you're not incompetent, you just need to get over your fear of success... 

The title drew me in immediately. I pressed PLAY and just started watching this and I'm already feeling the relatability of it! I'm so afraid of putting myself out there fully because yes, I'm afraid of rejection, but also, I'm afraid of success and I just can't explain why! I look forward to what this video has to teach

I have experience the same thing. I always felt fearful of success. It was because of the attention an potwntial judgment from people that comes with success. I remember when I was hitting the gym and eating the nutients etc back then when i was still attending school, girls were giving me a lot of attention because I was looking hella sexy. And there were some people who were saying I ain't shit, and only my body attractive. Some of my teachers were making sneaky remarks about me. My electrical teacher said to me that I'm not important and that he has 14 student in his class. And I was so confuse to why they were acting so. They never acted that way, before I started hitting the gym.

Hi Bria! I love your videos & how relatable & encouraging you are. I would love a video about how to start youtube/social media from scratch or what you wish you knew when you started.

Am new to your page I have valued every video I have watched so far it has helped me alot... my question to you is how do you step into your highest self from your old self when you find yourself stuck in the middle??

Go girl! Perfect timing for this video❤

I held myself back because I was afraid. I dimmed my Light because I thought it would help me be accepted by others. I set goals that weren’t always aligned with my Highest good because they felt more acceptable. But NOW… now it’s time to show up more authentically and give myself the love that I so easily give others. It’s time to be who I was always meant to be in this very moment. Now, not later ❤ Thank you for this video!

I know this video was made 10 months ago, but came at the PERFECT time for me. Girl, I so highly respect that you speak to your audience in a style that’s comforting and casual. You’re not talking at me, but to me. AND, there’s no gate keeping or ulterior motive. Just pure intention to help. You’re truly a gem in our society. May God continue to bless you!

One nose boop for bubby 🐶💞

Oh my goodness… this series is DEFINITELY for me! So glad you’ve been hitting all the mental points for us. Fear can be so crippling. For everyone watching this video and you run across this comment, KEEP GOING!! FOOT TO THE PEDAL BABE! 🤍

The saying says “Do it scared anyway”

WOW … I didn’t realize how much I’d resonate with the fear of being seen & fear of the unknown until this video really highlighted it for me. I feel a little closer to success now that I know what was really blocking me. ❤

25:58 i had a "best friend" who was never supportive for me throughout my happiest & saddest moments in my life while i was always supportive for her. i remember when i got my dream car for my 21st birthday, she was completely silent about it, everyone else around me in my group congratulated me and were happy for me but she never said a word and i always noted that in my head but shrugged it off in hopes she just forgot to say something. i was completely wrong, she really just wasn't happy for me and only cared for herself, thankfully she's no longer in my life, she kept leaving our friend group and even left me during a time i lost one of my grandparents, left when other ex friends left me years ago, and somehow i kept letting her back in but once she left again for the third time, i put my foot down and no longer will accept her back in. the right people will be there for you in your worst & best times! I've got best friends who stayed through both and i'm forever grateful for them. as always, wonderful video bri

This is so aligned with my church service from last night! Thank you again for these recent videos!!! This is definitely a sign of me bridging some gaps and healing the old and new me. Love you Bri❤

This video is GOLD, Bria! Whenever you made a point or gave some truth that we mostly know on unconscious levels, my mind was saying YES! YES! YES! Believe that you deserve the good that comes to you; failure doesn’t have to be the final step; treat yourself like you are a friend or family member; change is necessary or we don’t grow but stagnate; and don’t let others define you or break you down because those people don’t really care about you. I am so glad that you worked through these issues or recognize them where you refuse to let them steal your joy or keep you from being your wonderful self. Thank you for sharing and reminding me (who is much, much older than you) that I deserve the good that life offers. ❤️

You pointed out eveything that was wrong with my life and that was straight up so cool! I wonder if i should apply to scholarships but always ended up imagining myself getting rejected (aka fear of success), and i am now on my way to fix this

It takes courage to delve into the fears and uncertainties that accompany success. Can you share a specific moment or experience from your own journey where you confronted and overcame your fear of success? What insights or strategies helped you push past it?

Always right on time to pep talk me, I swear! Btw idk if you’re into nyc vlogs but if so, you might like mine. Swing by, take a peek and stick around if you like. I’d be sooo grateful. 🙏

Such a powerful message! It's amazing how our own fear of success can hold us back and make us doubt our abilities. This video really resonated with me and reminded me to push past that fear and believe in myself.

This is a fabulous video! (And... unsolicited thought incoming, please feel free to roll your eyes and dismiss it! But have you considered coaching? Your energy is *so rich and positive*, i genuinely feel a bit coached just watching the video!) Thanks so much for both the personal side of this video, which is super relatable, and the action steps towards the end! Excellent work!

Gah your videos are always SO timely. I feel like no one ever talks about this, yet it’s so important! Great video, Bria ❤️👏

This is exactly my problem. I've had this problem time after time in my life. Now it's keeping me from finishing school. My weird brain is trying to procrastinate on watching this video but I'm pushing through it cus I really want to get past this

hey bestie, I promise you I am so hard on myself it ain’t even funny and in many ways i thought I didn’t deserve certain stuff and that keeps me very stagnant. Need to start convincing myself that I deserve it. The one thing that I need to work on is visualizing my success. Sometimes I wish i had more supportive people around me, but it’s something that I can’t worry about right now.

Fear of success... Definitely. Several of these fears have been overcome at this point because knowing the issue is half of the solution. I am still working through many of my fears of success. I LOVE the idea of doing visualization just before sleep. I have been doing visualizations in my morning routine and feel great until lunch, so I think adding this in as a bedtime ritual would be ideal. Thank you!!! ❤😊

You never miss Bria! I thank the universe for earth angels like you❤️

Run it tf back ! She basically said if they not hating you not poppin.. Aw ok. She said what she said.! 😂❤

this came at the exact right time because I've been struggling so bad lately to overcome this fear. I have such big dreams but starting,,,,whew

Yes to everything omg! This is the content that I need! Thank you for giving of yourself and your thoughts to us ❤

Your content is so inspiring. You’ve been filling in the blanks for me as I grow and seek more within myself. I see your growth and love your mindddd. Thank you sharing and leading by example.

Lots of wisdom nuggets here. Thank you!

18:13 „Staying unhappy and dissatisfied with your current situation is going to be as permanent as you make it.“ I wind it back at least 3 times 💯

This video was reassuring for me. I noticed that I am afraid of success. That’s not going to stop me from accomplishing my goals

I'm so late to this one but so glad I got to it. I really needed this topic 🥴

Ugh Bria I love your content and you so much! I have always loved RU-vid and have been watching it since I was in middle school, but I've never felt as closely connected to a creator as I do with you. Your age group, living in the South, choosing to stay at home vs going out now, getting over the fear of money, I could go on and on!!! Your channel is truly my safe space 🥹 This video made me realize I have a fear of judgment and it is holding me back from reaching new levels of success on my own journey 😭Whew called me allllll the way out but I needed to hear that! Thank you for all you do. Thank you for still going and creating content even when you experience failure or tough moments. I'm forever rooting for your success and happiness!!!!

Phenomenal message Bria! The fear of success has been holding me back. I love that haters represent moving in a prosperous direction. Sending love and light. I was bullied growing up and had no idea how the irrational thought patterns of that time remained conscious from decades ago. I am going to try the visualization practice tonight!

This video is more helpful to me and am still in rebuilding myself,thank you very I keep watching all your videos coz it seems you talk all about me

Same way kids are they don't get loud until parents get otp. Lol😂😂😂

Watching Bria’s videos help me feel grounded😌✨✨

this is so good! i appreciate your channel so much. It has helped me since I found it!

Aspiring RU-vidr here with no viral videos and I love how you put this. Everyone keeps telling me hopefully one of your videos go viral but honestly the numbers scare me and I know that it will immediately put me in another bracket because I know that my content is 🔥🔥🔥. I’m afraid of that and I’m always in my head! But I need to get over it because we got BIG goals. Love this series Bria. We need this 💕

Love your videos and your editing. What software do you use??

Sooooooo on point. I had a business that got VERY successful in my twenties and it scared the shit out of me. Now I’m starting another one after doing a lot of work on myself and realizing that success is what I’m afraid of since I already know I have the potential. It’s hard to talk to anyone about it because they’re usually just like “well that’s dumb” but they’ve never really pushed themselves to be successful so they think I just magically happened to build a business by accident.

When I buy myself sth.expensive and nice.... I am trying to deminish it by not carring about that thing, not taking care of properly. Recently I bought a wooden house and I didn't paint it before Winter.

Facts 🙌🏾

Excellent breakdown and tips! I do have a fear of success which contradicts my excitement to succeed lol but I keep going. Loving this series 💙

Your videos are always right on time! Thank you for explaining everything so thoroughly. I've definitely been dealing with and healing from the fear of success. My biggest take away is that success is actually good and we can expand ourselves and our lives the more successful we become. Change is what has seemed scary, but change is actually good!!! :D

Thank you Bria! Your videos always give me the tough love/pep talk I need to keep going. As always, this resonated and was so helpful ❤

Oh siiiisssss 9:15. That's me. Oh shxtttt. I'll say... I'm not really putting in effort at x,y,z and that's why I'm stuck but imagine if i ACTUALLY put effort in Whole time I'm doom scrolling

Okay I'm back I def need to manifest a friend group like you cuz ur awesome!! Keep shinin on um 👏🏾👏🏾✨🔥✨🔥✨🔥✨

I got my first hundred subscribers on RU-vid and I froze. This video somehow describes part of thought. I didn’t want to look at the numbers. It’s a milestone for me and I’ll keep going ❤

I really enjoy that you aren't just spouting off the same lame LOA points of talking. Actually getting to the root of why we ruin our own manifesting. 💯

I absolutely love you!!! Thank you so much for sharing your experiences and creating this amazing content!! ❤

I am so happy RU-vid suggested you to me a few days ago. Literally have watched a video a day since! Love you girl 🫶🏾

Watching your videos make me so relieved. Thinking if starting a podcast soon. Wish me luck 😁😁💃🏾💃🏾✨

This content is gollllllld❤️❤️The tip about breaking down everything is what I needed❤️❤️Tk u Bria

This s the video I needed. I've been anted to grow my youtube channel for years now. I start posting or I'll have a really good idea and I'll start working on it, and then I'll stop mysefl and I think this video really showed me why I keep doing that.

This is a new Bish; I mean that respectfully But like this is a new Bish!! 😭😭😭😭 I felt this to my core!! 👏🏾👏🏾✨✨💖💖

Super random but I love love love energy. Ugh so refreshing! Thank you for being so vulnerable and authentic. ✨😍

hii, I found you tonight well I was looking for new inspersion and empowerment. I've been struggling with mental health, as well as just moving all the time and not being able to find that happy medium. I've got to say watching the 3 or 4 videos I have already watched and being new to your channel, I am a fan. You give such good advice and helpful tips I will be using in the moving forward. You have also opened my mind to many different new ways to self improve and stop focusing on so much of what everyone is saying. attitude

Bro I’m at about the 18:00 minute mark and I’m bout to cuss you out. The way you read me like a book and I’ve even felt this way for other people I love. IM SICK. I am going to change immediately. Whatever dude I’m using your videos as a tool to get me out this rat race. I know it hurts but I really want it bad

I definitely needed this video. Fear of failure is real I have been self sabotaging. 1k subscribers I’m on my way ❤

This is off topic of this entire video… but I have always been obsessed with your hair! It looks so beautiful and healthy and like it’s naturally straight. Is this a perm? Do you have someone who just can silk press this well and since you do keep it straight do you ever curl it ?

Amazing video! I have a fear of being seen, however I’m putting myself out there more. Love the way your dog is living his/her best life on that sofa🤣🤣

Your videos taaaaaaalk to me!!! I always say I just want to be rich enough to be comfortable but not too rich coz I'm scared of its consequences..

Ohh! Not the confirmation I needed!💁🏽‍♀️✨

congrats on 300k! 🎉 I subbed yesterday at 299. Your videos are super insightful

When I graduated and got a job 1.5 weeks later I was definitely flipping de Fck out. 🥴🤣

I love your content, however I don’t feel comfortable with all the bad words you use. But I can get through this small thing. ❤

Beginning of your video-I think your fluffy friend find your voice soothing 😊😊😊

Can we make a Bria community fb group or something? These comment sections make me feel like I have some future besties in the works 👀😂

You should be a RU-vid growth coach…. 👀 I’d pay for your expertise. ❤

You are really good at what you do . I think you should be a therapist! I’m sure I owe you for that 30 minute therapy session.

Gurl, I appriciate you so much for this! It was exactly what I needed to hear, the way I needed to hear it thank you.

It resonated with me, I had to start uni again, and when I entered my new uni, I had a bit of fear that... What if had to start over again?

Thanks soooo much for yet another amazing video, your content is the best!

INVICTUS 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. THANKS FOR THIS PLATE WITH WEIGHT! 🍽💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾SOUL FOOD FEAST!

I didn’t expect my world to change the way it did after this video thank you ❤

This is random. But where did you get your couch? I am dying to know

Thank you so much Bria needed this

the constant zooming in and out and slow pans is super annoying, giving me motion sickness and is distracting from the content

You are so real!!! I do not know if you really know or realize it. real as fuck!!!

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Please share your fav journal prompts for this ❤❤

I’m a new subbie and I love ur videos mama keep ‘em coming

You did it again! Keep calling me out 😅 I love it, I need it... I relate to it

Good video

I needed something to put on while I bleached my hair and washed the dishes 🥹✨

Girl, how did you know that I’m struggling with this 😅

3:16 🥺🥺🥺so this video is really gonna make me cry, coz its so true

I just found you again & I loved this video thank youu for putting it out

I love this weekly reads thanks so much!!

profound timing that i've found your videos at this time

Thank you so much ❤ Have been watching ur videos First time commenting 😊

this vid just called me out so brutally.....

I needed to hear it. Thank you for sharing it☺

1:51 we can’t really prepare for everything

thank u sm for this girl!!! i really needed it

Your videos help me a lot, thanks B

THANK YOU, I needed this

You are a boss lady Bria! Great content once again.

Love your videos! I cant wait to be up !