there's only 1 issue with me doing this, that is if I were to ask someone whose picture I find attractive, turns me down, I would be crushed and would take it personally.
So decide to not take it personally. They may never seen your message. They be dating someone. There are a million reasons that are insulted. Choose one of them and also send soooo many messages that you can't even remember who did or did not respond.
@@peterflynn1250 If you will notice, the guy making the video is male. I thought he might have some insight into how it works, but then I remembered I don't date.
I hear what you are saying. Although logically that makes a lot of sense, from an efficiency standpoint it makes more sense to read the profile after a man responds. (Now you are spending time on someone you know is interested and interacting with you vs. a profile that may never see or respond to you).
@@mbrady2329 I agree. And my clients hire me to efficiently find love, not be courteous. Sometimes we do both, but ultimately I don't think folks should be that upset if they get ghosted after one message. So I chalk my system up to finding love fast and efficiently and not worrying about much else so we can focus on our goal.
@@mbrady2329 I 100% agree with you. That is unfortunate. And my clients hire me to fall in love efficiently, there investment is not going towards worrying about how people perceive our message to them.
thanks for your advice and time! , I'd have to change my personality unfortunately. On Match I've liked a couple of guys and they never liked me back.....
I had no idea what you were going to say here. Have to admit I smiled (huge) all the way through. How about if I walk through town wearing a T-shirt with a cougar on it? My young male neighbor told me I could easily date again. My answer - My chances are slim to none of finding a man like my former (deceased) boyfriend who went through his kitchen, read every label and threw out everything I was allergic to! I would have no problem asking a man out, I just wouldn't be able to go out with him. Figure that one out! I truly hope women listen to your stellar advice. Be brave, take a chance, at least have some fun shocking men with your audacity.
