Women Discuss Decentering Men From Their Lives PT2 

That show is terrible, it paints a picture that single women are supposed to be desperate and crying.

I am 61 love. I have never ever centered men. I graduated from college, then focused on building a career, started traveling the world, then bought a house and remodeled it, sold it, bought a bigger house and remodeled that. Now, the focus is building wealth, with a goal of helping financially challenged women pay for college. And if I have enough for a second home in the Hamptons, that's cool too. Men are a distraction from the project at hand. 😘

@@Hilary945 Agreed.

​@@mizzmolly7649thank you for your hard work. I aspired to give back when I can and your actions are inspiring.

Amen sister!

Your full of lies

Yay technology

Waiting for that guy to pop in saying "we gave you that" lol

Men "divided" "us" LMAO what a joke. Learn some real history rather than tumblr history

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions.. Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine you hypocrites. Cry more about being soooo unfortunate And being brave little angels, keep believing all women are good and all men are evil, then you will surely NEVER get backstabbed by a woman or demonize any innocent man in your entire life, right? Stop the gender war, stop the hatred! Realize both genders are the problem, or in other words, society and individuals of it. You are not helping anyone, certainly not yourselves.

A gem fr

You can't even give away penus for free

And it is 100% true. Morgues normally don’t hire men because they **** the corpses 😭 We are literally competing with cadavers. The bar is in HELL

You are wise men will sleep with any woman, even the ones they don't care about.

They all say "It was just s*x." Sisters let's unite. Sisters let's stop giving them s*x without marriage 😊

not to ruin lives, just selfish too.

This. I watched this guy purposely go after a much younger girl only to leave her with 2 kids. She was a vibrant, happy and successful young lady before him. Now all she does is post depressing quotes on Facebook about waiting for her Russell. She’s still pretty but now she comes with 2 babies and an abusive baby daddy. A man WILL ruin your life and leave you with kids knowing that it will be much harder for you to find a decent man after him. This is exactly why they seek out girls in their early 20s.

Aka my sperm giver who was 20 years older than my mom.

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions.. Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine you hypocrites. Cry more about being soooo unfortunate And being brave little angels, keep believing all women are good and all men are evil, then you will surely NEVER get backstabbed by a woman or demonize any innocent man in your entire life, right? Stop the gender war, stop the hatred! Realize both genders are the problem, or in other words, society and individuals of it. You are not helping anyone, certainly not yourselves.

But it is not about hatred toward men but decentering them. Why wont you just do the same? Put yourself first?

Because these women do NOT seem happy at all that's the problem. These single women are literally terrorizing the world this shit is insane

Men are scared to be alone. They don't do well alone. That's why they project, to try and scare women, who thrive alone, into being with a man. They don't improve with age either. Who male's are as adolescents is who they are for life. Women mature, evolve and learn. Male's believe they're perfect as they are and that women are the problem, so they lack the capacity for self improvement.

THISSSSSS

Cause our society have told men they are the main character and women and children are just accessories on the side. Thats why.

@@cccwomensempowerment so then what's wrong with being single forever. Why do yall have to complain about being single?? It's so weird

Maybe kids but teen boys treat girls like trash

💯🎯

They like the inexperienced ones because they can pull all kinds of weird s*** and get away with it

@@bootscooty yep then after that you're damaged goods 🙄

@@EbonyHoopGyalThen they never acknowledge the fact that THEY’RE the reason why we’re “damaged”

Shit is insane

Agreed !!!

Agreed. I didn't know being selfish in that way was less common than I realized. Glad women are focusing on themselves (what they want and feel).

We have as women ALL been socially conditioned to BELIEVE we NEEDED men to exist in this world.

Me 2 and I have 3 kids and have been married before. I just don't care what men like 🤷🏾‍♀️

You should also tell young women that a lot of finding the so called person of your dreams is just luck. You can do all the right things society says to do and never find them. The point is that’s ok. You create a full life for yourself where you are the cherry on top.

@@SE-gs6gdhonestly I think the man purpose is to love yourself. Once you love yourself you will be contempt with just you alone

hmm

STANDARDS TO THE STRATOSPHERE!!!!

Yea I don't like comments like this cuz it creates this "false hope". I don't want Women to decenter males for the thought that "The one" is going to come along. We are the cherries on top.

@@BeeZy-rp5pxmen are more of a problem. Let’s leave it at that

​​@@BeeZy-rp5pxCompletely missed the point. Women do not center other women in their lives like they do for men. But just keep acting clueless.

Ur brilliant u accomplished ur goals tgese weirdo men these days r full of drama can cost us our lives I was victim of dv almost got k from the stalking and in addition the vast majority of men have ZERO SUBSTANCE THESE DAYS GOOD KUCK TO ALL B SAFE 💜🙏

You ain’t lying!!! I fell into the trap! Been in long relationships all my life literally and now I’m 23 today and idc about these niggas

​@@SupachosenI was abused by women and completely disagree.

Read this comment while listening to her and making this realization. Mind blown.

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions.. Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine you hypocrites. Cry more about being soooo unfortunate And being brave little angels, keep believing all women are good and all men are evil, then you will surely NEVER get backstabbed by a woman or demonize any innocent man in your entire life, right? Stop the gender war, stop the hatred! Realize both genders are the problem, or in other words, society and individuals of it. You are not helping anyone, certainly not yourselves.

Myyyyy God. It’s some type of sermon in this 🤣 Fr I can resonate.

same i literally lost 3 semester

😭❤️❤️

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions.. Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine you hypocrites. Cry more about being soooo unfortunate And being brave little angels, keep believing all women are good and all men are evil, then you will surely NEVER get backstabbed by a woman or demonize any innocent man in your entire life, right? Stop the gender war, stop the hatred! Realize both genders are the problem, or in other words, society and individuals of it. You are not helping anyone, certainly not yourselves.

youre just overweigth thats it

Who are „they“? As a man, what can I do to identify and stop „them“? What is „their“ end-goal?

@@marvin2678they are also bitter they can’t get mommy 2.0😂

As a woman, gay men are the only men I get along with!

God bless you bc I've met MANY gay Men who ALSO don't like Women. Heck, I've met transWomen who literally are jealous of Us and believe We are worthless and that they do it BETTER. I've been on the receiving end of that kind of rant from a friend girl's transSister. Super surreal. Anyway, thanks for actually seeing Us as people❤

​@@summersday7894maybe they hate women for the same reason women hate men?

@@sonatestd2085 i'm not trans yet even i can see that certain women overly focus on trans females feeling all treathened by a minority in a minority acting like their men whenever it fits their interest, it's pathetic forcing trans women to conform wont give self love.

@@cocosnow-rv2np has nothing tp do with my comment

They will, until they'll want a man, and he's not there They need to being back couples dances Aldo, women could help men, and women BY NOT HELPING MEN.. the older generations KNEW THIS

Her TikTok is excellent

​@@kathleenking47you missed the point

@@solrosenberg4529 I disagree. I find men are usually at their "best" when they have gotten a bit older. They are more successful, mature, know women better, & are almost always better lovers z

@@solrosenberg4529not in my experience. In fact IME the men in their late 40's-50's are very much pursuing women in their mid to late 30's & older, esp if they have a successful career. I'm getting the distinct feeling youre a man who WANT these assertions to be true but the reality doesn't reflect what you're saying

This💯💯💯💯

Same, I stopped dating back in '07 and just quietly decided to prioritize myself. I didn't announce anything, didn't label it, didn't talk about it...just focused on other parts of my life. Can't say I made a bad choice 🤷

No, there was already a word for it, "decentering men" is literally the MGTOW movement repackaged for women. But, when men did it, it was called "hateful" and "misogynistic".😂

@@PriinsuYou should “go your own way” to a space where your input is more appreciated. That space isn’t here.

​@@nasha4everr310you are absolutely right

Most people don't, even men don't trust each other.

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions..

Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine you hypocrites. Cry more about being soooo unfortunate And being brave little angels, keep believing all women are good and all men are evil, then you will surely NEVER get backstabbed by a woman or demonize any innocent man in your entire life, right? Stop the gender war, stop the hatred! Realize both genders are the problem, or in other words, society and individuals of it. You are not helping anyone, certainly not yourselves.

so less black children ?

you sound bitter. 1st gf sounds predatory..try therapy. @@nothingnewunderthesun4292

And if you force it with a bad mate you'll be recovering for decades. ❤

​@@HolisticManifestingIF you even recover at all that is

No! It’s Not!

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions.. Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine you hypocrites. Cry more about being soooo unfortunate And being brave little angels, keep believing all women are good and all men are evil, then you will surely NEVER get backstabbed by a woman or demonize any innocent man in your entire life, right? Stop the gender war, stop the hatred! Realize both genders are the problem, or in other words, society and individuals of it. You are not helping anyone, certainly not yourselves.

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions.. Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine you hypocrites. Cry more about being soooo unfortunate And being brave little angels, keep believing all women are good and all men are evil, then you will surely NEVER get backstabbed by a woman or demonize any innocent man in your entire life, right? Stop the gender war, stop the hatred! Realize both genders are the problem, or in other words, society and individuals of it. You are not helping anyone, certainly not yourselves.

But does divorce benefit women?

Eventually yes

@@MissiSIMPiyep

Sex does benefits me A WHOLE LOT! Lol i like it a lot, so.... but you have to make it safe, for sure... and be sure that dude is not a psycho because men usually become psychos when confronted with a lady that only wants "to sit and shake" lol i've been asked the most insane questions right away cause the dude would get mad with my sexual freedom like in a judgmental way "how many guys did you sleep with?!?!?"Kkkk não

⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@gabrieleruediger957 I think they’re referring to women not being satisfied with intimacy. men are usually the ones in control during intimacy because we’re taught that only their pleasure matters. “traditional” intimacy, the majority of it, only benefits men. intimacy lasts as long as *they can last* and it goes at *their* rhythm. women are never taught how to truly feel pleasure, it’s something we have to find out on our own, so men *definitely* are not taught how to bring pleasure to us. you say you’ve had men question you on your choices, that tells me the men are properly shocked you enjoy intimacy. it’s like a sad expectation for men to be the only ones enjoying it. I honestly theorise we’re taught to be dissatisfied with it all the time so that we don’t crave it from other men in the same way they crave it from other women. a control tactic basically. although what I do find funny about all of this is that when women *do* sleep around, most men assume it’s because those men have bigger bits. it shows so much about how they know so little.

we have the same life... after my career im now ok with having a partner

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions.. Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine you hypocrites. Cry more about being soooo unfortunate And being brave little angels, keep believing all women are good and all men are evil, then you will surely NEVER get backstabbed by a woman or demonize any innocent man in your entire life, right? Stop the gender war, stop the hatred! Realize both genders are the problem, or in other words, society and individuals of it. You are not helping anyone, certainly not yourselves.

That's some bs right there lady

@@easymode678 I don't care. Shrug.

@@easymode678you can’t argue with the scriptures bruh 😂 look it up for yourself! The woman was speaking facts 😊

100% spot on and you were lucky to have that talk with your mother. You basically need to look out for yourself . Some men can be a lot of fun and bring a lot of joy in your life, but remember you are first

they say female as code for femoid, female humanoid, it's dehumanising

I need this❤

I bet your miserable men still win points up for the men team no points for the girl team men up hoes down

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions.. Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine you hypocrites. Cry more about being soooo unfortunate And being brave little angels, keep believing all women are good and all men are evil, then you will surely NEVER get backstabbed by a woman or demonize any innocent man in your entire life, right? Stop the gender war, stop the hatred! Realize both genders are the problem, or in other words, society and individuals of it. You are not helping anyone, certainly not yourselves.

As someone who is trying to do the same I would like to ask: How to de-center men without giving up my sex life? It's very difficult for me to have sex without developing feelings. The other issue is that I've only had 2 sexual partners until now and honestly, I feel embarrassed about that. I'm in my mid 30s and I want to have more experience in that area, which is impossible without male validation because I'm a straight woman. I don't like that I can only have sex while in a relationship because it keeps my sex life dependent on someone else and on whether or not I have found the "right person". I'm stuck in a catch 22. Can you give me any advice?

​@@yb32Be demanding in the bedroom. Mel Hamlett explores this topic.

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions..

Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine you hypocrites. Cry more about being soooo unfortunate And being brave little angels, keep believing all women are good and all men are evil, then you will surely NEVER get backstabbed by a woman or demonize any innocent man in your entire life, right? Stop the gender war, stop the hatred! Realize both genders are the problem, or in other words, society and individuals of it. You are not helping anyone, certainly not yourselves.

Girl, so true with My weight lol it has been My shield. I'm ready to live healthy and fit now but for ME. So that I can live My best life ever and also do good to others and encourage them to live their best life ever. WHY are We so angry and sad? Let's change that together ❤

You are right, beauty is a cross to bear, I've seen it happen many, many times

All the pretty popular girls I went to school with are all fat, single mothers. You dodged a huge bullet love. Now you can glow up and elevate in piece. ❤

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions.. Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine you hypocrites. Cry more about being soooo unfortunate And being brave little angels, keep believing all women are good and all men are evil, then you will surely NEVER get backstabbed by a woman or demonize any innocent man in your entire life, right? Stop the gender war, stop the hatred! Realize both genders are the problem, or in other words, society and individuals of it. You are not helping anyone, certainly not yourselves.

Same! I have no interest or time to be experimenting with dating people, and they even abuse platonic relationships if you let them in. It’s accounted for a lot of wasted time and heartache. I like myself just fine, and I provide for myself exclusively, why walk myself into unnecessary pain?

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions..

Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine you hypocrites. Cry more about being soooo unfortunate And being brave little angels, keep believing all women are good and all men are evil, then you will surely NEVER get backstabbed by a woman or demonize any innocent man in your entire life, right? Stop the gender war, stop the hatred! Realize both genders are the problem, or in other words, society and individuals of it. You are not helping anyone, certainly not yourselves.

Lol what?! Why are you so vein? 😬

@@Whoamiiiiiiiiiiii because it's connected to health both physical and mental

@@daysoftheboo some people can look healthy on the outside but are dying on the inside..

@@Whoamiiiiiiiiiiii the stress the unhealthy lifestyle the high expectations throwing away their youth to be wives and to serve a man and cater to him and the children all aged them rapidly , they never had a chance to be young and free and besides all that looks do matter

@@daysoftheboo I don’t understand your point. I’ve seen plenty of middle aged women who have families that live by me and they look great. As long as you have time and money to take care of yourself, then having a family shouldn’t be an excuse not to…

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions.. Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine you hypocrites. Cry more about being soooo unfortunate And being brave little angels, keep believing all women are good and all men are evil, then you will surely NEVER get backstabbed by a woman or demonize any innocent man in your entire life, right? Stop the gender war, stop the hatred! Realize both genders are the problem, or in other words, society and individuals of it. You are not helping anyone, certainly not yourselves.

Société or better said SOCIETY 😂

They tied their ability to have children with having a man in the center of their life. They bought into the shame of becoming moms without husbands. They could have had kids on purpose as single women and cut out the stress of a relationship with a man.

I HAVE NEVER UNDERSTOOD IT EITHER

Becuz we lack self love, look for a man to give us the love we need to give ourselves; I’m slowly but surely coming out of it.

It’s because we’re socialized from young to obtain a man unfortunately. It has these men out here thinking theyre the prize😂

As it should has always been💖

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions.. Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine you hypocrites. Cry more about being soooo unfortunate And being brave little angels, keep believing all women are good and all men are evil, then you will surely NEVER get backstabbed by a woman or demonize any innocent man in your entire life, right? Stop the gender war, stop the hatred! Realize both genders are the problem, or in other words, society and individuals of it. You are not helping anyone, certainly not yourselves.

Get a dog or cat. They love and validate you, unconditionally. ❤

Thank god your genetics wont continue

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions..

Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine you hypocrites. Cry more about being soooo unfortunate And being brave little angels, keep believing all women are good and all men are evil, then you will surely NEVER get backstabbed by a woman or demonize any innocent man in your entire life, right? Stop the gender war, stop the hatred! Realize both genders are the problem, or in other words, society and individuals of it. You are not helping anyone, certainly not yourselves.

Your also miserable!! Just in a different way !worse actually

I’m also an only child and I don’t have any cousins around my age so maybe that’s also why I don’t really mind being alone.

Oh. I didn’t grow up in a family full of men either. Most of the my relatives are women and most of the men are in laws. And there are also not a lot of them. Thankfully, no one told me that I should get a man or that I should do certain things to get a man.

​@@octopussy888what freedom You've had ❤

Same and ppl around would say I was boring because I love books but because I love getting good grades and working hard for me I retired in my 20s so in 3 and a half years when Im in my 30s I'm going to keep building for my nieces and nephews so they don't have do anything if they don't want to since I already traveled every where I want them to do the same only had them 4 summers where I got there passports well the last two needed passports since I did for the first two since they were babies lol plus my first niece is just like me and I love it so I already brought her the Audi truck she wanted but I got cursed out because she's only 12 but she deserves it so I'm going to keep spoiling them cause I'm not having any their portfolios looking better than mine lol

@@shaypope4732 it’s nice that you can take of them. You just have to do what’s best for you.

Don't feel bad nearing 26 and the same for me! At this point it's about bettering myself and exploring the world while chasing my dreams and never having to put myself on hold for anyone! 💗💗💗

@@popdiva848 I see what you mean but I do get lonely and I desire a healthy male partner. The problem is that not enough of them are qualified… good men do exist but they get taken young so it is just a depressing reality

If you're not aro or ace . Lower your standards when it comes to dating . You don't have to comprise but not everyone is gonna fix exactly in the mold . I've had bfs . And tbh a lot of them were too shy to speak with me so I had to speak to them first. I'm 27 got out of a 3 year relationship because I'm not ready to settle. It just makes me sad when women feel they can't find relationships. Hell my friends mom divorced her man and found the love of her life and she's in her 60s . Please don't give up !

I've been single celibate for a few years now. I like it although it sometimes does get lonely. Every guy wants to have sx immediately,and when you decline the want nothing to do with you. Even a night walk where I just wanted to enjoy the moonlight and quiet night. I was followed by foreign taxi drivers. Disgusting world we live in. I focus more on money and women friendship. But met a guy after months messages I'm slowly spending little time with him

I'm 31f (32 soon) and same. When I think about the current dating world I'm like "no thanks", i like my peace

You're not selfish for wanting to live your own life

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions..

Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine you hypocrites. Cry more about being soooo unfortunate And being brave little angels, keep believing all women are good and all men are evil, then you will surely NEVER get backstabbed by a woman or demonize any innocent man in your entire life, right? Stop the gender war, stop the hatred! Realize both genders are the problem, or in other words, society and individuals of it. You are not helping anyone, certainly not yourselves.

Right …. Men in every age group hate women and female success

AND THEY DO! I know that for a fact!! I have a really pretty aunt who spent her life alone working as a teacher and lived REALLY GOOD! I mean... she looked 20 years younger, traveled,eat healthy,exercise, did her hair and nails,bought long dresses... had friends... like... amazing such as she looked younger than all her married friends cause time did nothing to her! Married at 50 the... he supports her and so on but is abusive towards her older sister and changed my aunt's life in every aspect of it! I remember being sit on her bed soon before her wedding and the guy was CHECKING HER CLOTHING and demanding changes such as... cutting her long dresses to a pathetic size that made her look like she was going to enter a river to fish SIMPLY BECAUSE HE DIDN'T LIKE LONG DRESSES! she gain weight cause his eating habits became her watijg habits,stop exercises,did not do her hair and nails such as before because she found it to be superficial LOL did not buy whar she wantef to buy,did not drive her car anymore, did not traveled with her friends anymore alone and so on.... even her mother's house que altered, i cannot even get inside anymore cause he does not like for me facing him when they got married 8 years ago... i will be single for good

They sure do. Women get stealthed in their 30s and 40s too. XYs also start looking for nurses with purses and hospice care wives too. XYs use, abuse and manipulate women and girls from womb to tomb!

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions..

Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine you hypocrites. Cry more about being soooo unfortunate And being brave little angels, keep believing all women are good and all men are evil, then you will surely NEVER get backstabbed by a woman or demonize any innocent man in your entire life, right? Stop the gender war, stop the hatred! Realize both genders are the problem, or in other words, society and individuals of it. You are not helping anyone, certainly not yourselves.

Yesss

Sure in tf did 😂

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions..

Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine you hypocrites. Cry more about being soooo unfortunate And being brave little angels, keep believing all women are good and all men are evil, then you will surely NEVER get backstabbed by a woman or demonize any innocent man in your entire life, right? Stop the gender war, stop the hatred! Realize both genders are the problem, or in other words, society and individuals of it. You are not helping anyone, certainly not yourselves.

the fact that we are happier without them makes them SO insecure🤣

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions..

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions..

Yea until you can dicorce the man and take half of his earnings.. how is it high risk??? How is it low reward? That’s delusional

Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine you hypocrites. Cry more about being soooo unfortunate And being brave little angels, keep believing all women are good and all men are evil, then you will surely NEVER get backstabbed by a woman or demonize any innocent man in your entire life, right? Stop the gender war, stop the hatred! Realize both genders are the problem, or in other words, society and individuals of it. You are not helping anyone, certainly not yourselves.

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions..

Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine you hypocrites. Cry more about being soooo unfortunate And being brave little angels, keep believing all women are good and all men are evil, then you will surely NEVER get backstabbed by a woman or demonize any innocent man in your entire life, right? Stop the gender war, stop the hatred! Realize both genders are the problem, or in other words, society and individuals of it. You are not helping anyone, certainly not yourselves.

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions..

Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine you hypocrites. Cry more about being soooo unfortunate And being brave little angels, keep believing all women are good and all men are evil, then you will surely NEVER get backstabbed by a woman or demonize any innocent man in your entire life, right? Stop the gender war, stop the hatred! Realize both genders are the problem, or in other words, society and individuals of it. You are not helping anyone, certainly not yourselves.

@nothingnewunderthesun4292 I'm sorry you've experienced that with the females in your life that's definitely not kool but good thing you have male guidance and friends to talk to.. us females have a hard time making friends with each other unfortunately so I am applauding these women who have been through bad experiences with men for showing support and being vulnerable with each other. No one is better than the other..the only thing we can do on both sides is have a 0 tolerance for non-sense and have those boundaries in place.

YUP

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions.. Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine you hypocrites. Cry more about being soooo unfortunate And being brave little angels, keep believing all women are good and all men are evil, then you will surely NEVER get backstabbed by a woman or demonize any innocent man in your entire life, right? Stop the gender war, stop the hatred! Realize both genders are the problem, or in other words, society and individuals of it. You are not helping anyone, certainly not yourselves.

Are you me? I honestly can't say romantic relationships brought me happiness or joy. I think society wrongly overlooks rewarding relationships with family, friends, and pets, and put romantic relationships on a pedestal for no reason.

⁠​⁠​⁠@@lorrilewis2178THISSS omg. it took me so long to realize that I get more satisfaction and happiness from family relationships, friendships, and pets WAY more than any relationship with a man, especially romantic. it just doesn’t do as much for me, even though I’m definitely attracted to men. they are just such a burden, can’t even wash their own ass right. god I wish I was a lesbian😂

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions..

Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine you hypocrites. Cry more about being soooo unfortunate And being brave little angels, keep believing all women are good and all men are evil, then you will surely NEVER get backstabbed by a woman or demonize any innocent man in your entire life, right? Stop the gender war, stop the hatred! Realize both genders are the problem, or in other words, society and individuals of it. You are not helping anyone, certainly not yourselves.

The struggle sis

Only a few understand

What's was wrong when dating women? For the other we get it

absolutely nothing- its just time and energy you could be putting into yourself

Im straight and I like idea of decentering romance 🥴 and men too

I hope you walked away from that man with your sanity intact. Please value yourself and peace of mind. Be safe.

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions..

Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine you hypocrites. Cry more about being soooo unfortunate And being brave little angels, keep believing all women are good and all men are evil, then you will surely NEVER get backstabbed by a woman or demonize any innocent man in your entire life, right? Stop the gender war, stop the hatred! Realize both genders are the problem, or in other words, society and individuals of it. You are not helping anyone, certainly not yourselves.

I hope you left those bills right where he threw them. ❤

I guess the males are in their feelings now

I just came back from watching Barbie, I get it now lol @@Ourown311

Yes it has become that why because men run tiktok and RU-vid. Why you think so many female content creator's keep getting reported?

no, it's a way of censoring the word like it's derogatory, like the way men say females instead of women, women said "m*n" instead of Men.

aha, I see, I get it, thanks! @@veronicajata3121

My girl, you're only 40, you have your entire life ahead. I Tell you this, im 32 and I see so many people in their 50s, 60s who are incredibly healthy, good looking, with good income, single or some of them dating, enjoying their lifes. So in our 30s and 40s we're still young and it's never too late! I send you I huge hug from Spain ❤😊

Your probably old any more copes to cope

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions..

Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine you hypocrites. Cry more about being soooo unfortunate And being brave little angels, keep believing all women are good and all men are evil, then you will surely NEVER get backstabbed by a woman or demonize any innocent man in your entire life, right? Stop the gender war, stop the hatred! Realize both genders are the problem, or in other words, society and individuals of it. You are not helping anyone, certainly not yourselves.

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions..

Yess so smart, stunning and brave, demonizing an entire gender! Amazing!

Bingo

😂😂

Oof, good luck lol ❤

Not worth it

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions..

Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine you hypocrites. Cry more about being soooo unfortunate And being brave little angels, keep believing all women are good and all men are evil, then you will surely NEVER get backstabbed by a woman or demonize any innocent man in your entire life, right? Stop the gender war, stop the hatred! Realize both genders are the problem, or in other words, society and individuals of it. You are not helping anyone, certainly not yourselves.

​@@nothingnewunderthesun4292 so you expirienced what all women expirience. Now you know why most women avoid male "friends". Now you know what it's like to be betrayed for xes. I really hope that those female friends accused you of friendzone after that and made you a villain. This is what always happens with male "friends".

Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine you hypocrites. Cry more about being soooo unfortunate And being brave little angels, keep believing all women are good and all men are evil, then you will surely NEVER get backstabbed by a woman or demonize any innocent man in your entire life, right? Stop the gender war, stop the hatred! Realize both genders are the problem, or in other words, society and individuals of it. You are not helping anyone, certainly not yourselves.

High value men don’t need to use dating apps.

@@solrosenberg4529 That one did and it seems to be working out 🤷🏾‍♀️

Yo husband likes the Barbie movie?! Oh yeah he's a weak beta male simp for sure

😂😂😂😂

Which app was it may i ask LOL

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions..

What’s it like being in a matriarchal family?

@@Supachosen I thought I'd missed my dad when I was young. But I actually realize as an adult I've benefited from him not being in the family and us having to serve him like he was a baby king. I learned self-sufficienty and that I needed to have a career and to make a life of my own and that if I was going to have kids, I should really freaking think about it. They're very expensive and they take all of your time and it's very likely you're going to raise them by myself.

They're crae

And they really expect us NOT to angry and bitter" with the shit they pull.

That's beautiful women centred excluding the chaos of course. I find it interesting that men usually think the family will go downhill once they leave.

It's so much better now. ❤

Whats wrong couldnt get chad to like you now you hate all men oooo podaseto the world is so hard for you cry me a river your old anyway

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions.. Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine you hypocrites. Cry more about being soooo unfortunate And being brave little angels, keep believing all women are good and all men are evil, then you will surely NEVER get backstabbed by a woman or demonize any innocent man in your entire life, right? Stop the gender war, stop the hatred! Realize both genders are the problem, or in other words, society and individuals of it. You are not helping anyone, certainly not yourselves.

I’m currently 23, still working on the super rich part. Honestly I commend you, because a lot of aunties are truly stuck in the bad programming, and I honour you for doing something good for yourself ! Wishing you the best, you still have time! And you’re tres GORG

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions.. Also my friends were the ones actually caring about me, helping me. My MALE friends. My best female friend immediately started hitting on me once my ex had left, then when I was not interested in her advances, threatened to end our friendship. My male friends were there to talk to me for hours about my emotions and feelings, they were the ones not getting tired or annoyed of my repetitions. Meanwhile my female friends couldn’t even listen to the story more than one single time without visibly getting flustered and I was able to see how they immediately lost respect for me as a man, because I showed emotion. So what is a man supposed to do, show emotion? Be cold? We are gonna get left, made fun of etc by you guys either way. All women ever wanted from me was one out of three things: 1. my body & sex, for example my ex-gf 2. money, for example my „best friend“ 3. attention, basically every other female friend whenever their bf had broken up, came to my shoulder to cry on. That’s my experience, yes, I was there for them not the other way around. Me, a man, imagine you hypocrites. Cry more about being soooo unfortunate And being brave little angels, keep believing all women are good and all men are evil, then you will surely NEVER get backstabbed by a woman or demonize any innocent man in your entire life, right? Stop the gender war, stop the hatred! Realize both genders are the problem, or in other words, society and individuals of it. You are not helping anyone, certainly not yourselves.

No but hating men and demonizing an entire gender is an insult

Keep coping

To add to that ,the less attractive you are perceived the more you are told to center men, cause apparently you ugly more when you age.😂

Literally have my appointment in two days 😂

Man I love that God bless you.🎉 And may you enjoy your life and later on have a healthy relationship god bless

@@uu-kq6mn thank you I appreciate that all the love back at you

I bet the dude you wanted didn't like you man i love it when women catch Ls

@@sub-zero5983 thanks! But I don’t have any problems in that department, have a beautiful day

@@sub-zero5983we found the incel🤡

PERIOD

I only ever was looking for love, nothing else. I kinda lost hope, to find it. I am 25 years old and a man. I believe I had found the love of my life, until from one day to the other, it was just over. I invite all of you to please tell me what I did wrong. If you guys are claiming that all men suck and are at fault all the time, please tell me what my mistake was or my mistakes were. I am open for criticism. My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly. One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped. I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once. So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ; she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“ „Idk why but I just lost my feelings for you and even if I knew why and we had a solution for the problem, I would still not want to continue because I just don’t feel like it anymore“ „Most of the relationship was good, at least I’m not afraid of s** anymore“ and lastly „Just look at our relationship as if it was an expired phone contract“ She wanted to spend almost all the time we spent together in private in bed, yk „exercising“ not just chilling, apart from family gatherings, going shopping & eating maybe once (to be fair it was covid time when we started dating but still) before, then going back home and immediately engage in bed sports again. She only wanted to meet me once a week in person, visiting usually from around 2-3 am until 9-10 in the evening, then go home, she never slept in the same bed with me even tho I really wanted to. For the record, I let her decide by our agreement what we did since her mother was in her last states of dying from cancer, so I just wanted to be there for her & I would lie if I said I didn’t enjoy it either but even for me, at that time 21 years old( she was 20 yrs old) and with almost no prior experiences, it was a bit much at times. We would facetime pretty much every evening tho and snap/text a lot during the day and even then, 70% or more of what we texted/ snapped and / or talked about, she would turn s**ual at some point. I mean I had 200+ nu.des of her in less than 3 months of dating & being together.. plus the s**ting plus the FaceTime sessions..

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