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The Top 5 Reasons Your Wife Has No Interest In Sex (The REAL Story) 

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@brandon8541
@brandon8541 9 месяцев назад
I’m in the middle of a divorce with a woman that emasculated me constantly “you’re not even a man”, “no one wants you here”, “kill yourself”, “you’re worthless”. I did everything I could to be a good man, support my family, being there for my kids and step children. Now I’m a homeless veteran living in a shelter awaiting my divorce with a system that completely backs her up. I’ve never felt more hopeless in my life.
@CodyH88
@CodyH88 9 месяцев назад
Not sure how you manage to get on here and commit but I feel for you. Hopefully some people will step up and help you out. But remember this experience because you could of left sooner. Since you're a Vet, there's a good deal of places to help you. Hopefully you get that help!
@tonykelpie
@tonykelpie 9 месяцев назад
Stick with it Brandon. You are a better person than her and that will see you through
@andrewmackenzie325
@andrewmackenzie325 9 месяцев назад
Hold the line Sir. Build yourself anew.
@prrsd4046
@prrsd4046 9 месяцев назад
Keep your head up. Sadly, women have no idea what it takes on their own. She needs to be destitute the rest of her life.
@charlesbradford7233
@charlesbradford7233 9 месяцев назад
from a guy who went through a divorce I know how hard it is, the bias against you. learn as much as you can about the process, read the statute, stay positive, grieve not her but the lost. Then move forward. Believe me life does get better, you will find a women who will love and respect you, just set boundaries and rules and stick to them.
@patriot1303
@patriot1303 9 месяцев назад
This was so dead on. Point 5 especially - I know this is what happened and why she stopped. It coincided with her promotion to the top position at her work and it wasn’t long before she suddenly started putting all these conditions- impossible to meet conditions on sex. I was reduced to trying to talk her into it which only made me look worse and her dislike me more. When I left we hadn’t had sex for almost two years and she constantly criticized and insulted me and when I protested her insults she resorted to screaming obscenities at me. I work 60+ hours a week making a comfortable living in the oil industry and when I came home at the end of the day I just wanted peace and maybe a little affection would’ve been welcome - but I got nothing but criticism and insults - I left
@prrsd4046
@prrsd4046 9 месяцев назад
Peace of mind is valuable.
@mickbenson9161
@mickbenson9161 9 месяцев назад
That's female hypergamy for you. They become the men they always wanted to marry. Feminism sure did a number on us.
@jugulartara4388
@jugulartara4388 9 месяцев назад
You are spot on. She was so emotionally spent after work and ripped me apart instead of being able to love.
@josephd27
@josephd27 9 месяцев назад
Good choice in leaving
@kylecurryyt
@kylecurryyt 9 месяцев назад
You are not alone in your experience.
@johnmoyle4195
@johnmoyle4195 9 месяцев назад
Women control access to sex, men control access to marriage. My wife used the refusal of sex as a means control over me. She is now enjoying her new life as a working single mother in her 50s that nobody wants. Our son left her to live with me.
@geraldfranklin6049
@geraldfranklin6049 9 месяцев назад
Mine too.
@prrsd4046
@prrsd4046 9 месяцев назад
Only fitting.
@562Omar
@562Omar 9 месяцев назад
Same here! … all the best out there.💪
@WillyEckaslike
@WillyEckaslike 9 месяцев назад
shes a narcissist
@troyl5498
@troyl5498 9 месяцев назад
Good for her. Such a _triumph!_
@donkemp8151
@donkemp8151 3 месяца назад
My wife was diagnosed with dementia going on 4 years ago. She is / was one of the most beautiful women I’ve ever known. Kindness. Grace. Nice. We haven’t been intimate for almost two years now. I took a vow of “for better or worse, in sickness and in health”. God help me live up to be the man my wife thought me to be.
@pumkins_world9277
@pumkins_world9277 2 месяца назад
You are a good man. God bless you 💫
@childofthemosthighGodLove
@childofthemosthighGodLove Месяц назад
May Abba Father give you the knowledge that you ARE The Man your Beautiful Wife thinks you are. ❤
@charlesmckinley29
@charlesmckinley29 Месяц назад
Bless you Sir. Your wife has one of the most horrible diseases possible. There will be terrible hurtful things said to you. It totally changes the person. Please find a strong caregiver support group. “Hope for the Caregiver” is a show on American Family Radio. 🙏
@GentiluomoStraniero
@GentiluomoStraniero Месяц назад
@mikemuha7537
@mikemuha7537 Месяц назад
There may come a day that she doesn't know who you are. You know who you are.
@theautodidacticman_
@theautodidacticman_ 16 дней назад
Intimacy is the only thing that separates a relationship from a friendship.
@jeffknowlton5200
@jeffknowlton5200 9 месяцев назад
On a side note. When a woman tells a man she doesn't want sex very much, what she's really saying is she doesn't want it with him.
@fillthefeeder
@fillthefeeder 9 месяцев назад
That sums it up
@notbobdavis6026
@notbobdavis6026 8 месяцев назад
Exactly. She feels like she settled, and resents him and is repulsed by him because she feels he's beneath her. A living hell for the poor dude.
@gabrielleaumont3971
@gabrielleaumont3971 8 месяцев назад
Maybe some men are insensitive, er, like a ram to the ewe? Or let themselves go? B.o. bad breath, etc. Women don't just want to feel used as just a receptacle fir his urges. Some niceties may be welco.e
@garybalranald6323
@garybalranald6323 8 месяцев назад
Women are designed to find the best man. It's why they monkey branch. When a husband is comfortable, the wife thinks she can get better and lose interest. The only way to circumvent this is to continually be at the top of your game and have your wife think she can't get any better. That's just as much effort as getting divorced.
@consciousgentile5141
@consciousgentile5141 8 месяцев назад
​@@garybalranald6323Tom Brady can't even do that
@josephj6521
@josephj6521 9 месяцев назад
I once dated a girl that would say “ok, let’s get it over with” prior to having sex. It turned me off and I had to end the relationship.
@thecrimsonraven707
@thecrimsonraven707 9 месяцев назад
Or always hearing "Are you done yet?" during sex.
@pappytinkers
@pappytinkers 9 месяцев назад
​@@thecrimsonraven707 oh snap!! I thought I was the only one that ever heard that! LMAO
@David-xy9yo
@David-xy9yo 8 месяцев назад
Oh man that would not fly with me either.
@grantwithers
@grantwithers 8 месяцев назад
bruh i'd leave as soon as I heard that, tho never have heard it in my years.
@veritasaequitas9277
@veritasaequitas9277 8 месяцев назад
dodged a bullet bro
@Orecatmeatprocessors
@Orecatmeatprocessors 9 месяцев назад
As a guy once we go through all the nagging and humiliation we don't ever want them back again!
@frankonolfi7328
@frankonolfi7328 Месяц назад
I'm nagged and harassed to the point I lose interest
@fordilac
@fordilac 8 месяцев назад
a wife starts to change a husband on day 1, then 10yrs later she says, "You are not the man I married".
@abbynormalz
@abbynormalz 3 месяца назад
Yep, if she does not like how their mate tirned out at least 50% is their fault.
@Lowz_619
@Lowz_619 2 месяца назад
Bro 💯
@rishawnweber6127
@rishawnweber6127 2 месяца назад
That's a deep truth
@marksargent2440
@marksargent2440 Месяц назад
True
@pattracey105
@pattracey105 Месяц назад
So true!
@jediredneck2172
@jediredneck2172 8 месяцев назад
My wife didn't lose interest in sex. I found she had 3 side dudes.
@DxV04
@DxV04 Месяц назад
exactly, her number one excuse is simply pathetic.
@johnknutson6418
@johnknutson6418 Месяц назад
She's tired of having sex with the guy who trustful, honest, raised her dadyless children . Supported and loved them like his own. 40 bucks for a woman on the street while cost of having sex with a woman who doesn't want sex with the guy who she married. 100 of dollars per night. Woman ain't worth it no more. Stay single guys
@Mrbfgray
@Mrbfgray 23 дня назад
The emasculation thing is very real for many, she claims it's the woman's fault but it takes two. He has to have the backbone, if she can crush him she will hate him. *It's a feature not a bug.*
@lonewolf8292
@lonewolf8292 20 дней назад
🤣🤣🤣
@calebenglert692
@calebenglert692 11 дней назад
How did you find this information?
@mylesjordan9970
@mylesjordan9970 9 месяцев назад
My father put it succinctly when I first got married: sooner or later, she will try to change you, to remake you-then if she’s successful she will have zero respect for the product. Know your worth and bear it in mind. He thought that that’s what Socrates meant by “know thyself.”
@brittgayle467
@brittgayle467 5 месяцев назад
Exactly! But she will also resent you if you resist
@acenine8149
@acenine8149 5 месяцев назад
@@brittgayle467But will the resentment she feels for you not changing out weight the disinterest she would feel if you did? Also, would that resentment outweigh the attraction she had for you initially? I personally don’t think so
@bobashby3106
@bobashby3106 5 месяцев назад
There's a great Broadway show tune about this, from act 2 of Guys and Dolls: "Marry the man today/Rather than sigh and sorrow/Marry the man today/and change his ways tomorrow."
@mylesjordan9970
@mylesjordan9970 5 месяцев назад
@@bobashby3106 If only we had Harry the Horse’s smarts!
@delroymurray9077
@delroymurray9077 4 месяца назад
@PolishGator
@PolishGator 9 месяцев назад
Healthy man and husband of 14 years here. All great points and useful. I would add from this end of the relationship that we WANT our wives to enjoy sex and to want sex. In fact, if at any point we found that our wife ever had sex with us without actually wanting to, we wouldn't want it. Either we enjoy it together or there's no point. We spend our lives in service to our family and we are proud to do the best we can in doing so. Sex is no different. Let's communicate and make it something special and fantastic between us. No pressure! We love you!
@thehappywifeschool
@thehappywifeschool 9 месяцев назад
Thank you for your insightful comment. "...we WANT our wives to enjoy sex and to want sex. In fact, if at any point we found that our wife ever had sex with us without actually wanting to, we wouldn't want it." - Spot on.
@TheSchmuel
@TheSchmuel 9 месяцев назад
Absolutely spot on! We also need to FEEL desired. Many wives will have sex, but its obvious they are not wanting to, and do it out of duty... This can make the act of sex very NOT fun. Just as we desire our wife, we need to be desired.
@PolishGator
@PolishGator 9 месяцев назад
@@TheSchmuel Agreed. A great concept is the book about love languages also. It helped us realize that we give and receive love in very different ways, just like with sex. We all need to understand what is important to each other and what we like or don't, etc. All really boils down to effective communication and understanding coming from a place of love and companionship. If couples approach their marriages with the belief that thwir partner is always behind them and with them in every way, it really frees everything up and we can let our guards down to love each other like we should. This is a great channel but unfortunately there is a lot of crap put there in our culture that has devalued marriage and relationships so people come into it and treat it like a transaction. As soon as it isn't perfect, they are ready to give up or start a resentment feud, either openly or deep down. It's destructive. I believe in always nipping it in the bud and treating everything like an opportunity to improve the relationship. Might as well have a great marriage so let's stop wasting time and get going! Tomorrow is not promised to anyone.
@TheSchmuel
@TheSchmuel 9 месяцев назад
@@PolishGator yep. Read it. Tried it. I give but she won’t.
@nerychristian
@nerychristian 9 месяцев назад
Many women are taking birth control pills. So when they get married and want to get pregnant, they stop taking them. And then their hormones change. And they no longer feel attraction for their husbands
@nyterpfan
@nyterpfan 8 месяцев назад
"Call no man unhappy until he is married." (Socrates) This was said almost 2,500 YEARS AGO--25 CENTURIES--and it's as true as ever!!
@kutieluvsmj7
@kutieluvsmj7 5 месяцев назад
Can say the same about us woman to be honest
@vickysharma-gl6gv
@vickysharma-gl6gv 4 месяца назад
True
@bgrego88
@bgrego88 4 месяца назад
Damn shame ain't it
@thedarkestowl4224
@thedarkestowl4224 3 месяца назад
Its 25 centuries old because they'll never change
@bgrego88
@bgrego88 3 месяца назад
Crazy how that works we didn't evolve worth shit did she lol
@robroy9870
@robroy9870 8 месяцев назад
4 billion women on the planet and only one of them gets it, we are doomed…
@jonnyuzumaki777
@jonnyuzumaki777 5 месяцев назад
Hahahaha
@stevendavis7079
@stevendavis7079 5 месяцев назад
She's not getting it and niether is he, that's the point
@stinger4712
@stinger4712 5 месяцев назад
We are not doomed... It's this weak attitude that got western men here.
@Primeboy39
@Primeboy39 4 месяца назад
@@stevendavis7079 you guys say this but how many women are watching this video? How many comments have been posted by women here? Yet I see all of these men commenting their experiences. At the end of the day there is only so much men can do when women simply do not want to be happy.
@phoenixtoash2396
@phoenixtoash2396 4 месяца назад
Women want to be happy. But from what I learned we are not allowed.
@Djw0071
@Djw0071 7 месяцев назад
I’m a happily married man for 20 years with 4 children. My wife and I went through a sexual revolution about 5 years ago when sex was just dry and “her duty”. I started working out and talking to her more, explaining how sex is one of the main ways that men feel accepted and loved by their women. If she treats sex like a duty that needs to be checked off the list it’s actually humiliating and heartbreaking for a man. This was an eye-opening moment for her. And she looks at our sexual connection With much more importance and emotional connection, which means the world to me. we both decided that we would put God 1st each other 2nd and the kids third and that also has changed everything for the better.
@ricardoalexandre380
@ricardoalexandre380 4 месяца назад
God bless you Brother 🙏😇
@mr.fixcamer
@mr.fixcamer 3 месяца назад
You were lucky bro
@BrettGrady-vf4kx
@BrettGrady-vf4kx 3 месяца назад
Well done mate. Huge effort.
@paole9729
@paole9729 3 месяца назад
And what do you do for her? A relationship works if both sides put an equal amount of effort.
@mattc3510
@mattc3510 3 месяца назад
You are lucky most men try that and get it thrown in their face. Congrats hope you continue to have a happy marriage.
@nelsonrosatheovercomer6353
@nelsonrosatheovercomer6353 9 месяцев назад
Point 5 is straight to the point. When a woman disgraces a man she no longer respects him but begins to contempt him.
@kjthawriter
@kjthawriter 9 месяцев назад
Why would a woman tear her man down and then reject him!? That’s just evil. There. It’s been said.
@kjthawriter
@kjthawriter 9 месяцев назад
The Curse from the Garden…
@geraldfranklin6049
@geraldfranklin6049 9 месяцев назад
Because of her living in the fantasy world that Disney and other women created.
@markaurelius61
@markaurelius61 9 месяцев назад
I think women need someone who is not in awe of her to feel attracted.
@SeekerGoOn2013
@SeekerGoOn2013 9 месяцев назад
Our hostess just explained it! Did you listen? (I’m a man, btw)
@kjthawriter
@kjthawriter 9 месяцев назад
@@SeekerGoOn2013 I didn’t post my whole thought. I was in the middle of several feelings as I sat and looked at several aspects of my relationships both past and present
@prrsd4046
@prrsd4046 9 месяцев назад
If I'm repulsive, so is my money.
@spinnetti
@spinnetti 9 месяцев назад
you wish... Money is never repulsive to them.
@prrsd4046
@prrsd4046 9 месяцев назад
@@spinnetti can't have both. Well maybe 50% if divorce.
@sana-cm7oc
@sana-cm7oc 8 месяцев назад
@@prrsd4046 cant hide it but it sometimes gets misplaced...
@jonthomson9262
@jonthomson9262 5 месяцев назад
She could never get my money anyway. I'm not a beta male provider.
@prrsd4046
@prrsd4046 5 месяцев назад
@@jonthomson9262Most men aren't, but the legal system says otherwise. So most are damned.
@Ivan-zy7du
@Ivan-zy7du 8 месяцев назад
I’ve been in this horrendous situation for over 25 years, over this period we have had sex maybe 12 or 15 times , the rest of the time the response from my wife was always: no, screaming, insults and yelling . I stayed so long in this situation because I felt it was my duty to do whatever it takes to save my marriage, always behaving in a descent manner despite the insults , hoping that at some point she would change and become affectionate again , but I was wrong things got worse over the years and I became the person described in the reason n.5, finally I’ve decided that there were only two way out for me: death or leaving . And I decided to leave and to find another partner who could give finally affection, sex and respect .
@charles2241
@charles2241 8 месяцев назад
It's funny how feminism got so many on the pill, and now it's trying to take the man away completely. Hmm, there's a correlation there. For in putting the two together, you can understand that the pill itself was meant as the first step in separating men from women. Oh sure, seemingly people got more sex out of the pill, but the full effect of the man was put out of the equation, and now it's just graduated to a more profound degree where he's all but excluded and from that nonsense part of the aisle, hated.
@PolishBehemoth
@PolishBehemoth 8 месяцев назад
you did the coerect thinf
@caseynabors6235
@caseynabors6235 8 месяцев назад
Well did you find it?
@racebannon96
@racebannon96 7 месяцев назад
I was in a loveless/sexless ten year marriage. She finally gave me a gift. She left us.
@SilviaLampa
@SilviaLampa 6 месяцев назад
​@@racebannon96so sad to hear 😢
@gregshuttleworth4465
@gregshuttleworth4465 6 месяцев назад
“Every one is a victim except for the men” yet we are expected to work long hours and care for a family give up our hard earned money for new shoes, cell phones, new cars, and a bigger more expensive home than we need. And she is “too tired”
@yudollia
@yudollia 5 месяцев назад
You were born to work long hours… thats why you have more muscle …. There is nothing to pity here
@yudollia
@yudollia 5 месяцев назад
Every human on earth has to buy their own shoes etc… a woman is not free
@brianfl33916
@brianfl33916 3 месяца назад
@@yudolliabut what is the man getting in return?
@MindaugasSnegirevas
@MindaugasSnegirevas 3 месяца назад
@@yudolliaYou sure are! 😂
@Arcadius-tr8bm
@Arcadius-tr8bm Месяц назад
Then why the hell do you give everything you have for free, and beg for something in return. Some more comments like this and I'll start hating men like women do. "I'm a pushover, but morally superior, f*ck." 🫣
@martinf2740
@martinf2740 9 месяцев назад
I had a feminist marriage counsellor berate me for wanting sex “It’s HER body!” Well, it’s my time, my effort, my money, my devotion, my life!, dammit!! Yet she feels entitled to all of it, but won’t give me the sex that she promised in her vows.
@ssing7113
@ssing7113 9 месяцев назад
Her body her choice. Your wallet your choice 😂 And what’s funny is when men are forced to pay alimony they never get sex payments they got comfortable with
@mikthe2004
@mikthe2004 9 месяцев назад
@@ssing7113 Yep, great comment!!
@martinf2740
@martinf2740 9 месяцев назад
@@ssing7113 I once figured out how many times I got laid after I put a ring on it, versus what it cost me to get shut of her. Worked out to over $10,000 a pop. Hookers are definitely cheaper.
@smokingcrab2290
@smokingcrab2290 9 месяцев назад
Funny how you're locked into a death vow for a woman to be like "it's HER body". And they expect you to be okay with that. When a woman marries, she signs away her right to reject you. The wedding vows literally state ultimate commitment which means with our bodies. If a woman rejects you in marriage, she ain't fulfilling her vows.
@deirdremorris9234
@deirdremorris9234 9 месяцев назад
Just curious, did any of you try to approach the marriage from a place of selflessness? I know many couple who are enjoying frequent, lively sex well into older years. And most of these couples are self less, not selfish.
@unstablenester941
@unstablenester941 9 месяцев назад
OMG! Repulsed. So accurate. All men should be seeing this before they get married. It's not just close, it's right on the target. That word is the only word to describe it. Two years ago I used that very word to describe to my wife, her response to my touch. But in true form, I was corrected and informed that it's not that way.
@WillyEckaslike
@WillyEckaslike 9 месяцев назад
this is why u should never get emotionally attached to these creatures
@cur244
@cur244 8 месяцев назад
It's why men shouldn't get married. Plus of course women are financially incentivized to get a divorce.
@ez-g3090
@ez-g3090 8 месяцев назад
Yes. Marriage is not worth the squeeze.
@unstablenester941
@unstablenester941 8 месяцев назад
@robertfisch4603 Ya, I tip over sometimes.
@ffarmchicken
@ffarmchicken 9 месяцев назад
Very insightful. Thinking back about my marriage of 30 years, I should have left sooner. But I’m a typical guy, I can fix this. She emasculated me, nagged me all the time, shamed me infront of my family, I couldn’t trust her. A very lonely existence. Now, I’m very happy with my girlfriend. She likes having sex and actually “uses” me to enjoy it. She desires me. Totally different than with my ex.
@silverdale3207
@silverdale3207 9 месяцев назад
My Girlfriend was the same (sadly she passed away) she used me for sex too, no complaints from me I loved it knowing she was wanting it and enjoying it
@racebannon96
@racebannon96 9 месяцев назад
Good to hear you got out. My 10 year marriage was like yours. She finally left the kids and me.
@jdl2180
@jdl2180 8 месяцев назад
Your girlfriend keep it that way
@siredith8846
@siredith8846 7 месяцев назад
@@racebannon96maybe that was a blessing
@racebannon96
@racebannon96 7 месяцев назад
@@siredith8846 It was. I am still relieved she is gone. I was so disgusted with her, I never did miss her.
@Ridingrules10000
@Ridingrules10000 8 месяцев назад
Of all the people I've ever seen discuss this topic, this is the most honest, most concise, most useful, and most perfect description. Bravo, young lady. You are a hero.
@sixofsix
@sixofsix 4 месяца назад
My wife degrades me all the time. It's subtle and she doesn't even realize she's doing it. She is always telling me to stop playing with the kids because it gets them riled up. Always telling me to help instead of playing with them. This makes me purposefully not want to help at all. When I come home....nothing. Not a single word. I get more affection from out dog then I do her. The kids greet me and hug me, NEVER her. When I leave.... nothing. When get home nothing. When we're in bed nothing. When I touch her she tells me to stop. I hate my wife. But I love her. Trapped basically.
@kennywhiddon1497
@kennywhiddon1497 3 месяца назад
Leave her ASAP
@bobsmith6538
@bobsmith6538 Месяц назад
@sixofsix Find a way to get out of there, my friend, if you can. It will only get worse!!
@ashenmirage50
@ashenmirage50 Месяц назад
Same with me. She covered up affair with sex and since she got busted she does the exact same thing your miserable nasty cold wife does. The freaking gets more words and attention than I do. I think our only move is to end it and leave. Maybe they’ll come around when we aren’t there anymore. Who knows. But I’m past my breaking point with the disrespect and nastiness ignorant behavior towards me.
@brianm744
@brianm744 Месяц назад
Dude. Your wife is either contemplating having sex with another man OR, is already there. Get you a shark divorce lawyer. Let THEM handle the rest. PROTECT your assets. She has no respect for you now. That is the main thing she is showing....DISRESPECT. Once a woman has no respect for you, IT IS OVER. IT IS DONE. You'll never get it back, no matter what you do.
@hakanaxlund4316
@hakanaxlund4316 Месяц назад
LEAVE!
@kevingaddis7276
@kevingaddis7276 9 месяцев назад
Just remember ladies , If you don't feed the dog at home he will eat some were else.
@RonHarrisMuscle
@RonHarrisMuscle 9 месяцев назад
But a judge will still give that bad dog half your shit if she finds out.
@goontubeassos7076
@goontubeassos7076 9 месяцев назад
I believe it’s the man who needs to be romanticized by the women, soft and hole don’t work. But hole can work professionally all day, until married.
@sana-cm7oc
@sana-cm7oc 8 месяцев назад
@@RonHarrisMuscle don't get married or always have a prenup
@thewrongshoes
@thewrongshoes 7 месяцев назад
Many of women are sleeping with their husbands and they still will cheat. Men need to stop lying about that
@darkspector800
@darkspector800 7 месяцев назад
I've been compared to a dog wow🥲
@rb4680
@rb4680 9 месяцев назад
Karyn I’m in my 20s and I am a huge fan of your channel. My last relationship left me while I was away with the military. That was 6 months ago and I have yet to enter a new relationship as a result. Your channel has given me a lot of insight to the necessity of communication, love, and the dangers of emasculation in a marriage. On behalf of men, we thank you.
@gevans5446
@gevans5446 8 месяцев назад
I thank you profoundly for your service, and I ask you to consider the age-old adage: Things happen for a reason. It may not be evident when it happens, but look at this time as a segment of your life in which you can focus on yourself.
@Orxbane
@Orxbane Месяц назад
Stop talking advice from women
@neils5539
@neils5539 9 месяцев назад
My wife has never pulled #5 on me (and vice versa) which is why we've been happily married for 47 years, but we hear it around us all the time. Wives are constantly belittling their husbands in public. That's simply not how you treat other people (married or not).
@spambot_gpt7
@spambot_gpt7 8 месяцев назад
They should know they are hurting themselves. But the drive is too strong.
@johnc.8298
@johnc.8298 8 месяцев назад
Telling us they feel like they're being used merely for our own secsual satisfaction certainly puts a damper on our desire to initiate anything. Why bother being in a sexless marriage when you can be a sexless single without the other obligations that come with being married.
@MrBoxofplastic
@MrBoxofplastic 8 месяцев назад
Yup, divorced 2.5 years now and virtually sexless. I'm 41, 6'2", fit, and handsome but just not really interested in hook ups and not finding a long term woman yet. I felt so trapped the last few years and months of that marriage.
@quantumharvestllc2082
@quantumharvestllc2082 3 месяца назад
Married 21 years to one of those unicorns...a self-aware woman who loves intimacy. I am so very blessed. and feel so sorry for so many other men.
@LV-1969
@LV-1969 9 месяцев назад
Giving it up to get the "I do" and then going to "I don't". Damn I wish I had a crystal ball...
@goontubeassos7076
@goontubeassos7076 9 месяцев назад
She just has to be your committed partner, no ring needed same shit different name. I broke up with my first girlfriend because she was a nympho, got married and had a 20 yr sexless relationship. “Irony”
@RF-cz4ln
@RF-cz4ln 3 месяца назад
You are not alone
@fishmanandginne7495
@fishmanandginne7495 2 месяца назад
Bait and switch.
@Brotherhood.777
@Brotherhood.777 9 месяцев назад
This video is just like the previous. So once again, its very simple. "If she can't make it, her sister will." Withholding sex, using sex as a weapon are all forms of abuse. I will never let a woman or anyone else abuse me ever again. So once my partner makes the mistake of trying that bullsh*t..... im either down the road or im hooking up with a side piece. Ill never again by held hostage.
@chriskirsten8221
@chriskirsten8221 9 месяцев назад
Amen to that!
@goontubeassos7076
@goontubeassos7076 9 месяцев назад
👍
@sammyb1651
@sammyb1651 9 месяцев назад
This video was mainly nonsense and word salad. She does hint at some truth by reason 5. Apart from that though zero sex is basically just a case of the sex having already served it's purpose. (It has created the bond/investment from the male). If the male is prepared to remain bonded with zero continued effort (sex) then she will test for this and learn from this. It means a maximal accrual of resources/investment for minimal effort. Basically she can diminish him to nothing and he will continue to give. She can give nothing and continue to receive. If she can get away with this she will. It's more central to female nature than we're comfortable to admit.
@markaurelius61
@markaurelius61 9 месяцев назад
@@sammyb1651 I think you are reducing humans to animals. We can have a higher purpose than pleasure and reproduction.
@BigBeardedToad
@BigBeardedToad 9 месяцев назад
@@sammyb1651 nailed it
@gerrymcquagge4986
@gerrymcquagge4986 9 месяцев назад
The husband is the object...a wallet with legs.
@mikeheckman4995
@mikeheckman4995 8 месяцев назад
That’s why women look at a guys butt. Measuring up the size of his wallet.
@OldChief3854
@OldChief3854 2 месяца назад
Nothing but an ATM!
@sidneybear
@sidneybear 5 месяцев назад
Ever time I go to a Family Reunion all my male cousins keep saying " I was always the smart one for NOT GETTING MARRIED" as they are all going through divorces. Life is full of choices, I decided to be with as many women of substance in mind and body as I can in my life. So far so good.
@dingdong6005
@dingdong6005 3 месяца назад
How ??? Did you do it man ??? Please teach me .. I am married and miserable 😖
@waltp3373
@waltp3373 2 месяца назад
Years ago, I worked with a guy who said that his wife only had sex with him on his birthday. I laughed because I thought he was joking. After further conversation, I realized he wasn't joking. He was the nicest guy you'd ever want to meet. I felt sad for him. He deserved better. "Here's your birthday present. Guess how much it cost me?" No, she didn't actually say that but that's what it boils down to. He turned his entire paycheck over to her every week. He got to keep the change. Emasculated much?
@keilmillerjr9701
@keilmillerjr9701 27 дней назад
My wife publicly posts on Facebook that she only uses me for my money. She even said on Facebook that she will divorce me after I finish paying for her to get through college and med/nursing school. $150k a year and we have a negative bank account within two days. Women can be evil. Feminism.
@tomaliff7570
@tomaliff7570 23 дня назад
40 year marriage. DB for 10. We never shared physical love even on birthdays or holidays. I'm so broken.
@SnowMan-rg7rj
@SnowMan-rg7rj 6 дней назад
@@tomaliff7570 27 years into mine. We were intimate about 3 times in the last 2 years. The prior 5 years, maybe once every 3 months. Maybe...I always enjoy it immensely and for her I see it is mostly a chore. It is incredibly emasculating as in between these infrequent intimate occasions, I am incessantly berated, insulted, screamed at and treated like a child. I do about 90% of all parenting and housework, plus I bring in well over 6 figures, paid off the house, paid off a rental property, paid off the car, ZERO debt, cook almost every meal (for about the last 10 years) and give her luxurious amenities. I am beyond frustrated as I can't do anything else! Is it my hygiene? Is it my breath? My hairstyle? My voice? My mannerisms. She is just miserable when I enter the room. I have tried so hard to please this woman and she has burst me open. 48 and so very alone. I yearn for love and intimacy.
@cryptojihadi265
@cryptojihadi265 9 месяцев назад
When women throw out the "you just want me for sex" BS, I just tell them, you need to Thank God, He gave men such a strong sex drive, or they wouldn't put up with all your shit. But as to the baseless accusation, IF that were true, your husband would have divorced you YEARS ago.
@MarkBarnes-zm3zw
@MarkBarnes-zm3zw 7 месяцев назад
I always joked that if women didn't have vaginas they would cease to exist.
@tylerwright754
@tylerwright754 5 месяцев назад
I have been married for 16 yrs. Your comment is 100% spot on true. And I felt like I genuinely fell in love with my wife, and after getting married….unbelievable how drastic her feelings changed.
@acenine8149
@acenine8149 5 месяцев назад
Such a good fuckin point. I need to remember that
@childkillers_shouldve_NoState
@childkillers_shouldve_NoState 5 месяцев назад
Man why your name is like that??
@cryptojihadi265
@cryptojihadi265 5 месяцев назад
@@childkillers_shouldve_NoState like what?
@soladeogloria5839
@soladeogloria5839 9 месяцев назад
I feel for you, Brandon and my heart is with you and for you. I went through divorce rape by the woman I tried my best to love and to cherish for 28 years. The courts and support was all in her favour and I was left homeless for the better part of 2 years. That was 12 years ago and it still hurts to think about it. But then I remember my wise Counsellor’s words: “At least you won’t have any regrets and you will have a clear conscience (because you tried to do the best you could). Thankfully I still continue to heal and have any friends but I don’t think I could ever marry again.
@racebannon96
@racebannon96 7 месяцев назад
My ten year marriage came to an end 26 years ago. Nearly every woman I dated after the divorce was a financial wreck, looking for a stable guy with a decent paying job that will pay for everything. Never again will I allow someone to come into my life and have access to half my assets. The juice is not worth the squeeze.
@jimr7154
@jimr7154 8 месяцев назад
I feel all your points were spot on As a man in a sexless marriage now for 20 years it all started with the constant criticism of me and what I do We grew apart and although we live together We sleep in separate bedrooms due to I got tired of being blamed for her lack of sleep on me By the way we have been in separate bedrooms now for 2 years I sleep fine She still doesn’t sleep so guess it’s not me
@EsonIndustries
@EsonIndustries 8 месяцев назад
So um, how do you expect to have sex if you stay in your separate bedroom? If her lack of sleep isnt your fault, and thats painfully clear to everyone since she still can't sleep, I think its time to go sleep with your wife.
@D_SKO
@D_SKO 7 месяцев назад
I did the same thing, wife kept blaming my snoring for keeping her awake. I tried a lot of stuff, nose strips, a CPAP machine, mouth guards, and finally started sleeping on the couch. I was just trying to not be the problem. Then she cheated on me and claimed it was because I was sleeping on the couch and she didn't feel loved anymore. You can't win.
@JasonSavorn
@JasonSavorn 7 месяцев назад
Time to move on… she isn’t keeping her vows and is cheating on you…
@GottaStayClassy
@GottaStayClassy 6 месяцев назад
About the last part: I've heard counter-arguments that if a man was strong enough, a woman couldn't emasculate him to that extend. Here's the thing: man allows that to happen by accident because of the love he has for his woman. It means he tries to better himself and stay open for her and the relationship's needs. What ends up happening much too often is the woman abuses this vulnerability like he was her enemy: little by little destroying his psyche, his self-assuredness, his confidence, then blames it on the man that he's gone too soft, he's become repulsive. This is a very classing way of poisoning the well for unhealthy women and they do it often unknowingly and absolutely without a speck of self-accountability. While I do think men do need to be more accountable to keep themselves fit, healthy and strong, I believe it is not in our collective best interest to have men make the choice of being destroyed by our own women or becoming cold, emotionless mountains in order to survive. And event mountains do chip away little by little when it's raining acid.
@tender3066
@tender3066 8 дней назад
Nice to see you mention mens role in this common dynamic. It is mens responsibility to nip this destructive behavior in the butt in the beginning, with fierce love. Earn her trust that we’re strong men. If you fail in that, then a happy relationship is impossible. I think there are varying levels of this dynamic but in the end it comes down to self love and being confident in ourselves. I am so thankful my marriage failed because I was not ready for that kind of thing. Now?…maybe. Maybe not, but I do see clearly now. Ive wondered why Ive been single for ten years. While women can date whenever they please. What was wrong with me?…Haha, nothing. I didnt love myself and I was weak and women could smell it. Good for them, I wouldn’t want them to take pity on me and then resent me later. All the teasing games now that women do, as a weak man I would get very upset at the #%+*-teasing, but now I can see it as desperation on their end and laying a trap I wont fall for. Blessings to authentic folk. 🌼
@snake57
@snake57 9 месяцев назад
No s3x, no relationship.
@intorsusvolo7834
@intorsusvolo7834 9 месяцев назад
This could extend into mothers (or parents in general) over-disciplining their sons to the point where they are totally emasculated and have a tough time growing up around other kids.
@robertreilly4946
@robertreilly4946 9 месяцев назад
Single mothers tell their daughters to break the glass ceiling and tell their sons not to play football because they might get hurt.
@renaissanceman5847
@renaissanceman5847 9 месяцев назад
as women age, they simply turn it off. they no longer have the desire. yet the moment a younger girl looks at her spouse, she goes into a rage of jealousy. Its not a mental problem. its hormonal aging... and no amount of psychological intervention or counseling is going to change the fact that she is simply tired of Fracking you.... key word... YOU. the moment someone else shows her interest, she will get wet and the machine will turn on for just long enough. but it will shut down even faster. she is simply not the sex kitten you married. she is now a worn out growling yeast infested, flatulent narcissist.
@Xairos84
@Xairos84 9 месяцев назад
​@@robertreilly4946mother's raise their daughters and 'love' their sons.
@parrotshootist3004
@parrotshootist3004 9 месяцев назад
@@robertreilly4946Its not about a boy hurting. Its about self dependence. She can't stand male independence.
@andersnielsen6044
@andersnielsen6044 8 месяцев назад
Spot-on.. ! But it is sadly not just mothers who does that.. The vast majority of men does also do these things toward their kids.
@danbassett1086
@danbassett1086 9 месяцев назад
Great points! As soon as you have children together she then sees you as the oldest kid in the house and she treats you as such.
@j.p.5716
@j.p.5716 9 месяцев назад
When the truth of it is, "the wife will only be the most responsible teenager in the house". - Arthur Schopenhauer, On Women (1851)
@mima5205
@mima5205 8 месяцев назад
If you behave like one... 😈 Never helping, but making even more work blaming
@lynnferry291
@lynnferry291 8 месяцев назад
Probably because you're just as useless around the house as one of the kids, and/or you're crappy in bed.
@sana-cm7oc
@sana-cm7oc 8 месяцев назад
@@mima5205 helping is a loaded word describing impossible standards. take your chores and shove them.
@inolvidable.
@inolvidable. 7 месяцев назад
Most men always expect the wife to replace their mother. So, if you want your woman to treat you like a grown up man, behave as such. @@j.p.5716
@user-hd1zb9yo2z
@user-hd1zb9yo2z 8 месяцев назад
Exactly my experience. I was married to a woman who told me no for 29 years and 7 months... Ladies if you want to be a middle age divorcee just do exactly what she says and you will effectively ruin your marriage and you can spend the rest of you life moaning and groaning about how your husband left you...
@sana-cm7oc
@sana-cm7oc 8 месяцев назад
lots of middle aged divorced 304s that are starved for attention. they are easy to pump and dump. it's not evil, I'm just playing the game that feminists created.
@6548ww
@6548ww 8 месяцев назад
I want my wife to watch this video but she refuses because it hits home and describes how she has treated me over the years
@EsonIndustries
@EsonIndustries 8 месяцев назад
Don't use the video to convince her to have sex with you. Watch the rest of the videos until you find the ones about your part in things. Once you own those you'll be getting laid without any further effort.
@ad70preterist
@ad70preterist 7 месяцев назад
Same I would like to show this video to my wife but she would become very angry.
@racebannon96
@racebannon96 7 месяцев назад
Walking on egg shells in your own home is no way to live.
@Kiyodio
@Kiyodio 5 месяцев назад
These don't sound like wives to me. A wife to me is a friend who enjoys being around you at every moment and wants to share every experience with you, including sex
@Boosted_aj
@Boosted_aj 5 месяцев назад
I’m going to and if nothing starts changing I’m gone. I already let her know that I’m no longer trying to fix anything. Don’t need to and can’t. Just observe and don’t be a donghead.
@motorcyclemichael2182
@motorcyclemichael2182 9 месяцев назад
No intimacy/sex really sucks. Been without it almost 5 months now. Thanks significant other! Wish I had known this years sooner
@douglasmaclean5836
@douglasmaclean5836 8 месяцев назад
well i hear you x10. i have to say though, given primate studies on male-female relations in large compounds where the females run the show completely (Prof. Kim Wallen, EmeryU, Atlanta) you can see why the French Culture developed acceptance of having Mistresses/Lovers ... im not sure i could easily buy in, but based on current science & what alot of guys experience... its certainly leaves one to pander 😳
@sana-cm7oc
@sana-cm7oc 8 месяцев назад
cheat or leave
@douglasmaclean5836
@douglasmaclean5836 8 месяцев назад
@@sana-cm7oc au contraire Mon amis. tu n'as pas entendu ce que j'ai dit ?... Ou reste.
@indranilbanik3424
@indranilbanik3424 7 месяцев назад
Been without it all my life, so 32 years. I suspect that losing my virtue once would cause me to get more and more reliant on it and eventually addicted, but if I always stay on Virgin Mobile so to speak, then I will not feel like I am missing out and be content with my choice to be MGTOW. The best way to mitigate problems in a relationship is to avoid getting into one, especially with a modern woman.
@ashfordj81
@ashfordj81 5 месяцев назад
@@indranilbanik3424 You're right about that. It's addicting.
@avlifesavers
@avlifesavers 9 месяцев назад
Stay solo gents. Life is grand when you don't have to deal with this nonsense.
@timesthree5757
@timesthree5757 9 месяцев назад
Beginning to understand why birth rates are below replacement levels.
@fillthefeeder
@fillthefeeder 9 месяцев назад
I was going to post this same comment. Absolutely.
@timesthree5757
@timesthree5757 9 месяцев назад
@@fillthefeeder low birth rates. Y'all just the male version of the man haters. The girl haters.
@twcnz3570
@twcnz3570 8 месяцев назад
You don't have to be locked into a marriage to produce children.
@billjohnston4603
@billjohnston4603 8 месяцев назад
AMEN TO THAT ! WE CAN ENJOY LIFE , they can enjoy their cats and boxed wine 😁
@simplerider3159
@simplerider3159 9 месяцев назад
The last one, about emasculating him, it's a catch 22. Because if he refuses to accept the abuse and he remains unaltered by the insults. She will want sex but eventually he will not want sex with her because of the turmoil in the relationship and relationship ends anyways. Because the toxic modern woman behavior of wanting the power and control kills the relationship no matter how he handles it.
@markaurelius61
@markaurelius61 9 месяцев назад
Is it not possible that when he stands up to her she calms down?
@zatridevyatzemel
@zatridevyatzemel 9 месяцев назад
@@markaurelius61Yes, it's highly likely. However, as we all know, the typical advice you'd find being given to a man is the same old "you gotta wash the dishes, you gotta help her around house, you gotta do basically everything possible and impossible"... to what end? - Just to "earn" her attention? Doesn't that whole story smell of a profoundly condescending attitude towards men? And none of that actually works in those cases! Why? - you'd ask. Well, that's because the way the man is being asked to act makes him look and feel even less manly in her eyes! She won't even realize that effect due to the fundamentally misrouted psychological wiring which makes a woman ask for one thing whereas a complete opposite is what actually turns her on (Remember how most women end up clinging to the bad boys without being able to explain it?) And of course I'm not talking here about those extreme cases where all the man does is just drinking beer and watching hockey on a couch. We're talking about the normal typical man who is a successful breadwinner and also takes care of the traditional manly chores surrounding a couple's life. Basically, do your manly duties and don't even let her approach those, but also don't let yourself be reduced into a maid. What's very important to remember is that there are indeed great women who will never ever use these lame excuses and blame vectors on their man, because they never need them. And believe a first-hand witness, they'll be chasing every single chance to cuddle up with their man which almost always naturally evolves into a stormy steamy sex.
@Mythicregard
@Mythicregard 9 месяцев назад
​@@zatridevyatzemelThe misrouted wiring may be due to the effects of being on the birth control pill for years.
@zatridevyatzemel
@zatridevyatzemel 9 месяцев назад
@@Mythicregard It's a bigger topic related to how a woman's body and psyche are programmed to lust for an alpha male, but then use a beta male (the one who washes the dishes and does all the chores) to raise the alpha male's offspring in a comfortable setting free of the alpha-related "adventures" and risks. Not that it literally plays out like that in modern society (although it still does and is more typical than we'd like to believe), but the engrained fundamental root causes of this behaviour remain.
@kaizenanalyst4833
@kaizenanalyst4833 9 месяцев назад
​@@MythicregardThat's true. Birth control pills are literally the devil's work. We think they were invented in 1960 but if you read 1st Enoch, the Fallen Angels introduced them before even The Flood.
@f14tomcat37
@f14tomcat37 8 месяцев назад
What frustrates me is that many women who went cold on sex do not admit it to themselves and to their husbands/partners. So the man loses out twice: (1) he loses the sex/intimacy; (2) he loses the notion that the woman is the root cause, not the man.
@sana-cm7oc
@sana-cm7oc 8 месяцев назад
this allows the woman to believe it is the man's fault and avoid responsibility/accountability. brilliant female logic.
@MrBoxofplastic
@MrBoxofplastic 8 месяцев назад
Women leave relationships emotionally all the time, and forget to tell the man! That happened to me.
@loverofgolf
@loverofgolf 2 месяца назад
There is absolutely no way a wife can do this without hating her husband.
@JoeElizondo-d9z
@JoeElizondo-d9z Месяц назад
Is there anyway EVERYONE here is the same person?
@ArnCital
@ArnCital 8 месяцев назад
"...sex is your wifely duty, something to be endured..." was what my first wife's mother told her. She found my calendar with her excuses for not having sex. What is the meaning of this, she yelled. I flatly told her that I would not be proud of that record. Later I found out that during that period, while I worked night shifts, she lined up husband #2. BTW, she was a stay-at-home mom and all of her girl friends were bitter divorced women.
@racebannon96
@racebannon96 7 месяцев назад
She did you a favor. It’s a just a matter of time when she repeats her bad behavior. The ex-wife did the same over here. It was a gift when she left us.
@douglasmaclean5836
@douglasmaclean5836 7 месяцев назад
Yup... Psychologist & Primatologist Dr. Kim Wallen (EmeryU Atlanta), has shown in his Rhesus monkey compounds, that female monkeys run the show wrt every aspect of monkey life, they are the Generals in War, the head of politics, they initiate ALL Sex, they do all the Objectifying (shock!) & don’t hesitate to abandon their children to chase after various objects of desire .. they're basically *RAW*. Male monkeys on the other hand, tend to live to the side of family life & are SWAPPED OUT after ~3 yrs…why ? the female monkeys get too bored to have sex w them (~3.5yrs in the wild) ... sound familiar ? If it does, no need to ever beat yourself up. Just don’t forget, gym/haircut. [ See Daniel Bergner's 2013 TedX talk/Book "What do women really want" where he writes about 8 yrs worth of interviews w female & male researchers & scientists on the topic of female desire, a great read.. & likely a disturbing read for most civilized men ]
@yudollia
@yudollia 5 месяцев назад
That is sooo cringe and corny. A calendar where you wrote her excuses for not letting you stick it in her ???? Do you men listen to yourselves
@frankdique8799
@frankdique8799 2 месяца назад
A lot of these women, jump on the bandwagon. And do exactly what their divorced friends say.
@ArnCital
@ArnCital 2 месяца назад
@@frankdique8799 This is so true
@marlona6503
@marlona6503 9 месяцев назад
Wow, you have perfectly put into words what I have experienced! As a husband of the last 13 years and currently going through separation and divorce (and someone who has spend the last 2 years healing from my childhood trauma) this video hit home on so many levels. You are a blessing to so many young men and women. Thank you for having the courage to share with others. Peace and blessings to you and your family. ❤
@smartalex22
@smartalex22 9 месяцев назад
I appreciate your honesty and candor. Keep this up, you and those like you can undo the damage that feminism has done.
@PeterNorthsLeftTesticle
@PeterNorthsLeftTesticle 9 месяцев назад
Unlikely.
@SeekerGoOn2013
@SeekerGoOn2013 9 месяцев назад
Please don’t blame feminism! When it took hold in the sixties part of it was attempting to rid women of this imprisonment. Greer, Friedan, Steinham, just to name a few, tried to help women open up, literally and figuratively. I don’t think we men could ever comprehend the depth of difficulty many girls and women have in gaining a healthy, mental and physical relationship with their sexuality. I swear this sounded like my ex wife - if she could ever get to this place. Very sad for SO MANY.
@nerychristian
@nerychristian 9 месяцев назад
@@SeekerGoOn2013Women don't need feminism in order to open up sexually. They just need to be comfortable with their bodies and maybe take a class about their sexuality. It would also help if women would exercise more. Exercise improves blood flow to the vagina. A healthy diet also helps. It's hard to feel horny when you are sedintary and eating junk food all day. A healthy body produces the right hormones.
@josephd27
@josephd27 9 месяцев назад
​@@nerychristianyup alot of women are lazy entitled
@resources57
@resources57 9 месяцев назад
"Yesterday" from the beatles is fitting. Don't know what to do....
@albertaprepper5372
@albertaprepper5372 8 месяцев назад
I have gotten to the point of just surviving in my marriage. I litterally feel like I can never be good enough for my wife or family. I do the laundry, dishes, cooking, cleaning, mowing the lawn, clearing the snow, fixing stuff around the house, massage her feet, and work 50 hours a week at my job. She always reminds me how I just never do anything to really help out or do things right. Every morning I wake up and go shit I am still alive. I ask for a massage or other things and am told no, sex has been gone completely since 2016. I will not leave her and the kids but I am so alone and sad.
@walecznypegaz3584
@walecznypegaz3584 7 месяцев назад
Find your balls again 🤟
@gasman7478
@gasman7478 7 месяцев назад
#6 Menopause it ruined my wife!
@stripedrajang3571
@stripedrajang3571 Месяц назад
Goodness. What does menopause do to women?
@rburrows7786
@rburrows7786 8 месяцев назад
I was in a marriage for 16 years. I stayed for the kids. Nightmare. Got divorced and stayed single for 10 years. I met an Eastern European woman and have been joyfully married for 20 years. Western women for the most part are spoiled and mall rats. My wife, her sister, and her friends from her country, love being home, taking care of the family, being housewives. Men are the head of the household. I bring my wife home flowers, and you’d think there was a brand new Mercedes in the driveway. I literally have to tell her to stop doing things for me. I’m telling you guys, try dating Eastern European women. It’s like you went back in time 100 years. I enjoy doing things for my wife. She’s appreciative of the smallest things. So refreshing
@gevans5446
@gevans5446 8 месяцев назад
Good on you, brother.
@tjmns
@tjmns 8 месяцев назад
Thanks for sharing
@AvatarOfSouL
@AvatarOfSouL 8 месяцев назад
I'm from eastern Europe and all I'm gonna say is you got lucky or she just looks up to you because you're a foreigner. They treat eastern European men like western women treat their own lads. So don't fall for this fallacy of eastern European girls being angels. They're Gold diggers for the most part and as women they run on the same biological framework as any other female. Either way if it works and you're happy then good for you. Good luck
@frankbroker726
@frankbroker726 28 дней назад
Very true, but you always have to drive and always have to pay for dinner....and flowers are a must and you have to fix everything
@frankbroker726
@frankbroker726 28 дней назад
Damn straight...and they love sex....and actively participate
@Deryee123
@Deryee123 9 месяцев назад
Men, if she's using any of these five things against you it's the beginning of the end and if you've talked to her about it and she continues to do it it's time to move on. Don't continue to live in misery for both.
@andersnielsen6044
@andersnielsen6044 Месяц назад
BS... If any of these occur just once - it is already over and long gone.. !
@Orxbane
@Orxbane Месяц назад
It's not the beginning of the end, it's just the beginning of you learning it ended a long time ago.
@georgejones6041
@georgejones6041 9 месяцев назад
If your marriage is to the point that your wife no longer desires you sexually , LEAVE .........
@siredith8846
@siredith8846 7 месяцев назад
What about our children?
@gabrieldinelli
@gabrieldinelli 7 месяцев назад
Amen to that.
@djilaliboumechri3826
@djilaliboumechri3826 6 месяцев назад
Just disapear and don't look behind you
@spencerlarson9357
@spencerlarson9357 5 месяцев назад
What about children? She'll change once you're trapped, she'll hold your child hostage
@tedwojtasik8781
@tedwojtasik8781 5 месяцев назад
@@siredith8846 Don't have sex with them either, that's very very bad.
@narcsurvivalist3921
@narcsurvivalist3921 9 месяцев назад
#6 reason she stops having sex: She is getting it elsewhere. THAT is a truth yall don’t admit.
@mongrelmotorsports
@mongrelmotorsports 8 месяцев назад
If only that were a universal truth, we would at least have a decent reason. But it's actually not the case more than you can believe.
@lynnferry291
@lynnferry291 8 месяцев назад
If she's getting it elsewhere, you're probably crappy in bed.
@sana-cm7oc
@sana-cm7oc 8 месяцев назад
@@mongrelmotorsports doesn't matter, you should cheat if she is doing her duty
@indranilbanik3424
@indranilbanik3424 7 месяцев назад
It could be the case sometimes. But in general, I think the focus on sex misses the point: relationships are not just about that. If a woman does not want it, that is OK. I am sure guys would not want to be coerced into sex against their will by their wife either. But if it is not possible to reach an agreement that prevents either side from being too upset, that is bad. So if the husband wants sex and the wife constantly refuses, the husband should just stop paying for everything. Ask the girl to look for houses she can afford on only her income and plan how a divorce would work. As a hypothetical question, if hypothetically she refused sex for the next week. Tell her that she does not need to feel like it every day, but she has to pick one day in the next seven where she agrees, or else he will support her moving into whichever house she managed to find in the area within her budget. No accusation she did not do her duty or anything, just helping her to move along with her life since she is obviously not happy where she is. She might try to negotiate something, like helping around a lot more to make up for not having sex, or she might need ten days rather than seven, but in any case she will quickly realise that it is a serious issue for the guy at least and some sort of compromise will be required to stay with him. Or she can leave.
@Orxbane
@Orxbane Месяц назад
@@indranilbanik3424 Yes, they are just about that. If a man isn't having sex with a woman, he is not in a relationship with her anymore, he's just being used.
@David-xy9yo
@David-xy9yo 8 месяцев назад
Guys if your woman is doing any of this nonsense just leave. You can't fix this. Sexual desire is either there or it isn't and life is too short. Ladies if you don't want the man anymore then LET HIM GO. And be a decent person and don't destroy his life in the process. Remember you didn't want him anymore and he didn't get into a relationship to be roommates with you. SHEESH 🙄
@brianhoyt3780
@brianhoyt3780 8 месяцев назад
i was together with my my wife for over 20 years. #5 is right on. My wife told me she was no longer attracted to me. When she told her sister that our marriage was over and we had no relationship, her sister told her that she had emaculated me. Amazing.
@frankdique8799
@frankdique8799 2 месяца назад
Wow a very honest sibling. Respect to her truthfulness 👍
@sasquatchhadarock968
@sasquatchhadarock968 9 месяцев назад
If you think porn is "great sex", you've never seen the eyes of a veteran pornstar. You've never seen death in the face like pornstars who have been broken by the industry. It's terrifying.
@RonHarrisMuscle
@RonHarrisMuscle 9 месяцев назад
It will only get worse because now we have millions of women producing XXX content on OnlyFans.
@jps080576
@jps080576 9 месяцев назад
Women don't need to be pornstars, they've been used by numerous f boys before they settle cause the can't reel in the f boys for marriage.
@smokingcrab2290
@smokingcrab2290 9 месяцев назад
If a woman you loved acted like a porn star for you (enthusiastic, willing to do anything, loving what youre doing) yeah it would be great sex! But porn stars are soulless empty shells of human beings because it's all fake. They spent themselves on a facade that's impossible for them to detach from. And with each girl/guy they banged on film, they gave a piece of their souls away. Theres a difference. Love is the key ingredient. And love can make all kinds of sex great. Doesn't just have to be porn style sex.
@persnipoles
@persnipoles 9 месяцев назад
​@@lovegrows7814Definitely strange to be competing with one's partner's past dosages. I'd think he wouldn't want you distressed over it, but just doesn't want blame resting on him.
@audiophileman7047
@audiophileman7047 8 месяцев назад
Many women in porn are being forced to have sex they don't want to have. It truly is a terrible thing and should not be supported. Consensual or not, it's a sad life that ends badly.
@truthteller9603
@truthteller9603 9 месяцев назад
WOMAN: Definition: Me, me, me, me, me. Myself, myself, myself, I, I, I, I, I, I, I
@ripsawful
@ripsawful 3 месяца назад
That's so true. For most of them
@insiderinside1905
@insiderinside1905 Месяц назад
so there isn’t enough for anyone in a marriage. not for her not for you. not for the kids. how do you be happy individually?
@geraldfranklin6049
@geraldfranklin6049 9 месяцев назад
My ex wife did all 5 until I told her that I can not solve it because this is not my issue. It is yours.
@prrsd4046
@prrsd4046 9 месяцев назад
Sure you can solve her problems, its called DIVORCE!
@nzachary1863
@nzachary1863 5 месяцев назад
My wife had a decent libido before her pregnancy; it vanished about 2 months in and 5 years later has not returned. She claims it’s all hormones, she akins it to having no appetite but knowing that you need to eat - she basically has to force herself to do it. No end in sight here.
@bassault
@bassault 24 дня назад
She isn't attracted to you and she doesn't love you. Leave her.
@stormrave5371
@stormrave5371 3 месяца назад
This is why having sex appeal as a man is so important. This is why I think people who say “be yourself” are full of crap. Having a decent personality as a man is NOT ENOUGH. Your woman can’t just like you. There has to be a balance of physical attraction and liking who you are. You can’t have one or the other.
@robboinnz
@robboinnz 9 месяцев назад
Excellent list and illuminating. As a husband I’m turning the corner with regard to leadership in the relationship, and I’m also developing positively as a person. Wife is appreciating me being more decisive. I suggested we be intimate twice a week, on Wednesdays and Saturdays, she agreed and it’s working out well. I’m not harassing her, as I know the schedule, she’s enjoying the intimacy too, she’s pleasantly surprised how enjoyable it is for her. She’s back! We cuddle other nights too, with no ulterior motives. Life is good atm.
@iliketostealyourthoughts
@iliketostealyourthoughts 9 месяцев назад
I don't recommend keeping a schedule for long. It will become a task rather than an experience.
@smokingcrab2290
@smokingcrab2290 9 месяцев назад
Keep connecting with her and keep. Making her feel understood. It's this connection we can't neglect. If you keep her feeling like you understand her in every way and keep empathizing with her about what's important to her, she will feel safe and she will keep the affection coming. Doesn't mean be a doormat. Or a simp. Or a cuck. It just means handle her with lots of emotional care. It requires a totally different perspective us guys are used to. And sometimes we have to look past all of the woman's craziness and get to what's underneath it.
@j.p.5716
@j.p.5716 9 месяцев назад
@@iliketostealyourthoughts - I recommend keeping the schedule and adding in more spontaneously when you want to. Get her to be ready any place any time.
@mikes9949
@mikes9949 9 месяцев назад
I tried the same thing but apparently I wrote down the wrong decade...
@sitka49
@sitka49 8 месяцев назад
So basically you have to keep a schedule to keep her on task for sex twice a week, so what seems to be the problem she can't initiate it? I think that's the bigger issue, that it's kind of a Tell-Tale sign that she's not enjoying it as much as you think she is?
@prrsd4046
@prrsd4046 9 месяцев назад
WTF? Giving a piece of yourself away? Men - giving all their money away. Unfair trade.
@sammyb1651
@sammyb1651 9 месяцев назад
You can't make them happy. Thats all you need to know. They literally think they're "giving" more than they're receiving when every observable reality says otherwise. Once you truly integrate this understanding of their entitlement (and I suggest everyone does) you lose all incentive to give them any more.
@fillthefeeder
@fillthefeeder 9 месяцев назад
The only valid point she made was the last one.
@douglasmaclean5836
@douglasmaclean5836 8 месяцев назад
Nice guy, bad Guy, doesn't matter. Just B yourself & improve yourself if you want, why ? because the latest science on female desire has proven that you can't beat biological programming... after 3-5 yrs, romance plummets.... ... Psychologist & Primatologist Dr. Kim Wallen (EmeryU Atlanta), has shown in his Rhesus monkey compounds, that female monkeys run the show wrt every aspect of life, they are the Generals in War, the head of politics, they initiate ALL Sex, they do all the Objectifying (shock!) & abandon their children to chase after various objects of desire .. they're basically *RAW*. Male monkeys on the other hand, tend to live to the side of family life & are SWAPPED OUT after ~3 yrs because the female monkeys get too bored to have sex w them (shock!) (~3.5yrs in the wild) ... sound familiar ?
@alfredbenedek3398
@alfredbenedek3398 8 месяцев назад
YES, EXACTLY. - I MEAN, A FRIENDSHIP, PARTNERSHIP & OR A MARRIAGE MUST BE / SHOULD BE 50 / 50 GIVE & TAKE - BASED ON UNDERSTANDING, NOT JUST ASKING / TRICKING SQUEEZING THE UTMOST MONEY & VALUE OUT OF A MAN / GUY & THAN DEVORCE OR DUMP THEM. IN THE 1970s. ALL WOMEN WANTED EQUAL RIGHTS, WELL THE CUTIES, DO YOUR MOTHERLY & WIFE DITIES AND SHARE THEM 50 / 50 WITH YOU LIFE PARTNERS?!!
@sana-cm7oc
@sana-cm7oc 8 месяцев назад
@@fillthefeeder this is her confession but number 5 is correct
@bellemyjade686
@bellemyjade686 9 месяцев назад
Not a lot of women in the comments. A lot of divorced men, though, reflecting on the trauma of their past relationships. So women aren’t getting better, and men just hate us more… sad times
@CaptnMojo
@CaptnMojo 9 месяцев назад
Sad but true
@teacherninina
@teacherninina 8 месяцев назад
Yep. It's all our fault, like always. Humanity has blamed women for everything since Adam and Eva. So... nothing new.
@mikeheckman4995
@mikeheckman4995 8 месяцев назад
Nah. Most divorced men don’t hate women. We just hate all of the grief. I work mostly with women at my job. I love them all. But if I had to take them (and their grief) home with me, then I suppose that I wouldn’t love them so much. They likely have the same feelings towards me. Go MGTOW!
@h82fail
@h82fail 8 месяцев назад
Most of the comments by the divorced men also mention how much they loved their ex, how they gave up the love of their life etc. I don't see a lot of hate, except for maybe the cheated on.
@bellemyjade686
@bellemyjade686 8 месяцев назад
@h82fail I never said the men in the comment section were displaying hate; I’m seeing men hate women in everyday situations. However, in other videos about modern women, the hatred is apparent and intense. And there aren’t a lot of women in those comment sections, either.
@garybalranald6323
@garybalranald6323 8 месяцев назад
More women need to watch this. We've gone a whole generation of older women teaching a generation of younger women the wrong thing. Women are becoming more masculine, as men are becoming more feminine. We're talking ourselves out of being attracted to each other. That's a huge problem, as it brings the threat of population collapse closer. We were designed specifically masculine, and specifically feminine, and for these opposites to attract to ensure survival of species. I see, every single day, examples of people throughout the media, education, and industry, pushing an agenda that pushes the sexes closer together. They have no idea how disastrous this is.
@aussietaipan8700
@aussietaipan8700 3 месяца назад
Quite a few years ago, my wife stated she wonders why we were married in the first place. At that we had 3 small children. My answer was, remember when we first met and the good times we had. You have lost it and you need to have a good look at yourself. I have not changed but you have. I see you as the same girl that I met but you see me as a stranger. If you want, we can split, and I will move out. She looked at me with distain then started to cry. I then went to her to cuddle and she did not reject me. We cuddled for a while then let her have her own space and time. She knew what I said is what I meant and that I would go through with it. She also knew I could easily find another woman. We have been great together since then but there was a lot more to this that would have made his way too long.
@mutthaam2396
@mutthaam2396 9 месяцев назад
Your conviction, belief, scars, and determination are terrifyingly beautiful. Thank you.
@smokingcrab2290
@smokingcrab2290 9 месяцев назад
This woman is a warrior of the heart. Stand up gal.
@Wuestenwiesel
@Wuestenwiesel 9 месяцев назад
The risks of ending in a sexless/unhappy marriage or getting involved in a costly divorce heavily outweighs small to no benefits a man can get out of a marriage
@grantwithers
@grantwithers 8 месяцев назад
That's why in today's world it is an unconscionable contract.
@sana-cm7oc
@sana-cm7oc 8 месяцев назад
better to just cheat
@raymondtendau2749
@raymondtendau2749 9 месяцев назад
Long story short, women are puzzles that puzzle themselves.
@AeroAmphibious
@AeroAmphibious 8 месяцев назад
She'll Spread It Out For Chad And Tyrone Though, No Questions Asked.
@clubdesalud1488
@clubdesalud1488 5 месяцев назад
Chad and Tyrrone at the same time while they're high fiving each other between grunts
@yudollia
@yudollia 5 месяцев назад
Well, why arent you a chad? Or a Tyrone?
@MadeInManny0161
@MadeInManny0161 4 месяца назад
​@@yudolliaiam
@bobsmith6538
@bobsmith6538 Месяц назад
@@yudollia Because neither one of them would make a pimple on this man"s ass!! Thats why!!!
@gravitas7583
@gravitas7583 27 дней назад
Tyrone😂
@AeroAmphibious
@AeroAmphibious 8 месяцев назад
DON'T GET MARRIED FELLAS, CHICKS ARE INSANE MAD PEOPLE 😂
@JoeElizondo-d9z
@JoeElizondo-d9z Месяц назад
Why is that funny bro - u deff a female btw mr funny man who laughs at his own words please continue to enlighten us all
@stevengonyaw1617
@stevengonyaw1617 9 месяцев назад
I gave up dealing with their MENTAL GYMNASTICS long ago !
@osmodious8533
@osmodious8533 9 месяцев назад
Point 5 - repulsed by the man you worked so very hard to shape. Insightful.
@jeffknowlton5200
@jeffknowlton5200 9 месяцев назад
It's probably a s#$% test
@thewey
@thewey 8 месяцев назад
YES...YES...YES!!!! FINALLY, a woman telling the truth, especially No-5. I've been married twice and divorced both of them because they treated me like a paycheck, a house slave, with indifference, or to be at their beck and call. For the first wife, sex was revolting after our son was born, and the second wife was psychologically abusive and utterly disrespectful. I raised my son by myself from age 15 until 23, without any financial help from the X, and I have to pay her $600 a month alimony. He's now a solid US Marine Officer. I'm a handsome, full-time employed with no-debts, in-shape man of 65. If I want intimacy from now on, I'll go to Nevada and pay for it.
@douglasmaclean5836
@douglasmaclean5836 8 месяцев назад
...the latest science on female desire has proven that you can't beat biological programming... after 3-5 yrs, romance plummets.... ... Psychologist & Primatologist Dr. Kim Wallen (EmeryU Atlanta), has shown in his Rhesus monkey compounds, that female monkeys run the show wrt every aspect of life, they are the Generals in War, the head of politics, they initiate ALL Sex, they do all the Objectifying (shock!) & abandon their children to chase after various objects of desire .. they're basically *RAW*. Male monkeys on the other hand, tend to live to the side of family life & are SWAPPED OUT after ~3 yrs because the female monkeys get too bored to have sex w them (shock!) (~3.5yrs in the wild) ... sound familiar ?
@louisetaylor6952
@louisetaylor6952 Месяц назад
Why not start by making some women friends...as you do things together you'll get to know each other and I'll bet pretty soon you will have ladies lined up around the block who appreciate you and want to be with you...romance, companionship, love and great sex are waiting for you...why not give it a chance
@liverpoolscottish6430
@liverpoolscottish6430 8 месяцев назад
These videos are the best recruiting Sgt for MGTOW I've ever seen. All the things I have suspected women of being guilty of for years are being openly confessed here by A WOMAN.
@mikeheckman4995
@mikeheckman4995 8 месяцев назад
Every so often I re-examine being single. I check out the comments from videos like these and the forgotten memories come rushing back. NEVER AGAIN!! There’s a lot to be said for peacefulness in the home. Tranquility is bliss. Go MGTOW!
@indranilbanik3424
@indranilbanik3424 7 месяцев назад
@@mikeheckman4995Yes of course, it is natural to revisit choices. I am a lifelong MGTOW myself, 32 yo now. Peacefulness at home is what allows me to recharge my social battery so to speak, so that I can face the next day as well as possible. I am not always super happy just because I am MGTOW. Typically though I am happy with my choice about 99% of the time. 1% would mean 90 hours a year, so it would mean I felt a bit lonely for perhaps the whole waking day for nine days. Maybe four or five around the Christmas/New Year, once around Valentine's Day, and a few more throughout the year. I am not going to pretend I am always happy being MGTOW. But I doubt most married men are happy with their choice more than 99% of the time.
@spxram4793
@spxram4793 5 месяцев назад
unbelievably strong and honest speaking out. It is rare to find a woman who is able to understand this and speak about it openly. Thank you.
@mikeg3293
@mikeg3293 2 месяца назад
My dad always said a woman only makes you No1 in her life until you’ve paid the bills, then your demoted lower than her worst friend.
@520cuban
@520cuban 8 месяцев назад
Best Advice I ever heard for men is " Work on strengthing your body,and finances, the woman will follow. "
@racebannon96
@racebannon96 7 месяцев назад
The woman will have both hands out and her spending will increase until they are in debt. Trips, jewelry, new vehicles, bigger house, and cosmetic surgeries are just a few things she will demand.
@indranilbanik3424
@indranilbanik3424 7 месяцев назад
@@racebannon96Exactly! Working on body and finances is good advice, but letting a woman follow is bad. She might want to, but agreeing to it is like pouring energy into a black hole. It takes but does not give back. And the more you put into it, the higher its mass and the faster it sucks resources and energy from you. Work on strengthening your body and finances for your own sake and so you can help others, not so you can pout it all down a black hole when one comes along.
@user-io9ec7he4z
@user-io9ec7he4z 5 месяцев назад
36M here... I'm a cute guy, well built (love working out) and very good with my money and I also love investing - I'm single lol I think at times that I'm almost too mature to be in a relationship - women don't find discipline sexy and anyone who says otherwise is trying to sell you something haha Building muscle / a good physique and saving money and investing requires discipline, patience and conviction - something most women don't have nor appreciate haha It all sounds good in theory but women don't care at first whether you're broke or rich; and, at the end of the day, it's ALL about how they FEEL about you!
@indranilbanik3424
@indranilbanik3424 5 месяцев назад
@@user-io9ec7he4z Women can appreciate discipline and patience, they are evolved to have children after all. But my opinion is that they are generally only able to show these qualities for a few years, after which they are richly rewarded by society for *not* showing these qualities and filing for divorce. The problems are largely societal, though not completely. As for not caring about your financial situation, I think women do care. They try to act as if it is not too important, but I suspect your finances would be a major attraction. However, they would want you to spend it in unnecessary ways to make them happy in the short run, which would from what you said run contrary to your more careful attitude.
@jamesosborne1286
@jamesosborne1286 8 месяцев назад
Such great content! I hope this helps a lot of people. This seems to totally explain what happened in my first marriage. Thankfully none of this applies in my current relationship but we sure could have used it back then. My wife did exactly as you described in number 5 and her eventually running off with a traveling polish man sadly turned out to be the best thing ever to have happened to me because I was finally free from that hellish relationship. I pray that your message saves a lot of families.
@martyi398
@martyi398 9 месяцев назад
Marriage is not a selfish endeavor, (Narcissist's need not apply) there's no ME in marriage, it's us together, it's a commitment between 2 people that love each other at one time at least, who suppose to stick together through the good and the bad times, both who need to set some reasonable boundaries, I've never liked to be told what to do although if asked in a kind loving way i would move mountains, there's not much i wouldn't do for my wife as long as i feel loved and respected!
@sana-cm7oc
@sana-cm7oc 8 месяцев назад
MarriagE there is a 'me' in marriage. love is for poets. marriage is a legal contract.
@martyi398
@martyi398 8 месяцев назад
@@sana-cm7oc Married couples are meant to be unified in every possible way, in the Old Testament we are taught, “they are to be as One flesh together” Gen. 2:24
@sendtosw
@sendtosw 5 месяцев назад
Spot on, lady. I can remember lying on my side of the bed at night and thinking, you know, she would be totally ok with us going on like this, precisely like this, for the rest of our lives. Cohabitating roommates. And like you said in one of your other videos, I was emasculated, isolated, under pressure from work, expected to do all the husband stuff (except sex), etc. Someone showed interest outside the marriage, and I fell for it. Not proud of that, but it's what happened. Divorced since 1992.
@dingdong6005
@dingdong6005 3 месяца назад
How are you doing now ??
@lhippocamperouge7845
@lhippocamperouge7845 4 месяца назад
I’m a woman I’m 34 and I found that so sad the fact that most women don’t love sex I spoke with my friends and it is actually pretty common I was chocked…. I’m glad once again to hear your videos sometimes I feel abnormal because I love sex so much with my man and I don’t need to much for play I actually found forplay can turn me off when it’s too long. My man often apologies because we c.. fast together and I kept telling him that it’s not about time it’s about how we fill why we should timed our intimacy to make it fit to society standards and he was relieved and told me that I was the first woman that removed this burden out of his shoulders
@Hustada
@Hustada 4 месяца назад
Your friends like sex, just not with their husbands.
@Shalale
@Shalale 9 месяцев назад
imagine there are schools and our young go there for 12 years ... and no one teach them anything useful 😂 non of this.. non of financial. social, human interaction..no skills ...just useless outdated gabage ,SUCH A FAILURE
@ROForeverMan
@ROForeverMan 9 месяцев назад
What do you mean you feel like an object ? It means you dont love your husband.
@Jaco3688
@Jaco3688 9 месяцев назад
“My husband continually turns the totality of his affections toward me. I feel cheap and used.” Say what?
@jimosborne2
@jimosborne2 9 месяцев назад
Not likely it’s about love- more likely sex- cause lots of guys don’t know how to please a woman or let her orgasm first.
@cliffchampion5501
@cliffchampion5501 9 месяцев назад
@@Jaco3688lol great points
@nosotrosloslobosestamosreg4115
@nosotrosloslobosestamosreg4115 9 месяцев назад
As Cato the Elder taught, do not love them.
@vaughnlewis1953
@vaughnlewis1953 9 месяцев назад
Sad
@pedrocols
@pedrocols 9 месяцев назад
My ex girlfriend tried to weaken me and that's why she is my ex-girlfriend. She wasn't giving me sex and when I tried to approach her sexually she would tell me that what I was doing wasn't turning her on. This video hits home very hard.
@Neidytrozeski
@Neidytrozeski 8 месяцев назад
You should be married before having sex, anyway…
@TheKucapaca
@TheKucapaca 8 месяцев назад
@@Neidytrozeski well it saved him looooots of money 😉
@sana-cm7oc
@sana-cm7oc 8 месяцев назад
@@Neidytrozeski you should be kind pleasant and supportive
@Neidytrozeski
@Neidytrozeski 8 месяцев назад
@@sana-cm7oc ok, thanks!👍
@tommyemler1763
@tommyemler1763 7 месяцев назад
​@@Neidytrozeskibefore marriage is about the only time you will get sex from a woman.... A marriage certificate just gives her the ability to take everything from you when she decides to go chasing after Chad or Tyrone...
@acohen3951
@acohen3951 7 месяцев назад
Shortly after a got married and saw the changes that occurred on the wedding day. No sex, no coddling, no affection. Sooo I got my wife to come with me to a female marriage counselor and told her from the day we got married there was no intimacy!!! The counselor asked me were you surprised that sex ended the day you got married ? I said yes. She said then you did not ask your male married friends about their marriages. I said no I did not. She then told me if you wish to stay in this marriage, forget about sex, intimacy and affection. This is what women want in a marriage, Just an obedient male!!! My wife was grinning from ear to ear !!! When we got home my wife said to me, if you want to stay in our marriage bed, keep to yourself on your side of the bed, and do not touch me!!!
@luvmydeck
@luvmydeck 7 месяцев назад
I hope you left and got that marriage anulled.
@user-yk5ln8lp2v
@user-yk5ln8lp2v 6 месяцев назад
You better have divorced her ass asap. If not you deserve what you get
@BC-vg3zf
@BC-vg3zf 5 месяцев назад
Run run run
@toddminlschmidt8043
@toddminlschmidt8043 5 месяцев назад
Get out
@JimBischoff1184
@JimBischoff1184 4 месяца назад
Evil
@roydavis5613
@roydavis5613 Месяц назад
She is absolutely right on point 5. This happened to me over a period of 20 years. The slow chipping away at one's self-esteem and the disassembling of one's confidence to the point of having none. I see it now.
@HarleyRiderMC
@HarleyRiderMC 9 месяцев назад
It took me a very long time to understand and accept what you have explained and identified in this video. I’m sad to say, I tolerated this kind of behavior in my wife, a woman I truly loved for 43 years. We successfully raised two magnificent sons and now share four beautiful grand children. I ended our marriage in 2012 in divorce. A year later I went on to find another beautiful and wonderful woman and we have now been together for 14 years which includes an adventurous sex life and deep and respectful meaningful love. My ex lives by herself and has never had another meaningful relationship with a man. We are still friendly with each other, but it is sad it had to end up as it did.
@EsonIndustries
@EsonIndustries 8 месяцев назад
Sorry, Im not impressed with this. If you aren't married to your new wonderful woman I think you ought to notice your wife is still wondering where her life went and go make the mother of your magnificent sons whole.
@williamcooke6056
@williamcooke6056 7 месяцев назад
​@@EsonIndustriesYou can't make another person "whole" that refuses to become whole. You got some kind of magic wand? Seriously, most of us guys live in a place called reality. Join us, it'll do you good.
@EsonIndustries
@EsonIndustries 7 месяцев назад
Yeah I got a magic wand, its called go repair the 40+ year relationship and die together like you promised each other and depended on. Couldnt have been that bad if they clocked 4 decades and grew a family together now could it? @@williamcooke6056
@aaronmoney7565
@aaronmoney7565 9 месяцев назад
Thank you for illuminating these issues. I am glad this info is out there to help people, but honestly I feel like the more I learn I’ll have to deal with the more I am happy I am single again.
@mikthe2004
@mikthe2004 9 месяцев назад
As someone whose wife left me 8 months ago, after 17 yrs of marriage, and who has started trying to date again - I think I agree with you. I'm not sure women are worth the time, effort and expense?? Now my ex complains more than ever. How she's poor - even though she works 50 hrs a week. How nobody loves her, and how she's not important to anybody - not even her 2 teenage kids! And the kicker is that she cheats on her boyfriend of 18 months - with me!! Yep, so she left because????................................................ I don't know. You'd have to ask her!!
@pappytinkers
@pappytinkers 9 месяцев назад
Life beats men down. We work our bodies to exhaustion to provide the nice house, the cars, the kids, the vacation to the beach. We do this as an expression of how much we love the woman, to give her as much as we possibly can. To show her how much she means to us. And then they do this. If i had known then what i know now.. I'm pretty sure i would be a much happier man
@sana-cm7oc
@sana-cm7oc 8 месяцев назад
brother, work on yourself - become the best version of you, then you can enjoy many women without having to buy (marry) any single woman.
@Sweetdreamz4U
@Sweetdreamz4U 8 месяцев назад
It's taken a while to remember my self worth. That's the first step. Instead of worrying about what I can't do from injuries that will never heal, I am trying to focus on what I can to and improve those things. Work on the things I can control and forget about the rest! @@sana-cm7oc
@herasmoramirez6431
@herasmoramirez6431 7 месяцев назад
Something that I cannot understand and that seems to me to be a betrayal almost as serious as infidelity, is when a woman uses sex as a weapon against her husband. The same woman who, before getting married, happily gave sex to guys who never cared about her (and didn't even remember her name the next morning) is the same woman who denies and conditions sex to the man who does care about her, and who committed to her…. Feminine logic I guess. I'd rather be alone than have to deal with all that BS.
@lordzaboem
@lordzaboem 7 месяцев назад
Although you're right about it a cruel decision, it is still her decision. A woman doesn't owe her man sex. Ij the end, I think you are right about remaining single. The vast majority of humans are better off that way, despite all the economic disadvantages.
@NickatLateNite
@NickatLateNite Месяц назад
12 yrs ago, my beloved wife of 42 yrs, contracted a very serious case of sepsis. She died on the operating table twice, and was brought back. She lost 4" of her colon & was on ostomy for 3 months. The surgeons had to carve her up like a holiday ham & her abdomen skin looks like an old paper road map. Needless to say, we haven't had sex in 12 yrs. We are now both seniors, so sex isn't as important as it used to be. My wife is indebted to me because I took care of her for years & still do. We have a sweet, loving relationship that works for us & we will love each other until we're gone... Oh, our sex life up until she got sick was stupendious, rewarding & very fullfilling... We have each other, we are blessed🙂
@thomaspepper2201
@thomaspepper2201 9 месяцев назад
There's 6 Anti-depressents. Greater then 40 % of women over 45yrs enjoy them, which makes them sexualy lifeless. It takes the big bang away or harder to happen and some CAN'T.
@animal0mother
@animal0mother 9 месяцев назад
I'm not sure the women on them are enjoying them. They took several studies to find ones supporting the thesis that they improve symptoms of depression. And they get less effective still with higher elevation. I live in a state where last I checked, 1 in 3 women over 18 are on them.
@PeterNorthsLeftTesticle
@PeterNorthsLeftTesticle 9 месяцев назад
​@@animal0mother1 in 3? Great. That means 2 in 3 are running around unmedicated.
@Mythicregard
@Mythicregard 9 месяцев назад
​@@PeterNorthsLeftTesticle😂
@chasefell4234
@chasefell4234 9 месяцев назад
Wow you must know my wife. She had this self hate problem even before we were married. It’s been 18 years since we had sex. I wonder if it’s too late. Thank you for this video. Now I am able to understand a little better and maybe try to enter in to a conversation with my wife.
@jimjohnson394
@jimjohnson394 9 месяцев назад
I got to ask, if you knew you were going to go through a 18 year dry spell, would have you asked her to marry, or would you have kept looking? I think I know the answer, but I am not sure if women understand the amount of betrayal to the relationship that shutting down the fun in the bedroom is.
@deirdremorris9234
@deirdremorris9234 9 месяцев назад
Chase, find out if she was SA and you will find a ton of answers.
@robertgoodrich8953
@robertgoodrich8953 8 месяцев назад
You need a new wife. I only know about my wife, but even at age 65 she turns me on and enjoys our sex life.
@tritiumeye
@tritiumeye 8 месяцев назад
Not a woman alive goes that on without sex
@sana-cm7oc
@sana-cm7oc 8 месяцев назад
18 years? Conversation? she won't respect that because she likely despises you. Leave the b!tch or just cheat. Improve yourself regardless of your choice.
@davidincalifornia3711
@davidincalifornia3711 9 месяцев назад
Thank you for this, Ms. Karyn. This is very helpful. My wife is clearly repulsed by me. I don’t expect that I’ll change that after more than three decades.
@JenniferLittle-ln9xp
@JenniferLittle-ln9xp 5 месяцев назад
My husband of 25 years takes the time to ensure my happiness as we share our time together. We welcome the opportunity to please each other. He continues to surprise me. Wondering if others have had similar experience. At this stage in our marriage, he is able to easily "please me" 5+ times each time we come together. Anyone else out there growing stronger and finding greater pleasure with their husband?
@fujowpaiyingjowpai2885
@fujowpaiyingjowpai2885 4 месяца назад
I gave up on my wife. She seems to just not be interested in being married to me anymore and in all honesty I feel the same way. We seem to annoy each other more than anything.
@toyerdavids1993
@toyerdavids1993 3 месяца назад
Get out those papers bro. You can't beat a dead horse.
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