Why Younger Women Will Date an Older Man Outside of Money 

Older men tend to know, love, and accept themselves.

when you're a young man in junior high, high school and college you never realize that the girls are already sexually experienced. I will never forget overhearing a conversation between two girls in my classroom bragging about the fact they were getting screwed by older men they were beaming with pride. But heres the rub, the classroom was in JUNIOR HIGH SCHOOL, these girls had to be no older than maybe 14 or 15 years old but I remember them being well developed physically they could have easily passed for 18 or 19. Girls that young don't neccessarily care about money they just want the thrill of sleeping with older sexually experienced men.

In my early 20s I dated alot of older women. 28,29-46. Fine and sophisticated. Then when I hit 35, the younger ones was really going for me. 19-25. They be in here washing dishes, cleaning up. On a couple of occasions they've offered to cut my grass. Shit is something else

The flow is Charisma,the glow is Masculinity.

Im 32 and I just realize recently that I want an older man. Why? Most exudes masculinity, know who they are, can teach me things and the gray hair is so sexy. Powerful.

I've always dated men older and I'm talking my mom and dad's age. The main reason was because they pay for the youth without me even asking

People in a different demographic (age, race, geography) are perceived as safe(r). She can relax because you don't know her social circle. None of what her friends say or think of her matters to you. None of what she does with you will get back to them. She feels more free. When an older man treats her with respect and like a desirable woman instead of like a child it boosts her self esteem. It makes her feel mature and sophisticated.

CD-Rom, thanks for tackling this topic! This video is motivating for the younger and older brothas everywhere and the major takeaways are: to maintain fitness, to tackle life by the horns, and face the challenges head-on towards one's life mission and goals , which builds that deep masculine presence. Lastly, I also took away from this that guys don't have to be in such a rush to lock down. A man who takes good care of himself can have amazing longevity in the dating Game. #ChiefDirectorRom

You are absolutely right, excellent video.

As a 40 year old man I date a lot of women in their 20's and I date a lot out of my race. They like us because we take our time when we make love.

That is the truth, older guys like myself have to stay in shape, and all the experience we have thought life lessons help us with younger women I've seen it for myself💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

I agree brother with all that you are speaking about in this video some true knowledge , keep it flowing !!!

Excellent video Rom! These are GEMS right here!

Thanks for the knowledge Uncle Rom!

Here's why-The Siver Fox's swag is Wholistic:Body Game,Vintage Charisma, and Mature Masculinity.

Yes, that masculine spirit is key. That's the aspect most never consider when looking at the the young woman/older man dynamic.

Mentally...Physically...Spiritually...stay in shape and maintain balance in your life...! Everything else will come along organically...!

Rom, you are so right. Before I came to your channel I was skeptical of "Energy" and "Aura", but you have convinced me. When I look back upon some of my experiences with the knowledge that you give here, I cannot believe what I see. But with your concept of "Energy", it makes sense. I was at a picnic once. I was in t-shirt and shorts. I diet, lift weights and jog, so I am lean and muscular. At the picnic a woman my age or slightly older started an animated conversation with me, with her husband only a few feet away. It was a little uncomfortable. I looked around and a couple of other men were looking at me like, "What's going on?". I circulated again and a very beautiful woman perhaps 15 years older than me, who was there with her girlfriend, started a flirtatious conversation with me. I circulated again, and teenage girl came up to me, shook my hand (it was really cute) and started a conversation with me. I felt like I was in the Twilight Zone. Until your video, this experience and others, where much younger women have approached me, have always seemed a little strange. The only explanation that fits so far is "Energy". Like I keep saying, I'm glad I finally found someone who knows what's going on, because I certainly didn't.

This is pretty true because I am and have always been drawn to older men...and it’s mostly due to their masculine spirit. However they always spend on me regardless of age so I’m not sure about the not spending part 😂

these beautiful young ladies are seeing class, style, charisma, and knowledge in us OG's...I get approached by 20+ and 30+ everyday. in all flavors which I definitely enjoy...

Thanks for the video. ..Always on point!

A most RESPECTFUL tip of the hat to you, brother. Thank you.

📚✅️ Heavy Game. Thank You so much for blessing the world with your insight.

Uncle Rom preachin on this one👍🏾

Another great one Rom I used to think that having a gray beard in my early 40s would be the end of landing younger women. Now I notice that they the younger women are more open to talk and flirt with me. It's true that game gets better the older you get.

late response but great video.it makes me wanna work on myself,focus more on my myself and looking forward to getting older

virtual og .... respect . glad i came to your page new subscriber since yesterday or so

Brother Rom why in the hell are idiots given true facts that you speak of the thumbs down? You have all the credibility to backup all the subjects that you choose . SMDH. You're like me. I never allow negativity break me down. Thanks again for another smash hit of reality.

I remember I use to try and turn some younger females on to my sons and they would tell me I don't want your sons I want you, and I'm like wow, younger females adore older guys

This is pretty much a lose situation for younger men. While the older men (late 40's+) are pulling the younger, feminine, mature young ladies (late20's-early-mid 30's) leaves slim pickings for men in their age bracket. Also a lose situation for older women who may be divorced or widowed. If a man has to chose between a beautiful woman who's mature (40+) or an equally beautiful, mature younger woman(20's/30) he's more likely to chose the latter.

Thanks Rom, I thought I was tripping with the way some younger women were giving me the look.

Im 47 and my husband is 61. We've been happily married and met online in 2009

Epic video!

Uncle Rom.. thanks for this.. motivation as I get older :)

Another great video.

your a kool brotha love the advice

I'm been dating an older man for 2 years and about to get married.i love my teddy 🐻

Every girl wants her teddy bear :)

Oh lord lol whew! Yeah two or three generations is a bit much but then in some fields or mindsets it's your only option really. I have brothers (bio) in their early 40's and I'm not even 25, however, it takes a LOT of maturity on both fronts and completely open communication and a clear reason why you're together. Sometimes it's just the confidence they have and experience. Many things to discuss and learn from... some prefer the bigger guys, some the older lol

Dealing with this as speak...I am 44 a younger 22 year young woman want to join my family.... she oozes femininity

Men are meant to be younger women anyway.

Good video.

Yes, it was true when you said a man can use charm to get a young woman.

@Rom Willis , I am new to your channel . I did a search today on " Do you it matter how old a person is before they get married? " Your video came up . I think you did a dope job on the different aspects of age . You really helped me to find clarity of mind . My soul feels much better what you said also helped me to think outside the box. Thanks for the help .

Thanks heeded that!

There is an old saying old age and trickery beats youth and ambition I.e Ali versus Foreman or Forman versus Moore. However in my case I find it difficult to relate to extremely younger woman. In my experience this millennial generation is not as receptive to the masculine energy that Rom is speaking of. I think Sniper 11 N.D is a little more hardcore in his beliefs but were are living in very interesting times and the young women of yesterday are inherently different than today. Now there are exceptions but it is an anomaly. Still a great insightful video as always big brother Rom

Rom man you are the truth....I'm in school man... you are real

Good piece on the older man/younger woman topic. Good thing for most of us brothers is black dont crack lol. Im late 30s but look mid 20s. I saw another video on this subject and the man said, to paraphrase, men in their mid 30s or early 40s dont lose value, their value increases while women the same age value decreases

Great video and that bacon looks good.

Just gonna put this out there........when the video started. Just him sitting in the chair like that made me think about *the talk* with your parents😁😁😁

Good Discussion.

After what I've been through this past year, I'm strongly considering dating a younger woman, early 20's,, im done with these old, wore out, used up whores who bring no value,or joy to a mans life. A woman in her 20's is about to begin her life, and she will need guidance, and teaching from a man on how NOT to be a whore, and how to care for a man, I see it everyday in my city, and these young ladies are in order, just my opinion, but I'm with it!!

Great video, realizing since I am now in my late 40s and keeping it Clooney with no children been getting a lot of looks from younger females Realizing that how masculine energy is distributed be it protons & neutrons but remaining true to oneself is key.

good point I always wondered why younger women was attracted to me some older but most of them are young

"I get older, they stay the same age"

I'm just realizing that Dr J in that pic........yeah, I definitely see him having a good vibe w da younger honeys!!

I see nothing wrong with younger and older relationships as long as their happy that's all that counts.

I can testify that this is true. I am over 40 (look like late 20s/early 30s) and I pull plenty of 20 year olds.

I'm involved with a man thats 52...I'm 34. If I marry again I am hoping he will be 55+!

Let's get realistic here...I don't have shit to my name, and even if I did, what would I possibly have in common with a younger woman - besides sex, which she can easily get from her own peers? When I was her age, the VERY LAST thing I wanted was an LTR! Now that I'm in my mid 50s, never married, careful not to have had any children whatsoever - I STILL don't want an LTR, especially with a younger woman! Let some other older guy have that honor...I'm good!

Younger women are definitely drawn to older men. I have a young lady at my job who keeps checking out my beard with the gray in it

Preach!

I like this man who is 23 years my senior. He is very intelligent. We have wonderful conversations. I appreciate that about him. Right now, I am in the library of my mind. I am searching past experiences for a way to not let things proceed as quickly as I might have years ago. Yeah. That is what I will do. Drive slow with my seat belt on.

When I was in my late 20's I was worrying about attracting younger women cause they would be the ones most likely single. But I realized the older men around me who had younger girlfriends. And on certain occasions, I was told by family few of their teen girlfriends were choosing. Well after hearing this, I am definitely not worrying now. Thanks for the confirmation. All I have to do is workout and buy my black seed oil! you know what I am talking about. 😄

I don't even check for 30+ year old women. They're only good for sex because they normally carry too much baggage. Mature 20-25 year olds is where it's at for me (messed w/a 20 year last year... she was one of the most mature woman I had been with. I was 32 @ the time.). I'm in my prime, I refuse to waste it on 30+ year old women.

100% accurate!

Bro Rom - You out did yourself with this video - the base on top of the body is masculine energy or positive energy. At that point if you do not have charisma than the women will takeover and give you what you want as long as you don't say anything crazy to scare her away

Well it's the reverse for me i'm into older women i got my game from older and mature women also an older cat who was like a big brother to me back when I was fresh in my twenties taught me as well all i can say is that i know the best of both worlds where i can attract both the younger and older women having knowledge of self is everything

Some older men are more immature than immature boys. Seriously. It's ashame. But reality. They'll die alone and miserable because they wasted their whole life playing games and never really living it.

real deal Rom

I'm 50 years old still getting play from women in their 20s. Lol! I even get friendly treatment from high school cuties. It's what happens when you stay in the gym and shave your head.

Facts!

Good topic, I'm 53 they want me from 18 to 80. true player 4 real

So on point now I see y my aggression comes out with some men n others it doesn't that's so deep.

Following painful experiences, during long term, intimate relationships with women ranging in age from older AND younger..... I’ve learned a lot ‘bout women. All I have to do is get that 1st. date... I get her bagged and tagged.

I appreciate this man's viewpoint. But as a female, women date old men for money. It gets no simpler and we cannot water down the truth. Once the money is gone, so is she. Think about it. Why would a younger woman want to date an old man if he brings no more to the table than the more attractive men her age? There is no incentive. Some may argue that women are attracted to the old man's maturity. No, that's just a euphemism for mature bank account.

Let people be HAPPY.. TO EACH THEIR OWN... I remember the days when RACISM was around.. well stop the AGEISM.

I'm 38 yrs old I only date women 20 /30yrs old any thing older than 30 your kinda old too me ....lol fellas stay in shape so u dont have too trick..lol

you should have charged for this one lol I'm going through exactly what you're talking about. I'm 37 I work out 4-5 times a week, I'm comfortable in my blackass skin and I'm getting all kinds of looks from younger females

Real science fam.

Ok I could really use some advice I met these guy who is 30 and I'm 21. We both have 2 jobs and I'm also in school so we both are busy. Us talking just happened and I really want to get to know him. He says I dont have any experience, but I want him to teach me. He says he wants me to think for myself to know what i want. I want a relationship which will take time. Why rush this we need to get to know each other and build our connection he said. Just a little back story my question is What are somethings I can provide to an older man? How should I go about this? Any advice?

Reminds me of Morgan freeman, Old Man Game, Longevity. I LOVE IT!! ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-9ojY6ZvciXg.html I get that about dealing with one woman is learning how to deal with several woman , managing feminine energy. Man that's some ISM. I aspire to pull and keep feminine energy off of mostly is not all of it being off my essence of masculinity. Rom started preachin! LOL!! Calypso Organ!!

Young girls like older niggaz that can cook too!!! Food in the belly go a long way!!!

You gave up just enough game.....😎 Because it's deeper than this.

One other note when dealing with younger women if you are the older men (10 yrs+). You may get the young body, but when the rubber hits the road, and the infatuation has subsided you must eventually deal with that “YOUNGER MIND”. And that’s going to be the ultimate “BIG” challenge. Fact!!!

I like this video, my preference is younger women.

Ok this explains, in part, why pastors get so much play especially the older ones!

That's his daughter i think not trying to dispell the truth that your making clear to those that dont know.

I probably stand alone on this but if you are a hot 20 year old and a 60 year old man can get you I don't want you.

Dr. J ... playa.

Resources that's all. women really don't like or love men just in it for cash.

The "Doctah" don't fuck around boy

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CHUUUCH!!!

As a older men a og i get women hook i be laying it down right old men strength 😎😎😎😭😏😏

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LOLl!!! You guys are delusional. I would never date a man in his 50's or 60's.. I already have a father. LOL. This is too funny

Howard Stern and Hulk Hogan have younger wives lol

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u be talkin' bout some dark shit picture a college professor telling a dude GET OUT MY CLASS ROOM u know i got a dark mind 💧 so i work to not say much when a pic say words only reason i can never marry