Would You Marry A Foreign Girl? 

He wants his Food period ❗😄

He's the poster boy for "love goes through the stomach" 😂😂

I understand him, he must be of Taurus 😂😂😂 only thinking about food

I was thinking the same. He's really cares about food 🤣

@@marinafuchs5986 As the Taurus I understand you words. Food is very important 💖😋

This should ALWAYS be the mindset.

This almost made me cry 🥹

South Koreans are so racist and their racism is very annoying.

So true 😊

It's not about nationality , it's more about geography

Agreed! As a mum of 2 young children, my husband & I, already talk to them about studying in another country, travelling on their own, experience new culture’s, learn language’s, ways of life & living. I’am a British Indian, my great great grandparents came to this country. We also keep a no subject off limit’s, no secrets policy because we’re a team. Our daughter is 10 & son 13, they already know how to be very independent. They know why we give them 1 day each a week to cook a meal for the family alone etc. as we want them to not have to worry about all that when they’re older teens. We never talk to them about university locally, we always say, “When you/you both love out for university. You won’t have to worry about standing on your own two feet, as you’ll be able to do most anyway. Just meet people, your surroundings, settle into uni, get your heads down & learn. Whilst being able to live a healthy lifestyle, because this is all you know.” As that’s all the kids know & we talk about it in a fun & exciting way. When they talk about university, they say things like, “wonder which country university I’ll go to? It’s exciting & not scary because we kind of already know how to do much more alone than kid’s we know.” There’s too many opportunities outside of our country not only for education, carer’s etc, who knows they’ll probably find a partner that’s from another country & as parents we’re here ALL for it. When they do things wrong they won’t be scared or lie to tell us, they say, “can we have a chat please?” So we sit down & he/she will say what they’ve done wrong & we just have a good chat that lets them go reflect & not repeat. Then me & my husband secretly say, errr I’d never tell my parents that & laugh 😂 I know it’s going to be hard, but as a mother I can’t hold my children back & stop them from flourishing because of my selfishness. So I totally understand & agree with what you’ve said 🙌♥️🧿

@@VK.x Your children are so lucky to have parents like you and your husband. Both of you are giving them every opportunity in life. I wish you and your family all the happiness in the world.

@@Brf111 Aww thank you for your kind words & message made me emotional. My father was 51 when I was born, I was the ooops baby, BUT they tried their best to be open & realistic with me & my siblings. They treated me the same as my brother’s. I went to my dad when I had a boyfriend who they’ve known since I was 6 as we went to same schools etc & never did I ever know we’d end up together. When my parents would say, “he likes you, he’s a good guy. We know your more into non Indian boys, but give him a chance!” So we went out to Mc Donald’s 😅 just the 2 of us & turned out I actually enjoyed his 1 on 1 company. I went back & told my parents, “Yes - ok it was good we’re just friends so I’ll tell you if ever there is more or if I like someone else! Right now I’am enjoying my job & life.” That night when I got back I thought wow parental instincts are strong, how did they know I don’t look at Indian boys & think, ewww? 🤦🏻‍♀️ Not long after we started dating, my parents talked to me about contraception since I was 17 & I didn’t even have a boyfriend. So when me & my husband started dating I told my dad & he said, “told you! Be happy, have fun, be you, be careful & as a dad it’s my job to keep it real with times & you need to go doctors to talk about contraception. I’ll chat to your mum if you like & can take it from there etc” I was still shocked like, omg he’s old enough to be my grandad, we are British Indian, very much in tune with Indian culture & roots, BUT they’re so understanding & accepting ways of life that are changing around them. I did go on contraception & at 18 I found out I was pregnant. I knew instantly what I wanted & my now husband said when I told & asked him 1st what he wants to do? He said the same as me & that we should go to 1st 6 week scan & find out all is well. Then speak to parent’s, I was so scared, but I told my parents at 8 weeks as my body was changing so fast & I had morning sickness, plus I wanted them to know. They were so supportive & asked me what I want to do. They also asked my husband it’s ok if he wants no involvement as he’s also young & if he changed his mind as he got older, 100% we would do everything to help him bond with his child. No pressure! Also addressing the issue that I was from a poor family & his family were more comfortable financially. So need to speak to his parent’s straight away, so they have time to adjust. Also you don’t have to marry our daughter just because she’s having a baby with you.” He said thank you, that he wanted the same as me & he wanted to propose if my parent’s have their blessings & hope I say yes 🥹 when we went to tell his parents with mine, they weee not accepting at all & they said how can you want a child with a girl who’s from such poor family? She must have an abortion! It was really upsetting & I felt so hurt to see my parents faces, but keeping a straight face for me. It wasn’t simple, I went through hell, but I eventually said yes 2nd time in my pregnancy when he proposed & said only if we try EVERYTHING to make sure before our baby is born, your parent’s are not cut out of your life. I didn’t break his family or give up. They didn’t hold my son until he was 6 month’s, but after wow their bond is so beautiful to watch. 1 month after my son was born, I turned 19. People said ohhh they’ll break up etc, but we’re still together with also a daughter. Trying to work hard to make sure we have a secure roof over their heads, food on the table etc & make happy memories, but also teach our children the brutal negative facts in the world we live in & things they may go through, see or endure themselves. We don’t wrap them in cotton wool! So I have my parents to thank, for how I raise my children today. We even talk about 🏳️‍🌈 community & IF they felt different not to be scared to tell us. As long as they don’t do anything illegal we’ll always be by their side cheering them on from afar. If they’re in different countries flourishing. We don’t shower them with gift’s or material things. We shower them with love & remind them they can talk to us about anything small, big, negative or positive as it’s our basic responsibility to do that for them. They’re so on board why they’re learning to cook meals, because it will take pressure off them when they’re older. So they can enjoy life & it’s for their benefit. We do have family members who say, your too open with your children, but they also say they’re so well behaved, spoken, respectful & mature. So we say they’re not perfect they also have mardy moments, we’re not perfect parents, but having open relationships with your children & having the line that’s not to be crossed called boundaries is important. All families are different but supporting our children has so far worked for us. I’am now 33, it’s the best decision I made to have my son, because we’re growing, learning together with our children daily & learn from each other. It’s not true when people say when you have children your lives as a couple ends. You just have to find that balance & it works. We are lucky to have them as our children & I hope as a mother I don’t ever fail them in life. At 11 & 9 our kids were of age puberty kicked in, I took my son out to buy his own toiletries bag, aftershave & talk more about puberty in details & nothing to be ashamed of. Also talked to him a bit about girls puberty & changed to respect his female peers & that his sister is also going through puberty & 1 day when she starts her periods he should be thoughtful & supportive. I told my husband to learn & take my daughter puberty shopping to break that ice. So I’m our house it’s not a secret subject & they can & we can support each other. Our daughter came on her period not long ago & my son has been so supportive to her & we heard him ask her if she has enough pad’s or if she needs a chat etc. which was so lovely for us to secretly hear. She dealt with it like she didn’t even start a period because she was comfortable & knew it’s natural & nothing to be secretive or ashamed of. Me & my husband cried that night, our baby is growing so fast, it’s quite hard to sometimes accept they’re growing & soon we’ll hopefully be good parents & support them to fly for Uni no matter how much it’ll hurt. Thank you for your kind words it made me 🥹 I wanted to share more of my personal life with you. I hope wherever in the world you are, you are happy & safe 🙏🏼♥️🧿

Absolutely...even though it is the hardest thing to be far away from your children no matter how old they are

This made my heart sing! That was so beautiful to hear...Thank you...💖

Omgoodness, I thought the same thing!! 😂

Yeees ahahha I was like maaan what r u talking about? Hahahaha

Well, at some point It's important. If ONLY one of them is vegetarian or vegan, and neither of them wants to change, then it's not going to work unless they are rich, can prepare 2 separate meals every single time.

@@EJKim-zk9st make scenes

yeah he mention food everytime 😂

They are open minded but their parents are not.

@@CatalinaJH Yes - I did think this too, to be honest

That guy said “blonde hair” as a reason lol. Anyone can dye their hair nowadays and plenty of Korean women have dyed blonde hair. So what makes it so special if a foreign woman has blonde hair? lmao.

@@maya_jones3411 Just because Asian women dye their hair blonde does not mean they can have a same mood, beauty, and charm as a blonde Western woman. What he's talking about would be a fantasy about blonde western women in the movies.

I think in a sense that's just an excuse because language barrier is something that can be overcome I mean if you're willing to learn a new language beacuse your favourite celebrity is a foreigner I think you should allow that same courtesy for a relationship

Totally, me too

He snatched up already for a reason lol

Fr i was like dmn he single and then he was lime im married..

This guy is exactly what women should be looking for when dating in south Korea or any country for that matter.

Yeah… he seemed charming!

I'm rooting for you guys :)

Relationship should be stable or else don't keep

❤️

They might not mind. Bring up the discussion of interracial dating ask what their views are.

Break up.

@thinkginseng You are totally right.

They also may want to preserve their culture which is very, very beautiful. South Koreans have so much to be proud of.

True, reminded me of my younger self influenced by my parent’s strict ways. Still trying to break away from that mindset and being more open

I was only hearing food food food 😹😹

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

@@ornellasigning124 food is an extremely important part in Asian cultures. I’m Chinese and for me if you don’t love food it’s a dealbreaker. Food is basically our life😂. I’m not even kidding.

@@Goldberry_ this feels like most African men's speech kkk I see now 😄

I might be going through the same thing. What advices would you have for us? :(

I’m Latina (Puerto Rican but also born in the US) and my husband is Native American. Definitely were so many complications. Hispanic families can be quite xenophobic and racist at times so it took almost 2 years for them to approve. I had found out a year after that his parents had been saying racist things about me and my family so that was a hard pill to swallow (we are no longer speaking or in contact with his family, lol). Culture barrier is something I’m used to as I went down the same road during a previous relationship I had with a guy from Australia. It’s tough. Me and my husband still do have days where it’s hard, of course, but we’re getting there. We also manage to overcome these days with communication, etc. We got married last year and welcomed our first baby girl this month ! 🤍 Wish the very best for you and your family. :)

@@nilesc9184 I married a stubborn Irishman😍He was steadfast n told his parents he was marrying me no matter what. My mother predicted that the marriage wouldn’t last a year…well, guess who’s wrong! Now she tells me that I’m lucky to have met him. All I can say is we persevere and we were a unit. My husband never looked back. Yes, I am lucky❤️

@@latinasawntop Congrats on your baby❤️One thing we do is educate each other in regards to our cultures. If a situation arises and heated words exchanged, our different cultures were often flung at each other’s faces…that’s when we walk away from each other, cool down, and then talk civilly leading to an apology( most of the time😊). We try to tackle the situation with some resolution bc we don’t want that to happen again. Marriage is no joke and it is a give and take and some sacrifices. Both of us are proud and stubborn. But I have to give my husband a lot of credit for being steadfast! I’m very lucky.

Your family and his are pretty genetically similar though? Hispanic people are part native to begin with?

Εύχομαι να είσαι πάντα ευτυχισμένη Χριστίνα!🥰

Berlin is such a beautiful city! I had the chance to visit in 2017, I wanted to get to know my roots better as my great grandpa from my mom’s side was from Germany, they emigrated out during the great inflation of Germany in the 1920s. Sending my support to the both of you from Argentina 🇦🇷❤️

Because your skin is white if you were black they would hve not support my dear 😂😂

That correct, I'm black French citizen and my husband white. We have 3 kids. Doesn't matter if you are black, white or Asian. No barrier with love

Exactly!!! 🌸✨

@@grosjeanlouis1768 We Arabs do not marry of different races. We love our culture. Love knows the nationality❤❤❤

Very good answer👏🏼

very happy for you!

curious if you're perhaps from CA or nyc... Watching these interviews reminded me of the joy of heterogeneity.

@@claire6074 thank you 🥰🥰

@@BA-gb3ol nope, we are both from Illinois ❤️

@Walela that man was waiting on that question 🤣

I would really like to marrry an Irish man 😊🙊

@Walela aw that's so cute! I'm glad they did. Also Ireland is just so beautiful, I would love to visit. 😊

Girlll u r living in my dreams ❣️❣️ I’m kurdish too i wish i could meet a korean guy

@@xav7838 weird

what about the culture? How did you do it? Just asking out of curiosity I’m from iraq too by the way! (I was born in Europe tho)

​@@toenailclippings cope

One of my friends cousin is getting married to someone from another nationality and for them it’s smooth sailing like it’s so beautiful.. so not for all but some it might be tough.. 💕✨

It's depends. A han Chinese can marry other ethnic minorities. Since they don't have much difference. Or even east Asians. But not on Indians, Americans, Africans who are totally different and had no relationship at all.

Indian girls crying here coz Korean guys don't mention them

That's really tough. I would just say screw it and just marry whoever I want regardless of the consequences. It's my life.

Thats so ridiculous I have to say. Parents will always have a vision how they would like their children's lives to be BUT at the end of the day it is the kids lives and they should be able to decide what they want. I do hope though that all parents want their kids to be happy....but I dont understand why they make that sometimes so hard for their kids. I do get that some people feel more comfortable to be with people from their own or similar culture but I honestly dont see the problem why it couldnt be someone from a whole different continent for example. I think you two should just go for it :) Be together, be happy. At the end what matters is that you two love each other and you can imagine a future together. It is your life and no parent has the right to dictate who you can or cant love. It does suck when parents are against your partner, but they will have to deal with it. Also it is their loss not the one of your bf. Wish you all the best :D

I saw many international couple in youtube their parents are good. Sad to hear his parents are perfectionist. He should fight your relationship with u. : (

He does fight for me and our relationship but he’s just sad that his parents are doing this to him and he can’t just have the people who he loves the most together :/ I also really want to meet his parents and spend time together in Chuseok etc but they are not even willing to meet :/ Not like I can’t speak Korean or don’t know the culture either…

@@CatalinaJH Sorry for you. I'm glad least your boyfriend isn't the mamaboy giving up on his girlfriend because of his parents. The two of you have been together for 4 years and there is no problem other than his parents, so I hope you guys don't give up. In this situation, it will be important what the Korean boyfriend will do. He tries to convince his parents and if that doesn't work I hope he ignores them and decides that the two will get married legally and live happily. There are many cases of Korean international couples who ignore their parents and then become pregnant or after the birth of a child, their parents acknowledge it. koco couple

Maybe it has to do with the public of the channel too. People are being very nice and positive in this comment section

I've read so many comments and I have read a single negative comment all positive si far.

Amazing, you had a great experience in 2000. It's 23 years, ahead. You have the mixture of the cyber and superficial generation. I'm not stating that those who are "more cultural" got "swept under the rug," so to speak. They're there as well. It's just so much concentration on other menial topics that does relate to superficialness. Idk😣🦊🐾🌺🦋 SMH.

He's just using that as excuse to stay in Korea. I guess he love Korea, so he prefer his foreign girl or wife to be in Korea.

@@CoolNumber1 oviously...who care foreigner...you are married different communities problem not overcome...so better married same communities

U r beauty

Also, not sure if it's the translation but when they kept saying fantasy...it was kind of off putting.

Fr

say tht to all the girls who fetishize the same thing abt korean boys💀💀

@@yooj4012 it’s wrong no matter who it is….

@@yooj4012 it is so wrong

@@yooj4012 so cuz theres girls that fetishize korean boys, suddenly korean men fetishizing blonde, east european women, isnt wrong? make it make sense.

Korea has changed rapidly in the last 20 years. Back in the 70s and 80s and up until middle of 90s, international marriage was not favorable for many Koreans. But now things have changed and younger generation and their parents are accepting the international marriage. Nowadays biracial kids are seen to be cute and beautiful to many Koreans.

@@user-rr8rs4xm8g not they not accepting...

클럽같은곳을 방문하니까 이상한 남자들을 만나는거죠 99% 남자들은 건전합니다.

I think only common language is important. Other than that it is about two individuals if they fit together as personlities or not.

Yeah it made me uncomfortable as well. Fantasies won't sustain relationships. At least curiousity could be an ok start.

@@awuramma6222 maybe curiosity when it comes to simple dating, but marriage... also when they talked about "blond haired women", it just shows how they fantasize about foreigners. i don't think anyone would marry someone else just to fulfill their fantasies, if so then that would be some type of fetishism, same thing goes for foreigners wanting to marry korean people only because they're korean

@@sarah-fc6tt well yeah. When you start dating, isn't it all about curiosity at first? Dating is getting to know each other isn't it? Then if you're satisfied with what you've realised about the other person, you can think of marriage. Also, is it termed as a fetish if you're interested in that specific group of people because of their specific culture?

@@awuramma6222 i think everyone has different conception of what dating is, but personally i would date someone because i love them and like spending time with them, not because im curious about the country they're from. also yes fantasizing about "blond russian women" and wanting to marry them because of this specific reason is fetishism. it's okay to want to make friends with people of different nationalities to share your cultures and all, but marrying them only because they're from a specific country and have specific physical traits is weird..

@@sarah-fc6tt I meant curiosity about their dates. That's why people ask questions on dates, don't they?

Agree 💯

I realized that too. It depends on what type of other culture (media) the person has been exposed to. However, I do hear a lot of EU, EA and USA or even Australia.

@Walela I’m almost certain that favorite celebrity most likely would be Jennifer Lopez or Shakira would be my hunch... I could be wrong but what man of any species not love these hot Latinas🔥😍😜😉🤗

@WalelaHmmmm, this is exciting. The two that came too mind are Carol G and Anita (probably wrong again, lol). Either way Kudos to your Chinese friend for liking this Latina celebrity!🙌🏼🥰

After viewing all these types of analysis videos on RU-vid, SK seem to crave fair white skin and blonde hair....the fairer the better

@Walela totally agree...I've said the same on this post and others We're in the 21st Century, and it's long OVERDUE for the need to get away from the old Colonialism...Capitalism Gaslighting and Racial stereotyping Myths that were put in place to create divides and power.

Yayyyy❤️❤️❤️ Congratulations to both of you 🥰🥰

@@Anu27906 oh thanks alot 🥰

@@abil3696 thanks dear

@@rubydillon4298 where in india

Congratulations!! Wishing you both the best!!

사람은 저마다 다르잖아요.... 한국남자 대표로 미안합니다.