The full video makes her look even worse. He had actually made dinner reservations for them at a different restaurant but she made him wait an hour in the car before coming out of her apartment so they missed their reservation. Him taking her to the cheesecake factory was actually an attempt to salvage the night. I hope the dude finds someone who appreciates him. Seems like a top tier gentleman.
he probably will and or did already while she ain't never going to and be in her 40s wondering why she's single and alone and she'll blame men for her stuck up attitude.
She wanted sympathy because they went to Cheesecake Factory but she forgot to mention that he had reservations for a nice restaurant and they lost the reservation because she was an hour late. She is way over her head and if she continues with that behavior she is going to find herself alone or dating guys as childish as her. The guy was way too nice for her.
Women are the physical manifestation of sensory perception. And in the same sense that when your senses are overloaded in any particular way (whether they’re overloaded with pleasure or overloaded with pain), if your senses keep receiving that same stimulus over and over, you are not going to have as strong of a reaction to that same stimulus .
That explains why she was dressed up. Yeah, even more her L then. She caused them to miss out on their fancy meal. Cheesecake factory is a pretty good late minute alternative. Better than like a Boston Pizza, or some pub-restaurant like that.
Holy crap. She doesn’t take her eyes off of herself the entire time. Just posing for her own ego. It’s so creepy. I feel like I’m administering a Voight-Kampff test, and I’m 100% sure she’s a replicant.
We should give the girl some credit here, at least she's considerate enough to show her red flag on the first date so he don't have to waste more of his time.
I also wanna applaud her for exposing her ego to everyone online to show people why you should not date her. Then, everyone in the comments agreeing with her are also on the list
My sister is one of those. Yet when I called her a degenerate to my mother I was yet again still the problem child despite never doing anything wrong in my life unlike my sister who leeches on every person she comes into contact with and drops them when they stop enabling her lol
@@SetsunaMeiou-SailorPluto Man, spoken like a true scapegoat...that shit sounds incredibly toxic. I hope one day it'll be possible to distance yourself from that seemingly unhealthy environment.
Why are people so caught up on fancy restaurants? Food is not important, the company is! She will now never know this man's stories and who he uniquely is. That's the real loss.
Its probably because they believe they deserve high class stuff and the fact that he isnt taking her to a classy place reflects his respect for her, which has some reasoning behind it but not as much as this imo but he intended to take her to a classy place but couldnt and it was her fault he couldnt. Its a red flag if your dates first choice is to take you to a fast food place instead of a normal restraunt. Honestly the stereotypical anime cafe date are a good example of a place to take someone for a date or socializing in general. It doesnt need to be a 5 star restraunt just a place thats 1 step above fast food places like burger king and mcdonalds. The cheesecake factory is not a fast food place so its not bad, though it can be seen as bad. Im surprised she didnt go the route like "oh you think ill like the cheesecake factory because you think im fat?". It is very clear to me that he went into this date hoping for a relationship and she went into it just for the food or shits and giggles/clout or ego boost that she finally got some guy to ask her out. Unless she gets a reality check and cleans up her act, she will never get past the first date with someone.
I am sure he has found someone already, getting the opportunity to go on a date with someone like this is equivalent to getting that ultra rare legendary in a gacha game or finding a super rare shiny pokemon. Hope the next person he encounters/encountered isnt as shallow and narcissistic as this woman.
The worst part of all this is I found out that they were meaning to go to a different place WITH a reservation, but because SHE was late, he opted to take her to the Cheesecake Factory. instead to try and save the date.
So let me get this straight: - He made a reservation at a fancy restaurant - Came to pick her up at her house - Waited an HOUR for her to get out of the house - Lost the reservation since she made him wait so much - Salvaged it by coming to a cheesecake factory - Dealt with all that bs - And still chose to be polite and drive her home holy...
Women are the physical manifestation of sensory perception. And in the same sense that when your senses are overloaded in any particular way (whether they’re overloaded with pleasure or overloaded with pain), if your senses keep receiving that same stimulus over and over, you are not going to have as strong of a reaction to that same stimulus. ..
This guy is a total keeper and shes so blinded by gifts and lavish expensive places that she let go a total catch. Hes not a bad looking guy, hes respectful, he wasn't even offended until the very end he was willing to sit down and talk calmly and see if they can still find a way to both have a good time. Hes a better person than me for taking her home after this id say kay, get out my car, i never wanna see you again.
The guy is such a sweetheart, I honestly hope he found himself a proper partner that actually treats him with the respect he deserves. Honestly that woman has lost herself an actual sweet genuine guy, like me personally I would love to be at a cheesecake factory for a first date tbh
@@iishyxvietxboyii1 Yeah fortunately I'm sure she's just an outlier. The fact that men, women, and people of other genders are clowning on her for being so out of touch with the situation is a testament that we ain't so different
Why did Charlie skip the most like vital point of the video? So basically he had made a reservation on an EXPENSIVE restaurant, but when he came to pick her up, she made him wait outside of her home for OVER ONE HOUR. So the reservation went out - thus he drove her to the cheesecake factory. So she is more entitled than what Charlie showed us, because for some reason, Charlie skipped that part of the conversation.
I saw this vid already on Aba and Preach but it still amazes me how egotistical a person with a goofy chroma-key lookin ahh dress can be. Maybe if she looked like Zendaya then i would take her to a an overpriced french restaurant but i would never go all out on a first date, ever.
Women are the physical manifestation of sensory perception. And in the same sense that when your senses are overloaded in any particular way (whether they’re overloaded with pleasure or overloaded with pain), if your senses keep receiving that same stimulus over and over, you are not going to have as strong of a reaction to that same stimulus. .
My now wife and I’s first date was at Olive Garden. I was experiencing health issues and was without a job, and she paid for that date and the next few until I was able to work again. She treated me like a human being, not like how this jerk is treating this poor guy.
Women are the physical manifestation of sensory perception. And in the same sense that when your senses are overloaded in any particular way (whether they’re overloaded with pleasure or overloaded with pain), if your senses keep receiving that same stimulus over and over, you are not going to have as strong of a reaction to that same stimulus. ..
Women are the physical manifestation of sensory perception. And in the same sense that when your senses are overloaded in any particular way (whether they’re overloaded with pleasure or overloaded with pain), if your senses keep receiving that same stimulus over and over, you are not going to have as strong of a reaction to that same stimulus .
The crazy part is how kind he was? He's so sweet. Such a green flag. He went to open the door for her and when she expressed dissatisfaction he asked to talk about it. He didnt get annoyed, he calmly decided to work something out for both of them. And when she was going over how she expects a relationship to be he was open to listening and being there for her. How can you be this toxic with this green of a flag???
Women are the physical manifestation of sensory perception. And in the same sense that when your senses are overloaded in any particular way (whether they’re overloaded with pleasure or overloaded with pain), if your senses keep receiving that same stimulus over and over, you are not going to have as strong of a reaction to that same stimulus. ..
As an african american woman, i can say that this is exactly why most of us are not looked at as respectful and well dignified ladies. The entitled attitude she has makes us look like we are some entitled and spoiled women. She is bringing more shame to us and is ruining the chances of real respectful women to finding dates.
You can briefly see her brain malfunctioning the moment he tells her the date is over and he'll drop her off home. She literally cannot fathom that her behaviour could possibly have been a turnoff.
@@CasualCat64 That's ... very good to hear, although I'm curious about the evidence for that, and about what exactly the goal of the skit was (it's neither comedic nor does it have some sort of message, it's just one character being cringe and the other being nice)
@@connectathis being a video designed with the obvious intent to cause outrage is the reason why. These actors go on a podcast sometime shortly after this video goes viral, which shows how fake the original video was. A normal, reasonably-mentally-well person would have blocked the lady after dropping her off.
She inspired me to take every first date to the Cheesecake Factory. It's a perfect litmus test of whether you're a narcissistic POS or whether any man can give you a second of his time.
My bf and I didn't even go to a restaurant on our first date, yet it was the best date I've ever had. We just walked out the city, bought sushi and had a picnic in the park. Knowing her she would of had a heart attack
A lot of women are going to be confused why they keep being taken to the Cheesecake Factory as a first date for the next couple of months until this is forgotten 😂
She actually had the audacity to reply to this whole situation and claim “I dIDn’T eXpEcT aLl Of ThE hAtE.” Edit: didn’t expect this to blow up, but nah it’s real. The guy blocked her rightfully so and she posted a follow up video it’s on RU-vid somewhere.
I hope she gets identified as that girl on tiktok and gets refused entry to any chain restaurant. Hell, maybe even the fancy restaurants would decline her atrocious toddler behavior.
advice for meeting someone: first question to ask online upon meeting her. "are you a content creator or a tik toker?" if she says yes. run very far away.
Ive never been to the cheesecake factory but growing up i was always told that places like that were too expensive so if i were taken there i would think the person taking me is very well off.
This was a skit she made. You can look this up she is a therapist and has a pod cast called down to the white meat. Her name is Nickia Lowery. She made this skit to make a point about how stupid it is for someone at say I don't do "insert restaurant" while on a date
@@tythegreatttgthen where’s the evidence? You wrote a thesis statement, but where’s the evidence? Three supporting details that supports your thesis the video was staged.
When she said: "Who takes someone who looks like this to a chain restaurant?" He should have said: "I figured you'd like it. You look like you eat a lot of cheesecake."
In the end her goal of trying to shame him and make him seem like less of a gentleman backfired and really showed how incredibly patient and gentlemanly this guy actually is
I would have had more respect for him if he had taken a no nonsense approach and put his foot down instead of being so politically correct on camera. If I was that guy and she actually had the nerve to pull a stunt like that by recording this interaction from her angle of being treated so atrociously by a first date after all the bullshit that went on beforehand forget your little "pep talk" in the car or your lift home. I would have washed my hands of her there and then and left the cow high and dry to find her own way home. His fault is that he should have communicated to her more directly and with a firmer stance from the beginning. He should have put his foot down earlier and not just been simping up to this point by being overly compliant and servile to her nonsense. Prime example of weak men being taken advantage of and trampled all over. A product of the Snowflake Generation.
@@oisin5684because this dude knows that if he said anything mildly confident or against a women/person of color (despite his own ethnicity) he'd get ruined by this genuine low class pork.
@@twisted5576 How so? There's no way in this world that I'd stay waiting in my car for over an hour from the time that was arranged to pick any girl up without telling her that a reservation was booked in a plush restaurant at a certain time and then waste fuel driving to a casual fast food outlet only to come up against a brat with an attitude like that trying to have you over by giving her the satisfaction of engaging in her stupid little game by conversing with her on camera and then saving her the dilemma of getting back home after wasting my time/money. That's completely the opposite of insecurity. I'd have far more self respect than that and I'd draw the line at someone clearly not having enough respect or appreciation towards me for the effort that I'd have gone to by picking them up, booking a table at a fancy restaurant etc. and keeping me waiting like that without any consideration. No chance would I have let it go any further than that. Any fellas out there who would just go along with it for the sake of appeasing a piece of work like this would seriously want to have a look at themselves. Respect works both ways.
Women are the physical manifestation of sensory perception. And in the same sense that when your senses are overloaded in any particular way (whether they’re overloaded with pleasure or overloaded with pain), if your senses keep receiving that same stimulus over and over, you are not going to have as strong of a reaction to that same stimulus .
@@kiiyllThat comment comes precisely from her shit attitude and trashy vibes, which permeates somewhat into her looks, if you know what I mean. But it's more about the vibe than talking about her physique per se.
If I had to describe the Cheesecake Factory in a single term, I'd say it's really good value. The food is good, they have a nice selection of option, the servings are *huge*. Staff was always nice whenever I went. But yes, it's a chain and they serve a lot of customers. It's not "exclusive". But I'd take it over any pretentious luxury noble restaurant any day. It's a good place to eat out for average people. If she's looking for that high-class experience, maybe she shouldn't be dating an average dude. Or she could invite him out. That's a classy lady.
I literally have no idea how he let that go on for so long, I would have got out. opened her door and told her to leave.. striving to have the patience this dude has lmfao
Yeah 😶 i would have tricked her to a fancier restaurant just to abandon her on the parking lot tbh, i hate that kind of mindset. This guy is really kind
This is a win. This awesome dude ended up not wasting his evening and money on trash. The world now sees who she really is, and we see him for the gentleman we strive to be.
I saw them doing an interview on some show(can’t remember the name) a couple days ago and he agreed to another date with her. I think the show was going to pay for it but still… what’s the point?
in my family, going to Cheesecake Factory is actually something special, and you even could say fancy- it was only for special occasions, like birthdays or celebrations, and going to it on a first date seems very fancy to me 😭 i honestly can't believe how delusional and disrespectful this woman was
This is most women today between the ages of 18-40. Entitled, nasty, impatient, delusional, demanding, with NOTHING to offer. Be very careful who you give your time to
Shits expensive, bro. I worked there for 4 years, busser for 2 & baker for 2. People came in for special occasions all the time. Graduations, birthdays, I've even seen people get proposed to. The management was ass but they always made it a point to keep shit clean. A fun fact: they don't have a freezer for meat because all the meat is fresh, never frozen (the cakes are frozen tho...sorry, "deep chilled" lol) All their stuff is made in house with fresh ingredients. No soup from a bag, no mashed potatoes made from powders. Just actual food made in house with good ingredients. It's funny to meme them but it's significantly better than most places.
Which is the biggest indicator that its fake. Average guy would just start screeching or get violent. This was made by Kevin Wesley, who makes all these fake "can you believe this??" type videos.
You missed the point of him showing where they would have gone. She took so long to get ready that they missed their reservation, so instead of making it a point that she caused him to miss the reservation, he took her somewhere else where they could get a table.
I'm so glad he stood up for himself in a respectful way and just ended the date. It's pretty clear to me that she's a horrible person and I'd have zero interest in spending any more time with her.
Nahhhhhh 🥱 It seems staged. It's derivative of those original, kinda clever ♀ farming 📲 /♂outrage by getting "rejected" after being extra to *insert male tiktok trope here*, there was a huge copycat spike after the "I cant believe he's 👀coming to talk to me at the gym" drama.
I wouldn't exactly call that standing up for yourself. I would have had more respect for him if he had taken a no nonsense approach and put his foot down instead of being so politically correct on camera. If I was that guy and she actually had the nerve to pull a stunt like that by recording this interaction from her angle of being treated so atrociously by a first date after all the bullshit that went on beforehand forget your little "pep talk" in the car or your lift home. I would have washed my hands of her there and then and left the cow high and dry to find her own way home. His fault is that he should have communicated to her more directly and with a firmer stance from the beginning. He should have put his foot down earlier and not just been simping up to this point by being overly compliant and servile to her nonsense. Prime example of weak men being taken advantage of and trampled all over. A product of the Snowflake Generation.
@@spectre9340She gives off that vibe alright. I'd always insist on paying out of courtesy and common decency but any self respecting person going out to a restaurant/bar etc. should come prepared and expecting to pay there way.
Fr as soon as I woulda saw tht camera I would’ve instantly looked like the bad guy I think thts wat she wanted tho for the guy to get mad so she can capture tht moment and make herself look like a victim to go viral but dude was way to chill about it shit probably threw her off lowkey😂
Absolutely, this guy was WAY nicer then I would've been. Here's what I would've done: pretend to apologize to her and ask what restaurant she would REALLY like to go to. Take her there. Open the door for her, still playing the gentleman. Pretend I forgot my wallet in the car, and tell her to wait a second while I grab it. Peel off in the car while giving her the finger 😂
To be honest I actually like this. It's better finding out someone's a horrible human being on the first date so you can dump them quickly rather than it slowly sneaking up on you over months or years of being with them.
Best test to do is split the bill on the first date. If they refuse they are just like this woman in the video more often than not. Protect yourself kings
I think if anything shes acting for the views . And hes being completly set up. But who knows maybe hes that good of a actor of conveying dissapointent, confusesion, and agrivation if so he needs to be in movies. She just needs to be alone the rest of her life if thats how she portrays herself even if its a act.
" who takes someone who looks like this to a chain restaurant" girl I'd stfu looking like you're worth the McDonald's drive thru with that attitude 😂😂😂😂😂
I can already tell, if they had ended up going in to any restaurant she would’ve gotten thousands of dollars worth of food and expected him to fully pay for the whole bill
"That's what a real man does for his woman! I expect to be treated like the entitled princess I am, and showered with the world. I am a greedy, indifferent piece of shit who only cares about myself!"
I actually like this honestly. It's better finding out someone's a horrible human being on the first date so you can dump them quickly rather than it slowly sneaking up on you over months/years of being with them.
Women are the physical manifestation of sensory perception. And in the same sense that when your senses are overloaded in any particular way (whether they’re overloaded with pleasure or overloaded with pain), if your senses keep receiving that same stimulus over and over, you are not going to have as strong of a reaction to that same stimulus .
After the Cheesecake factory you say "Lol jk" then take her to a nice restaurant. Get seated, then "go to the bathroom" which is getting in your car and leaving.
The amount of narcissism present in this woman is simply disgusting. She is so in love with herself. How can anyone not just bend to her will? Man did a great job of taking her down while being a gentlemen.
"Look. at. me. I cannot go in a Cheesecake Factory" I absolutely agree. You should go home and have a sad cup ramen because that's the only thing you deserve. That man is the biggest green flag and treated her with more respect and courtesy than she should have got.
What a terrible person. She's a narcissist and she wanted to embarrass him. Even if she was actually attractive, which she isn't, this would still be messed up
she is the one who brought up looks by talking about "a girl who looks like me" "a beautiful woman" not only is she saying that ugly girls deserve less than her, she is completely out of her mind because she is mid at best. don't defend her @@jenm1
