"You're supposed to be subordinate to the light" Jordan Peterson talks marriage & Sleeping Beauty 

Thanks for including this!

Do you happen to know the philosopher or author he keeps referencing he reads??

@@kyliecrawfishin That's Carl Gustav Jung, I believe.

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One of those guys? How many have you met lmao

Max don't act foolish he is a great person and a teacher plz don't exaggerate things !

He had access to resources you didn’t. This knowledge comes out of a book someone else’s book and the analysis of groups of those works. If you dedicated your life to academics and the study of these things you could do the same things 🤷🏾‍♂️ Peterson is a jungian philosopher not a Peterson philosopher. He didn’t originate these analysis of stories and religious text. When he expresses his own ideas I find them much less compelling

Now ask yourselves what would you do if you had maleficents power here on earth what would you out of your free will, remember you have the power of a god to do what you want?

When I found out that logic, STOIC logic, the stuff the Greek's used to practically ground all of mathematics, that modern day computers operate with as their core principle... was taught in colleges as a_humanities_ course, because it was abstract ""philosophy,"" I knew the education system was floundering. You can't _get_ any more STEM-related than stoic logic. Concrete, the literal substance from which the metaphor gets its meaning is chemically defined with Greek atomism, and logical principles that operate on those related axioms. No wonder people don't recognize what the humanities were meant to encompass, any longer. They've lost track of what the philosophical concept of abstraction points to. In his own way, I sense that Dr. Peterson is bringing it back. What does real actually entail, in life? He talks about stuff that's real... and it's stories from religious mythos, of all things.

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@@tbrownflee3124 thanks, I don’t get much feedback, positive feedback is even more scarce than hens teeth!

Modern computers are based on a Chinese Mathematic

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Mine too

Haha, I've said that too. :) He's a great internet dad.

Tremendous Lobster Daddies!

Dude same

It's fun that you can have a sense of humor about it.

Awesome advice, Tommy! =D

Never look for a wife in a bar.

Agreed about videp, though notice that rqually true she met you in a bar, and married you six months later. That would make me feel like someone worth jumping at when first seen.

Hi, might u give me some insight of what it means to tell someone the truth when u know they can run away?

@Covah Redro Correct.

@Covah Redro bit of a leap, don't you think ? If no, still not helpful.

very real for those of us who grew up with fearful and narcissistic parents.

The truth is close relationship with mother makes the son mentally stronger .The first female validation is good for improving coping skills

@Covah Redro describes the stagnation left behind by absent fathers.

Nailed it.

Oh snap.

Very good. *""Someone who will stay with you""* Short short version of the moral of the story for any who are brainstorming on how to distort the message to justify ignoring it.

Not really. It's not about being entitled, it'd be more accurate to say that the seeds represent ignorance, and while you're blind to reality people will take advantage of you, and waking up too late to reality because of real responsibility later in your life like say a child of your own will end up in terror and confusion.

Let's be honest, he is not a king, just a charlatan pretending to be one (kings don't have sex with sleeping women, that's very irresponsible and kings are masters of self-responsibility). Two immature people got together and the more immature blaming another for being immature, boring story mate... victimhood mentality is shining.

But this is rather misleading for two reasons a) She was asleep... a person who is asleep cannot "pick" someone else and b) Technically if you just meet a sleeping woman and have sex with her without consent...thats rape. So it even accurate to say that she picked him? It was unfortunate event but I dont think it relates to a woman not pulling her weight.

...why?

@@CreativeUsernameEh Because Frozen is an awful movie that deserves to be purged from human memory.

I kinda wish Peterson described more on why he didn't like Frozen and what it was propaganda for. I know I didn't like Frozen, but it was more of a dissatisfied feeling in the gut and I wish he could help me articulate why it was like that.

@@theranger8668 Essentially that women and men don't need each other to be complete. Its "A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle." for little girls. It left you unsatisfied because it was trying to communicate something you instinctively know is untruth. Satisfaction comes from consuming a piece of media that communicates truth. If there is no truth then there is no satisfaction.

@@theranger8668 he talks about this in other videos. Frozen is not archetypal at all. Its also not art. When an artist creates something they don't really know how its going to turn out but the process takes them there. Propaganda is "art" that has a planned or rigged ending. A fixed message that was determined beforehand. Thats why frozen is propaganda. And it doesn't feel real or true because its not archetypal and it doesn't make sense. It just doesnt resonate with you.

Excellent idea to adjust the speed. Thankyou!

What's the point of having children, if you can't select their marriage partners on their behalf? (I'm kidding, of course...)

At the end there, I said it: "Holy. Shit." it was that good

What about the other half of the time?

I would like an update on your case, partly because I am experiencing something somewhat similar.

Update? It does sound like a bad idea but idk the context so maybe this is exactly what you need? Really depends

@@uberhaxonova still rocky, good days more than not, but not-steadily improving, but Small Sample Size based on WWIII happening.

I’m pretty sure the verse you’re referring to says something more along the lines of “If two men are fighting and one of their wives comes out and grabs the assailant by the genitals in order to stop the fight, she gets her hand cut off.” I’m not sure what that symbolizes but Jordan could probably figure something out.

I agree, I am a woman and I dont stand for feminism at all! I think its toxic.

Is that the fault of feminism though, or living in a society where both the husband and wife have to work outside the home full time to afford to live, with the oft unspoken understanding that the wife is still responsible for all the housework and child-rearing when her shift ends? Who would sign up for that? I know that I myself am much happier in a relationship with traditional roles, but men don’t value women as women anymore. They’re expected to do everything a man does, everything a woman is supposed to do, and then rarely receive affection and intimacy while their partner is glued to their phone or game systems. It’s sad. Imagine being a woman who is the breadwinner financially, cooks every night, does the dishes, cleans, repairs things around the house, and on top of that, always has to initiate intimacy and is often rejected because their man’s libido is gone or used up by an endless supply of pornography one woman can’t compete with. Attempting to have conversations about these tasks go nowhere and drives resentment through the roof, because most people aren’t interested in working harder when they know their partner will pick up the slack- until it all falls apart. It’s incredibly depressing. This isn’t just a feminism problem.

@@soccermommyNPC you both have really really great points!!!!! In a idealistic world… man and woman reign equality, making up for where one lacks… but I also feel that, in continually covering another’s weaknesses without challenging them for growth, makes one an enabler…and the beings or circumstances on the receiving end of that unchallenged weakness becomes the ones to suffer? My mother has always told me… marriage brings out everything. The complete best of who one is and the complete worst. If a person is not prepared to deal with the worst of who they are, they should not get married. So my perception of marriage was that it’s supposed to help one to grow while also knowing that you will not be rejected for their flaws… So what is this suffering that is implied. That’s a strong word… Sacrifice, I understand, compromise too…. But suffering!!?!?! And what is the source of suffering? Is it from the union itself, external factors???? I also agree with you…. That our current conditions leave both men and women to carry the same work load…. Yet, our individual internal systems still exclaim, that it is indeed the woman’s responsibility, to manage the household… Instead if it being seen as shared the workload then there also needs to be shared household responsibilities because one person can’t to everything. I believe, it is hardwired that most men believe, that because they are the man/ therefore head of household/ therefore should be served and worshiped as such. Even though the woman may carry equal if not more responsibility in the family unit, “ because you are woman and me man, you beneath me, do what I say!!!” I noticed these views are subconscious ( or not) lol But a good leader (as is said) “ leads by example” He should demonstrate his expectations and if he has joined with a quality person , will teach and mimic that example….. You’re both valid in seeing two different societies… I see three. I first see the society that says the younger and more beautiful you are as a woman the less you should have to do in life…….and you are first on the list to be taken care of because you are the most desirable. So women then go on a rampage to get lifts, tucks and fillers so they can look young enough and sexy enough to attract some “High value” ( as everybody calls it) Baller status man………… and Men are out here looking for a piece of arm candy, judge a woman by her looks instead of her character. Determining if she is worth taking care of, by how good she makes him look… To me this is what is described “ traditional roles” She’s pretty, so he’s willing to go broke for her, and she’s at home waiting for him to get there so that she can be available for what he wants……just as long as he gives her money to spend. After she finds a more profitable deal and it’s discovered that SHE is a She-devil with a bad attitude and selfish behaviors, HE is then shocked and appalled, and then deems all women useless users. SHE , continues to be a snotty and manipulative, because she has been conditioned, to believe that others will put with her crap because she is beautiful. Yet these women have learned the art of entitled passive aggressive innocence ( now classified as (femininity ) because they know they can get what they want because of looks. This is not all beautiful people, this is just the general census to me. Then, there is the society that says, “ If you are a hair less beautiful than the most beautiful, you are expected to pull more weight in a relationship” Hence the question “ What do you have to bring to the table?” Is recited to those women. These women understand this and recognize that they have to work. They have to educate themselves, pull their own weight. Although These women may possess a tender and kind heart…they have developed a hard shell of independence and strength, classified as defiance because they demand respect for what they have contributed to society and to their relationships….. NO ONE, takes care of her… The men of these women say, It doesn’t matter how much you’ve contributed, I am still in charge of YOU because I am the MAN. You’re going to pull your weight, pay my way and still submit to me” That is a recipe for disaster. Some of these men, unfortunately… for their known reasons ( a soft heart, ignorance, poor decision making or whatever ) have been victims of the “ Beautiful ones” the “ She- devil” So they get the “ working woman” treat her with distain because of his previous experience …….then complain that women don’t know how to submit, don’t know their place. All while using her resources to attempt to live like the baller. The “ working woman” wasn’t afforded the same luxuries and the “ beautiful one” because of the shallowness of men and SHE has almost a hate for men because she being used for what she has and is still not valued for who she is. My parents marriage did not workout. My sister and I are the oldest. Both of my brothers are in a relationship one is married one engaged.. They have seen examples of the “ working woman” and outwardly has the most forward thinking as far as relationships and women go…… but I still see subconscious chauvinistic behaviors from them. That they are to be revered obeyed and served. I heard my mom tell one brother why is he waiting till “his woman” gets off work for her to go to the store by dinner and come home a cook it. She suggested that he took care of that while she was working to help benefit the family but It didn’t even dawn on him to it …. His subconscious system tells him that it’s her responsibility. On the flip side the women in their lives, no matter how hard they work, how much money they earn, feels that my brothers should take care of them… So what I see, is Societal expectations, our life experience, our subconscious expectations based on our values, often clash and then we reward another with our pain… I feel like until we unlearn unhealthy mindsets…….. enter into relationships with the mindset to give instead of the intent to harbor with selfishness… We’ll just go around and around. We’ve been conditioned……..There is always that RARE unicorn relationship somewhere…….. 🤷🏽‍♀️👀

@@soccermommyNPC Well, yes. Why do you think it got so expensive. With women in the workforce, the opportunity to charge more money came to the forefront. Inflation was also an added factor of the increase in the workforce. The 2nd wave of feminism especially. Women wanted to be like men in all ways regarding the ability to make money, which isn't a bad idea on paper but like I said, inflation and the increase in the cost of living more than doubled, and children have suffered terribly, both under the public school system and psychologically from not having parents around. That's why parents have no respect at all today; because both parents are simply not around. It is one thing for dad to be out providing for the home, but when both are working- there us no home, just a house full of children.

MISUNDERSTOOD feminism kills marriage, not feminism.

This entire video ----> Your Head

That's what I don't understand, the morals of frozen are there, they're just more obscure as far as I can tell. I would like to know why it's as if they're no there at all, I don't get it. Not that I liked the movie, just my observation

Life is pretty much the SAW movie. Except we don't notice it because the movie spans across 80 years.

Two real friends are better than 100 acquaintances.

@@mingusboodle I agree

Link to the full lecture is pinned to the top of the comment section

That's what I do...so long assholes, you can't make me miserable anymore.

It’s the only option when you marry into the wrong family

I can like both.

@@CreativeUsernameEh Clean your room.

9:04

Profound.

I just saw your comment as I was thinking how amazingly close he comes to Pope John Paul II's Theology of the Body. It's quite uncanny really, but his explanation of the creation of mankind, and then their creation as male and female (mankind basically split) and the purpose of marriage being to unite the two into the complete " imago Dei"...it was crazily spot on considering he's atheist. The way I was taught about the Holy Trinity saying"Let us make man in our image" is not so much the hermaphrodite deity who is both male and female. Male and female is the bodily way that the beauty and wholesomeness and creative power of God is shown in His creation. In summary the eternal Father eternally begets the Son (who is not more/less/after the Father) and the two, confronted by the Perfection and Beauty of the other eternally sigh their Love- the Holy Spirit. The Athanasian symbol lays this out, and Fulton Sheen writes beautifully to explain it. Perhaps the reason why we are taught to simply believe it as a mystery first (because there has to be some deep study of it as one grows) is to avoid the many wrong ways of understanding and soon "domesticating" the mysteries of God. It's tempting to bring God "down to my level of understanding" rather than contemplate what He has revealed of Himself and grow in the knowing and loving of God. St Thomas Aquinas , who ranks among the highest in theology and philosophy, was keenly aware that his Summa Theologiae barely scratched the surface of his choice of study. An example is our language - so limited is it that we find ourselves giving God gender because that's how generative/creative power appears in nature. But nature is part of God's creation,not the other way around, so our language for nature is not equipped for the infinity of God - so we do what we can, which many times consists in being clear about what God is not rather than being able to fully express what He is. Growing up in the Church also helped me reconcile cultural worship and religion with the fullness of Revelation in Jesus Christ. There is a seed of truth in all traditional cultures - God provided that so that one would recognize the fulness of Truth when it was brought to them. Not very much of my cultural practice of religion is at odds with the Christian faith, in fact there are numerous parallels with Judaism as expressed in the Old Testament. Once those elements are corrected, I can inculcate the principles of following Christ, and worship of the Holy Trinity into every day life. I enjoyed reading your comments.

Right, now read up on speculative Freemasonry, Hermetics, And particularly Gnostic mythology.

After you finish reading The Marriage of Heaven and Hell make sure to great The Great Divorce by C.S. Lewis.

Don't feel judged. We'll just let you go, let you go!

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