YOUR BIG SIS IN CHRIST 💗| missing people we shouldn’t, making a mess, the music industry!? 

Thank you sis... No turning back to toxic relationships. Lord give us strength in Jesus'name. Amen

I laugh then cry when I hear this word I have a ex I was with for 5 years who cheated on me he recently call two days ago to come back it's been a year we broke up and I love him but I see he still not ready so I keep my distance and pray for him thank u

Your Music sounds incredible sister . God knew I needed you this season in my life , Your video’s are like therapy sessions ❤ God bless you in Jesus name ❤

I missed my ex this weekend. We separated after living together for 5 years, I wasn’t a Christian back then. So it was like a divorce to me. He treated me badly but God reminds me why he delivered me from him. I am so thankful 🥲 for the Lord ❤

Yes! Missing toxic people for the good times is hard, especially when kids are involved. Count your blessings you don't have to deal with that component 😂 However, thinking about what separated you in the first place makes you get those thoughts out real quick and say... I'll pass! Ha. Anyway, thanks for the chat ❤

I moved on a friendship by the grace of God and I’ve been seeking the Lord ever since. She wasn’t toxic but the person I was with her wasn’t my best self. We would gossip, complain about everything and dive into new age so our association was definitely toxic. I can’t say she was a bad person or a bad friend and I love to think that God also removed me from her life so that she also can grow, find him and be some her best self too. I miss her sometimes and forget about all the toxicity we had but if she’s meant to be in my life God alone will bring her back. I still pray for her and wish her the best. I wanted to start creating content but the way most of the creators I was consuming are dealing with mental health issues is just scaring me so so much even though I know we are not all the same. I’m going back to the Lord again with that idea and letting him decide. I know with a doubt that everything God does is for our best and for his glory. Thank you so much for this message ❤

Hey I want you to know that you have lots of love over here in my Christian community in Nigeria ♥️♥️

I had learned this lesson this week but the toxicity I held was a different type of relationship. When I realized "Is there anyone here to condemn you"... "Neither do I" ❤ the way these words from Lord Jesus set me free, I feel a burden lifted

Wow! This message is speaking so clearly to me, especially towards the latter end when you discuss career goals. I’ve recently acknowledged the importance of seeking Christ in everything you do, rather than your own personal gain; it hugely impacts the depth and growth of your desires and God truly does provide for you regarding your interests when you redirect your mindset to serve Him rather than yourself. Thank you for this! God bless🩵✨

Wow yes! It is so amazing to see how God turns messy situations we created for our good 😭🙏. He is the only person who deeply understands us more than we understand ourselves. Your journey with the Lord is so beautiful . Thank you for using your platform to share your journey so honestly. I feel like you are a big sister to me who God gave me at a very important season in my life ❤

Hi Deborah 🙂 None of us have led a perfect life, with perfect decisions all the time. All we can do is listen to our elders, read our Bible and consider everything. Sin is everywhere; daytime television, advertising, celebrity culture, magazines, it's everywhere. At least we know that you speak the Truth. I hope your week is progressing well. 🙏

I smiled so hard when you said, “we’re a messy bunch of kids”-we are and He’s still so in love with us😂❤

I love you honesty really because sometimes people think wen you render your life to Christ we're transformed overnight but it's a journey as you said we just have to trust God completely but not our strength..❤ thanks 😊🙏

Hi Debbie❤ You should sing your songs on your channel. I mean like the full full version😊 You are talented. Love your songs at the end of the video ❤ I’m sure God will use your music to bless so many lives

I loved when talked about the toxic person I've been dealing with the enemy tormenting my mind bout a dude who took my virginity when I was 14 and constantly kept unblocking me and blocking me for years playing mind games with me and i'm 19 now and just kinda don't wanna be reminded of it anymore but it's so hard and also with cutting all secular music out as well.

All your videos are so profound and encouraging. They really instill hope and Godly love. Thank you 🌸

Heyyy, I’ve been going through some stuff recently and it seems like i forgot who i was but while watching your video i felt God saying to me “remember who you are”. We are similar in quite a lot of things. You said you grew up without a father…girl same here and you said you make music….that’s a passion of mine. I’m still quite young for that but i feel like i cant leave this earth without making music. Thank you so much for allowing yourself to be used by the Holy Spirit

Deborah, - I came across your YT Channel in the middle of a faith fight for an apartment God promised me. There was delay, doubt and quite frankly I felt so 'lost' in the mist of that situation. I thank God for you, your boldness, your testimony of faith that encouraged me in that season. You are all together lovely! Hope to meet you in person some day, PS. A sister in Christ from New York :) xoxo --

So true , sometimes our minds revert to toxic previous relationships. Distracting ourselves from past wrong relationships is quite helpful though

Sometimes it’s hard to be alone and when those thoughts about the past got you it can hurt really bad but remember that you have THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON who loves you endlessly how no human being could -> JESUS ❤❤❤

The timing of this is perfect. Thank you ❤❤❤

THANK YOU SIS!!!🤩

So bless to be apart of your journey 🎉❤

Thank God for rescuing us from places where we don't belong, lets pray for those people that don't know the Lord or His goodness the way we do that they come to find Him and His everlasting love. Deborah, your hair is beautiful, the loose hairs make it even more beautiful and natural. Catching up on your videos, glad I found your content. God bless! 🙏🏽💜🙏🏽

I’m currently going through this right now 😭 & the worst part is that I let him back in but I’ve been feeling so anxious since talking to him. This video came at the right time!

You’re incredible ❤ please keep going! Your messages have been resonating so well and I discovered you at the perfect time in my life 🙏

I’m so grateful you’ve come into my life. Your light is so bright! Thank you for all of your insight ❤

Thank you so much sis I just wanted to say I've only been watching you for less than a day but I've been going through some anxiety and doubts and struggling with my faith a bit and you make me feel close to God and I feel connected to you, keep it up! This channel is so amazing and beautiful! :)

I love the childhood analogy because I tell God all the time that I don’t know how he puts up with me because I feel like sometimes I have to be knocked on the head before I understand what he is trying to say and oh how I get the feeling of wanting to revisit the toxic person thing! I have been there several times and it is hard to just cut those ties but thank goodness that the Lord helps us through it.

Came right on time, God bless you!!

I wanna thank God for letting me see this and I wanna thank you for giving us advice for letting us know that we need to rely on the Lord I’m new to watching your channel and I thank God for what He has been doing in your life I’m thankful that I came across this video and girl I was crying when you started talking that’s the Holy Spirit in you and I’m gonna be watching more of your videos but what you said in this video was so true and especially on messing others and thinking about others God has removed out of your life you gave me something that I need to pray about ❤️🙏🏽

thank you so much for this❤❤God bless you I absolutely love this channel

Love your videos so much girl keep doing your thing, God bless you❤️❤️

I found your channel yesterday and have been binge watching all the videos I’m literally obsessed, forever grateful for these videos

I needed this so much! i’ve recently been struggling w appreciating this new era God has blessed me w bc i’m reminiscing on my past w ppl even though ik God isolated and broke off that contact for a reason. i criticized myself so much for feeling this way and just hearing that it’s something that u also struggle w means so much to me. thank you for being vulnerable and using this platform to share these messages❤

Thank you sis for your light and your words! I’m so thankful I found your channel! 💕💕💕

The expressed delivery is my favorite saying of this video🌹 God bless you!!

This is so timely! I needed to hear this right now. Our God is so good😢. Thankyou Jesus! Thankyou Deborah, God bless you! 🤍

Thank you so much, this video came right on time. It's the answer to a question I haven't even had the courage to ask God. Rain of blessings on your life, may love, peace and joy abound in it.

Yes! Ooh, I got chills with the singing in the end! Such a beauty with a beautiful voice! I loved your point about being utilized as a vessel of God, working for/with God in mind, and seeing results in your individual dreams that way (i.e., us hearing your music through these videos). I love that

Thanks for this one💓 This was super refreshing, and the outro was sooo good❤ God bless you as he has used to bless us, sister❤

This video was incredibly helpful! I've been struggling with this, and you talking about it cleared things up for me. Thanks a lot!

Today’s video was such a breath of fresh air, fresh vibe! You’re so beautiful Deborah…and your voiceee? 🤌 chefs kiss❤ as well I loveee the boldness on your short music industry talk…so much is happeninggg….God bless you 🫶

So lovely dear Deborah. Thank you so much for sharing big sis!

I need to hear your outro song in FULL, it's so beautiful! Love your videos!

You're truly a blessing Deb. Blessings ❤ Much love from Kenya.......

Oh my gosh where has this message been for me in the last five years dealing with this and thank you for being obedient and posting for us to relate to

Another video that so deeply resonates❤ Also thank you for confirming that that is actually your song at the end of the video, I sing along each time lol

Deborah, this entire video from beginning to end. I have been battling with thoughts about my ex it has gotten a lot less and less. But I continue to redirect my thoughts. Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing. Sis, this natural hair in this heat smh, I feel you!!!! I also have stopped listening to secular music as well because the lyrics are scary and it's not anything to take lightly. I have a love for Jazz music and I have been praying for that because it doesn't have words and It really eases my anxiety and makes me happy. Thanks again for another great video!!

OMG!!! You are the Best , I swear I’ll call you big Sis forever!! Always remind yourself that you are a blessing. ! PERIOD ‼️

Debx ...I want you to know that you're the sister I never had ♥️🤗.Thank you for letting God use you .

I love listening to you while I workout! It’s my time for me and God and you have motivated me so much within my journey! I have a long way to go but I am so glad I am able to learn through you & I know I will get to where God wants me to be! ❤

Your song is amazing, Love ❤️ it!

Heyyy Little Big Baby Sis! Spot on great conversation, agree hard to keep the heart and the mind in sync when relationships fail. This guy's been down that road, sadly. Still learning. Love the talk! ✨

Great message! You are always on point discussing situations that a lot of us are dealing with. May God continue to bless you and keep you safe.

I pray I always be around you. Thank you sis, I have been through alot and now am most times alone with no one to talk to expect the holy spirit or when am serving God but literally I have no one I see around me, someone you expect could call or talk to you or listen so some times I end up missing people I shouldn't miss and yes sometimes it's truly truly really hard. So thanks for sharing

Dear Deborah, your videos are really healing to me and so timely! God definitely knows what I need to hear and I’m so thankful he speaks through you. Have a blessed week! Side note, your music is fireeee

Great Inspiration Sis Deborah . God Bless !!

The amount of confirmation and reliability in this video is mind blowing! TY Jesus 🙌🏼 & sis I can't wait until God provides the inspiration and vision for how you to use your gift because I'm sure it will be such a blessing! Im looking forward to your upcoming music release 🙏🏼

Very grateful for you and your channel, it’s helping me stay focused! Your voice in BEAUTIFUL

I'm so happy to hear that you'll eventually go back to making music! I searched so hard for your outro song after watching the being single for 26 years video (which I loved btw), until I found it and I'm so happy to have found it, I could relate so deeply to your songs and they truly are helping me go through some stuff and feelings I would otherwise try to ignore, thank you for helping me heal and come to terms with things through your videos and songs, I was so positively surprised when I realized you were the one singing them! God bless you and your talents 🥰🥰

Your music is great and I love your channel sis ❤❤ God bless you always

Thank you for your vulnerability and honestly. Got it. This video was speaking to me through your God bless🙏🏾🙏🏾

Thank you sis!

Hello Deborah! 😊 Helpful word! 🙏

this word is proof that i am really not alone wow

Thank you! Yes I feel I created a mess and I feel God is not walking me out of the mess and free fall I created.

While I was watching this video someone I knew from the past texted me and immediately you began talking about remembering memories from the past. GOD is using you Deborah keep on doing what you are doing. ❤

Hi, Deborah. I really struggle with this issue at the moment. Your words speak to my heart. Thank you.

Sis may God continue to use you greatly. Love from your sis all the way in South Africa ♥

Amen. We all go through our struggles but we just have to have faith and trust in the lord and know that he's always with us by our side to help us🙏🏾

That's what made me not want to pursue the music as a career cause the devil is all up in through the music. I just rather praise God for free than to get caught up in the music industry and idolatry. Thank you for this video and speaking on this. The topics you speak on is what should be talk about and I am seeing so many videos on youtube about this kingdom spouse and your spouse is coming. The counterfeit like what? Like you better chase after God and care about that relationship cause that's the most important. People being deceive by the enemy left and right.

Thank you for your transparency in this video, it's helped me a ton! We need more girl chats for sure

You're a God sent big sister 🥺❤️ I pray God blesses you always. I was literally talking to God about this yesterday, and I prayed about it.

Miss Deborah through God for the win! This was a real gut punch for me, as I have been abandoned by most of my birth family for years. And like you, it was partially due to my choices. It it excruciating when it's your almost 80 year old mother, I struggle with God not wanting me to have a relationship with her. That's tough. But I know I am blessed by many others in my life. I am a work in progress but I am coming along, thanks be to God. I am thankful to be part of the family here. I pray all blessings to you, I do not have a blood sister but I have sisters in Christ. Take care.

I am in awe at how someone so young as yourself is so wise🥰 I accidentally (but with God there no such thing as an accident 🤗😉) I came onto your channel... I was in a state that day, listened to your wisdom and fell into tears of emotion and humbling praise. I thank God you exist may His grace and favor be always upon you. God bless you .. hugs

I’ve heard your music and you are an amazing artist. I pray for you to find a path where you can do what you love without all this bad stuff in the music industry.

Today during my bible study I got Nehemiah 9: 26-31. To add on your first message, the commentary on these verses sometimes we turn away from God but he has never ending compassion is quick to hear our cries in the mess that we are in whether disciplinary from Him or our own. And just like His chosen people, we repeatedly turn from Him and EVERYTIME He hears our cries and rescues us. And I love that He doesn't wait for us to correct ourselves before He pulls us close. All we have to do is see that we don't belong in a pig sty and He is just there to welcome. We don't have to fix ourselves, join a church, and serve Yada Yada Yada He loves us even as messy as we are

Hearing your music at the end of the video is very refreshing,beautiful ❤

Thank you🙏🏽. I’ve been going through a lot lately, especially the whole night (it’s currently 6am in South Africa). I couldn’t sleep just bothered by my thoughts and all the things going on. I watched a different video of yours about expecting from God then I saw this and I just couldn’t stop crying. I cried, I laughed, girl it was a rollercoaster but I’m glad I watched the video. Truly feel like you’re my big sis❤️. Thank you, Deborah❤️. PS: the part that made me laugh the most was the example of kids making a mess😭😭😂😂😂. That is INDEED us🙆🏽‍♀️.

Loved this video, definitely hit home. Also funny you mentioned music because I realized some songs I used to listen to were like triggering me and reminding me of situations I need to heal from. Had to stop listening to those songs to start moving forward 🙏

I am absolutely grateful that I came across your yt channel,you have really helped me build my relationship with God,you are indeed the big sister in Christ that I was praying for,may God keep using you to bring people closer to him,all love Deborah💗

You are definitely a vessel of the Lord. I am going through this right now. You are speaking directly to me..Thank you. God bless🙏🏾

Hey Deborah just sending you some love and light today May god continue to bless you❤️

Hey sis🥺 I’ve been feeling God calling me to get on a platform to share the revelations He gives me as well as the Gospel. It’s been a heavy burden on my heart to see lost souls saved and at the end when you said you actually contemplated starting a channel, I resonated heavily with that. I’ve been questioning whether now’s the right time. I’ve also been so worried about the views and what not. But I don’t want to start until I have the right motives. Of course I primarily want to see more souls saved but the fact that I’m worried about numbers is what’s bothering me. I love you as always Debs. I wish I could see you😭❤️. Love from Zambia🇿🇲

I totally agree with music part (the rest too haha but I wanted to acknowledge that specific part) - I don’t get how people can listen to music filled with so much evil like Doja Cat that you mentioned. I’m so glad you mentioned it because I see that so many people,even Christians don’t care about what music their listen to at all. And you also motivated me to search for some new Christian tunes 😇 Thank you for your videos 🤍

Let me tell you something. THIS came right on time. Thank you sister

Your videos always bless me❤❤❤❤❤❤

Thanks for reminding me how loving and kind God is....I'm going to order the book you mentioned Deborah ❤

Please im so glad you listened to God and made this channel! Im one of your sisters whom God has blessed through you 😊❤ Also your voice!!!! A gift from God 💯%!!!!

i love you girl, recently started to watch you but the holy spirit in you is real

This entire video for meeee❤️❤️❤️ thank you Jesus

Giirlll... this is so funny, but i really think we're in the same season going through the same things!! But as always, God is gracious en leidt ons elke keer weer❤

I needed to see this! Currently going through a small heartbreak.

Wow your music is amazing!! Love your videos 🙌🏽

Thank you, sis Deborah. Addictive dependency to the toxic past is a reality that reveals much impact of soul ties. I keep asking myself, "Do we continue with these memories in the hope that we will use our kingdom spouses when they come to finally accept the deliverance from Christ, and thus use them(future partners) as social blankets maybe? How fair would I be to the potential person if I keep my memories of the former toxic? Do I understand that God in His love demands faithfulness beyond forgiveness? Thank you for this continued awesome work. The Lord will continue to bring us to recognize the readily available help. Keep advancing, sister Deborah.

Thanks, my baby sister ❤❤❤❤

thank you deborah, please 🙏🏻 help me with my health anxiety. i want to focus on my prayer instead of worrying about my health.

I love you sister !!!

I love your music and your voice it’s a beautiful talent and it will not go to waste one way or another.