In a world where young men are truly surrounded by all the crap, dopamine traps, and lack of purpose and direction, you truly are a light and an influence for anyone that listens to your advice and what you have to share. Thanks Dewayne.
This channel has been an absolute gem to find. My dad grew up as basically a street kid in the Soviet Union after my grandparents divorced and my grandmother "took custody". The only thing that kept him from becoming a drug addict or dying like many of his buddies did in their teens was the books he read. Jack London, O. Henry, Mark Twain ... those books showed him a different kind of people. Strong, honest, responsible and kind men pushing the frontier of civilization. It's what allowed him to leave that God-forsaken place and move to the West. When we found Dewayne's videos, my dad went "So these are the people that London wrote about, they do exist after all"
@o-henry This is one of the most honoring, humbling and complimentary comments I have ever received. I thank you for this post, all the best to you and your dad
Wish I’d had this guy when I was your age - I was in a dark place with depression and had no one to look up to. Good on you for recognising wisdom when you see it.
Perfect timing. I may be losing my job soon, which significantly throws off my plans, and it helps to be reminded that the path to our goals are not always guaranteed.
0:00 Good mornin’ December 14 0:10 Vegas is somethin’ else 0:36 _Ma and Pa Kettle come down from the hills_ 🎥 0:52 Lotta nice folks came up and said some very nice things. It’s encouraging to know your efforts are accomplishing something. 1:12 A podcast for Brad Lee. Had a good time. 1:42 Setting up with Rands Hatters. 2:36 Vegas isn’t a cowboy place, but Dewayne felt he and momma should go. 3:21 Dianna has a liking for Tall Country Fellas with a deep voice. 4:18 Podcast fellas *Flexibility* 4:43 Learning to Go with The Flow. “It’s like moose hunting in Alaska.” 🏹🫎 🔫 5:48 A patch of Alders blocks your path “oh I can’t go that way.” 7:49 The Goal doesn’t change, but sometimes you need to take a different route. 8:22 Lets Talk Business. You know where you want to get - you run into an obstacle + you’ve got to be flexible 8:57 In the journey, you will discover things about yourself. 9:43 “I never realized…” • Same goal • different route • Choice 10:26 “You don’t have to…” depending on your path. 10:45 Thought 💭 about what would happen Vs Reality of what happened. 11:26 Brad Lee’s Podcast + The Flexibility + Not giving up on our destination. + you have to do that with your horse , ex. Tank, one of Dewayne’s Horse. 12:53 Abused Horse 🐴 Spoiled Horse 🐎 “I need to take a different path.” 14:04 Flexibility and Inflexible people Why can people be flexible - Pride - unable to admit mistakes - unwilling to backtrack - Fear 15:11 Have Flexibility 💕 15:48 Raisin’ Children. Love Children They don’t like their children. • It’s not the child’s fault 17:20 Dewayne caught a stomach bug/got sick. Ain’t no point in gettin twisted about it. What’s working? What’s not working. Make changes Without losing our original destination. 17:45 2 Boxes of Cuban Cigars 19:37 + Be logical + Be reasonable + Be safe + Have Fun + And we’ll see you guys, next time.
I alwasy listen to DCWS, but you just saved me 20 minutes! THANKS! I can get a few more things done outside when the sun comes up before work! )i can't work in the dark here- i live facing the FL Bay in the Everglades..EVERYTHING outside in the dark hates you.....
Noticed a jump in quality of the videos, Wayne. Nice camera! I’m a 25 yr old male and your channel has been a blessing of wisdom and life lessons. I think I speak for a lot of us when I say that your efforts are very much appreciated
This reminds me of my fathers words - "you never cross the same river waters twice.. and sometimes, the map is wrong. Adapt and overcome." Also reminds me of your video on meeting people/horses where they are at, and being flexible- and spoke of RA that day "she was a good horse for *her that day" but, your expectations were rigid. Side note; When visiting my father in Washington, I stopped at a store near the Bridge of the Gods - got a plaque with a "yoga frog" that says "Blessed are the flexible, for they shall not be bent out of shape" 😊
Hi Dwayne , Spot on ….again 👍🏻 I could not let be laughing about the remark “ they love their children, but they don’t like their children !” 😅 ain’t that the truth , and we don’t like them either 😅😅
"The horse ain't abused, it's just spoiled." That is one of the best one liners I've heard in a long time! Such a great video and much needed wisdom for this day and age
Dwayne Great words of knowledge always from you. I lost my battle with my son that I always show him your videos and he loves them. He ended up taking his life August 12, 2023 it’s been so hard for me the wife and my two daughters. Your videos always keep me going and you’re doing a great job and a great man thank you!
Two boxes of Cubans. That's a heck of a nice gift! I originally came to watch you some time ago for the cigar talks but stayed for the life lessons that you are passing along. I've enjoyed both immensely.
I was addicted to drugs most my life. Slowing down and listening to the right people changed everything. Left the only job i thought was for me. It changed everything. Dont be afraid to transform that was the first step along with listening to David Goggins to make me really look at my life. Walking everywhere sleeping at bus stops. Gets Tiring. That being said changed everything by staying away from what infind comfortable had to learn to live a different way. Fast foward now been a manager , ran a company and im only getting started at 29 . 18-25 life was a mess but never gave up. Theres hope just keep it pushing.
The point where you talk about a horse "being spoiled". I came upon that this Tuesday with my daughter. She slipped on her grades in her Advanced Math class as a freshman in High School. When I talked to her and she explained where she was coming from, in my mind I realized "okay, I failed a bit as a father". I wasn't checking in like I should have. I was being considerate, but sometimes that means you can fail as a leader. I had to accept that "this is on me as a father". And I need to be more in tune with her and lead her to success. Sometimes we have to accept that the results are a product of our leadership and correct it. But the challenge is correcting it with emotional intelligence. Thank you for your wisdom.
Yes Dwayne, flexibility doesn’t ever mix with ego/pride/selfishness. See it ALOT within this “entitlement” society-- Thank you for being a voice in the wilderness! Keep bringing us virtuous living 🥰
Appreciate the words as always sir. For myself it's proving hard to know when to be flexible and when to be rigid. Spose it's like a strong tree. The good ones know when to stand firm, yet when the storm comes they also know when to bend.
This is life and what Dewayne is saying is right on point sometimes we have to take a side road to get there. It is almost never easy. I have done this many times in my life and I am still doing it .I have a goal in site and its taking me different roads to achieve it. Sometimes God will put us on a path to achieve another goal first.
When Im down your wisdom always restores my soul!!! You keep me going!! You're a hell of a hand boss!! God bless you and your's and Happy Holidays!!!🙏🙏🙏
I thank God for You and Your Wife!!! Alaska was My childhood stomping grounds and I lived in Salmon, Idaho too!! You two are priceless in these times. God is using You and may He continue to bless and keep You.
My definition of success is just land and a home for my wife to be self sustaining and be out of the city. And I’m not feeling very flexible because that goal feels impossible. So every day is frustrating and anger, and it doesn’t feel like there’s a path that can change that. I’m 30 and still feel like my quality of living was when I was 20.
Best advice I was given was "in life you'll come upon trees across the road you're on, just decide whether trying to shift it will be quicker than the diversion round it. But don't let it stop you."
Learned this idea of being Semper Gumby (always flexible) in the Marines. Tied to the concepts of Commander’s Intent and the mantra: Adapt, Improvise, and Overcome
You are spot- on, as always. I call it 'switching gears'. Good parents recognize this, and reactive horses will call you out on it. Both need, and want, a strong leader without a big ego. Think that describes you!
Dewayne, I am a man humbled by your work and journey. I’ve followed this channel for some time and I’ll be honest you. I moved from the Illinois landscape in search of southern hospitality, style, and livelihood. I want to start from scratch. Currently I work a good advertising job with Walmart, and I want to join the ranks of cowpoke as much as I can and or learn. As I’ve grown older I’ve learned there’s much to learn and much I should have and much I might have never. I see you as the man that taught me to smoke the cigars to ask those questions. I’d like to supply the work you’ve given me that’s supplied the brains to ask the questions to have and the ones I have not yet. Can be where and when asked.
Truthfully, I haven't watched your videos in about 6 months... Purely because we just moved back to Australia from living in Canada (lived there for 2.5 yrs). We worked on Canada's largest cattle Ranch and then moved to Alberta. We loved it but it was time to move back to farm life in Australia. I miss the scenery, Western life, my f350 king ranch truck (4 x more expensive to buy in Australia) etc.... So seeing your videos made me a little touchy missing Canada and the true western life. Glad to say, I'm pass this now and am re-watching again! Time to get the cigars and whiskey out again and appreciate the life I have on the farm in Aus! 🥃 I also share my life on YT too! Have a great day!
Dewayne, I don’t know if anyone has ever coined this phrase, but I’ve been saying it for many years now, and it is this- flexibility is essential because change is inevitable. We get stuck or things stop working, new things, new ways come along, etc. We need to keep an open mind and be flexible. Thank you for another inspiring video!
once again with impeccable timing. im up for a job interview next week and im only going to take it if i can afford too financially but im fully prepared to redirect myself if i come to the conclusion that its not what i need. reassurance and reminders is one hell of a thing... keep on keeping on you guys. happy holidays and all that jazz
Another winner Dwayne! You keep reminding me to be humble and flexible. They are both paramount as I sell a business I felt I mastered and build another. Not an easy ride as you said so well! I don't want it to be or expect it to be!
You’re the man Dewayne. Love the stories brother. Lost my dad in ‘08 and it’s nice to have another role model to look up too besides the other respectable men I know personally.
Very grateful for straight up, down to Earth, and reality based advice. There is so much garbage out there. It’s time to get back to basics in this country. God bless you 🙏🏻🙏🏻
This talk really resonates with me. I've met the enemy and it's myself 😂, but also I've discovered strengths that I didn't know I had and never thought about pursuing.
Life comes back around sometimes too. I used to spend hours practicing piano in my 20's to try and find something I could latch onto and it never happened. 20 years later (and after 10 years of my focus on writing) I'm back to practicing piano again and I think I've found a style that should keep me interested for a while. Oh yeah, I'm into cooking now too. I love experimenting with different chiles from all over the world. Wouldn't have imagined that 20 years ago.
Great videos, Sir! I am headed to Vegas for the first time in the new year. Small town guy in the big city. I appreciate the advice on flexible journeys.
Those that aren’t flexible cause themselves and those around them a lot of unnecessary strife !!! Somehow life has a way of challenging those who are stubborn! Blessings
Thanks for all the videos & advice etc. I've been in the machine shop "world" since I was 18(now 26) and like you've said & what my dad taught me. Being flexible makes a big difference for you & the company. There's times I've just ran a mill or a lathe. Other days it's sawing or unloading trucks.
I've had to backtrack quite a bit right now because I wasn't really paying attention to where I've been going. Some kind people, like this man, are helping me with directions so I'm not running out of gas in the middle of nowhere. It might take me a little longer to get where I'm going, but I'll get there. We all will. I don't have the knack for metaphors like this man does 😂
To me, the journey of faith is like what you are explaining. There’s no short cuts to the destination. It’s like God says, this is “The Way” I have for you to go and recognising the path as we go. It does not involve Fear but Trust.
Thanks for another great video Dwayne. I can apply so much of what you are speaking about to my own situation. 3 years ago I turned down a different path after banging my head against a dead end for 20 years. The hardest thing for me was admitting to myself that I needed to "let that go" and try something different. I thank my lucky stars I have found a great deal of happiness since then. I learned that the place I thought I wanted to be is a little different but a lot closer than I first imagined.
No idea how I discovered your channel but I’m going through the lowest part of my life right now and everything has been so hard. I’ve only watched a couple of your videos but I feel like I’ve gained years of wisdom from you. Thank you so much I hope to meet you someday
Sorry we missed you. We are from Las Vegas and used to go to the Cowboy Christmas. My husband used to be a chauffeur and worked the show. I worked it one year at a booth. We are now over the road truck driving. Las Vegas isn't what it used to be.
Hoyo de Monterrey is a well-respected brand that predates the Cuban Revolution. Something to know about Cubans...if they start tasting bad and have an ammonia smell, they go through a "sick period" about 12-18 months after the rolling date on the bottom of the box. In Cuba it's not an issue because they smoke cigars "fresh"...if they go "sick", just park them in the humidor for about a year, or until the ammonia smell goes away. Aged Cubans are a truly magnificent experience.
These topics you are covering are even more relevant for the younger crowd. The way we teach our kids to wrap up high school determines the whole life thereafter. C
My dad did allot. But you did more than him sad too say. I just want to thank you. You like a Modern day Mister Rogers! You need your own show. For the children. Hope y’all doing well and thank you.
Thanks so much, as usual. Truly, being flexible is a great ability which allows us to avoid and not repeat so many of our mistakes, and at the same time flexibility is sometimes so hard to achieve...
Hello, after a heavy lay off from a Career I've dedicated my life too in Feb.2023, I'm back....I have another IV pharmacy job and a better work schedule 7 on /7off it's amazing... Happy holidays 🍻⚖️🇺🇸
Hey Dwayne, I am a 19 year old guy trying to understand why I feel this way. Recently life has been nothing but worries. My question is, does it ever get better. Will I ever stop hating how I feel about myself and how I feel about others. I’ve always been a happy person so to say. But for the past few days I’ve been thinking suicidal thoughts. I never really had a father around growing up. It’s so hard to become a man when everyone tells you what you’re suppose to be. I hope you keep creating this kind of content because you are a genuine man.
Please read the Holy Bible. Those thoughts of lack and suicide come straight from Satan. GOD created you and has plans for you! HE will not fail you. There will always be failures and downfalls in our lives-that’s life. We learn and grow through it. Always look for the lesson in everything, no matter how big or small bad or good. Always think and say what you’re grateful for - waking up, breath, etc. praying for you. Please read Bible and pray - talk to our Father God. 🤲
@@trinac2463 I have been praying more recently, I was a religious child I’d say but never to the extent I’d pray every night and when I feel I need to talk to him. It truly has made me feel more in touch with myself and god.
"...alone in a crowded room.,..." (That's part of the reason I love this channel and only just got here...,.) And so thank you for the post, always absolutely appreciated.
(...and all bless you and don't forget to make sure with your follow through if your that one unlucky person that was unfortunate enough to actually be right before anybody else because that's that. And ouch is painful.,...) And just in case haven't heard/read-registered this enough Dwayne, you are a good old guy. And theres no such thing as too many or too much of that, especially these days.
Dwayne, that Vegas trip turned gold from unexpected! Your "Ma and Pa Kettle" moment led to fascinating connections and a podcast with Brad Leaf you wouldn't have had in a booth. This reminds us all of life's twists and the power of embracing flexibility. Moose hunting analogy? Perfect! Whether it's business, relationships, or horses, sometimes the path changes. The key is keeping your goals while adjusting the route. Don't let pride or fear trap you when flexibility unlocks new opportunities. Like your child rearing example, we often need to course-correct. Humility and adaptation are crucial. Remember, doing the same thing expecting different results is insanity! Thanks for sharing this insightful experience, Dwayne. Your stories and wisdom are always a valuable ride, even when the destination changes. Keep them coming! P.S. P.S. That Cuban cigar story had me laughing! Can't wait to hear your verdict on those Cohibas.
Man I wish I had it all figured out like you. You just seem so collected and full of wisdom. There is no way by the time I am your age I will be anything like you. You are a one percenter.
Dewayne I am a young man from a small town in ireland I love your videos watch all the time. just wanted to say thank you for sharing your wisdom and advice please keep posting videos and I'm a lover of a good cuban cigar recommend ramon allones small club Corona god bless you dewayne.
Thank you thank you thank you love your advice good luck this year best regards me .i went and work on a cattle station when i was 17 just turning 18 1 million square miles in 1985 i wish you were there the man teaching me when i was there but even though im 57 in a few days you are teaching me so much about life and myself god bless you and your wisdom 😊
Tried to find you during Cowboy Christmas. I really just wanted to shake your hand to say thank you for all you’ve done. I had a list of thank yous I wanted to share. Thank you for the God’s Round Pen talk. Thank you for the “Cost me my calm” phrase…I use it often. Thank you for your list of books video. Man…so much to say. I’m frustrated that I didn’t find you on Instagram to get the update. I contacted you through Patreon but that appears to have been the wrong source. ARGH!!! Hopefully you’ll consider coming back. 😉
Haven't watched a video in a bit, but today's camera angle/lighting set makes for a better composition than usual. Just enough extra effort without seeming like it is over-processed in the typical RU-vidr fashion. Well done.
I haven't been in watching for a while now but when I do your videos are always insightful, calming and a pleasure to watch. Thank you from Queensland, Brisbane, Australia, Adam
The first video I watched of yours was about cigars because I was starting to develop an interest. I started going through your catalogue about a year ago and now I never miss a video. I’m 27, born and raised in Kentucky. I would love to hear you talk more about your time in life living in Kentucky and how it’s had an impact on you. My dad was around when I was growing up but was never really active. Thank you very much for all your wisdom and advice. I’m trying to grow in my career and grow in my one year of marriage. Your videos genuinely help me with most every aspect of being a better man, husband, and human being. Hope you have a Merry Christmas!
