Dylan and the girl both fell into the "humanitarian" guy's trap! He's not building affordable housing for the people there... he's building affordable vacation homes for tourists lmaooo
Hey I get it. My college was sort of scammy and it sucks. Mine wasn’t as bad as Dylan’s, but it’s still a sore subject for me. & mine was just stealing student’s financial aid $ and pocketing it.
Beyond the comedy Dylan actually makes such good points about first dates, like don't go back to a stranger's house that's how you get turned into a leather jacket. Also like, the activity thing is such a smart thing too especially if you're dealing with introverts who have a hard time starting conversations. I'd love it if a guy took me to an amusement park or bouldering for a first date because it's more of a bonding experience than say, going to dinner and trying to talk about nothing for an hour. If you wanna go to dinner after the activity that's fine, cause by that point you have a shared experience to talk about. But like, anything where you're going to be totally alone for the first date is just a red flag to me since I have a bad experience with it.
Yea definitely. The only thing that is nice about dinner or coffee or whatever instead of an amusement park is that it doesn’t have to be all day long. Like a coffee date can end in 30 minutes if it’s going poorly but can be hours if it’s going well.
You know women have it hard when even guys say that. I'm actually like that. I won't go to a guys place or let him know where I live even if we're friends. It'll take a lot of trust for me to share that information. Cause honey, most women are sexually brutalized by men they know.
That's why I'm just as deadpan as possible around new people and especially men. Yes I'm intimidated and probably uncomfortable, but I'm not staying small. Or maybe I am and I'm just lying to myself for comfort.
he's not leaving for a humanitarian cause. he's leaving to go to underdeveloped countries and build vacation homes for tourists. basically he's gonna gentrify the area, which will cause the price of everything to skyrocket, meaning the locals won't be able to afford things and will be forced to move to shittier areas that are cheaper to live in
my country is currently facing a second home crisis and we are being forced from our own homes for rich english people to buy holiday homes and theyre driving up the prices everywhere to the point we can't afford to live here so I hate this man on a deep and personal level because I know the impact this has akskskskskksjssj
Building shacks for backpackers isn't going to gentrify anything. Certainly wouldn't change the price of anything. Furthermore, Any location that would attract tourists is already priced insanely high - which makes the locals very rich. Basically everything you said is false.
@@rebeccahicks2392 Nobody' said ALL... Locals that OWN LAND in popular locations (that foreigners would actually hear of - and actually travel to ) in vacation area's do absolutely get very rich. One spot in mind the owner just sold his resort for $7M Dollars.. I'd say that's rich for any standard. That's not even the point. The issue was tourists make the locals poorer which is complete nonsense. A poor Pinoy that owns land near hot spots loses no land value whatsoever. In Fact - The more tourist come the better for the economy in any case. If land value rises the poor land owners near by also gain value too. Happens every time - locals always win.
@@zenmode88 I see what you're saying, but there's a difference between visiting a country and contributing to local economies versus random foreigners buying up housing specifically to cater to tourists, which has driven up costs of housing in countries (a commenter above literally said so themselves). A clear example of how shit like this is harmful is in Hawaii, where locals are finding it very hard to afford things with the government prioritizing tourism money over native citizens' needs and with how income-generating properties (like the guy was talking about) and luxury real estate causes locals to get priced out -- there's literally a whole movement to keep non-locals out of Hawaii. Some lucky locals may benefit but your average Joe definitely won't.
I liked the first date art museum idea, it's a low key activity that allows for chatting. Plus I feel like I can get a lot of insight into someone's character by what they say or interpret about the art pieces. Bouldering is interesting but as someone who usually struggles to lift her own trash bags on garbage day that wouldn't be a great option for me personally :(
@@shadamyandsonamylover so truee! you wouldn't actually get to know the person and realize if you like them or not. Also my voice would come out so exausted and unattractive. my face all red and sweaty... eeeeh no thanks 😖
@@shadamyandsonamylover bouldering is one of the most social activities I've ever done. There is a lot of downtime, so there's opportunities to talk - resting between climbs, walking around the facility, coaching while they're climbing etc. In fact one of my friends met & got to know his gf through bouldering. Unless you are very overweight or have some iniury, you can boulder because there are different 'difficulties' you can do according to your skil level.
I guarantee if Dylan were ever in any of these situations he’d just avoid the questions and instead talk about his college that closed down or how his gucci necklace broke (but he’s still the god of fashion)
I understand the romantic aspect of all these spots the guys mention but that's already dating level trust. You'd never catch me going on a date with a guy if he said 'let's go to the cliffs, the stars are nice.' Bruh, that's how we get murdered. How about ice cream in a public space? Or something with more effort than just driving. You can be romantic and personable but if your idea for a FIRST date is getting her completely alone away from the public, idk. That sets off alarm bells to me. 100% gotta have more of a clue on who you are before those types of dates become sweet.
You are exactly right. My first date with my (now wife) was ice cream and a walk in a park. Then things like movies, art museums and other public activities. Then dinner, hiking, hanging out downtown. Then our places to cook for her and watch movies. Why do people not get you have to build a connection with people?
I was always taught to never get into a guy’s car for the first couple of dates. Don’t let someone you don’t know control where you go and when you go. If a guy said he’d like to go on a drive the first date that’s an automatic NOPE.
Absolutely, and going back to his house as part of the first date? That's also a big NOPE for me since my ex made our first day his house and I was so extremely uncomfortable. Honestly only reason I continued to date him after that was because I was inexperienced in relationships.
My boyfriend and I's first date, I drove, and I ended up taking him to MY apartment with my 3 roommates in case anything went wrong, because he understood that I didn't feel comfortable otherwise. We've been together for over a year now :)
Literally why are all these first date answers so bad. I 100% agree with Dylan, if it's a first date and you barely know each other you should do an activity like bowling, going to an amusement park, ice skating, rock climbing etc. There are so many things to do. Obviously it depends on your budget, location, weather etc. But there is always something. Doing an activity like that allows you to get to know the person, have fun, and talk without awkward pressure to talk. For example, dinner as a first date can be really awkward if you don't know what to talk about, however watching a movie is not great either because you wouldnt really be able to talk at all. For that reason doing an activity is always the best. Once you know the person better and you are comfortable with each other, you can do whatever. Seriously though almost all these answers in the video were so low effort.
Exactly. My first date with my bf was skating, then going to a record store and ending it with kbbq. It was an activity to keep us busy so there wasn’t any lulls in the conversation, we bonded over our music tastes and it was fun being shown how kbbq works
@@ilikefood4482 sounds like a fun day! In general I think dinner for a first date would be fine if both people are more outgoing. If one or both are really shy it would just be awkward. But even if both aren't shy, doing an activity together can allow you to get to know the other person better. Also, my mom always used to say that going to an amusement park is a good first date because you'll see how the other person can handle waiting for something lol. i guess, in general, doing something where you can observe how the other person interacts with and treats others is always good. And idk but I think everyone should put in a little effort for a first date, so just going for a drive somewhere or inviting someone home for a movie just comes across as lazy and like you don't care. Anyway, sorry for the long rant haha. Edit: the original comment said that dinner would be fine if both people are extremely extroverted. I changed it because it implies that introverted people would have a bad time during dinner. And that is not what I meant. I realized that 'extroverted' and 'introverzed' are not the correct words, that's why I changed it to 'outgoing' and 'shy'. Just because someone is introverted doesn't mean they're shy. And I think going on a dinner date with a complete stranger will mostly be a problem for a shy person.
The first time I did a call with my now partner, this also applied. We didn't have a ton of things to talk about, but I was baking brownies and they were also doing something, so there wasn't any awkward silence
yes Dylan is so right an activity is the way to go for a first date! something like a cool interactive museum or a zoo/aquarium is even better because it’s less demanding than something that requires your constant full attention and that way you’d actually have time to chat and learn more about the other person with casual distraction that makes it feel less intense or awkward. both places also have potential opportunities for sweeter moments like a kiss or something if both people are into that, and on top of everything, discussions one has amongst animals, art, and cool sciencey shid can open up a lot of important windows into who they are and how they view and interact with the world! :)
The guy she picked is literally the opposite of humanitarian. He is building affordable housing in the Philippines FOR PEOPLE TO VACATION TO. It’s first world tourism he’s developing, not sustainability.
I’m a fine arts major right now and while it is a scam bc I spend an ABSURD amount of money for shit I technically already know, I have learned more in 3 years there than I ever did in school growing up. I love it so much and it’s a great way to make connections with other artists. Especially because my school makes student do 3 co-op semesters so we do get real experience as well
As someone who wears bold designs, you definitely need to balance it so that your outfit isn't assaulting anyone's eyes. lol. The king of fashion gets it!
My first date with my ex was bouldering and honestly it is THE best thing to do as a first date because like he said it really prevents the awkwardness you normally get, it's like the ultimate ice breaker. 10/10 recommend
Oh and to continue hyping bouldering as a first date: climbing walls are usually SUPER nice respectful places where people really look out for each other, so if you're meeting someone you don't know that well they're ideal in that way too, because I can almost guarantee people there will have your back if necessary
Sounds so stressful to me lol. I hate athletic-type things for a first date because i’d be just too afraid to embarrass myself. It’s a no from me for sure. (but obviously to each their own, im glad it worked for you and others!)
@@alexakelley2353 Yes I can see how it wouldn't be everyone's cup of tea, but if you're both people who enjoy sports or just trying new activites it's super! xx
"Wearing the backpack shirt for so long coz he doesn't wanna go shopping." "Wears fake nose ring for his 16 yo audience" "Has 13 year old shoes" All hail to the God of Fashion 🙌
I love how Dylan mentions women’s concerns when it comes to our safety. First date going over to your house or alone with you in your car just sends alarm bells. And Dylan picks up on that, and we ladies appreciate that!
tbh i think ice skating is like bouldering so it’s also a pretty good first date. it gives a valid excuse to hold each other’s hand (because you don’t want to fall) and since you’ll be kinda worn out by doing that you can go eat afterwards
it's a great bonding exercise too, because you can rely on your teammate and trust them to help you. many team building exercises involve elements like this to build trust and rapport. my husband and I went gorge walking and we scrambled over a lot of rocks and he was helping me with where to put my foot to climb and we walked on narrow ledges and stuff and it was great for bonding because we had to rely on eachother
When these guys were answering the first date question, i thought in my head what would my ideal first date be. The first thing that popped in my head was rock climbing. Dylan, i think this is a sign, my man.
1:38 Actually.....as someone who is also in environmental policy, I would be super impressed by how much use you got outta those shoes. That's so sustainable! 😆
Dylan really got me with his first date idea 🤣🤣 I was thinking "how can Dylan be single when it's him and these are the kind of sweet dates he plans?" And then he says the part about not eating lunch and I went "oh" 😂😂
The contestants definitely messed up on their first date answers. They definitely should’ve said something like “I get 20 dollars, you get 20 dollars, and we both get stuff for our date.” Like what could possibly go wrong from there?
Okay, I'm supposed to be sleeping rn but here I am watching a (hilarious) man judging a woman judging men. But anyway, thanks for the serotonin boost Dylan!
okay but all jokes aside, dylan actually is really good at dressing/grooming himself. he's found clothes that have silhouettes and colors that are suitable for his body type/skin tone, he knows how to style his hair in a way that compliments his face shape, and his accessories and jewelry always matches with the rest of his outfits. we love a fashion god ❤
Holding on to pieces you can wear for a long time is not only super for the environment but it's so awesome too because style are fluid and you know you got your value
Personally, painting with a twist would be hella fun for a first date haha. Get a little buzzed (liquid courage), do some art, make fun of each others paintings. An escape room would be pretty fun, you get to see how well you work together right off the bat, I mean you don’t have time to really get to know them but grab drinks or dinner after?.🤷🏼♀️
