You are a lot more attractive than you think you are, and let me prove it to you in this video... Background music :) • C418 - Subwoofer Lulla... Instagram: @jak.piggott TikTok: @jak.piggott Email: piggottjak3@gmail.com #selfimprovement
You can do this man I'm 14 I personally think I am overweight so if you work on it I will so we could keep each other going at loosing weight you can do it
@@aceishere Hey I also think of myself as a 5/10 and I don't get approached by girls either, but it's okay. Keep putting in that work. Everyone is in this journey together ✊
Woah. As a woman I have NEVER seen a man get so vulnerable on the internet. It definitely surprised me. Especially when you said you'd never smile in the mirror & just search for flaws, you're so handsome. This was such an amazing video. REALLY honest, deeply honest. Society pushes men to suck it up and pretend you're okay, but you chose to reveal in detail how low you've actually been feeling and post it online where anyone can see. That takes guts man. I definitely relate to this video and loved the example you gave of someone fantasizing about the type of person I am. I've never thought of that. And thanks for reminding us not to get too obsessed with outer appearance, because we want someone who loves the heart as well. You're honesty & courage are inspiring many. I’m so glad RU-vid recommend your channel to me. You've just earned a new subscriber :) Edit: I’d also like to add that even though we may not be the best version of ourselves yet, there are still people out there admiring your current self😊!
As a man the first time I tried to take a woman seriously from the beggining of our dating experience and opened my views / feelings and intentions to her and she ended up leaving because of that. Back before with my past dating experiences, I was the one that truly didn't give a fuck, and all them ended up being very attached to me. Don't fall into the trap of showing or sharing you emotions with women.
It is not society. It is experience with women. Open up, whatever it is WILL be used against you. Never thought I would end up on this end, but today in my 40s I am sadly wiser than I was 20 years ago when I thought opening upp to your partner was normal and OK and all the older men warning me were just misogynistic bigots. It is an experience shared by literally every man I ever talked about this. Women TELL us things like you do in this post. But the second we actually ARE vulnerable, they will leave or use it against us later.
As a guy, we can't be or women flee. As much as women actually say they want men to be vulnerable, they lose attraction when we are. It's just one of those subjects where you have to believe how people act rather than what they say. You might be able to be vulnerable from time to time only after you are already very close. Even then, its likely not a good idea.
@@112233JORDAN I don't think it is always that way, if she truly loves you she will never leave like that. I know I would never. If she leaves it means she doesn't like YOU, she only likes that image, mask that you created, and if she is like that, well, she would leave either way sooner or later, when the mask would break. I can only say that if a close person ever expresses their worries, weaknesses, I always cherish that, because I know how hard it is to do so. And surely I am not the only one. So please, don't say it like that, like we are all the same, because it is not true. If there is no understanding, no expressing of feelings, how can there be any love? It is only temporary physical attraction, that's it, and it won't last for long, it never does.
@JakPiggott ye ngl I'm starting to doubt other self-improvement youtubers and the industry as a whole, but when i watch u, I know I can trust as ur just a genuine person.
As a 14 year old girl, this bludgeoned me straight in the heart I have recently lost a friend to suicide and have put myself in a spiral of depression that I just refuse to get out of. I eat unhealthy, I stopped working out, and my school grades are alright, but they used to be really good. My self esteem dropped and I knew it was bad, but I refused help and didn't want to get better because I felt so guilty and bad for myself. I now realize the full extent of my victimization and depression. Deep inside of me, I really want to get better. I want to be a better friend and a better family member. I want to work out again and eat healthy again and study more. I can do this. Videos like these give me faith in humanity in dark times. Thank you for this video, I love you man. I have hope that i'll get my dream girl or boy one day ^^
I don't have the exact experience but I can definitely understand what you're going through and I hope your doing ok rn. You will definitely have the endurance to achieve your goals and we believe in you!
This is actually an incredible pep talk. Im an 18 year old girl and I've never been in a relationship, never been kissed, never even been on a date, let alone been approached by a guy. It all leads me to think maybe I'm just ugly but part of me belives that is a lie. I think its a lie that society is telling us. Everyone has such so incredibly beautiful when you look at them with the intent to love them as they are. So when you talk to strangers or your family or when you look at someone on the internet, look at them with some love because that's what everyone needs right about now.
i’m an 18 year old guy and i’m the same way. it’s normal. social media might convince you otherwise but you don’t have to have kissed someone or been in a relationship at 18. everyone takes things at their own pace
Im exactly the same way as you I also realised later that I am a beautiful person and that there will come a time for all these things but just not right now. The love I get from my family and friends is already enough and it brings me so much happiness, until then I will keep enjoying what I have. Everyone is beautiful and deserves to be loved ❤️ I hope we will all find our soulmate
There is not such a thing as "Perfect person", and no one will solve 99% of your problems. You need to solve them yourself. That doesn't mean that that person won't help you solve them.
Exactly bro, I can’t even remember if I said this or not in the video but I should have mentioned it. Everyone has flaws, and the person that’s right for you will accept yours ❤️
4:52, you can really tell hes a nice guy to be around, this part when he got sidetracked made me think, ''hold up, this is a real person not just a robot, this guy is actually changing lives.''
This is the most attractive quality a man can have, this right here. The genuineness and vulnerability of Jak is something every man deserves to feel. I love how you are spreading this experience many men experience in their lives because even though I know men suffer in silence I have never and will never experience that and I know seeing someone going through the same thing as you who got through it or is fighting through it really helps you get through it as well. Thank you for sharing you experience and posting it for other men to see, I’m sure it means the world to them seeing another man talk about how he feels with no bullshit, just raw emotion.
Each like is a person rooting for you. Looking for new ways to see things can help so much. Why set it as each line is a day of working out? Have a good day, night or whatever time. Good luck!
As someone who's look on themselves is not very optimistic, another guy came up to me one day and challanged me to an arm wrestle. I lost but then he said "your body is beautiful, not in that way but y'know" and do this day it still does stick with me, it means that they've recognized me in a way I didn't. And this doesn't have to be physical, it can either be emotionally or just about you generally. It means that at some point, he thought about me and called me beautiful, and some people might think the same way about you the way he did to me, not just physically. A lot of people are thinking about the way you are, more than you think. I hope I get my message across! And this video was great. Love.
As a young teenager, I would always imagine my dream girl and wishing that that day will come soon, I had lots of dreams meeting that dream girl but I always saw myself as an ugly person, which made me think that I will never meet her ever. I am currently trying to Improve myself throughout my life, I really need people to talk to, no matter girl or boy, I need some friends, the people who understand me and for who I am.
You are on the right track bro. Just be open to new frienships and they will start to appear. Even though it´s hard to explain how, if you stay on the right path, you will meet good people along the way, some will pass by and others will stick around. God Bless you brother.
They’ll come, just be patient, I know it’s easier said than done but it’s true. Fall in love with the process of building that garden that attracts butterflies instantaneously, im not just talking about the outside, but also the inside - your character
Isn't it ironic how we all have the same insecurities? I thought I was the only one going through these stuff. Thank you *Jak* for showing us the positive perspective of life. I'll be rooting for ya' your vids are Amazing brother 🤜🤛
The good thing when you finally find a video on youtoube ore wherever that sort of answer’s your question’s then you can read the comments and find people with exactly the Same insecurities and not feel alone anymore and also understood it’s good and at the same time also bad to see that 🤣😂😅
It's mostly because of how society treats heterosexual males. Maybe a deep topic, but almost all of us who weren't blessed with great genetics are gonna have mental struggles like this. I have an amazing girlfriend, but I still sometimes feel like shit, not because of her though.
@iCubely yeah but don't you think that your looks reflect your self care to an extent. Of course you can't change your hairline, height, bone structure ect, but those things don't really matter. Take care of yourself and you'll be attractive :D
@@Emiel900I mean hitting the gym can definitely affect your appearance and it actually makes you look better lol, so I’m gonna agree to disagree with the logic of you can’t change much of your physical appearance
I considered myself to be not attractive or even ugly my whole life. My family was telling me that I AM attractive since I work on myself and am handsome just genetically. I never ever believed that. Recently, when I finally fought my anxiety, I was able to talk with girls normally. Imagine who surprised I was when almost all of them told me that I am indeed attractive. My self-esteem went up a lot. Now I realize that my hard work paid off in the end. Thank you Jak for giving advices and motivating. I hope all men (and women) reading this will find their loved onesones someday in life.
People also tell me I am attractive in fact I received a compliment like a few mins ago (not flexing) and sometimes I wish I was gynophobic so that girls would leave me alone my introvert-ness made me think that don't make it think like that too thanks for reading this much love brother
@@ichangedtodaniel I totally understand you man. As intorvert myself, I fell pretty much the same, but I know I want genuine love in my life. Someone I could care about and build a family with. For this reason I have to be open at least a little to see people and be ready to meet that one girl. Anyway, don't care about fears, you will succeed in every realm of your life if you you work. And, if you watch Jak, I know you do progress) Good luck bro!
I needed this video bro, I'm sick of all these other videos promoting the things that lead you down a darker path (shit like looksmaxing, gives you more insecurities). I thought it was a good point that you said that "someone out there is thinking about the type of person you are". Sometimes I forget that I'm just like everyone else, everyone else has these little insecurities that they look at as well. Thank you for being vulnerable and putting yourself out there, I feel more people should do this. The more we hide our vulnerabilities the more we feel abnormal. I feel like social media is in part the reason we're so insecure, after all everybody only shows the "perfect image" not the bigger picture.
bro i was just like you 3 months ago, but i somehow found the courage to talk with the most beautiful girl i have ever seen and guess what? we are dating now! i thought i was ugly and gross, but listen up boys, just put on the charm. you are most certainly more attractive then you think!
Congrats. I don't have a problem with talking to people. But I'm completely clueless what my charm is and how to use charm to be attractive. Based on the reactions of people I'm average looks and I apprear assexual to them. Do you have any tips for me?
Just 3 minutes in and can already say you are a high quality dude. You are honest and vulnerable and it’s so fucking refreshing and relatable. Thank you bro, you’re definitely gonna find that perfect someone for you, just keep being you
thank you so much for this video, seriously. I’m a 16 y/o girl who’s been feeling insanely insecure and has had crazy low self esteem (and honestly had a good meltdown over it lmao) and this was the perfect video to pop up on my home page. you are so genuine and somehow described exactly how I’ve been feeling for so long. I didn’t know how to word it one bit, but you displayed it so perfectly. I can’t wait to see you grow, you absolutely deserve it.
Thanks so much for the affirmation and the mindset. I've spent most of my life accepting that I'm ugly but looking myself in the mirror and reminding myself that I have skills that people want- but then there are people better than me in my skills. That'd make me feel disappointed in myself and I would feel that I'm worthless if I'm not useful, but thank you for telling me that one day, someone will like me because of who I am, not what I can offer them or what I look like. But gosh thanks so much for posting deep videos because the internet is full of shallow things
I have felt a similar feeling of loneliness Lately, I haven't seen the girl I love in 2 years and yet this feeling I have for her has not gone away, She probably has forgot about me, her voice fades in my mind, As well as everything else about her. We are not friends, just strangers with memories.
I was in the same situation a year ago. Bro you have to move on. Don't hold onto memories that only hurt you. Do other things that distract you from thinking of her. If you are still in school and see her everyday try to cut off almost all contact and do stuff with other people so you don't have to see her. Out of sight, out of mind!
@@Desmos86try new things and make them your memory instead of that girl. There are so many other aspects of life that could be in your "frequent thoughts" instead. Just try anything to make you less narrow-minded.
There's this guy in my class that I really like, but I haven't talked to him since my first year in school. It's my third year now.I want to talk to him but don't know how. What do I do 😭😭
Brother, this hit hard. I am feeling love for someone I've never talked to them, even if... Still would be wierd if I actually were to date them. This helped me a ton, not like a ton but like giant machine weighing 4000 tonnes. Thank you... Your channel right now is top tier. Every day I check if you uploaded again. Thank you for this advice and all of your other advice. You are a real one Jak ❤ Edit: when the video ended, I cried...
You are not alone bro, a lot of people experience this and it’s completely normal, so don’t stress yourself out more because of it. Thank you for your support bro, it means the world 👊❤️
Over the past week, I've had the EXACT feelings you are describing, amplified by the past lost of trust in people, yet wanting to have someone to spend my life with. Thank you, I needed a video like this
Remove perfect. Be a person you are proud to be even if you just started ur journey and even when you fail during your journey. Gratitude for a the little wins throughout the day
Lately I've been focusing a lot on myself (fitness, my performance at school, not spending too much time on social media) and i'm getting that right mindset. that 'satisfied feeling' you said having sometimes in the evening, is also relatable for me. I notice these things make me feel much better. A few years ago I really wasn't satisfied with myself, while now I'm very confident and notice that people like me with both character and appearance. Just wanted to thank you for the advice you gave lately!💪
I'm glad you made this video. So often men, and especially young men, are told that they're not good enough. I'm going to show this video to my little brother. He's been going through a rough patch lately and I think this will help him.
I think I will go out of town and enjoy myself this weekend. Just me. I want to make myself happy and work on myself. This video really hit bro. You are helping so many people out there and I truly respect you man.
I've been struggling hard with the feelings you described at the start of the video lately, and honestly, hearing you talk about this stuff makes me feel so much better knowing that I'm not alone. You are one of the few self improvement RU-vidrs I've watched who I feel has genuinely made a positive impact on my life. Thank you for all that you do
Me As a teenager with lot of acne on my face...... I really thought that im ugly as hell. The scars made by my acne made me feel the fear of losing My friendhip with friends. But, I've felt really good after hearing your words saying"you are attractive". Your words really make my heart feel good... Every single video of you had made me feel so much better.. From my inner heart.. I can make you a promise that one day il meet you as the "REAL ME". Il comment in this same video after 4 yrs. I hope il be a person who can shake hand with you. --Arjun, 16 yrs
Try eating cabbage soup. Try putting honey on your face overnight as a mask. Watch what you’re eating. Acne used to be called “diabetes of the skin”. Avoid sugar spikes. Cut out sugary foods. You have a genetic disposition to develop acne, but you can take simple steps to manage it. The standard western diet is particularly bad for acne. Drink water and when your skin does become inflamed, treat it gently and keep it clean. 🙏
Hey bro im a 16 yo girl and theres this guy right? Hes got really bad acne. Like crazy acne. But im just as crazy over him... so i dont think it matters all that much...
Really needed to see this today; you definitely come off as one of the more sincere and heartfelt RU-vidrs I’ve seen. Ya got yourself a new subscriber now, much love from the US ✌️
Brother, I love what you're sharing. We've just got to put the phone down and stop sinking into the pits of despair. I gotta say, while a relationship with a great person is fantastic, it will not solve your problems. No matter how perfect you are, you will have bad days and not feel awesome about her or yourself. That's the human condition. We get used to our surroundings and take them for granted. Expecting that a girl will make your problems go away is too much pressure to put on her. You gotta be content and fulfilled on your own before you'll find true fulfillment in a relationship. I'm in the same boat as you, and it's not fun, but there's so much to be thankful for. Practice gratitude always. It'll change everything. Much love my friend.
Been struggling with a lot mentally, and for many years,,, found myself smiling with some tears rolling down my face towards the end of this video. Thank you bro
Being a teen makes you very emotional and sometimes you will overthink too much especially when i comes to love. I have been obsessed with the feeling of finding the perfect girl. I would sit in my room for hours and lose sleep thinking about that. I love that you always make the perfect video for the perfect time man really appreciate it brother. Much love ❤
First important lesson one needs to learn, is perfection does not exist and the partner you will have will 100% have their own set of flaws and personal life problems to sort out.
man, I just watched this, eyes getting teary and all, feeling like you know me, feeling understood and I needed that, I knew I did, but it hit hard nonetheless. ty, truly
Thank you so much for these words of encouragement! I needed to hear this. I'm a 49 year old man who's been divorced twice and still doesn't have a real career. On the first part of your video, I was like...damn. If this guy is struggling, what hope do I have? But the end of your talk really hit home for me. I continue to work on being the absolute best version of myself, no matter how old I am and will never give up on finding that dream woman. But I'm also coming to realize that this person is not going to be the answer to all of my problems. Yes, I truly desire her in my life, whoever she may be, but I need to find that peace and happiness within myself, first and foremost because being dependent on someone else for that is only a recipe for a disastrous relationship. Blessings to you my friend!
Thank you brother. Having a hard week with self confidence and this really helped. I’m trying to improve myself but no matter what I feel like I’ll still never be good enough. This definitely gave me an entirely new mindset.
I’m focusing on becoming the best version of myself. I think it’s helping my self confidence and sense of accomplishment. I really appreciate this video!
Hi jak...youre the best influencer ive ever met and i feel like youve made me feel more comfortable with...myself and even though i was hurt...i have to move through this phase...i can...breathe again and now i must work i can do this... because i can do this...thank you for being so inspirational
Jam you rly changed my life bro u made me stop my porn addiction and know i fell like more important than ever and actually started working out I did before but I didn’t continue now I’m more motivated than ever to be in good shape keep up the great work when I watch ur videos I no joke feel like ur the most caring person Ik I feel a type of love that no one can give me other than u ❤ I got more important things to do
I needed this, today I had made a tough decision to protect myself and keep an arm’s length from someone who was just using me and emotionally dumping on me for months. My reasoning was that recently she silently ignored/dismissed me when I told them in confidence that my father and grandmother are both dying and how a number of other life grievances had swept into my life in that same week of learning that. It really hurt to realize that they did not care about me despite being there and supporting them numerous times when they needed it. However this really helped pull myself back up to remind me that someone out there appreciates my heart. This right here is what reminds me to keep on fighting for myself and to learn to forgive myself, thank you for the great message friend ❤
Just wanted to say that i discovered your channel a few weeks back and i noticed that when it comes to mentality, or craving self improvment we are around the same phases (maybe cause we're the same age) but it has helped me, if not cause ive learned something new its because it lets me know there are people such as you and your public that feel and think the same things. Now i just wanted to kinda do the same by recomending you a book called Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. He was an emperor and the book is about thoughts, ideals, principals based on stoicism that he had that are timeless and are very relatable as well and makes you see things from a new angle and makes you want to be better
This video really hit hard - really made me realise how lonely i feel and how i always feel how i have no purpose. I have no motivation in life at the moment. I agree with everything you say and from a 14 year old boy's perspective who has never been approached by a girl, this made me realise a lot 💙
I've commented on this before, but I'll say it again, I very much appreciate your regard for the different things that work for different people, while also giving very relatable and effective advice for many, if not most. I would like to add that relationships are meant for the mutual benefit of each partner. It's not a one-sided, selfish scenario, or it shouldn't be. Iron sharpens iron, iron damages wood, and wood makes iron dull over time. The ultimate goal is to be in a relationship where you BOTH end up better than you did before. And just like iron, people can never be perfectly "sharp", so there will always be someone you can benefit and can benefit you. I will also say, as a woman, you're doing just fine. Everyone has ups and downs. I've been through a particularly rough patch recently, and let me say, the most important thing is that you get back on your feet, learn from the fall (even if it wasn't your fault you fell), and keep on walking, and you clearly do a phenomenal job of doing exactly that. Keep up the great work and encouraging others to do the same, and I have a feeling you'll find a lovely lady sooner than later
Dude I'm always telling my friends this stuff man and never get it back. Feels good to hear back yk I've never watched this guy until rn just respect man.
Love yr content man !! I thought that it’s only me but it’s a great feeling to have other brothers out there in the same battle and not feel alone in this shit anymore
It’s video’s like these that made me the person I am today, im still very young but thanks to the confidence I have there are many people that I know personally that like me. Only recently have I started believing in myself more and more and only very recently have I got y, very first boyfriend and only recently have multiple people come up to me saying “so and so likes you” and “so and also wants to rizz you” And that. Thank you for sharing this message jak
You're like 15 you shouldn't be thinking about finding a perfect girl anyways just focus on yourself and your school work and the rest will come naturally. The internet and media has put up this facade that you have to get dating experience as early as possible but let me tell you that is not a right way to think. Almost all high school relationships fail and they can be very scarring if they end badly. A nice girlfriend will come, just be patient.
I felt miserable and lonely my whole life because i didnt have a girlfriend. I felt like i'm not attractive, boring and blah-blah-blah. But when i hit 30, i realised, this was not the case actually. When i looked at my past, i realised that i was attractive - i always met girls and women who we attracted to me, it's just i was either selfsabotaging my chances of getting into relationships with those women, or i wasnt interested in them in a romantic way. When i had this revelation of sorts, i was dating a woman whom i'm dating to this day and we plan our future together.Аt that moment, i finally found a decent job, that lets me earn enough money and not work my ass off on overtime shifts. I grew better as a person over the years, i finally felt great, and i guess this made it possible for me to look back at my past with a different poin of view. What i wanted to say to whoever reads this - dont be too harsh to yourself, instead of this, work on your self, your skills, your hobbies. Not just because overthinking about your shortcomings is a waste of time, but also your whole perspective might be wrong.
I am glad that I am not alone in these sort of feelings and thoughts about myself and everything, thank you Jak, despite the obvious of feeling like your not where you think you should be and all that that's not really good for us mentally, but in the long run it will help us improve because of our need for high standards, we're only as good as our standards and we should hold ourselves to them rightly so. I hope that those standards I set and that all men set are the best for the right person so that that special women/man can have who they deserve. Another banger video mate 👍
You are not alone. Society has made women that have been rejecting males that aren't blessed with genetics in the last 10 years and a lot of them forget what true virtues are. Most of single men who aren't blessed with great genetics feel like you do and since males don't usually get compliments, even if they are at least moderately attractive they will still sometimes feel like ass. People need to stop thinking constantly about finding a dream girl because: 1. there is no perfect girl 2. girls are not as important as you think 3. a girlfriend will come to you naturally as you work on yourself and your career, nothing forced will work
this is so true. someone’s personality, their virtues (specially kindness) and their way they handle themselves can entirely change one’s view of them. you’re sort of an example, you are already good looking but who you are makes you so much more attractive. also - so much effort put into the video, keep it up !!
thanks man. I've been binging on that sad sh*t and feeling bad about myself. Not helpful at all. My future partner deserves the best I can be. I deserve the best I can be. So I'm gonna stop consuming that sh*t and go out and be the best I can be.
I was feeling miserable just now thinking that no one can understand me or think like me when it comes to being lonely although surrounded by my girl friends WHO AES EXACTLY LIKE ME except for your significant other you’re looking for, feeling unmotivated waiting for that person whom you’ll be your best version of yourself for, feeling bad when not having a productive day but then feeling motivated, loved and worthy again when you have one, you’re so much like me and.. self aware! This is what makes you unique! Your video made me believe that we’ll eventually find “the” one. I have so much to say yet I’m speechless by how your video was as if you were describing me, more particularly my inner thoughts that I myself could not put into words, second by second. I normally don’t comment on videos but I feel like this was a sign for me as I was JUST trying to convince myself to get to know my admirer (whom I don’t share similar traits with) at the moment just for the sake of not being lonely.. I mean.. if there’s a man who’s as self aware as you are, I bet there are others! It’s just that I haven’t met them yet! It takes guts to post these things online (I myself know it. I’m a public figure too. Ig: @busbus._04)) especially if you were a man (from what I’ve seen from my 19 years on Earth, men who can accurately express their feelings are rare!) Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with us.. you put hope in me again!
Sometimes I forget you are 18. And then I forget that I am only 2 years behind you. Watching your videos is cool as I not only watch myself grow, but you as well, and everyone watching. Feels like I am not alone on the journey of self improvement, and I related very much to this one. Keep doing what you do, it’s great.
As a young teenager myself(13), I am not interested in having a relationship with a girl. I live with 2 girls and it is so painful, omg their a pain in the but. But when I go out I do get butterflies in stomach when I see a pretty girl, I will honestly go tell her that she is pretty. Thanks for reading this
Trust me, a high value woman will never be a pain in the rear, only her troubles will be. And a high value man never tries to rescue her every time, but stands beside her always in facing her battles.
bro i will be 19 years this 22nd april and i think we have lot of things comman that might be giving up on phone and social media ,staying self motivate, having produtive weeks and also sometimes unproductive once but ,bro i appreciate your work and thanks for giving me company, we are in this together.
Thank you for being this vulnerable on the internet. We should take a step back, reevaluate our thoughts and really try to focus on the things we have improved about ourselves, specifically menthally, our reactions to things happening around us, on our journey. I know it's easier said then done, but I honestly think this is one of the things that help me get out of the self-destructive thought process. :) But also know, you are not alone, someone else somewhere has the same problem as you do. your thoughts with some. Don't keep them to yourself. .
Thank you algorithm for blessing me with this video and, more importantly, with this RU-vidr. Never seen you before in my life, but your video has made me want to become the best version of myself, and your genuine nature has made me instantly subscribe. You're a real one
@@Raven_Black_252you don't know the effects that looking beautiful for other people can have. That one person gives you a compliment, that can make your whole day, fill you with confidence, give you hope. It's greatly overlooked
@Sez___ while getting compliments makes people feel good, the point is that it's not good for you to revolve your self worth around how people think about you, if they think you're attractive or not
I'm 18, just finished high-school starting to feel burnout on everything and really been pondering life when this found me. This is something I go thru daily and to hear someone know exactly when I feel but won't say is relieving. Thank you for saying what I didn't have the strength to and making me really think about the way things had been.
An online friend really boosted my confidence yesterday. She knows how I look and I told her that I don’t find myself attractive, and she said something along the lines of „Girl don’t do yourself like that, you’re so pretty! If I knew you in real life I’d have a little crush on you! And I’m not saying this to make you feel better, just for clarification!“ She’s so sweet! 😭❤
Hey man, I’m one of the lucky guys who has a girlfriend and this video has made me realise how much I’m grateful for her in my life and this video reminded me how I felt before I had her and it just reminded me how grateful I am and should be for having her in my life. I feel for those who don’t have a partner and wish they had one and the trick is to just wait. The right girl will come when you least expect it. Just have faith and patience for the future. I wasn’t looking for girls when I found her.
I needed this. This really helped me, had a couple lows and a lot of burnout just lead to those self destructive thoughts. The algorithm really wanted me to see this and I'm happy that it did. Great video
