Why Your Life Feels So Dull And Empty 

I will. Thanks for watching

@@ColeHastings thank you for doing this

Cole Hastings, start putting your faith to God. If you're a sensitive man, trust me brother this ain't no work of casualty. The Lord wants to save your soul. There's a text in the bible that says in Psalm, "Even though my father and mother leave me, with everything God shall help me." I still invite you to visit this church called La Luz Del Mundo or The Light Of The World Church. Put your burden and he shall help you. Maybe the one girl who actually values you is there. Trust me bro, in my church, you will be loved

@@trackrunner6033 Oh for goodness sake. He is happy without all the god mumbo jumbo stop pushing it onto people. If it makes you happy then yeah go for it but I am sick of you religious folk forcing it on people!

So...I should keep drinking and numbing myself? Lol nah j/k.

Move from the education trade to the slave trade. Very depressing

My biggest fear.​@@Trisof88

School sucked aswell tho 😂

@@Trisof88sir the slave trade is a very sensitive and triggering topic please don’t joke about it when this topic comes up it should be done properly

⁠@@NIAAESTHTIC he wasn't making a joke out of it

underrated comment here

Wow what a statement bro

My man!! I remember unsubscribing your channel when you were at 1k or so cuz I was kinda tired of all the self help stuff on my YT. Really love seeing your progess now. Keep going man 👏🏼

Yeah, talks about Breaking Bad. Those not so hype moments or "boring" are whats makes the HYPE and beautifull moments, beautifull

😩… no I don’t. I fast forward until things look good or start watching whatever it is a few Episodes in. I’ll go back and rewatch the beginning IF it captured me from where I picked up at, especially if i end up watching until the end of it😆. I should’ve known anxiety issues were rising when I started reading books from the end. I just gotta know what’s going to happen!! Then I can go back and calmly start from the beginning.

Still waiting to go that place

@@dividebyzero6722 could say the same... hang in there buddy :)

I completely understand and empathize with that quote and many others by famous intelligent people. It's rough though, the loneliness alone is enough to make many insane.

@@modernlion2372 i’m crying

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Keep fighting 💪

you’ve got this man

you can really do it kevin

what do you do now

I hope you're living life to the fullest now 🙏

I hope things are better for you now. And if not, you still have their rest of your life :)

I also got my heart broken by my best friend :(

I've been so down and low, for a great part of my life, I feel like I'm addicted to feeling miserable and Worthless, any whiff of happiness and joy, does not feel natural or deserved. It feels fake af. Now after losing my ex woman and kids to another man, I thought that was it for me. Now I'm with a new, more attractive and intelligent woman, I fell in love.. like never before.. it felt great and yes I was super happy, now I'm back to the miserable part of life again. I guess like rapper Gangstar said "Ex to the Next" 😮😮😮

I've been so down and low, for a great part of my life, I feel like I'm addicted to feeling miserable and Worthless, any whiff of happiness and joy, does not feel natural or deserved. It feels fake af. Now after losing my ex woman and kids to another man, I thought that was it for me. Now I'm with a new, more attractive and intelligent woman, I fell in love.. like never before.. it felt great and yes I was super happy, now I'm back to the miserable part of life again. I guess like rapper Gangstar said "Ex to the Next" 😮😮😮

Means a lot. Thank you Blake.

@Cole Hastings cole great video keep it up and stay safe.

I disagree, I think his videos are as consistent as ever. This is especially good, though.

@@ColeHastings Literraly I clicked in this video and thought I would close 10 seconds after, I watched it all. Opened my mind. Thank you :)

TOTALLY AGREE!! Outstanding video!! So much truth to it

Bro be strong. I went the same exact thing as you. But that's how life is bro

Dude, I knew exactly what you're going through. Develop a vision who do you want to be 1 year from now? What do you want to feel to be you? With me, I want my life to feel like a game. You make progress, you do quest, you level up... Now you have a direction, you have something look forward to.

​@@penice150yearsago some people can't even get out of bed, eat, shower.

Same here 😢 wanna be friends? Because i hardly need someone talk each other who know the same pain of mine Wanna be friends?

​@@kcbluebutterfly2182yes, you're right😢

This is actually a fictional story I wrote, but if I ever got to know my grandpa before he died, I'd hope he'd tell me something like this.

@@ColeHastings It shows you how damn good of a story you wrote. I geniunly thought this is what your grandpa told you. The fact that it came out of your head is crazy! Imagine how wise you will be when you are 92. Cole Hastings The Oracle

Well not just grandfathers but for me my uncle really inspired me and shaped my character

Thanks. I believe talking about these matters going to change the world. My experience with boredom and being uncontent is slightly different though. I just shared on my channel how I cope with boredom

Thank you so much

I'd go even further to say this is the greatest video I've ever seen on RU-vid. 🥲

Thanks. I believe talking about these matters going to change the world. My experience with boredom and being uncontent is slightly different though. I just shared on my channel how I cope with boredom

Hang in there bud we’re all in this together

are we though? like im sure there is some truth behind this. but regardless of whether anyone is there with you or not, his point still stands. why continue existing when there isnt any point?​@@Javier300k

Exactly !!!! 😭😭😭😭😭

I’m telling you smh hang in there I’m hanging too 🙏🏾

Well the lows will make you a better person. I get it’s not fun I hate them as much as the next person but if it weren’t for them I wouldn’t be a better person today. And my life wouldn’t have been any happier in the long run

Much love Dylan

True

I dislike the comments that start with I usually don't comment on videos.

Ain't nothin wrong with avoiding pain & failure. They'll stil find you, no need tp make it even worse.

Stop crying

Go out there a suffer stay hard

I just hope you're in a better in place now❤️🙏

@@Loveispeacej ahh youtube replies always so kind

Its cute you have gone through mere few months. Try a few years, then we can talk 😂

That means so much. Really glad it moved you

Let me guess. You still feel this way and nothing changed

@@Shadow_banned_by_RU-vid Haha you're so funny and pessimistic. I have never felt so alive!! You really need to get a life!! LOL

Sorry I know your comment is from long ago..i was thinking, what you said is connected to how people relate to the story of Jesus Christ..someone perfect goes through the range of human expression and while highly imperfect is still perfect

@@hannahmiller5515 that's a nice correlation

Christ be praised

Christian 🖕

No wonder I didn't ask to be born

that dopamine hit at the onset of extreme uncertainty

Thank you so much Rob. That truly means a lot

Life wasn't like this always. Industrial revolution changed human behavior completely which caused this. Like, yes bad things used to happen in life but it was a rarity. Hedonistic culture which emphasises heavily on attaining pleasure anyhow and from any means did this. Like I'm from a 3rd world country and in rural areas till now everything was quite stagnant and people were happy or atleast content with their lives, but as soon as they got the hedonistic culture exposure everything went to hell.

Hey! Im 20 and I feel the same way some times, but honestly? I think everyone's kind of half-assing life tbh. Noone really knows what we're doing, no matter how much of a facade we put up sometimes, we're always kinda just doing what we can, as flawed and imperfect as it is, and seeing where it takes us :)

@@jayanthkaruturi9640 as a now 18 year old looking back at this comment a year ago makes me realise how far I've come. I took the risk of taking a serious relationship and its paid off, I got through college and am aspiring to University (UK resident here) and I plan to start yhe gym and learn how to cook

​@@Mr.Murphy2802did you learn how to cook and start gym?

@@logic7124 I have yes, still a long way to go, stumbled a few times in the gym and had to do a few resets but in a much better place than I was when I wrote this

Imma meditate rn man , thanks for the motivation

@@formodius The waking up app normally charges, but it's free to anyone that asks and you don't even have to give a reason. It's what I've been using.

But I still feel like crap since pandemic started, haven’t had any really good emotion in almost 2 years and I’m not exaggerating

@@mentiquebakabila4254 same with me man, it’s been a tough couple years. But I haven’t given up yet tho

@@mentiquebakabila4254 same dude, i know what's my problem, but just don't have motivation

Really appreciate that Mahesh

What makes you think that we're imperfect

And I'll say more... it's so boring that it gets to the point where it's also possible to predict behaviors, that is, everything is predictable and exhausting.

@@maicon_prudente so real for that bro

@@maicon_prudente If life was a video game, that means you are stuck on level 1-1. Living inside your own head will keep you there. Be present and you'll get to experience the rest of the game. Who knows what's going to happen? Exciting, isnt it?.

grow a garden do community service

@@JoshenBits I beated the game on hard. Its not fun anymore but im stuck in it. “Our contemporary Western society, in spite of its material, intellectual and political progress, is increasingly less conducive to mental health, and tends to undermine the inner security, happiness, reason and the capacity for love in the individual; it tends to turn him into an automaton who pays for his human failure with increasing mental sickness, and with despair hidden under a frantic drive for work and so called pleasure.” Erich Fromm Art Of Love 1956 Today i feel more excited to find out how this game is programmed, by who, and why... And se if there are a change to improve this and help other tired players breaks free from the grind. The modern society will tell me im depressed and need to take some drugs. The big philosophers will tell me im awake, im alive, and im a human. “The real hopeless victims of mental illness are to be found among those who appear to be most normal. "Many of them are normal because they are so well adjusted to our mode of existence, because their human voice has been silenced so early in their lives, that they do not even struggle or suffer or develop symptoms as the neurotic does." They are normal not in what may be called the absolute sense of the word; they are normal only in relation to a profoundly abnormal society. Their perfect adjustment to that abnormal society is a measure of their mental sickness. These millions of abnormally normal people, living without fuss in a society to which, if they were fully human beings, they ought not to be adjusted.” Aldous Huxley Brave New World Revisited 1958 ...

I liked it.

wow.....that means a lot to me. thank you for sharing this, im sure this will be the turning point for you

How are you now?

Thank you Julia. I'm glad I can make this type of impact, even though most of my subscribers have endured much more than i have. They're stronger than I might ever be.

Thank you

How are you doing now?

I like the practice of speaking with your deathbed self. From time to time, I to do the same, it helps shifts things into a positive direction.

Well, nothing makes me feel alive

Appreciate that a lot!

If someone says "my life cant have value" is the most stupid shit ever. People are all day on their phone and then complain "my life is terrible" or "im depressed". People are just mentally fucking weak in modern times.

We don't live in a simulation

@quixote I don't know man, I never used to take it seriously, but I'm not sure how else to explain much of what happens in the world.

Bad stuff happens in life, but the best thing to prove against a simulation is "I think therefore I am." Look into what that means. It's hard to move forward as you are conditioned and conditioning yourself but a fair amount of people were able to improve and become celebrities in their old age. You can too, it's very possible.

That’s because hard work doesn’t = success. That is something that middle class and poor people believe. Wealthy people know providing value on a mass scale is what produces success. Sometimes that is through things that take very little skill or talent. You are thinking about it wrong.