Your Ex Falls Back In Love When You Reveal THIS

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ALERT FROM CLAY ANDREWS! Your Ex Falls Back In Love When You Reveal THIS!
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Wanting desperately to get back together right away often causes people to be blind to the circumstances of the situation. Oftentimes, the harder you try, the more put off your ex might get.
In this video, Clay Andrews will help you realize what you need to do to get your ex-boyfriend or ex girlfriend back or answer how to make your ex fall in love with you again. He explains how you can leverage VULNERABILITY in a good, non-scammy way & how bettering your relationship with ex can help you get your ex back.
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@jennyhaytch Год назад

These videos are great for showing me that we didn't have a relationship like that; open, communicative, trusting, and that I have much more to offer than what he was willing or capable of giving back emotionally in return. xx thank you

@ClayAndrews Год назад

Hi Jen, I appreciate your kind words. :-)

@thommymatty9684 3 года назад

Getting back with your ex for convenience? Nope. She has to earn that. I'm not a back up plan.

@SAMEntalhealth 3 года назад

Lmaoo look how girlie we sound on the other end "she gotta EARN ma trust mhhhhmm" lol

@guillaumecamara6058 2 года назад

It is exactly how I feel now

@PrincessAdobo 3 года назад

.....Wow! This spoke more beyond words. I’ve been having trouble on how to communicate my vulnerability and this really helped to bring things into perspective. Thank you Clay.

@ClayAndrews 3 года назад

You are so welcome. :-) Glad that this video resonates with you.

@ilyasse1250 3 года назад

Perfect timing

@SeaBee1223 3 года назад

I like that you make your videos short but straight to the point but easy to understand. Keep it up!

@ClayAndrews 3 года назад

Thank you. :-)

@vickiemcmanaman8221 Год назад

Thank you Clay your Advice is so rewarding 🙏🙏🙏💞

@tess7798 2 года назад

You’re the real deal. Thank you.

@hails.h9000 3 года назад

I learn so much from these videos thank you 🇦🇺💋

@preciousnxumalo4752 5 месяцев назад

Exactly Clay. The thing of power in relation to love and caring is a recipe for a turbulent relationship

@thesaraalavi 3 года назад

Genius! Yes 💯 a relief to see mature and excellent advice to follow - no games, pure genuine vulnerability is answer. Agreed!

@ClayAndrews 3 года назад

Thank you for the compliment, Sara. :-)

@kathyperrotta8675 6 месяцев назад

There's no one like Clay Andrews on RU-vid. He's the best guide when you need relationship advice. Thank you!

@BahaaSoliman Год назад

This is who I am, this is how I feel, this is what I like

@ben-travis1653 3 года назад

Hi @clayAndrews could you possibly speak on the “maybe in the future, see what happens” and the chances of them just softening the blow or keeping the door open or you being a back up plan would be greatly appreciated for a better understanding

@mikealouidor480 3 года назад

I love watching videos if you don't have any motivation and very understandable

@Giants143 3 года назад

Couldn’t agree more

@krakent8791 3 года назад

Yes she got back after I revealed my latest paycheck to her!

@audrey242424 3 года назад

😄🤣😂

@LaRueDuConsommateur 3 года назад

Lol

@AStark-dn6yh 3 года назад

😂

@faultless2837 2 года назад

🤣🤣🤣

@bkazii7834 2 года назад

Lmaooooo

@ks_swissmiss 3 года назад

Its about giving Love not receiving...that is because there is not enough self love...need to work on yourself first.

@robertmorgan2642 Год назад

Clay this advice about showing vulnerability is perfect as I had no idea how to do this. I will be meeting up with my ex again soon and have written these sentences on my phone to prompt me to say them. Wish me luck.

@ClayAndrews Год назад

All the best, @robertmorgan2642 :-)

@farhiaaddedadeed1836 3 года назад

I wish ppl were very nice am talking about 1985 good I remember ppl use help one another be abundance’s with your like if you visit someone house you show love this why a lot of ppl have shortage of love because they never spread love they want only to be loved

@rosie3749 3 года назад

I needed something like this!!!!

@DL-vibes 3 года назад

This is so on time. I feel like whether with an ex or new person this will help me reflect on my own actions and reasons why. Thanks ....again.

@ClayAndrews 3 года назад

You're welcome, DL. Thanks for watching our videos always. We truly appreciate that.

@DL-vibes 3 года назад

@@ClayAndrews I don’t have many guy friends so in a strange way I feel like your videos are speaking to me as if you were a guy friend and I feel like I can take away so much to offer a new beginning to whoever is out there for me.

@frankokline 3 года назад

Thanx man good stuffs

@ClayAndrews 3 года назад

Glad to help.

@buhlenkomo527 3 года назад

I love this channel it’s so solution oriented

@ClayAndrews 3 года назад

Thank you so much and we appreciate that you took the time to watch our videos. :-)

@acemany1126 3 года назад

Why is it so oriented? Is it because he's looks Oriental? 🤣

@endrehorvath9602 3 года назад

Hi Clay, thanks for the video, to bad it came a week to late :(. My ex reached out last week asking me for how long will i have a space for her in my heart and saying that she is tired of all the pain, I was comforting to her and tried to help her. Now I'm afraid i was to much of a "cool friend" rather than being vulnerable to. I just hope i didn't push her away.

@shirleymorales3161 Год назад

Be her hero and tell her !

@gemmahoang1162 3 года назад

Best timing and my ex/friend are doing well , we do odd we miss this together and miss being together sometimes and I can br very open with him but we are staying close friends, cause that is where we are for now . N we both need some time to be single.

@gemmahoang1162 3 года назад

I really hope u can do live chat on RU-vid too .

@ClayAndrews 3 года назад

HI Gemma, We do live streams inside our private member's only community. :-)

@welovee1680 3 года назад

Clay, how long was it before you and your now wife started saying you loved each other again?

@clairelittle9182 Год назад

Tried this, and I was told to move on 🥺

@ericalen920 3 года назад

Hi Clay, I have registered for personal planning & coaching, do you know how many days it takes for your team to process everything?

@ClayAndrews 3 года назад

Hi Erica, It's not my team that does the personal plan. I do it personally. Do give me enough time to process the information that you have provided so I can come up with the most appropriate plan for you. :-)

@verbalkint3447 2 года назад

The best ex video ove seen so far

@ClayAndrews 2 года назад

Thank you for the compliment. :-)

@AStark-dn6yh 3 года назад

I'm failing this in all sorts 😕 I can't get past the test drive stage.

@earthsecho4770 2 года назад

So is getting drunk by mistake , probably out of anxiety, negative vulnerability? Hadn't seen her in a few years and I passed out in the bar and she had to drive me home...

@Friponnepolissonne 3 года назад

It distances him when I do that. We are in contact daily, by text mostly. He had bursts of missing me and called me a lot and now it is less frequent. He used to tell me I love you after phone calls in the first months of the break up, now he does it on and off. I tried being positively genuine, and it seems to not make him closer but rather less warm...but he opens up more on his feelings toward things, never talks about his feelings about me, but tells me lots of hugs and ''I hug you''.

@ClayAndrews 3 года назад

Getting back together is a process that you and your ex will go through. The dynamics can change as the more the person reached the level of acceptance and healing. You can take this opportunity as a window to start from a clean slate instead of picking things up from where it left off.

@babaraelik3934 3 года назад

He helped me get my ex back a few days ago under 24 hours without any delay❤❤❤❤❤❤💕💕💕💕❤

@babaraelik3934 3 года назад

Whtzpp him*******

@babaraelik3934 3 года назад

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@Friponnepolissonne 3 года назад

@@babaraelik3934 You are just annoying people and it is so blatant that it is fake

@ShayCat 2 года назад

I wish I can have a script of your videos so I can use some of these words with my ex. I can't remember everything and suck at words :(

@ClayAndrews 2 года назад

Hi Shay, remember that scripts is something that we discourage for people to use. Remember that your personal, character and sincerity will show on the message that you send out to people. So instead of focusing on the scripts and templates, it is more essential to develop the needed skills so we can communicate things naturally with our ex. We can se scripts and template to develop an idea though. :-)

@sammonsterenergy1982 3 года назад

I'm still I early stages of getting my ex back..had a great chat last week and exchanged 3 texts since, she responds to my 1st text and then leaves me on read on the 2nd time....I know my ex said she wanted me to open up more...however when shes not communicating much its tough to be vulnerable to her...any suggestions?

@ClayAndrews 3 года назад

The best skill that you can apply here is awareness and being in the present moment. Be okay if the conversation is quite short for now, what is important is the consistency and quality of the interaction.

@huaweip8603 Год назад

Hey Brad I really need your help.....after no contact me and my ex talks again for a week or two and she let me help with her child and she has some cold and hot moments....we been on coffee today and after I take her home she hug me and then I kiss her twice but fast....she tells me :Dont start it again,isnt it better for us to stay friends? What should I do now?

@BrayeEvans 3 года назад

My ex and I are talking and sometimes hanging out. Things I do differently than how I would before she calls me weird. Is that a good thing ? Lol

@KAOSDEGHIS 3 года назад

I would just love to be hanging out with mine. I think that’s good to be called weird it means your different especially if you were never called weird

@jishnusen1470 Год назад

How did that happen? I mean how did you treat her and talk with her after the breakup?

@korbinshmidt5231 Год назад

My ex doesnt want to get back together. I text her everyday. We have a child together so it's hard to do no contact. Idk what to do. She left me saying we didnt go on many dates. Yet everytime I tried it was turned down. She says she wants to have fun. She claims to still love me but not in love. She says we can talk about anything but she never opened up to me about anything ever. Idk what to do. I want her back but it seams shes not willing or want to at all try nd work on things

@vengmawngtlangval1493 3 года назад

👍

@stevenrigione2051 3 года назад

How does one implement theses strategies when your ex ghosted you?

@ClayAndrews 3 года назад

Hi Steven, we have to be realistic that some of the strategies may not be implemented the soonest due to the reality of the situation. If your ex had ghosted you, you have to reflect on the core reason why the breakup happened. Is your personal values still aligned with the person who ghosted you?

@jeanlee584 3 года назад

Can you also make a video about an ex who came back and i gave her another chance then she left me for someone else again. She monkey branched for the 2nd time. Something like that.

@ClayAndrews 3 года назад

Try doing the 5x5 list to assess the person that you are trying to get back with. In that way,. you would be able to assess if your personal values still match with his character and the quality of relationship that you both have.

@ryanbeemer6263 3 года назад

Hello Clay, How's come my ex fiancee is always reaching out and contacting me? She's the one that left me, cheated, lied n etc... Told ppl she hated me, don't love or want me, never coming back, claims she don't love me, want me, don't want to fix us n etc... Then why is she always reaching out and contacting me if that's true? Why bother contacting me, when you know where I stand and feel about things between us? I told her if that stuff is true, don't bother contacting me, or don't contact me if don't love me and want us to work and be together. So if you don't then don't contact me. She'll get mad block n unblock, again and again. Or make new accounts and contact me. Why? We'll stop talking for a couple days to a week to 2 weeks, this past one was 2 n half without. Then she contacts me again. Why? Explain this one, would love to see a video explaining this.... I feel she's lyings to me about her feelings towards me n us together.

@ClayAndrews 3 года назад

HI Ryan, I may not be able to exactly tell the reason of your ex, but the best way to know her own intention and reasons is to talk to her. Communicating will help both of you understand where you are coming from at the present moment. After all, the only person that holds the truth is only your ex. :-)

@ryanbeemer6263 3 года назад

@@ClayAndrews if you could, they best way you can, by things who've worked with to help would help. I've tried, but it's like she avoids it n answering. I have did research, about it, pretty much all says she's confused, confused about us, the break-up, her love and feelings for me, not being true to herself, contacts me because she really doesn't want to lose me, even though she left me. There was more... But would love to know more and better explained to me best that can be. But I enjoy your videos and learning, trying to apply them and work them not only on and for her, but to myself also. It's hard, cause it's like she don't want to talk about it, or even try to fix. Or she scared to. But yet she's always reaching out.

@clairefoxall2313 3 года назад

What about when they start texting you ever day ...morning etc .. I said are you being fair to us both texting everyday ...he said no your right ☹️. Not sure if I did right thing as now we have no communication. (Those are the wording he used when he said he couldn't give me what I wanted last year ..not being fair to each other!!.) I do say I liked hearing from him before though ☺️.

@clairefoxall2313 3 года назад

@Ice Queen don't you think it's best to both be truthful ! after breaking up then texting for months on end to what avail ??

@SAMEntalhealth 3 года назад

He's just obeying you tbh lol

@SAMEntalhealth 3 года назад

You didn't mess anything up. Feed him when he needs to be fed ;-) lol

@clairefoxall2313 3 года назад

Things are bk to the same as before...he still texting everyday asking how I am etc.

@user-ce8fh4kx5t 8 месяцев назад

Isn't putting them on the the pedestal

@hoodjaz4679 3 года назад

Hey clay, my ex replaced me with another ex girlfriend of his and am scared we might never get back together.

@ClayAndrews 3 года назад

Just to clarify, your ex went back to his ex girlfriend, is that correct?

@MilesLambos-ef1nt 2 года назад

You were a rebound

@badumtss5037 Год назад

if u were with him for longer maybe he just found the easiest person he could get

@jeezustheone 3 года назад

What if I broke trust?

@ClayAndrews 3 года назад

it sounds like we have to work on rebuilding that trust and confidence first.

@jeezustheone 3 года назад

@@ClayAndrews what if the person continues to beat the subject and makes is hard?

@danaaschbrenner7952 2 года назад

@rosie3749 3 года назад

I've tried to show my vulnerability but nothing zero response or any action. I'm at loss

@ClayAndrews 3 года назад

It's okay, Saba. Not all the time people responds to vulnerability instantly. More often, they also need some time to process the information.

@rosie3749 3 года назад

@@ClayAndrews I was thinking about writing him a letter of what I needed to do to save us.i initiated the BU. I believe we comeback each other though.