I quite understand what the man is saying. Informing your partner is very important because you both have to create room for preparation and adjustment as well.
Akanni is a very factual guy, and I like and respect him speaking his truth and expressing his mind. I love your videos. I personally love my privacy and don't like anyone in my space. Even to make phone calls, you will not be able to do it anywhere in your house. I'm a single mum and have my mum with me for 5 months and God knows this is the last time she will come to stay for this long. I love my privacy and space and hope that my future partner respects my opinion and feelings on this topic of relatives or friends staying for longer than a week and maximum 1 month.