Why Your Natural Hair Isn't Growing| Mindset Matters 

I got the hair butter! Omg love the texture of it ..thanks!!😊

I’m 71 and finally my hair is the healthiest it’s ever been. It’s hydrated and growing. I loved it because it doesn’t take a lot of products or time. I wash, condition and style it and love it.

Today i took out my protective hairstyle after 3 months and was so happy to see my hair and it's growth, then i go on youtube and see "tailbone length in 5 years" or whatever and the pure appreciation i had for myself just vanished. i went from "i love myself and my hair so much" to "it's too short, it grows too slowly, what's the point of everything if my hair looks like sh*t anyway" in a matter of minutes. The truth is, it's only ME that determines the worth of my hair, not its length and not other people. I love myself the way I am and then life gives me the reasons to do so, so defining beauty as anything outside of myself is a waste of time. Just a thought.

When I was little, there was a lady named Bernadette who was the only adult I knew who wore her natural hair. Her smiling face was framed by long and thick plaits, and I decided then and there to never use a relaxer. I never did, no matter how awful my hair looked, because I just knew that that kind of beauty was possible if I could figure it out. Now I'm at BSL aiming for WL and you are my new inspiration. Also, those video clips near the end with the back-lit ladies are 😍 gorgeous.

You are stunning. Your hair is absolutely beautiful and has been an inspiration to me. Unfortunately, it only took me 50 years to embrace my hair and unique beauty.❤

Thank you, not many people talk about this topic. I can relate to your story at the start of my journey and slowly noticed that the more I learned and took care of my hair, the more I loved it. If I have a stressful day, I make sure to wear a headwrap and save my hair from being mistreated, I only deal with it if my mindset is right.

Mindset is the key to everything in life. You expect people are evil you will have evil people on your part. If you expect it’s natural for you to have healthy and beautiful hair and that it’ll come easy, that will be your experience. Such a beautiful thing when you realize it ❤️

i love this topic i’ve always said this as well! it seems like people don’t talk about the mental part of the journey❤️

I understand how you feel. I'm young and I have always wanted long hair. Growing up in a family with shorted haired people seemed like my dream was an impossible goal. I never had anyone truly taking care of my hair or asking me what I wanted, usually, my mom would put it in a style and go on. My mom discovered the silk press method and things pretty much went downhill from there. Thanks to my dad my hair is longer than it's ever been and it's truly a blessing. I've cried so many times wishing and praying for long hair and due to past experiences, I hoped for the worst. Looking at old videos of myself vs now I say "Wow my hair was short!" So my hair is growing like I said longer and healthier than ever. I'm very blessed and I'm so glad that my hair is growing. You truly are an inspiration.

This video resonated with me so much. I found your channel a week ago and loved your energy. I am currently transitioning and going through my hair journey and I’ve learned that setting yourself as your own beauty standard is the best thing you can do. It's okay to admire others but don't forget you have your own unique beauty as well. Mindset matters.

I’ve learned to accept my hair and what it does.

Wow! I am now on this Journey at 34. I’m choosing to EMBRACE my God given strands. I don’t believe that God gave me something that I cannot manage and take care of. My body included on this journey of acceptance. It is a real process with tears and all!

Your documentation of your relationship with your hair is so genuine. Thank you for being vulnerable with us to share how your relationship improved over time. Our hair is an extension of our nervous system, so indeed we must recognize that we are to be our body’s best friend, Love everything you are, and you will literally blossom to be who truly are meant to be.

I’ve recently reached mid back /waist length hair An this couldn’t be truer…with a peaceful healthy mind all things are possible 🙌🏾🫂💇🏾‍♀️

Your hair is just like mine. We have like three peoples worth of hair on our head. Your hair is absolutely gorgeous. It’s a reflection on your discipline and consistency

Thank you for this video. It’s hard to get inspiration without looking outside of yourself, but there’s freedom in inspiring yourself. By just loving your hair for what it is..this is why I’m going back to my natural hair color.

I couldn't agree more with you. The moment mindset clicked for me my hair is flourishing🥰

You helped me remember so much about my hair, my skin color and a lot of other things growing up in this crazy world. I have always taken care of my hair because it was something in my life I wasn’t ashamed of. It was long I made sure it was always done nicely. Being a dark skinned black girl I always felt bad about myself, so the hair thing helped. This video was great! Thank you ❤

Your hair is beautiful! The love & attention to your hair shows🌷

I love your mindset video. It's so deep. Thank you. I always loved my natural texture thanks to my parents. I work on discipline, patience and self care. And since I do, I can see improvement on my hair growth. Mindset is so important for our whole life !

Beautiful personality and hair, thank you for your openness

This is beautiful you bring vulnerable. Amazing video.

thank you for this!! You inspired me to make videos too. Natural hair is ours and beautiful.

This is the best video I've ever seen and I don't usually watch these type of videos simply because I didn't believe in my hair and I thought that the product I used were not working. Thanks🥰

Everything you say is worded so perfectly and it is so relatable!

I love your personality and channel!! Would u ever consider making videos about your travels around the world? I think that would be really cool !!✨️❤️😇

You and your hair are beautiful.

I'm currently on a journey to rediscovering my natural hair. I relaxed my hair in December 2018. I loved it. In 2019 I received a touch up not by my original stylist. My hair started breaking. I decided to transition back to my natural hair in 2020. August 2021 I did a big chop. I have learned to appreciate the journey and in doing so I learned a lot about myself. My hair goal at the moment is to get to shoulder length.

This is so nice, thank you for sharing! 😊

I’m sooooo happy I clicked on this video! 😌

Thank you, this is the video that made me sub. On point...If you don't go within, you go without!. HUGs

This video is sooo needed! Your hair is absolutely gorgeous btw! Thank you for posting this. New Sub here for sure!! 💛

Yay! Another video :) im a new subbie and I've watched all your videos, some more than once☺️ Thx❤️

Interesting topic. tfs💜

Absolutely gorgeous 💖

Thoroughly love your hair and enjoyed watching the video.. thanks for sharing

You are so adorable and your hair is absolutely beautiful!!

This is exactly me.

I think I don’t do it because I don’t feel confident in my protective styles , when I wear braids or loose buns I don’t feel very pretty. :(

I was so surprised to see Park Shinhye ❤️

Thanks!

Hi my love. Thank you so much for your videos we have a very similar hair texture and density! I love the format of your videos. What is this background music? I love it!

Can you just do a full video of you playing with your long hair? Lol I would love it for visualizing my hair growth. 😍

I love my hair but I feel like I’ve reached a plateau and I don’t like that. How do I fix it?

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First two girls already has long hair. Needs someone with short hair to show.