probably not as quickly). How many handsome celebrities do we see going through ugly divorces? Part of the Chad/Tyrone appeal is that the women never fully feel that they have him locked down, so they have to work to keep his attention. Marriage takes that away.

Marriage is actually a really great thing. So, don't blame marriage for the problems caused by women. However, the real problem here is women who loot men off their resources and then blame men after playing the women card.

Of course it is. Women have guy “friends” lurking around too as backup plans. We all know this, though

Dude, she’s saying it doesnt matter who you are, once marriage happens everything changes.

Yeah, to have a healthy relationship as a man, you have to be more sexually attractive to your woman than all the men she was with before you, otherwise she will resent you and have contempt for you.

There’s ending up with the wrong person, but then there’s ending up with manipulative frauds. There’s a difference. One is an accident, the other is ill intended.

Good point. Also they love male validation. I am never married and 66 and woman was fawning over me. has soon has I called her to ask out she had a schedule and BS. after a couple of dates I gave up. Also did not cost much $. But many are phychos.

@@Dc225_ It matters who you but what she's not emphasizing is that physical attraction is very important to women. So it really matters how physically attracted she is to you. Yeah it doesn't guarantee the dead bedroom won't occur but the dead bedroom is Guaranteed to occur is she was never really physically attracted to you. Most women will never admit to this. But when you do hear one admit it, you'll jump for joy 🙏 😅 seriously, I've heard it once and I lit up from the inside 😁

They also have a "I'm married now so the romance stops and I whine and guilt trip instead" switch. Guys THAT is the 🔑 !!! Go back to romance mode and you'll get your needs happily met!

Tbf, it might even be the same switch.

​@@SENSEF you're the specific type of problematic person no one will ever marry

@SENSEF Women stop appreciating it if you keep it up, you take it for granted. It is far easier to get your needs met by somebody else, since, if the woman is refusing intimacy, it means she is cheating on you. So you cheat on her, move your assets to secret accounts and get ready for the impending divorce, and if she gets pregnant you divorce her before the kid is born and get a paternity test before signing anything.

Oh my… prayers. Probably look how you can sue

Im sure you would like to have been with a “thing” who accepts your every wish … you men need serious help

😎🇺🇸.......good Advice ....I think More young men are Learning this.....MARRIAGE IS A trap....

Or start a family and have children without marriage. Do a ceremonial wedding for the religion and make sure you don't live in those US states which have common law marriage, otherwise move.

I'm 54 and now married for 27 years; I don't recommend marriage to any man. Outside of the whole sex thing, women seem to make an effort to increase stress in relationships (i.e. drama).

MGTOW has always been the correct answer. "A strange game, the only winning move is to not play."

I’m 61 and totally agree with this comment.

I’ve heard that crap too. Thanks for freeing me from guilt. Pastors are always blaming the men.

Your Pastor is a blue pilled abomination to the word of God and the example and instruction of Christ. Kick him out of your life.

Churches are geared toward women. They have been ever since the Church adopted the doctrine of Bridal Mysticism, aka, “Jesus is my boyfriend.” Don’t believe me? Next time you go, take note of the color scheme and the decorations. Do they look like they appeal to men? I encourage you to look up and read “The Church Impotent.” You can find it as a pdf. It will line out exactly what happened and who was responsible.

Men are indeed supposed to be the leader. The leader eventually stops leading when there's no one to lead. You can't lead someone who is always going in different directions. Me 28 years and stop arguing over my physical needs along with feeling like I am worthy of being someone who can be a leader. I decided to stop fighting for it, deal with it in my way and ask God for mercy and guidance and help because I don't know how to anymore.

That’s why you don’t go to a religious figure for marriage counseling.

If you do get in the game, get two. Competition keeps them in check

Bro. 😂😂😂😂😂

Friend of a friend. Married 20 yrs, wife cheats, he forgives. She cheats again. New bf maybe brings a camera and a few guys over while his kids home Word is new bf abuses and got ex wife on drugs. Guess she got what she wanted. Good man, 20 yrs cheated 2x probably more. You can do everything right and still lose.

@@stevefromwork6136 Yep. My decision to stay single starts to look better and better.

@@Schopenhauer69 iv 0 regrets

women need to learn what from this channel ? stuff they know when they are 9 years old ?

They would argue it. This is for Men, not women. But the women should probably be made aware that "We are learning and learning well"

@@joedonbaker1673 That's because American women are allergic to guilt.

Women see this they just don’t give a crap

They don't care. Even if they knew about this channel, they would lambaste it to death, and demean its value.

You're not alone.

Why do we allow the laws to benefit them only? WTF is our problem?

It's a crazy world.

Exact reason why marriage and kids is out of the question for me

Lucky man

Was?

@@troycarpenter3675 past tense yes😂

No. It is overwhelmingly the case that men have an extremely difficult time getting sex. That's why they marry. To secure a steady supply, and it's a price that men have traditionally had to devote their lives to paying and protecting and guiding in order to have it

Unfortunately, most good men find it hard to cheat no matter how bad things get. So we are trapped.

It has already failed. We are our father's Oldsmobile.

No need to stray. Divorce and move on.

Yes, society has got to accept that most men simply need sex throughout their entire adult lives. Men are not wrong for wanting their wives sexually - presumably they both agreed to get married, lol. Society has to accept that it takes 2 to make a marriage fall apart. A decent percentage of those wives of cheating husbands know full well they were attempting some sexual control. A man in that situation has been shown in a cruel manner that his wife doesn't love him in the way he thought she did. Men probably need to be more willing to start a divorce conversation early on in that situation. There's always a chance that she doesn't understand, thinks it's only a game or something. Men never want to start this conversation because it sounds like "have sex with me or I'm leaving you" but that's not it - the real issue is more like "why has something changed between us?"

I really don't mean to be rude or anything, but isn't sex ONCE a week for when you first got married just not enough? I mean, and with all due respect you don't have to answer me, I'm just trying to figure things out before I put a ring on my girl, did you guys have sex more frequently before the marriage and were you content with the amount? Did she initiate as well? Were you her first sexual partner? With my girl of almost a year we've been having sex almost every day or at least a few times a week when we see each other (we live separately since we are both young 18 and 19 and it's a 1-2h drive each way).

@@Tickson Don't put a ring on your girl. Unless you want a life of servitude and slavery. Do NOT get a marriage license. Ever. Don't live in a state where cohabitation becomes common law marriage. Move elsewhere. Nothing dries up a woman's sex drive faster than wedding cake. Engagement Ring > Wedding Ring > Suffering! DONT DO IT

@@Tickson I have quite literally not known ANY of my male married friends (8 of them) not having trouble getting sex from their wife. The story is identical in each case-and my own I might add, lots of intamacy before getting wed- and less as time goes by. Unfortunately your odds suck

@@TicksonI’m 46, former RM Commando - literally every man I’ve ever known has had sex drop off at about an 80 to 90 percent drop once married! It’s a really bad situation to be fair mate, they demand a baby and then of course they are then “too tired” from being a mum for the next 18 years, pop out a couple kids a year or two apart and they are set up for decades! Mention sex and you’re lambasted as selfish- pure gaslighting! Don’t do it brother, don’t get married and be like us uneducated men that didn’t have the internet 👍🤝🤝🤝

@@Tickson no it is not enough. twice a day is best once a day minimum

It won’t last 🤙

She always had that partner, it was you she wanted to get rid of.......happy that your eyes open when it did!!

Because she needed to manipulate him just like she manipulated you

Funny story, I was in a dead bedroom with my Ex. We broke up. 10 months later, she wanted to do friends with benefits. The sex was better out of our relationship than it ever was in the relationship.

​@@delawarehistory1675Pathetic creatures.

Self entitled fantasies the modern woman is just an entry and exit hole nothing more nothing less.

It blew my mind when you realized that the Bible says you need to have sex and it should not be withdrawn.

I'm pleased to hear this. I pray for a loving, godly wife too.

They will say that they are not withholding, they will give some other excuse.

Doesn't sound like you've been married very long.

@@Gravitywalker20I’m a decade in and have still been holding to this 🤷🏻‍♀️

Is she fit as well?

@@chiluditospro2she doesnt work out, but has always been thin and I find her very attractive

Sound good, good for you brother

'Never again'....good luck, sir.

⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@scrocrates6380 “The power which resides in him is new in nature, and none but he knows what that is which he can do, nor does he know until he has tried. . . . Trust thyself: every heart vibrates to that iron string.” - Ralph W. Emerson

And strangley, women go on to live longer after the man dies. Hmmm.

Because they want to! lol

A good argument for MGTOW and STAYING single

Modern day women are delusion at its finest

That is why getting married is the biggest mistake a man can make, other than procreating with that self-centered witch.

Im doing that right now.

A lot of women try to be friends with their children, rather than parent and guide them into becoming happy well-adjusted adults later. Women today provide almost zero discipline to their kids, so they can make dad the bad guy.

You know the sad thing about the feminine...unless they're 💯 on board they do more damage than good...misery likes company...

In China a man can sue his wife for making an ugly baby if the wife had plastic surgery. That would be kinda funny if he could sue for not getting enough sex too.

Bait and switch is legalized grape of men by women lol

Yes because it’s fraud!! Yet the courts reward women for doing this!!

Well in the short-term this is why annulment exists.

In fact it was a contract, even a covenant for some, which are binding agreements. Vows are a serious thing, except for those ( like feminists) who only push for their own agendas.

why did you get married again? Lessons not learned?

congratulations, you have been successfully emasculated!

It was the same with me in my last relationship. Even with her being a very attractive woman, her awful personality eventually made it so i could not see her as attractive anymore. She tried to get me hot for her again with lingerie and such, but i just wanted her to be warm/loving. She had no love in her, so that wasn't possible. I couldn't do it anymore at some point. It felt wrong because there was no love in her, just coldness.

You dodged a lot of bullets.

I agree. A wise older woman told me once to date somebody through two holiday seasons. Holidays are of course a stressful time and people and family and you really get to see how someone is. Is there true self comes out. The Mask starts to come off. Yeah I hear what you're saying somewhere about the nine month mark they are not getting their way and they start closing off emotionally or physically and blame you for it

Like Neo in the matrix lucky bastard! @@Gravitywalker20

@@Camper292000 Yep. 2 years. I really like this woman's vlog, her honesty, but sadly, IMHO, women, especially Western women, will avoid watching helpful vids like this, because critical self analysis and/or accountability is their kryptonite. What really stings is, we men can fall pretty hard for a woman those first 6 months or so, which makes facing the truth and parting ways pretty rough. I've had to do it a number of times since my divorce, and frankly, I'm kind of done with trying anymore.

​@@johncarlson6472This is why a lot of guys keep rotations nowadays, ideally 3 regulars and 3 slots that are for newcomers or temps. I don't know what it is about it, but it keeps women chasing and putting their best foot forward. Knowing there are other women and that I have additional options on top of those other women, there is zero power for her to clam up or withdraw from me, since you don't get attached or desperate when you have a harem of different women. I don't do this anymore, and I don't really recommend it either. For moral/spiritual reasons as well as safety/practical reasons. But it seems to put women in that spot where they want to be, as weird as that sounds. I know the pattern you're talking about very well, most men do. The whole, 1-2 years into it and she starts pulling back and acting like she's not as interested. With a rotation, when a woman gets like that, she simply gets booted and you're not very affected by it. If she was the only girl you were seeing or your wife, you'd naturally be devastated and would need to recover. No such case with a rotation.

Yes, move on. Divorce her.

@@ElearningDigest or just cheat - a lot

There are things you can do, but it will likely require you to sacrifice a bit of your humanity to do it. It's usually not worth it.

only way to turn it on is to have options of other women. because of competition anxiety she will give it to you BUT that's not forever because we all get old.

I know a couple that were together for 12 years before having a baby. She stayed with him the whole time and he wasn’t a chad, that I can tell you. The moral of the story is loyalty, but how rare it is, and it didn’t have anything to do about having a kid for a decade.

This is probably why so many of them (myself included) are not getting married anymore. I just don't see the benefit anymore if I'm the one always doing the giving and getting little if anything in return.

Love is blind, but marriage is the eyeopener.

If everything else is working in your marriage (or friendship rather) - then just outsource sex. Having an affair is dangerous as it might lead to emotional ties which may cause the end of your marriage.

Internet pornography is cheaper and available everywhere. Yeah, probably less satisfying without the presence of another human, but the presence of this and OnlyFans content is actually contributing to men not bothering to go out and look for women.

Its "illegal"; but its totally available and accessible if you know where to look. Rarely is it ever prosecuted. the guys I know who partake are married rich and have dead bedrooms.

There are ways around this.

They made it a felony in Oklahoma and it's still everywhere.

It's legal in Australia and marriage rates are the same as the US

😂😂😂

Yikes! Maybe time to go to a sex therapist together if you plan on staying with her. No one should be in a sexless marriage, otherwise you’re just friends.

Lol. True. But sex (outside of abuse) isn’t a very high price for a woman to pay. Twenty minutes tops (that’s all it’ll take d/t infrequency) every 6-8 weeks is quite a bargain for her. But the never ending, minute-by-minute manipulation, deceitfulness, and demeaning punishment that a man must endure will eventually cost him his very being. But after losing greater than half of his wealth after it’s all over, he finds the divorce to have been cheap enough. Go MGTOW!

@JRBusk Because the man they generally decide to marry is not the samw man they truly desire for sex, so sex for those women become more of an effort to put in order to ge something else they want(marriage) than a true pleasure.

Prostitutes are so much cheaper.

@JRBuski think who cares at this point ? women broke it women can fix it

Both of these propositions are false. One does no longer have to be married to have sex and sex is no longer guaranteed in a marriage.

Well… six figures is enough to provide for a wife and a girl friend.

@@nelsonlourenco3781 well yea but ive had plenty of sex in my life so if i gotta go sexless to be a dad to my kiddos then so be it 🤯

@@jpmor7327 exactly like me. I don’t leave my kinds.:)

>You didn’t gain anything. You just took away something for both of you. ^^^this

100,000% correct.

True, but they really don't care. No rational thought like you just presented will sway them, because they are just too indignant and emotionally unintelligent.

LOL did you see the latest Tesla optimus gen 2, they showed today? Look at that fine dexterity hand/finger movement. Yeah, you are correct the bots will be here much sooner than people realize.

@@cajampa yes! I did!

A few do, the majority has no idea, and are bewildered by the situation themselves.

They know believe me

yes I'm a woman. I was very confused why I would do this. I was in an open relationship with a guy and every time we would close off the relationship and make it exclusive, I would instantly lose my drive to have sex. very unfortunate.

Because they very rarely know what they want. They have a ridiculous checklist, but it almost never makes them happy, as it is largely based on the bullshat Hallmark movies they watch.

💯

If my wife found out I was banging another woman, or make her think I was, my ass would be tossed out, and she would figuratively hand me my lungs. At 73, and living on two pensions and a couple IRAs, not sure if I would survive financially. I would need an agressive lawyer that would nail HER financially.

Dang, how do you get the neighbor deal? lol

Here's a thing, women love men who get attention from other women.

@@gatoloco3949 facts..

Didn't work for me long term. But I heard my mom say Many years ago when my dad mentioned that she isn't no longer interested and her reply was "I can't be bothered"! That struck me to the core. My dad was a provider and still is at 86! He works 3 days a week and loves being outside working meeting people. Tired as he is, he is out working keeping sanity going. Most of his friends unfortunately have died and a few left are older and not able to get out much anymore. He is! 🤓😁

Well done bro! I had a situationship for 1,5 years with a girl who lives in Amsterdam, 3 hr drive away from me. She almost was always the one driving to me, as I wasn‘t able to do cause of work and other stuff. You gotta focus on yourself, and women will always chase you ! She wanted to come totegether with me being 6 years older than me, and I always said no..

She was probably cheating.

The sad thing is everything you describe should be what a women should be doin for a man she desires.

Same here. The bonus for me is that I only get to be with my kid 4 to 5 times per year. Ain't doing it again. Hope all is well.

A woman produced it.

Exactly like the last guy said it’s because the woman produced it if it was Myron or if it was me or anyone else it would get shadow band or we would get demonetised or canceled

Couldn't you just identify as a woman and evade the censorship? (Only half joking)

Hilarious

It's only allowed because a woman is saying it.

you are wasting your breath. women are not worth it. marriage is a scam.

The problem is not that they think their husband is not attracted to them, it's they are not attracted to their husband. Either like said in the video she settled with a boring provider after having wildest experience with bad boys, players, handsome or high status men in her youth. And when she locked in up and got what she wanted (children) she has no incentive to make the mental work of getting aroused to have sex, that is necessary when you are not strongly attracted to your partner aesthetic. Or they did marry a guy that they were genuinely attracted to, but he either got a few pound and lost the six pack, or got bald with age. Or simply the routine of a husband and father with responsibility took the edgeness of the "adventurer" that he was when they met, their life is boring and she misses the trills of when they were young and dating, and doing dumb irresponsible shit like sex in public. Whatever it is, she is not attracted to him anymore. She feels no passion towards him, and the act of having to make effort to be aroused and wanting to have sex with a men is in itself a turn-off to women. Like the infamous quote from women that explain it all "I love you, but I'm not IN LOVE with you."

It’s a little more nuanced. 1. Many men get quite unattractive as they age. And also don’t try to be attractive. Just look at middle age men around you. Ask yourself if you’d get excited by that as a woman. 2. Most men don’t understand that there’s a little more to it for a women to get sexually aroused than for a man. Women need to be seduced. As a man you can never stop seducing your woman if you want regular sex. There has to be mental/emotional triggers of excitation for her. The “good provider males” women tend to marry are often not very competent at this.

@@VitorHugoOliveiraSousa Ah, the old red pill meme.

wow I found one real man in a comment section stuffed full of wet tampon cry babies

How often did you cheat on him?

@@Emannzo Never have I. Why would you assume I have?

Please tell us, what made your attraction last so long?

@Ral2O3_ It's all in how I changed how I look at my husband. How I look at him makes me love him more , respect him, see him as totally hot, and irresistible. I intentionally look for the good and tell him how wonderful he really is. He really is wonderful. I initiate sex every day. He loves it. Women should look at their husband through another woman's eyes. If you don't see how wonderful he is...there is a woman out there who does.

@@map218 that seems a great relationship!

Never capitulate to a sociopath. She will get her comeuppance someday. Take solace in that fact.

Sounds like she was a wifestitute. Only having it in exchange for a large purchase...

Man a feel so bad for you, I hope you end up well and keep going with your life. Thanks so much for sharing your experience.

I would rather quit working and be homeless than give in to that

Same story here. Typically women between 35 and 45 yrs initiate the divorce. After grieving the man starts a new sex life. The ex wife finds a new sucker and marries up. Be aware not to be a sucker again. Have the balls to walk out if needed.

Stay in shape so she other women looking at you.

How about respecting your wife, help her feel strong about who she is, help her honestly express her feelings, and make her feel she loves you, but doesn’t need you. Or maybe I’m saying the same thing but with a different emphasis.

@@brada-smith2807 of course but as a man always have to be ready for the worst case scenario. Be strong and do better.

@theactualdoomslayer do better.

i think this is a big one women really do respond to men that are somewhat selfish, they will work on themself and only focus on them and not the wife and only do what they want to do.

Ouch!

Dam

She said that in a serious manner? Did you guys divorce by now? Those sound like soul crushing insults from the person you love most.

If her attraction for you changed around the time she went off the pill, then hormones could be to blame as well. It's an unfortunately little known fact that the pill changes who and what women are attracted to.

@@erindeerhart5538 bullshit

@@janushomer9111research it yourself, then come back and apologise.

@@peripheralparadox4218 retard

Im not even religious but this is true.

I think that religion allow 4 wives because men are dying in wars and the widows can be look after by their male surviving relatives. Not because their prophet see how evil women are and needed attention. 😂

If God is right about wmn, what else is He right about? Pick up a Quran and start reading. There are many rulings which we may not like, but that's just because we don't understand the wisdom behind it.

Did you leave her ass?

Why is the bride smiling in the wedding picture? She knows she will never have to go down on her husband again.

@@ed5308 dark

​@@ed5308wow!!!!