People envy you for allowing yourself to be someone, they do not give themselves permission to be. You’re a reminder of their suppressed desires. It’s nothing personal.
I have people making fun of my walk because i walk like a model (in their opinion) and they make fun by telling not in my face but behind my back "wanna be on top?" The GNTM saying
@@mar1nn998someone told me I ‘walk in like I own the place’ 🤣 yes I do as I should and so should you ❤ these people wish they had the confidence. Don’t listen to them and keep walking like a model, the world is your runway 💗
Could also be they’re not enemies but her own misunderstandings somewhere where on Instagram it was witnessed she blocked a loyal follower over a little comment which did not even involve her. Anyways glad to know the truth.. and she’s a truth seeker too. All are happy.
I know a girl that used to always try to find any chance to bully me for no reason, I wasn't actually saying anything back to her, one day she said something really rude to me and i said something back to her, she shut her mouth and she tried to chill the situation, that's was funny because it showed me how weak this kind of people are.
I’m a boy and I struggled with bullying a lot people spreading rumors abt me, talking bad abt me and laughing abt me and more and I finally healed and accepted myself and seeing this video was a sign that haters are really obsessed with us they try to spread there struggles and negative energy on us, If u choose to be a victim just know that they got what they wanted and that’ know they consider themselves superior to u so I recommend not gaf abt what people say because it’s impossible to please human beings.
3:47 THIS WAS SUCH AN EYE OPENER... I always felt weak in front of people because I'm really transparent with my emotions and it really confuses me that with a lot of friendship I used to have, the more I expressed my feelings about something I didn’t like, the more they would mock me and make me the "clown" of the friendship... I never understood why they didn’t take me seriously, and I think it was because they loved to have control over my emotions all the time.
I had the exact same problem. I used to have two female friends in middle school who could control their emotions better than me. They always pushed my buttons whenever they felt like it. At some point I started to repress my emotions. Lately im trying to get more in tune with my emotional world and allow myself to feel again. I still try to understand what happened to me and how it affected me.
“Any fool can criticize, complain, and condemn-and most fools do. But it takes character and self-control to be understanding and forgiving.” ― Dale Carnegie 5:17
Excellent...I agree with everything you said here, especially that people don't get away with anything, they can't get away from themselves and having to go to bed every night knowing that they are a terrible person. Karmic retribution is something none of us can escape which is great news for some of us and absolutely terrifying news to others.
I’m keeping this video forever. I needed this so many years back when I dealt with jealous people. In my experience, There are also people who are really jealous of you because you are like them but they want to be the only ones to be that way. It’s not just people who wish they could be like you-there are people already embracing who they are/want to be but they feel threatened when they don’t feel special anymore when another person like them is active. They don’t like the idea that their territory is being shared and will do things to bring down the person like them so that they stop doing what’s giving them success.
Engaging in others people's drama too much is a self sabotaging thing and its really really bad. honestly it's draining to have a friend that's in every one elses business
I cant thank u enough for all the content and advice u share Alessia, you are seriously an angel, i completely relate to "i raised myself" and videos like this make me feel like i dont have to do it alone anymore, because for some magical reason 1. u always seem to know intuitively what topic to discuss that is always what im going through and needing advice on 2. ur advice resonates with me completely and i feel so understood and seen I dont feel alone anymore, its like your content is the way the universe gives me the answers and advice and clarity that i was praying for!! Im so so grateful, you have no idea! ❤
You are really one of my comfort person, ur energy is beautiful, i just feel so much calmer and relaxed listening to you, im also currently sick right now but this made me feel so much better, my headache is subsiding after listening to you, im so thankful i had stumbled across ur instagram, and then youtube, love u alessia!!!
I feel like my big sister talk to me and teach me, today i learned a good lesson that change my mindset in a good way and make me see and understand it differently , really thank you I'm glad to find your channel keep going Queen you got all my support ❤️🙏🏻
16:24 😂i love this part. I've been called heartless by my brother (told a truth in a teasing manner). For quite sometime i thought that I'm in the wrong for blocking people as soon as they said something really bad about me or did something that i knew no amount of apologies or explanation can fix. But now i know that i do this to protect me. And mostly i block people in early stages of friendships.. Ofc it's a lil sad that i thought so good of them, i let myself feel it and in no time I overcame it too and came out stronger. ❤
Thank u so much for this!! This advice is amazing and has completely changed my perspective on how to deal with toxic, jealous friends - they really are just deeply insecure and I pity them for it. ❤️❤️
I love you so much, I love the way you speak, your voice, your beauty, your advices and literally everything about you and your content, thank you for everything 💖
Thank you soo much for this video alessia, I just dealt with a "friend" yesterday and she gave some hate comments so i kinda felt bad but i know she's secretly addicted to me as she copies everything i do so i know she's trying to bring me down, thank u for reminding me i feel like this video was made for whoever is dealing with this situation so Thankyou once again alessia ❤❤❤
I truly needed that. I find myself blessed to have access to your guidance,knowledge and support. Thank you so much and i love and appreciate what you are doing. You are a light in this world ✨💙
You seem way more comfortable and relaxed in this video, compared to the other one. Also, way more authentic! Thanks for sharing your knowledge, I really enjoyed listening to you. Keep going 🫶🏼
Girl u and thewizardliz inspire me so much. Now i also wanna create self-help videos on Utube but im kinda nervous 😅 i dont wanna be famous ughhh what should i do ? :(
I cant believe how accurate this is. my previous best friend always said as a "joke" (she knw it made me feel bad) that I am fat, but one day she asked am I fat? And I said no. She was so happy but she still said bad things to me because it satisfied her.
receiving a notification that you posted brings me so much joy 💖✨ i've learned many things from your videos. when i starting getting into your videos, i could sense your energy and see how powerful you are🌟 keep making these videos and doing what you love ❤️
to be honest its been a long day and even though i have watched your video, i feel like i needed comfort from your words. Thank you and i wish a nice day to everyone here ❤️✌️
I've realised that even I've been doing this subconsciously. Stalking people, trying to know more about them, being addicted to the drama. It is time consuming and made me bitter. Literally realising that I should focus on myself.
People are giving others the energy they are giving themselves. They give a reflection of their behavior and how they think about themselves and throw bad things to everyone
Another wonderful amd educational post . Seriously i love your content and all that you share about psychology and positive motovation . Forever grateful for finding you💫
The example about hatful comments reminded me one situation: I am a former dancer and one time we perfomed at this place, basically a city center where all the cultural meetings and events are taking place, very inspiring place. And then there was this one worker who had a nerve to call perfomers names (some of which were children from very little to teenagers) and talk badly to them just because they needed to quickly run off stage after performing and take their seats in the viewers area because they really wanted to support one each other and see what kinds of performances others have prepared. And after the show is over, I met up with my uncle and his wife who came to watch the performance and I rant to him how this worker treated me and others very badly and without any respect. He simply replied: "for you it was a small upsetting interaction, and for this person it is a lifestyle, an everyday thing. Imagine how sad and unhappy their life is because of how they treat others around them, how their family is unhappy because of all this negativity." It didn't click right in that moment, but after your video I finally realized what he meant. People are so unhappy with themselves that they go out in the world and try to make people who are around them unhappy, and it is our responsibility to not let these people have what they are striving for
This was so good to hear because me and my two friends are being bullied in school for no reason and thats kinda hard to dont take it peronly or being sad because they saying and doing things that acaully hurt our fellings. But i willl just ignore them tmr because of that i saw tis video and btw your vids are awesome and now i understand so much more! xx
Heyyyy really love those videos but could you make like titels in ur videos so that we can easily know about what you're talking? Like thewizardliz? But anywy its so good and thx for the amazing tips. 😍💋
Thank you so much Alessia i needed this video so much and i am so grateful i found your channel at the right time ㅠㅠ first time watching your video and i liked it so much and you are so beautiful btw
Thank you for this video. There’s a guy in my class that’s making comments about how I look. I did give him a reaction, when he said that…. when I see him again there will be no reaction. I forgive him. I feel bad for him to have such a low self esteem that he has to go around saying things about me. That’s sad.
Thank you for this video..unfortnatly I am going true this now..and I am alone I look in the Mirror everyday and say good things about myself. Ex I am strong, important , valuable. And I wont let People brainwash me With their sight of me.
I learned a lot of things from this video , and i love everything about u , thank u from the bottom of my heart alessia i will keep listenting to u forever , i love u so much ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
