Why Women Will Check Up On An Ex 

I have little to no interaction with them (especially intimate), i don't block them though......they need to see this comeup and hopefully learn from their fuckup :)

A women once told me, there are two types of men after a break up 1. The man who blames the women and says she messed up his whole life and makes her satisfied that she did. 2. A man who becomes the best version of himself and makes the girl regret her decision. These women know exactly what they do. It's in their nature. It's in a man's nature to choose what's best

I'm 23 and can relate. Every female that I have dealt with always coincidently wanted another man or had a guy on the side. And Every time that I see them they always want to conversant with me or they're with their female friends who compliment me on how I dress casually or how attractive that I am and they feel regret. I have never been the one to think that I am better than anyone because I am not. I am humble chasing dreams ,spiritually, and physically, mentally and emotionally I am strong ! I had women leave me because I wasn't in the streets or didn't have money. I had regular jobs and I was a good guy that they considered boring but now I been working out , traveling, praying and just being humble. I'm relocating in a few months to focus on my dreams. Let's say success is the best revenge.💯

"I need to be able to demonstrate that i can have my feelings hurt be wounded and still be a man and remain consistent" - Gorgeous Dre

They all check up. Thy ALL check up. LMAO And what drives then bat shit is when they see you doing better.

Cut off all contact including her friends/family forever! You most likely improved but they normally haven't. Which automatically means she's less valuable (Would you buy back an already used car with additional mileage/damage for more than what you originally paid?). Love yourself and respect yourself...

They are calling about nothing I guarantee it fellas. Like you said Mr.Wills women wanna feel they made the right decision on dumping dude and it should be our initiative to make them regret that choice. Get your money up fellas, Hit the gym , focus on being the best you .

Hah story of my life... The woman i truly loved , took here everywhere, treat her real good, like i was told by my parents growing up...well she dumped me,just like that, one day she just doesnt feel the same way, classic excuse. I wasnt a full time SIMP but ive shown her that i cared about her. Was Really hard, and after that ive just said fuck it and within a year focused on my business bought a bike and a very nice car, money really started rolling in. I've even had my shit together when she was with me, but now its even better. Fast forward that year when i've made upgrades on myself, she texted me, never answered. One day FULL YEAR after that text, i parked my sport bike, lookin all jacked up and in serious shape, in front of a coffe shop and she went by... The look on her face was like... one of the angriest looks ive ever seen in a person, like i killed her whole family or done her some serious damage. It just amazes me that they think they can just pause and resume the relationship whenever they want. I really cant respect ANY MAN that takes back a chick like that.

I remember a chick who I was messing with pretty much told me many years ago back in my late teens: "If you were to ever achieve major success and upgrade to someone much better in life, then I wouldn't be too happy about that because I had you first." It can be really amazing at times what women will admit about themselves, when they speak their real emotions with no logic whatsoever. The last time she ever tried to speak to me, I simply told her that I had moved on with my life, and hung up on her. She tried to call a few more times, but soon moved on. Regardless of me achieving success or not, I sincerely hope to never see or hear from her ever again in life. Good topic as usual, Brother.

Reminds me of how little kids act when they have a new toy and play with it for a while and then get bored with it and stash it in the closet in the corner somewhere. Then when another kid finds that toy and start playing with it now the original kid get all jealous and wanna steal it back just because someone else is enjoying that toy that they discarded in the first place.

When men move on to new women, and the relationship lasts longer than that of when they were with the ex, Women question the worth and importance the man felt for her to begin with. Females hate that shit

Moral of the story, don't give them your positive energy, but it defeats the purpose of being with them. Acquire this skill and you will win every time.

These girls say that such a good man is boring naive n wen the dude moves on life becomes successful in his career the girl is like damn maybe I shd hv stuck it out with these dude n by the time she realizes it its too late the dude is gone to another relationship where he is treated with respect n she is left to regret her decisions To all the good men continue being a good men focus on urself ur career ur health n u will find someone who treats u with dignity and respect

Funny bro my ex whose been married 11years. Sent me a message yesterday saying im just checking on you.

9 times out of 10 a woman checks up on an ex to see if he's doing miserable. And those times that fails. He'll do ok or better depending on the situation.

Great video Rom. I think a lot of it comes down to those old sayings. ( I thought the grass was greener on the other side) ( You don't miss the water until the well runs dry)

my ex had an abortion . we broke up not to long after. well she broke it off. within a week she was with a new guy. he was a 2nd option i truly belive and it happend to be a friend of mine. i never once went back to her or tried to get her back. i was like fuck that you wanna go GO! sure i went through a rough period. but i let it go. it hurt me but i never reached out. years later iam different now just LAST YEAR she requested to follow me in IG. i let her follow me. i did NOT follow back. shes with her new LOVE. yet she is liking my pictures, commenting on them at 1:13 AM in the moring. lol. smh. all while being so IN LOVE with her new bf. then i upload a pic of me and a girl i was banging. she deletes me.

Rom deeply knows how the female psychology works. I doff my hat to you, sir.

Rom wills consistently putting out those videos like it's going out of style👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

My ex phoned my sister just to have a chat 4real. Weird but true

The main miss on this ROM is "they check back because their hurt in their current relationship, so they do what's called " a reach back"

I have recently had a ex get at me..the same ex that dissed me for her no good baby daddy 15 yrs ago and had another baby by him lol..now im doing well and she wanna holla back..I aint trying to be no holla safety net fallback nigga !!espically when i just got rid of a no good wife of 10 plus yrs...possible pump n dump coming in 3...2...1....

Just subscribed to about that business. At this very point in my life I need to be thinking about making money way more than women. Uncle Rom always bringing just what the doctor ordered.

I dated a Nigerian girl & was getting played w every trick in the book. I went red pilled & woke up to the game, guarantee she’ll hit me up eventually. Getting my masters won’t hurt either

That's Game😁😁!! Once I bought a new ride and bought a mini Mansion and posted how I was doing it on Social Media..They were sending friends request, showing up at my favorite spots..Naw you aient a down type of chick, I don't even want to hit it, loyalty goes along way with me..Amen😁😎

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Uncle Rom keep doing what you're doing These Topics are much needed. Reading the comments helps me you understand that many Men go thru same stuff I've went thru. The Truth is Women know when A Man was Good to Them and Treated them Right. And When they Leave and go on to the next Man they Often Try to "Find You" and your Characteristics in Other Men..But they Soon find out that whatever Attracted them to You cannot Be easily replaced.

if he was thugging she will check up on him for sure she is always waiting on that call or connection from him to get her to come back she's missing the drama.

Binge watching your videos this morning. Wisdom for us youngins.

The best revenge is a life well lived

I don't check up on my ex's. Once the relationship is done everybody get cut off. Him and his family. I learned that a long time ago. That shit isn't good for your new relationship. I don't deal with dudes that still have anything to do with their ex.

I had an ex said she'll block me from social media not because we broke up but because she doesn't want to see me doing well without her...I was like "Alrighty then" LOL Great video Brotha Rom!

The attitude is wishing them well and keep it moving. . .the reason he is called "ex" No reason for Unrequited energy on any level

When I'm done with a man he doesn't ever hear from me or see me again, ex's are dead to me. I get really irritated when they try to stay in touch like I'm some kind of side chick or back up plan.

Thank you for these gems you are dropping bruh. I'am definitely listening, studying, and making proper application.

This is some game

This is actually really good ish man thank you ...its nice to hear some GOOD game

Rom, what do you think about women who put children against the father

Chuuuch good shit I never thought about it til now how u said a woman says nice but it makes sense that's wisdom u putting out

Prime example of a women being the horse that came in last place at the Kentucky Derby 🐎 and then try to justify that by explaining why she was the better horse 🐴 .

Men rarely have the issue with "the one that got away" syndrome because weve made our mind up to dump a woman months before we actually do!

That's exactly what happened. But I kept it moving lol, not worth it.

Yea. Thought as much. If I bump into her again (first time I walked passed her like a stranger.)I'll keep the convo short if she attempts to chat. I know she'd get very nosey. Have a feeling we will caught each other again.

Bruh !! Described my situation with my exes to the T smh... especially my ex wife. Lmao !! Trust me, it only gets better fellas.

I'm actually the dude (because of my low tolerance for BS) that ended all but one of my relationships. I get the same "check in" from most of my exes, even when they have a boyfriend. Sometimes it's obvious they miss me, but other times I can't tell why she reaching out. Can you weigh in Rom on what this means if the man ended things and you hear from her when she has a boyfriend? In my experience it could be a number of things but curious what you think the most common explanation is.

You speak nothing but truth !!!

Checkin up on a ex hummm!....i was never a person to go in my mind to convince myself to physically check up on a ex personally....it always sends a wrong message: It shows the ex your either (care enough) waiting or you miss them or if the red carpet is still yours in a return & most importantly your available to interrupt there present realtionship..you dont have to be enemies but no contact is best i believe...and its better for your growth.. to me thats not the make of a dom man...a dom man know what he knows about a ex.. and besides you become a perminate place in there mind which either promote change in there life hopefully but especially yours...besides they are a ex for a reason...not for re-run/view/visit/wind/play/peat/store/do/or re-check....but they are a reject lmao....a dom man to me embraces the room for better & new options and reminiscent over good memories of the nice ones(lol) my opinion

Let women know whenever they come back around you are on to their bullshit. Be self-sufficient, don't give any information, and make no effort to contact her.

You speak the Word. Just subscribed.

You are dropping jewels

Yep women are crazy like that

if my EX contact me , I just say : it's simple I want just sex yes or no ? ! 😂

Great points of view....Excellent vid.....

Good one Uncle Rom

Real. Talk. Rom.

Men go through something too. 🤔

Preach Preach bro!!!

I usually stay in contact with my exes and add them to my harem of sex partners. Just because it's over between us doesn't mean that we still can't fuck around every now and then. Might of fact I have one that I been fooling with for years every time her new boyfriend start cutting up. Another is actually engage to be married and she will give me a booty call once in awhile so, I don't check on them it's them who check on me.

Yardy man live in the comments lol 😂😂😂 facts straight facts

I don't check on a ex I delete Facebook messenger and phone numbers when it is over let it go somebody else will come

Thanks master teacher. I really appreciate what you do. #goodgametips

Lmao not on social media so she can't check up on shit...😂😂😂😂😋😎

do former sex buddies count too

What about women that reject you, do you think the same rules apply?

good stuff brother

I lift but crazy want leave me alone!

why do exs check up on each other? because they are too much of a coward to ask the ex personally.

bro dont expose us of course I want her cz the head is good

C'mon uncle rom tell us story

Damn!!!

Is that a flip phone? Dam, a clam shell....thumb nail from 2003

#truestatement

Yo my brother. Imma need your help my ex said she still can't stand me after years we broke up ok? Now mind you I was minding my own business I wasn't even thinking about her frfr. She texted me first. Then she gonna cuss me out and say don't write back. I don't understand females. Do you have any wise words

Rom and warren are the OGs when comes to this ism bruh smh

Solid game

Can you do a video on how to stand up for yourself when a girl or woman tries to tear you down or disrespect you.

Smart.

Jewels

amen!

I deleted them off all social media😐. Only thing they'll see is my ugly ass face on my profile😊.

Is it good to take exes back? Even If there humble

notification gang.

Realtalk

Great video.

I feel like it’s a lot of game and wisdom on this video, so I gotta question for y’all... Does a man or woman who’s married need to have a friend of the opposite sex? Especially if the man is working and providing and the woman is feeling neglected... Thanks in advance.

What advice would you give for that if I may ask?

rom wheres the thumbnail from?

i did this twice . they weren't exes but guys that i had gotten to know. i was like 22 though i didn't know better.

What if the man broke up with her.

I am in contact with just about all my exes because they are cool dudes. They all married but we still go to lunch sometimes, etc. I am sure they would screw around if I wanted to but we don't. They my buddies and for whatever reason we broke up it don't matter no more. There are just a few I couldn't ever be friends with again but I have forgiven them. Just can't mess with them no more on any level.

It's true boss

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What chu got against Yardies tho?

I don't keep score, I keep scoring! Let them watch that come up from the sidelines! ⛹🏿‍♂️💪