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Just like the animal kingdom, the strongest, alpha lion fuck the lioness, the lioness won't fuck with the weak lions, they want the better genetics for their cubs.
A wise man once said "A man who does everything for a woman, the moment he doesn't do one thing for her, he becomes the worst man in the world but the man who doesn't do anything for a woman, the moment he does one thing for her, he becomes the best man in the world according to her. The moral of the story, save your time and money guys, those creatures are ungrateful!
@@tiktokatnight7364 you're can't comprehend. why would a man given attention,time, and money if no s3x is on the table. Entitled is the perfect word because if you don't give s3x, then you are wasting your time anyway. Go date m3n then
Never take chicks you're not with on dinner dates. She should earn her keep in order to be taken out on dinner dates. The last time I checked only husbands and wives, boyfriend and girlfriend go out on dinner dates. Not platonic friends.
Even though I'm 18 it's sad i had talk to my little 15 year old cousin about dating he wanted to take this girl out for ice cream man i told that nigga y'all both better go half or nobody getting ice cream and he was gonna take her to family restaurant called Friendly's
Never take random chicks on dates and Never give these chicks free attention and validation and always put yourself first and stay on your purpose so can become colder and successful in life and always talk to the chicks that want to talk to you less games and excuses you will have to deal with 💯
@@lonniejolly5882 Don't let it turn your heart cold. As Alpha Kings we dont become contaminated by negative outside influences. Any weapon forged against you should instead, be taken and used against your enemies. Taking 6 women who friendzoned you altogether on a dinner date can be viewed as an investment in Self. The people would wonder, "is this guy some type of pimp?" Taking a beautiful friend out on a date is alluring to women. Women are competitive in nature. They will all think you're fucking the others even if you say "Nah we're just friends ". Not only women, but people ,in general dont want somebody who noone else wants.
10 Lies Women Tell That Men Should Watch Out For! 1. I’m busy 2. I can’t meet up with you today - cancelling without giving you an alternative date 3. I’m tired 4. Maybe 5. I just want to hook up 6. I’m not that type of girl - she is that type of girl lol 7. I’m just friends with my ex 8. We can just be friends 9. I don’t do this often 10. I’m sorry
You have to recognize interest level quick. Everything is easy when they're feeling you. Do not attempt to raise their interest under any circumstances.
Chicks that’s not interested in you will say she she’s busy all the time and she will flake and she will make excuses after excuses and she will play games all the time and she will leave you on delivered and open and always spot the red flags before it’s too late 💯💯
@@ohfr20 oh fr? Never saw it like that. I like that. That’s a Golden Perspective (you like how I used both if our names in the response) but fr I like that perspective damn. My glass half full now not half empty
@@goldenperspective9929 example. Her ass fat and she cute but got a mean ass attitude all the time. Your making exceptions because she’s cute and has a fat ass but for me if we can’t get along then your gone lol
I had one girl that I wouldn’t commit to try to friend zone me after I had already hit like 20 times. I guess she was interested in some other guy at the time. She thought she was bouta be getting free rides, food, and other shit while he was piping, but I cut her off the same day. Never talked to her again, and she was still calling me months later. The same way we are not entitled to a woman’s body is the same way they aren’t entitled to our time, energy, and resources.
Things to start in 2022: - working out - investing money (crypto, stocks, savings) - ending bad habits (snoozing, gosipping, procrastinating) - planning your days - Eating healthier & learning to cook - weekly walks (in nature, no headphones/airpods) - drinking water daily (2-3 liters) - Reading at least 5-10 pages of a (e)book - Quiting drugs/alcohol (you don't need that bs) - meditating - Giving to the less fortunates - cutting out bad friends & family - minimalism - Learning a (remote) skill (coding, music, designing, marketing) [Screenshot this, atleast try it & any questions? I'm open for answering it]
Facts even the cute ones can’t even look at u in the face when u walk past I catch them looking up when they barely past me all the time like where is your confidence @ lol
Preach. It's a shame that there are a lot of dudes out there who are smps and w-knights, desperate to save them from those self destructive endings. They need to wake up and let them learn the hardway. And a lot of them dudes are even in these comments claiming they don't fucks with these females. Let's be honest.
I just got played for validation and I’m glad it happened because it pushed me to take the red pill. I’m done playing games. I’m 6’4” and not bad looking so when I get my money up and my muscle up… it’s gonna be cold af. Thank you, Steph.
If a chick really like you she’s going to break every rule in the book and she’d let you smash same night this happened to me many times I didn’t even have to go on dates
Yea but you gotta realize not every women is gonna wanna come to your house. Especially if they don’t know you like that. Just like I’m not tryna have some random woman come over to my place or go to hers.
That makes too much sense. People think they gotta come up with all these games when women got the most game. It’s up to you to recognize it and act accordingly. A woman is only gonna follow what you lead with
@@mikegee8345 women have game. Theirs is different than ours. Any time I hear a man complain about anything a woman does it reaffirms it for me. They using that bargaining chip and men get too blinded by it.
Why is this even a question? Dating is SEX. Dating is with the intentions of having a relationship =sex. If you’re in a relationship or dating you’re not having SEX. You’re not dating. You just a friend =friend zoned. Women know this but okay the ignorant. Women don’t owe you anything nor SEX. Is it up to you as a man to know what’s going on. Your validations and times are your must precious assets. Don’t give it for free. A woman that wants you will give you sex without you even asking for it.. if sex is hard to get from her “ YOU ARE NOT THAT GUY TO HER.
They say men are not entitled to their body but they use their body Physically and/or visually to get what they feel they are entitled to from men ..... Bottom line if you're not entitled to her body she shouldn't be entitled to your resources and that goes for a time and attention too because that is still a resource
In my opinion you can take a woman on a dinner date when she has earnt a place in your life ! Meaning she constantly provides support to your mission as a man and also you guys have sexual chemistry !
Basically if a shorty ain’t on my body I ain’t going nowhere or doing anything with her idc I’m not ya platonic friend and I don’t care to be one either
The answer to modern dating is to not date at all. The game is rigged to one side of the party and being toxic is normalized now. Prove me wrong! 🤷🏾♂️
Stick to be on your purpose fellas y'all can't spend dinner dates with females let them come to you no more pursuing and chasing women chase your goals and dreams accomplish greatness 💯💯💯
I actually think Kevin Samuels is giving great advice. Men seek women to mate with them, period. So if you as a woman don't see yourself being intimately involved with the guy I would say don't go on a date with him at all.
Idk about y’all but I’ve noticed something like a trend in online dating. Women who say no hookups and all that other nonsense, ALWAYS have pictures of themselves in hotel rooms. In my personal opinion, that’s a super TURN OFF. They are basically taking hotel mirror selfies right before they get ran through! 🤦🏻♂️ What y’all think cuz I think this is an interesting topic…
I don't know why men bother, according to CDC statistics in 2018 anywhere from 68 million American had a STI it is also said 1-5 people may be walking around with a STD!!!!Stay Woke or be Broke Folks!!!!
Look at it like this too fellas, especially if you have your life together and constantly progressing. You upgrade a woman and make her life easier just by allowing her to be in your space. Why would you chase and try to convince someone to let you be a blessing to them. That’s like a woman throwing away a 50k winning scratch off ticket and you’re trying to catch her to give it back but she keeps running away from you. You gonna keep chasing? Or you gonna count your own blessing?
If we have to convince a female to date us and succeed she’ll be with us but restrict sex and access to her then she will eventually leave you for a guy she wants.. solid advice Steph💯
The classic gender battle where men aim to smash without giving up their time, money, and attention while women aim to obtain a man's time, money, and attention without having to smash. Remember, the higher value you are, the more leverage you have to get what you want without sacrificing your resources and lesser value, the more you'll have to give up to get laid. Stay self-improving gang!
Bruh like 3 years ago I took a woman on a date to Pappadeaux or however you spell it…first time date after I met her at walmart…she was looking good but went to the bathroom and was gone like 15 minutes taking pictures of herself in the mirror(showed them to me) then wanted pictures by my car after the date..I was so pissed and felt like I went on a date by myself.
Bro, sometimes ya forget this shit and fall into the trappings, I thank this man for reminding me of what I'm supposed to be doing. It's back to the grind.
Just wanna focus on me being cold, working on my finances and choosing who I want. Imma get so good Imma pick n choose and not settle for what I can get 💪
Glad for guys like Rollo and Steph being around, I wish this content would have appeared to me sooner in life. I sometimes envy younger fellas for the opportunity to learn from what's being taught here instead of going for a good couple of decades before getting it, if ever getting it..
As it should be. Can't remember the last time I went on a date or taken a woman out. Once a woman likes you it's automatic. She giving you her money, her body everything she got. Sad that men are still out there dealing with mediocrity
@@bigcohiba298 thats true to women have bought me stuff and i never asked for it or wanted it. Sometimes it depends on where you live , the women or deal with or your overall presence to be honest
Yo Steph, thank u for the enlightenment. Over the past year and some change that i discovered ur videos, it woke me up! It snapped me out of this stupid spell i was put under, i was down bad, making women my main goals and putting them on pedastals….and getting my heart broken, time wasted and not getting what i want everytime. U taught me what was important, showed me how to be the man i needed to be, so i started grinding hard at work, working out, budgeting and eating better, i started my first year of college last year, and following my own goals. Finally at the age of 26 i got laid for the first time three days ago, and i got hella shit lined up me, the future looking great, shit really do happen when u focus on grind first and yourself! Thank u so much my brotha, god bless u 🙏🏾
“When you’re attracting you’re not chasing.” I like that quote man, recently I’ve met a girl I feel I connected with but she hasn’t really done any of the things you’ve said. I’m texting her more often than she chases me. Totally feel you on that. Thanks for advice Steph!
glad i learned/ am learning all this with no history of a girlfriend or broken heart. will never take a girl on a date that cost more than 10$. i don’t text women unless i’m tryna link or need a meal. time and energy are things that are extremely valuable, not going to waste any more of it on a woman.
Another great sermon by Pastor Steph ✝️ 🙏🏾always reminding us and teaching us how important it is to deal with women that like you for you to work on yourself and your goals so you can become the best cold version of your self I swear the more I watch Steph it’s cool I feel like I’m getting colder and colder and really understanding how super important it is to know female nature as men we already have so much against us in a lot of things are not in our favor so it’s important that we put ourselves in the best position possible to become better to strive for better and not to settle for anything less and I said it before and I’ll say it again Steph you have no idea how much we appreciate you dropping your wisdom and knowledge📚 you are the fucking goat 🐐💯‼️ it’s gonna be a cold 2022 for all of us🥶😎🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣
On one hand men shouldn't feel entitled to sex just because they took a woman out and women shouldn't be shocked in what the intent is. Why do you think he's taking you out and wanting to either end at your place or his place? To play checkers?
Yoooo, lmaooo. Bro you're funny asf! When you exaggerated that speed walk in your chair with the str8 face and said "Hi, my name is Dylan and I want to take you on a fucking date!" That shit had me weak asf! lmaooo.
26:08 That’s very true in call of duty games teammates always pushing out and running straight into bullets. As a man don’t rush out the base to chase women just camp and build your kill streak 💯🧠
Every woman I have had sex with I didn't have to take them out on any dates. They came to me about that cause they were actually attracted to me. The relationship started after the sex. I had to learn the hard way to never try and chase any chicks. Hanging back and letting them come to me works perfectly everytime.
I treated one chick to the movies I been knowing for awhile and got in them sweet watery guts the same day. She got a dude and still let me hit. I made the offer, she accepted and got it in.
young king, you got it, I remember in my younger years when females were trying to play me by getting free meals off of me and putting me in a friend zone , once I got put in a friend zone I will start talking to that female's friend or her cousin.
