And, behold, there met him a woman with the attire of an harlot, and subtil of heart. She is loud and stubborn; her feet abide not in her house: Now is she without, now in the streets, and lieth in wait at every corner... Let not thine heart decline to her ways, go not astray in her paths. For she hath cast down many wounded: yea, many strong men have been slain by her. Her house is the way to Hell, going down to the chambers of death. (Proverbs 7:10-12, 25-27) For the commandment is a lamp; and the law is light; and reproofs of instruction are the way of life: To keep thee from the evil woman, from the flattery of the tongue of a strange woman. Lust not after her beauty in thine heart; neither let her take thee with her eyelids. For by means of a whorish woman a man is brought to a piece of bread: and the adultress will hunt for the precious life. (Proverbs 6:23-26) For the lips of a “strange woman” drop as an honeycomb, and her mouth is smoother than oil: But her end is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword. Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on Hell. (Proverbs 5:3-5)
Those aren't good women, any more than you are a good man. All we hear in your statement is a boy who hides behind excuses and blames others for the problem.
@@bk_8338 I am single cause I dont waste guys time or allow them to waste mine??? Or in other words treat others with respect? Lmao ur charming cnt understand why ur bitter and alone hahaha ur not in ur masculine energy if u haven’t realized that rejection is a gift. The guys that chase me chase after my authentic self and if i see that we want different things or am not attracted to them i set them free instead of making them invest their time/ energy and money into someone that doesn’t appreciate whatever it is they offer that isnt compatible. Not everyone is meant for you. You can be a great person and not right for every girl. Only a narcissist or someone who doesn’t know themselves or what they want would think otherwise. The last guy i went on a date with i told him straight up that i didnt feel a romantic connection with him. It was awkward even hugging him. He said we are too similar and agreed. Now we are friends. If he gets attached or invests his time its knowing fully that I see him as a friend but gave it a chance. U want a girl to force shit with u until they bail later and break ur heart or just marry you when they arent all that interested cause u feel entitled to other peoples affection? Woman are human beings same as you. If a girl doesn’t get to trap u into marriage or dating just cause she likes u than u got to stop telling urself u deserve that from woman. No one is special to anyone until they find common ground, mutually invest and build attachment. Maybe ur like many guys and u just get rejected cause u don’t understand woman develop feelings differently. Men start with physical attraction and move onto logic and if they are wanting a relationship they just bam attach and if they arnt or bitter and have a bias then they will never attach regardless of attraction and logic ( being someone that fits into the future u want for yourself). But woman build attachment first with a general physical preference ( face first/ general body type/ style) and charm. Id argue charm is actually most important and thats why youll see ugly guys with hot girls amd bums with hot girls. Then girls go for men that are confident/ self aware and pursuing their own goals and best self. Once thats met ( honestly not hard to do which is why player can pull it off easy despite being pos) the girl spends time with the guy and if she thinks your fun then over time she will get attached. Finally the girl will look at the shit that really matters like life style similarities/ check to see if the guy is intelligent and wants the same shit. Most girls are dumb af and will start to whine and complain at this point when she shouldve known all along that the guy was a stoner so he isn’t ambitious/ doesn’t want kids/ works alot so duh cnt give them constant attention etc. thats when the girl usually keeps investing hoping one day the player will love them back or they bail on the less confident/ less attractive guy cause theyre bored he is going no where with his life or break up cause tehy never shouldve matched on day one. Some girls try to skip past this because they think if they demand more of men they will appear higher value and get more from a guy ( partly true). Now tell me, its not better to cut past all this bullshit and just be yourself and hangout with likeminded people and just pursue your own goals and go with the flow. Years ago I rejected this great guy that i wasnt attracted to cause he didnt have enough in commom with me. I knew my friend would match with him better and they both would be respectful. I dressed her up all cute and started a convo between them mentioning what they have in common. Theyve been married 3 years now. I am pretty sure he appreciates that i didnt date him/ break his heart or feel like im settling for him. Now hes happily married and truely loved
Nobody said you have to stop having sex just don't do cohabitation. The Buddhist can teach you to love without attachments works really well once you get the hang of it.
I agree with this video broadly, but I have one big caveat. When discussing a large group such as "women' ... you have to realize that this is an incredibly diverse group of people. YES there are some sweeping commonalities ... but there is also a lot of difference from one individual to the next. So while this information is broadly correct ... in specific cases it is impossible to predict the behavior of an individual based on a formula. It can be better than he describes, or a Whole Lot WORSE. And with that caveat ... I can agree broadly that all of this is correct info.
@@pygmalionsrobot1896you’re talking about a minority group of women like less than 5% when we’re talking about over 95% of women ain’t shyt! That’s like someone thinking they can win a million dollars playing lottery! Yeah you might win but there’s a 1 in 2 million chance that you will! So you bringing that up made absolutely zero sense
@@QueensNewYorkguy Agreed about the 5%, 95%. Obviously. But the reason it makes sense to keep it in mind is because that 5% can make a huge difference. It is true that 95% of women are not zombie cannibals, but there's a small minority who are ... they DO NOT fit the formula ... and they can mess up your day. How this makes zero sense I have no idea. Maybe you never met a psycho.
@@scentsoftravelmeditation No it’s definitely worth looking for it, true love is extremely important and we all need relationships similar to what our parents and grandparents had; love like that is extremely important for a happy fulfilled life! Also that’s actually not me on my pfp!
*Exactly!! 1,000%* For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows. (1 Timothy 6:10) (She) that is 'greedy of gain' troubleth (her) own house; but he that hateth gifts shall live. (Proverbs 15:27) Then shall they call upon Me, but I will not answer; they shall seek Me early, but they shall not find Me: For that they hated knowledge, and did not choose the fear of the Lord: They would have none of My counsel: they despised all My reproof. Therefore shall they eat of the fruit of their own way, and be filled with their own devices. For the turning away of the simple shall slay them, *and the 'prosperity of fools' shall destroy them.* But whoso hearkeneth unto Me shall dwell safely, and shall be quiet from fear of evil. (Proverbs 1:28-33)
And I find “more bitter” than death - *the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands:* (Ecclesiastes 7:26) *The bands of the wicked have robbed me:* But I have not forgotten Thy law. (Psalm 119:61) *The robbery of the wicked shall destroy them:* because they refuse to do judgment. (Proverbs 21:7) When *the wicked* spring as the grass, and *when all the workers of iniquity do flourish;* it is that *they shall be destroyed forever.* (Psalm 92:7) The LORD is known by the judgment which He executeth: *The wicked is snared in the work of (her) own hands. The wicked shall be turned into Hell,* and all the nations that forget God. (Psalm 9:16-17) *Wickedness is in the midst thereof: deceit and guile depart not from her streets* ... *Let death seize upon them, and let them go down quick into Hell:* for "wickedness" is in their dwellings, and among them. (Psalm 55:11,15)
Spot on bro - told my wife when we got together right away we will never be friends...only lovers...a women who wants friends with other men outside of marriage are not looking for friends they are looking for mates....men aren't looking for women to be friends they're looking for a mate....stop pretending
Sounds superficial af! Maybe just hire an employee instead. If your wife isnt also your best friend shes gonna get lonely and probably bail and your gonna be a bitch about it but u never appreciated her anyway
All we hear is a boy who failed at being a man which is why no woman followed. If you had been a man, you would have maintained your home and family. What we hear is you are mad at your bad choices. Garbage attracts garbage.
I didn't learn this revelation until the past couple of years at age 50. You look like you are in your late 20's, and you are so far ahead of the game! Women don't really actually love men, only what we can do for them.
bro this is the craziest synchronicity ever. I just got fired from my job like 5 hours ago, because i made a few females feel "uncomfortable" with my comments. The boss when she fired me said "you didn't say anything sexual " you just made some people feel uncomfortable. Wtf so now you can fire people for saying things that make them feel uncomfortable? What is uncomfortable? anything they decide is uncomfortable? I work(ed) in a call center with 16 females. im the only guy. go figure. I've been working this for 3 months before i got fired today. The funny thing, these girls have been pretending to be cool with me. while acting fake behind my back. Like all i do is joke with them and try and be friendly, and they act like they are cool with me back, yet they report me to the manager behind my back. its crazy u posted this
The ole’ classic. Learn this good my guy. Someone can have kids with and marry you and turn on you and divorce out of boredom. Much less a job at a call center? Should’ve seen this one coming
@@raskult what happened to humanness? Like why can’t women just see me as a human who is trying to connect with them? Sorry if my personality seems to offend you, but I’m just trying to connect with you and play around with u. Like how is my attempt to be friendly and playful etc interpreted as making people feel uncomfortable when nothing sexual was expressed? What happened to humanness?
to most women men are perceived as a threat, I asked a chick out and got kicked out of a store , they thought I was stalking her (I wasnt) society hates men G just make sure you ghost women from now on at ur job so it doesnt happen again
Most people won't admit this but women are way more selfish than men and their love is VERY conditional. They see relationships as transactional even if they don't realise it (though most of them do realise this and don't care).
@@Claudereeagreed. If I provided no value, why would I expect a woman to value me? That said, the problem is that men OVERvalue women. And then we wonder why these women think they can try anything and get away with it. Men are at fault for worshipping women who never deserved it
It's actually happening today. They are sucking our energies through pornography, extreme hypergamy and entitled behaviour. They are using sexuality more than ever to control us.
@@ALLfemalesLiecheatnsteal America is pretty much destroyed, it is a rotting corpse. Despite my upbringing, I will not support her efforts to spread the rot worldwide
They are EMOTIONAL and SELFISH. I remember in a few hours a girl who liked me went from liking me to liking my friend. IT IS NOT ABOUT UNCONDITIONAL LOVE and loyalty. Men die for people, women don't. Women talk about loyalty but it's BS and they just follow their emotions
Red flags: Too friendly with strangers Drinks alcohol, even the occasional glass of wine or whatever. for some reason alcohol effects women entirely differently. Glued to her phone
Self interest governs all. To reveal her true nature, pretend you lost your job or something. If she sticks with you, she is true. If she runs, she is revealed as a pretender.
My X decided 9yrs ago she had to find herself after 25yrs and three children. Today I couldn’t be happier and single. As for her , the long term boyfriend moved out.
I learned this decades ago. Theyre in it for themselves in life. Give a woman enough time she will argue with herself and make her own life uncomfortable🤣🤣
Women are in it for themself and unfortunately in many cases that means getting a man’s resources. They don’t seem to have any other strategies or capabilities other than that. Thats why female hypergamy the ones with education or even a decent job want a man that a level up so they can obtain his resources above their own.
Something I have observed with women: If they find you attractive, but you just want to stay ''friends'' they sense it very quickly and disappear. The other way around, many men will gladly stay in the ''friendzone'' of a woman.
Sometimes they tried to lie to themselves that they don’t like you so they don’t get rejected and they stay around….and flirt with you and try to “date” you…but you can still sense they like you. I had to cut one off bc she was just taking my energy from me without reciprocating good energy back and around that time I decided that I want no female friends.
It's a catch 22. The women you romantically want just think you’re just a friend, and the women you want just as a friend just think you’re trying to get into their pants. I’m afraid that there’s no solution to this paradox. It’s best just to make your intentions absolutely clear up-front.
Yoooo, this is low-key because the same happens with me. I remember one i was starting my warehouse career i had this petite short girl (i was waaay taller than her, she prob 5,5) that would crush on me HARD! she would say im strong, complement me in a smooth, seductive tone. Typical 9 yards. I was already mgtow/red pilled, so i saw right through this. There's a saying i live by in the workplace "Don't 💩 where you eat." That means don't flirt and get into womens pants who are your coworkers. You're inviting an angry wasp nest into your life doing that. It took a few months, but she finally stopped talking to me after she said, "How come you don't talk as much?" And continued to shame me about how i don't talk at work. Lovely, this is why im mgtow because if i DID get with her. Her saying, "How come you don't talk as much," would be replaced with saying something 50× worse to me. All types of abuse included. Btw she doesn't work here anymore LMAO
@@hazznex Good job, they can really ruin things at work for you... hell I don't even engage with waitresses and such anymore, have had bad experiences. It does not surprise me that she doesn't work there anymore. In my experience, often times when there is a guy at their work (coworker or regular customer) who they have a crush on but he doesn't seem to like them... they quit their job!
If we're honest, our mothers hide this knowledge from us and the world does its best to hide the fact that women can't love as deeply as men, as it goes against their own survival, so they're more selfish in nature and much quicker to betray you and abandon you when a better opportunity comes around. Never complain to her when this happens trust me. She will only lose further respect if you act out emotionally. Be stoic around her, and when you are alone let the pain flow out of you, I know it feels like you lost a child u were caring for (in terms of the depth of love) but for her it was merely a bad pair of shoes and she needed new ones.for real for real.. Stay Strong men
The metaphor of caring like the weight of a lost child, and for her a pair of shoes. Giving a woman this level of my love and integrity was a mistake. She was the wrong one of course. However that metaphor, hits it on the nail, matching the degree I cared for the relationship I was fostering. I thought we were.however it was just me, my expectations and false analysis.
I can relate . Bro I just broke off a three year relationship. She started dating someone right after i took short nap bro. This is someone I respected and never wanted to do bad to but she betrayed me without blinking an eye
Not concerned about women but watching this makes me more motivated to work on myself and do better. Once I’m better I think I’ll still be fine with being alone
Everything this man said is true, I had a girl bestfriend for 3 years, in that amount of time I stayed w her thru thick and thin, I went thru the ringer w her, and she put me thru absolute hell, she threatend to cut me off for the smallest things, didn't take my feelings into consideration at all, I can go on and on, anyways long story short, a year ago she actually did ghost me than tried to come back into my life 2 months later, told me how she never had a friend as good as me, and she really hoped we could just be friends again, and I was NOT INTERESTED what so ever, she knew she fucked up, don't EVER keep a girl around as a friend when u want something more fellas, and even if u do get a "loyal" chick who has your back, always be prepared to lose her cause women always lose interest after a while, they either lose it really fast or it takes time, don't ever take these modern women seriously fellas.
It took me 50 years and two divorces to know what you know at a young age! No truer words have ever been spoken young man. They don’t love like us, care like us, and loyalty is a virtue they don’t understand. What you say is absolutely positively true.
@@tennbones That is exactly what cowards who hide behind excuses say, as you did nothing in life to prove otherwise. Talk is cheap and you are broke. You are just angry you failed where others succeeded. That is no one's problem but yours.
@@universalmother Lol, you so prove my statement and the video this young man made perfectly. Keep running that pie hole! Bet they are really standing in line for you. 😂
@John6.47 We have been together 23 years and are best friends. We are sitting on the couch together laughing at what is going on in the world. Yes, we are happy as we are complete.
These aren't facts. The person who posted is someone who is angry and sees through bias, not truth. He has spoken nothing accurately about a real woman. What he speaks about are girls pretending. You attract what you are, as she is a reflection of you. Garbage always attracts garbage.
@@spasmtube4548 Forewarned is forearmed. Mainstream culture doesn't give young men any hint of what they are really going to be dealing with. A video like this would be a much needed heads up.
All my illusions about women were completely shattered by the time I was about 27 years old. By that time, I had come across enough married women who had cheated on their husbands with guys I knew (some of these guys were personal friends of mine, some were work colleagues), that I realized how common cheating is. All these situations involved the married woman having sex outside the marriage while her husband was away at work and had no idea.
Loving the channel man, 2 years ago I left a people who I used to do drugs with, I found a good woman, got a good job, my music is taking off, and life is good, when I bump into them, I realised they always treated me like utter shit, the difference is now, is I won't stand for it...time to go
He might have SOME knowledge , but no wisdom… essentially watches over videos and then streams his own… and claims as his own life experience.. My goodness , what is he, 25- 30 tops ?… and speaks like he has 60 years exp.
@@koylejeune4332 yes , that’s what I’m saying, and seen, is bullshit…so I’m calling it out. Do I think Terry is a bad dude? … of course no.. he is like many of us other men trying to navigate this wounded world, and having some boundaries and compassion on the way. what I’m rubs me the wrong way, is what I stated earlier, it’s a bit of teachers complex, he delivers it like he has lived it. with that underpinning. Perhaps give some props to whom he has got some knowledge from. not deliver like it his personal wisdom?
@@Michael-it7nx maybe he has lived through it before? I’m not saying Terry is a bad dude either. There’s so many things people don’t know or can’t remember from their past lives. I won’t add anything else to this conversation.
@@Michael-it7nxagree, he’s no Aristotle. The Nicomachean ethics makes a fool of his trivial spout, if people cared to read. The advertising in the videos is levels of cringe also. Epictetus enchiridion discourses is another one also people should care to read. Also Terry is very contradicting in regards to egotistical achievements which is not what an intelligent man does. Hey it is the internet, trying to be philosophical with no scripture and earn money talking crap, they all do it on this platform, he might as well be another one on the list!
Bruh I'm 28 with 0 experience. I just workout, play videogames with my friends and doing school. Just kinda sad Idk what I'm missing because I've never even held hands with a girl but all these channels and what I'm hearing online and with some of my friends and families experience, I really don't think I'm missing out on much lol. Just feel I was robbed a part of my young adulthood with how bad not just dating is but also the economy but not much you can do till I get my career going after school.
Are you staying with him because you genuinely love him and are loyal to him or are you loyal to your insecurities? I.e you’re afraid of being judged or afraid of being alone or afraid of loosing your lifestyle. Be honest.
When I married my high school sweetheart in 1972 my father told me " Dont give it all keep some of yourself for you".Wasnt until many years later I realized what he meant.
It reminds of the scorpion and the frog with the women is the scorpion. The frog is giving the scorpion a ride across the river and they both are drowning and the frog asks why would you sting me and the scorpion says “ it’s in my nature”
Your 100 percent right man because i grew up with five sisters 😂 same goes for women all round they play mind games too and they threat men like baffoons 😢😮
Three sisters and now that they have their children they just entertain themselves no dating. All the drama now comes from the kids in their lives lol.
Never played any mind games with anyone no reason to or have time to, only have men that play mind games so when you say all women play mind games is not true not all it's more men do
The truth brother. We’re just utilities and it’s all conditional. It’s still fine to be in relationships, just don’t be blind to the reality of it all. As they say, she’s not yours, it’s just your turn, if that’s what you want.
Not all women are as this young man is describing but if you honestly feel his sentiments then it’s best to stay single forever. Because with that mentality that’s exactly what you will attract.
@@swishthadon678 have you met ALL women yet? If so, I guess I'm lucky then because most women I know in my life are really awesome, and I enjoy spending my time with them.
I was in my 30s before I finally learned these facts. It pulled the rug out from under me. I can’t believe my father never taught me these lessons. I don’t think he even really understood until recently.
I was with this girl for 15 years then her father passed away. She wanted to be alone. Then she hit me up to say happy New Year. I thought she felt better so I ask her out to dinner. She said I don't do things for her and mention that's not what she wants. I was thinking she found someone else. I decided not to contact her it is her loss.
Brother you are spot on! I'm retired now, but almost every female I had as a working partner tried to get me fired, only because I didn't flirt with then, or try to sleep with them like most of the guys at work. Most of these women were married too, so I realized it wasn't even about attraction, or non-attraction, it basically came down to attention. I was most respectful to them than any guys on the job, but just because I didn't stroke their ego, they ended up hating my guts. It was crazy, but God got me through it! 🙏
Wow…this explains a lot. But why would women in their mid 30s-60s act like that to a man in his 20s? that’s disgusting The female girls that were decent to me were the ones in their 20s too….weird
@@SonDeku-y5x Wow bro it happened to me as well in my 20's, most likely it's because you may have some type of maturity about you that makes them feel insecure, as they may feel that you aren't easy to manipulate, or probably you could be very discipline about how you handle yourself, also it could be a spiritual thing as well to where they may feel that you have a strong connection with God, but most of all its probably insecurity. There are a whole lot of mature women, that simply refuse to grow up. Seems to me that, they actually may feel like you're superior to their spirit, which is their problem, not yours.
@@davidbanner9344 That’s mind-boggling man, it’s like we are twins haha. But you’re right…it took me about a year to even begin to understand but you gave me even more clarity on the hate I received. I left the job bc of the toxicity for a better opportunity. Thank you for your compliments, it’s funny because we chosen often do not see ourselves like that, at least for me I often underestimate myself and consider others better than me so to speak, but it’s comforting to know that I do have something beautiful in my soul, to such an extent it can inspire others or bring them to envy. Godbless you brother and may we continue to shine and grow!
@@SonDeku-y5x Man you spoke the magic word ENVY 😄😄 I have so much of it that's it's mind boggling, and I don't think there's anything special about me, but they see something that we don't see about ourselves, that makes them so envious, it's really crazy. It's great talking to you bro, we're actually spiritual brothers and you are blessed to have so much insight and knowledge at your very young age. You are truly blessed. Stay strong and God Bless You!🙏🙏🙏
@@davidbanner9344 Yessir! and spiritual brothers, I like that! That is indeed truth bro! Great reminder we’re not alone. Amen to that and see you at the top in this life and in heaven one day 🙏
I've stayed by my husband's side through raising our violent autistic son who is now in a group home 5 hours away. He almost died at one point, having 4 other children all of our ups and downs, and then 2 of our older children have had some emotional problems because of the autism situation. We've been together for 24 years and have been iron clad, solid. I'm by his side and we MAKE it work by CHOICE. If anyone could or should have cut and run it would have been us... But we refuse it. Love is on many different levels, in many different ways. When you first get together it's more about looks, physical attraction and sex and procreating. But that is only one aspect of love. As time goes on and you get older, you will be tested. Possibly to the max, like never before in the relationship. It's the hardships that measure the substance of the love you have for each other. Granted, a love like that is rare. But they do exist. I'm 51 now and we're getting back to a more settled life without all the chaos. We' ve been tested to our core. I have to say that, I'm one of the few women who know who I am though, and my place, in relation to my husband. This is not common.
@StoicCaringbutColdandFierceIfN I've been married twice I don't have it in me to Marry again. Both ex wives wanted alimony after both divorces. I've date a few times after my 2nd divorce and I don't even bring up Marriage the woman does
"just wait... just wait" is definitely how I feel I saw a young dude arguing with a young girl about cheating on him at a restaurant the other night, he had to be 19-21 years old I felt for him but minded my business saying to myself "damn.. he's on his learning path" shit is crazy 😅😅😅
First time viewer: I’m so glad that a RU-vidr is saying, my exact thoughts on TV. The women are not your friend personally to me. God is your only friend. That feeling of wanting to go home, but not really being able to go go go go home. God is your friend the angels are your friend. The women will be a test for you and your children your sons they will be a test for you ever since God really became my best friend. It has been healing, beautiful and empowering a woman can never give you that.
And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands: whoso pleaseth God shall escape from her; but the sinner shall be taken by her. -Ecclesiastes 7 : 26
And I find “more bitter” than death - *the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands:* (Ecclesiastes 7:26) *The bands of the wicked have robbed me:* But I have not forgotten Thy law. (Psalm 119:61) *The robbery of the wicked shall destroy them:* because they refuse to do judgment. (Proverbs 21:7) When *the wicked* spring as the grass, and *when all the workers of iniquity do flourish;* it is that *they shall be destroyed forever.* (Psalm 92:7) The LORD is known by the judgment which He executeth: *The wicked is snared in the work of (her) own hands. The wicked shall be turned into Hell,* and all the nations that forget God. (Psalm 9:16-17) *Wickedness is in the midst thereof: deceit and guile depart not from her streets* ... *Let death seize upon them, and let them go down quick into Hell:* for "wickedness" is in their dwellings, and among them. (Psalm 55:11,15)
*For the love of money is the root of all evil:* which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows. (1 Timothy 6:10) *(She) that is 'greedy of gain' troubleth (her) own house;* but he that hateth gifts shall live. (Proverbs 15:27) Then shall they call upon Me, but I will not answer; they shall seek Me early, but they shall not find Me: For that they hated knowledge, and did not choose the fear of the Lord: They would have none of My counsel: they despised all My reproof. Therefore shall they eat of the fruit of their own way, and be filled with their own devices. For the turning away of the simple shall slay them, *and the 'prosperity of fools' shall destroy them.* But whoso hearkeneth unto Me shall dwell safely, and shall be quiet from fear of evil. (Proverbs 1:28-33)
Damn a young man speaking the truth……I wish I knew this along time ago…..54 here and single….had 2 fiancés in 6 years, I tried but I’m tired and want to give up on women , they cut bake and head out quick when there is resistance and move on so easily while we are left hurting and confused🤷🏼♂️ being alone is getting better though🤔
Yeah, women’s Survival Instincts relies on Hypergamy, Leadership and Superior. So once a man loses that!? A woman will move on to the next guy, and that’s how it works. For example, I knew a girl who I once have a great time with, Fun Night Life and Fun Conversations and we took tequila shots and playing Truth&Dare together, but ever since she move to Vegas she abandoned me after that. She disregarded my DMs and didn’t even initiate to reach out to me, and pretended like “She doesn’t know me” so the connection died there. It hurts to admit that I’ve done “I’ve Done Nice Things” such as taking Professional Photos for free and giving my time for free simply because I just love conversations and I ask very little in return, but even I get cast aside. I didn’t want to come to that conclusion, until I’ve seen so many guys i once knew have been through it.
Crazy you say this. I was talking to a girl the other day, she explained to me why it didn't work with her ex. She basically said yeah my ex took me and my friends out one night to the club or whatever to drop us off, he then later came back to pick them up. While she exited the club / bar with her friends. A "guy friend" came out of no where I guess and gave her hug. So since her ex didn't want to be confrontational and he just wanted to pick them up and leave, she took that as a sign of weakness on his behalf.... I was like wow so your boyfriend could be a small guy and some giant of a man MMA fighter may have hugged you and he's supposed to defend you? I wasn't even surprised there was no accountability in her story this is the world we live in fellas. Oh also I was supposed to go on a date with her, we were talking about it for roughly a week. Guess what the day of the date, sorry change of plans I am tired I don't want to go out. So I did like any sane man would do. I just said Take Care and left her like that. Guess what now she sends me pics randomly still watches my ig story lol women are a strange strange strange species man.
For me, once I saw the truth. i just decided to walk away and no longer play their games. My life has been so much better . i have also achieved many of my life goals. I never would have done that if i had spent all my time playing their games.
If you've been there, you know this feeling... To be honest I'm happy I get to experience this reality in my lifetime. It's not making me hate women. I don't even hate the very woman who acted towards me in the ways he's describing. I have also been in situations where a couple of women were ready to mess up the good men in their lives to please me... It's just one nasty reality. But if you keep your head up in the right direction you only become a better man from these experiences. A man who understands the female nature and doesn't judge but just knows how best to navigate the waters for optimal outcome for all parties.... Good luck guys🤞🏾
you're right, women will tell you what you want to hear. They won't tell you about their nature, that they want to catch the strongest guy and keep him in their house through a child or marriage, when they achieve their goal they become unpleasant.
Have no expectations of anyone. That's the gateway to happiness. Well said ! I mean having a few on the side 🤷 could.take your mind off of.these expectations of just 1 woman 👩
Men love women. Women love children. Children love puppies and puppies grow up to be man’s best friend. If you want to be loved unconditionally, get a dog.
All facts. If I knew what I have learned the last 8-9 years I wouldn’t be married. I wouldn’t waste my time, effort, love, money etc on any woman. Especially the one I’m married to that treats me like shit, says the most evil hateful shit I didn’t think existed, ruins days weeks months holidays etc., all while I’m just expected to forgive/forget because “I don’t mean what I say” and all while I have given her the easiest, least responsibility having life possible. I take care of literally everything, All worries, problems, finances and so on and yet somehow it’s still not enough. If you want to be happy and not deal with headache, heartache, and other problems while also keeping your money and not going further into debt, then don’t ever get married and don’t ever put up with any bs from a woman. From the very start put your foot down. Please don’t make the same mistakes I have and be miserable for 9 years
My parents zero divorces, married for 48yrs! My grandparents zero divorces married for 60 and 75yrs! All my aunts and uncles both sides of family zero divorces, all still married or widowed now like my father at 80 in excellent health condition. The modern day woman 👩 is no longer a high value woman young men!!
When I was in a bar one night with my family, my two female cousins separated from me and my brother, this girl grabbed me by arm (which to me was already crazy that she puts her hands on a stranger) and pulled me over to the bar. She offered to buy me a drink, I think it’s a trick at first, so of course I’m hesitant. At the same time, I’m looking for my people to keep track of them. We talk for about two minutes and I question her wanting to buy me a drink (as a man it’s hard to just believe a woman wants to buy a drink) I’m still looking around, because I also feel like it’s a set up, as soon as that thought crossed my mind, she says “look at me!” Instant red flag. I accept her offer, and she says “I was just testing you, and you failed”😂😂 I told her that you’re not the first person to offer me a drink, so why is it bad that I accepted it from you? I pull out my card, but my drink and she walks off, I go to my brother and tell him what happened, all while she’s staring a hole in me from across the room. Men, the most satisfying moment I had to end 2023, was when she walked up to me, defeated, through the dance floor in her skin tight dress and makeup done with her high heels, turning everyone’s head just to come up and say “so you’re not gonna talk to me the rest of the night? 🥺”
The endless games and sh!t-testing is their endless check-up to see if a man is still a string provider and protector. That's probably a biological thing, since she's the one who has to have the kids and does most of the raising, even if he's present and involved in the children's lives. So she has to constantly weigh and re-weigh her options. But the details of that can -- and will -- get pretty ugly... He's right: it's not good or bad, it's just how she's wired. You don't blame a bear in the woods who wants to eat you, you just avoid it. You have no other choice.. Accepting that reality is what's difficult. Once you've done it, you're okay.
Yeah its unfortunate at first even disappointing, then somewhere done the line you just accept it. They are what they are, and you'll see the same actions repeatedly. Have strength and power within yourself and you can walk alone through the world.