Your Hatred of Cringe Makes No Sense

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Is this video cringe? maybe lol
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Inspired by:
Cringeworthy: A Theory of Awkwardness by Melissa Dahl
"Why Everything You Do is Cringe" by HealthyGamerGG
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References/Sources:
RU-vid:
Why Everything You Do Is Cringe - HealthyGamerGG
News Articles:
Why we cringe, and why it can be a good thing - Angela Chen
I Talked to Strangers for a Week, and It Did Not Go Well - Melissa Dahl
The Psychology Of Cringe (And How To Work Through The Feeling) - Nancy Groves
Why Do We Cringe - Aditi Murti
The Unexpected Benefits of Cringing - Melissa Dahl
Papers:
Mayer, Annalina Valpuri, Frieder Michel Paulus, and Sören Krach. "A Psychological Perspective on Vicarious Embarrassment and Shame in the Context of Cringe Humor." Humanities 10.4 (2021): 110.
Books:
Cringeworthy: A Theory of Awkwardness by Melissa Dahl
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@renaigh Год назад

"Don't kill Cringe, kill the part of you that Cringes" - IDK

@vepply Год назад

pretty sure that was sun tzu, in "the art of war"

@ACF_Real Год назад

Man I’m going to blow myself up with an atomic bomb!

@nunisthathigh4825 Год назад

The real problem is people putting so much merit in the word "cringe." It's just a word. It doesn't mean anything other than, "I don't like it." In other words it's another way of saying, "I find it offensive," or, "I find it shocking," or, "I find it politically incorrect." It's a way of saying any of these three without sounding like a whiny infant that's throwing a temper tantrum over something as petty as unpopular ideas no less. It doesn't work on me though. I've seen through the bullshit spin a long time ago.

@oldhunterundol3243 Год назад

After seeing a grown man reck a restaurant while screaming about Rick and Morty I've built a tolerance to cringe

@svcky_svcker 11 месяцев назад

hey jokes aside this actually kind of hits

@mana44567 Год назад

i may be cringe, but i am free

@rayanna7188 10 месяцев назад

Same

@Someone-er1kc 10 месяцев назад

Took long for me to realise

@BobbyKennedy-ss5ts 6 месяцев назад

D0rk

@alialshaikh3711 5 месяцев назад

cringe

@buttfaceloser 4 месяца назад

^insecure coward

@pineapplefarmer7352 Год назад

"The cringe man thinks he is always based, but the based man knows he is often cringe" -Aristotle

@karlsoriso2304 Год назад

facts

@santolosa Год назад

based on what

@pineapplefarmer7352 Год назад

@@santolosa based on Joe

@MickulyashyYT Год назад

@@pineapplefarmer7352 whos joe

@pineapplefarmer7352 Год назад

@@MickulyashyYT joe rogan

@NegatingSilence 10 месяцев назад

The trend of people labelling too many things "cringe" is piss on the already dimming fire of creativity and individuality in western culture.

@buttfaceloser 4 месяца назад

Yup, that trend really killed a lot of friendships for me. I had one friend hand out a book on social intelligence and talk about it like it was his Bible. I had another friend that got a girlfriend that would always make comments about cringey stuff in a real passive aggressive way. I think the trend really affected girls more than guys. That trend felt like 1984 newspeak to me. Then we got all the alpha male propaganda which also ruined a lot of friendships with people obsessing about their status and looks. It only made people more shallow and unhappy. Social media has some benefits, but the negatives are abysmal to the point that suicide rates are increasing while the joy of life gets replaced by the politics of a kangaroo court.

@syntheticsilkwood2206 Год назад

Nothing authentic is cringe people are just insecure and basic af

@144chosen Год назад

This

@bebe8842 10 месяцев назад

spot on

@SirQuantization 7 месяцев назад

What if someone cringes at something because they think it’s inauthentic but they are mistaken?

@blackcat-fr6lu 5 месяцев назад

Cringe asf

@werecat9834 3 месяца назад

@@SirQuantization Dude, that was pure cringe. You made it.

@xem_ity 11 месяцев назад

my "how to avoid judging things you find cringe" foolproof method: 1. ask yourself, did the cringe kill your entire family and start world war 3? 3. react accordingly 2. profit

@cookiesyruplover Год назад

I hate cringing. I'm so self-conscious and I hate it. It's exhausting to be so judgemental and I'm aware of it happening and I try to stop my head from thinking or feeling this way but growing up in an environment that likes to gossip and likes to ostracize, it's a hard habit to kill. I hope it becomes the norm to be more accepting with authenticity, along with being able to tell what's authentic or not. Great video btw, love the editing and visuals. Like that part about us having different versions of ourselves in other people's head segment. Short but straight to the point.

@aliveslice Год назад

What if you cringe at something you do not find authentic

@thequestion3953 Год назад

Hey buddy, just to let you know you’re never going to stop cringing and feeling awkward. The thing to do is to be able to sit with these feelings without allowing them to drive your behaviour. We’re humans were built to feel emotions, no way around it.

@simonsanchezkumrich8489 Год назад

Use mindfulness with those thoughts and feelings. Works like a charm

@shuvame Год назад

man i damn near cried reading this so fuckin real

@ragmamale4783 Год назад

Woah you just described a part of me.

@TarzanHedgepeth Год назад

Usually, I’m the cringe. And I do not care. That is your problem. Which is what let’s me be so cringe…

@Pandcakes936 Год назад

I like the way you think. I'm cringe and corny, but it's liberating. Find people who embrace who you are and vice versa.

@soundacresstudio 9 месяцев назад

I find your spacing cringe I Feel as though I could learn how to enhance M. Y cringe by 🙌

@TarzanHedgepeth 9 месяцев назад

@@soundacresstudio Yes, you could.

@Cheddarwars 7 месяцев назад

The fact I read the comment in a robotic voice makes it better

@TarzanHedgepeth 7 месяцев назад

@@Cheddarwars *The fact that I did not use any contractions between “I’m” and “let’s” makes it even cringier.* static beep

@chick2d Год назад

I wish you were more popular, this is the kind of content which makes me feel less alone because so many people end up believing in so many things Also your content is just plain brilliant and your storytelling is honestly amazing, thank you

@georgiagalaxy Год назад

^_^

@HopefulMathGirl Год назад

I agree. Thanks for expressing it so well.

@tristanmorris9556 Год назад

Did you read my mind? I've legit been seriously thinking about what an uptight, awkward person I am (and logically I know people around me don't care as much as I do), and this video came at a perfect time! This really helped push me to get out of my comfort zone and face my cringe fears. 😂 I love how short and simple and straight to the point your videos are. Keep it up man!

@DaRocketGuy Год назад

Dude i was just about to comment the same thing, slowly realizing a lot more people than i thought share the same thoughts as me is really eye opening

@tristanmorris9556 Год назад

@@DaRocketGuy we're all connected some form or another :)

@Sentimectal 23 дня назад

Nah bro cringe have meaning maybe you cringe to people breathing air so you don't know why you cringe noob

@HopefulMathGirl Год назад

I feel really sad that I have lost my authentic self and can't express myself anymore. I used to be vocal about being authentic but now find myself judging others. RU-vid has made it so much worse. RU-vid is really judgmental and they're so insensitive to people's even tiniest normal behavior. RU-vid crowd isn't emotionally intelligent.

@MrAlright1111 8 месяцев назад

THIS.

@buttfaceloser 4 месяца назад

You didn’t lose it. This comment was pretty authentic. I struggle with this as well. All it takes is the Golden Rule. It’s like a butterfly effect. Wake up and smell the roses! Keep your chin up and know that you’re loved and everything’s going to be alright.

@HopefulMathGirl 4 месяца назад

@@buttfaceloser Thank you, sending you much love too! I'm trying hard to express myself as well :)

@trajectory7235 Год назад

I've been questioning lately what "cringe" truly means, and if it's really such a bad thing. It's a label that you throw around when you feel uncomfortable, but when you stop and question why you feel that way, it's hard to think of a proper reason ("it's cringe because... it's cringe"). It always felt like to me that that judgement came from a place of ego. I don't like it when I find myself feeling negatively about someone because of something I perceived as "cringe". I'm tired and I've got a bunch of thoughts in my head now and I don't know if anything I said makes any sense. But basically, I found your perspective interesting and validating. What I got from it was: being afraid of being seen as "cringe" limits our development and potential, and being negative towards other people because of something we perceived as "cringe" limits our connection and understanding of others.

@santy64xdprro29 Год назад

Awesome interpretation

@simonsanchezkumrich8489 Год назад

Very good comment

@ziachung4547 Год назад

underrated

@tfaide Год назад

Great perspective.

@fireproximity4225 Год назад

I've never accepted my own cringe, time to embrace it

@lyu9765 Год назад

"Im cringe and that's based, I'll never be based and thats not cringe, there is no one i'd rather be... than me."

@Phoenix.Sparkles Месяц назад

I can't say the sentence makes much sense anymore, but I get it

@l1p0v Год назад

Embrace the cringe, that's what I always tell myself. But then occasionally I see some tiktok dance and I say fuck it this is too much for my mental health.

@toastielad4760 Год назад

Most content that talks about philosophy in this way is usually polarizing and only appeals to the people that already believe in that thing. I am so glad to see that you are breaking the mold and cannot wait to see your channel grow. Let's be more authentic!

@comotelevu6958 2 месяца назад

Being more accepting of authentic-ness is great but don't ignore the fact that people will likely thing something is cringe in their mind secretly.

@dustind4694 Год назад

Normative behavior to avoid embarrassment is wasted effort. Conscious, deliberate and compassionate behavior, that's the stuff.

@dustind4694 Год назад

Or, to truncate even further, you got it right in one. Rock on.

@xDomino3x Год назад

Very informative. Changed the way I think. I used to do a lot of judging from cringing. I’m going to try the other type of cringe from now on. The more positive kind. I would like to see a much more authentic world as well.

@miraculouslypurrfect1756 Год назад

I love how you think. I've called myself cringe in front of others many times and all of a sudden I started feeling cringe about it. Cringing after listening to others' comments about the way I present myself made me self-conscious and uncomfortable and after a while, I HAD to find out its origin. Thank you so much for giving the word cringe a better meaning. As you said, I think cringe just means being authentic and having the courage to be unique. It is not something to be ashamed of. People who do not have the guts to go against social norms judge others and call them cringe or just cringe at them. Thank you for explaining it so well!

@eglantinepapeau1582 8 месяцев назад

cringe is a natural reaction , like having nausea when there's a bad smell , your body is warning you.

@user-burner 2 месяца назад

No? It's a cultural reaction. When you see someone violate a societal rule, that causes "cringe."

@eglantinepapeau1582 2 месяца назад

@@user-burner the cringe describes a physical reaction . the "cultural reaction" you're talking about is when the cringy people get angry .

@user-burner 2 месяца назад

@@eglantinepapeau1582 I mean technically you aren't wrong? But I think we aren't talking about literal cringing, more so in the way the internet likes to use the term as an adjective.

@Tman33919 Месяц назад

Except when dumbasses perceive anything that is deep or insightful as “cringe” that’s when you are just emotionally immature. There’s a difference. Cringe is perspective.

@dhrutube Год назад

Now that I think about it, a lot of people around me find so many things cringe which I find funny or even like. Seeing my friends cringe at electric cars, I guess they were actually cringing whereas I like the idea of them. I guess the more you want to fit in, the more you cringe at things.

@LightGlyphRasengan 11 месяцев назад

Cringe just seems to be a vibe, depending on who or what it effects.

@PremiuM-cf2et Год назад

Your videos are so underrated dude, I can't find these types of high quality videos anywhere else that discuss these topics. Cringe I personally see often used to persuade viewers (EX: X Cringe, Y Based, do Y).

@itstonycia Год назад

I’ve used to cringe at myself every so often I guess but even more now..and I’m vocalizing it by calling myself cringe..and it’s not helping me I know!

@Societyman123 Год назад

I think it mostly just depends on what is being cringed at

@georgiagalaxy Год назад

This helped me care even LESS of what people think of me, and even recognise cringe when it happens and actually embrace it :) Thank you SO much This shit is super inspiring man 😩😩❤️❤️💗💕💖✌🏻

@bxllxdxnnx Год назад

thank you so much for this, you put a lot of words to what i've been feeling. i'm the awkward black sheep of an incredibly judgy family and the more distance i put between myself and them, the less judgy i get the less viscerally painful cringey things have become for me. not to mention a great many things have ceased to be cringe at all, and i'm overall more well-adjusted and happier. granted i still have a ways to go, i think the contemptuous empathy label is spot on

@metaDeWeta Год назад

Just discovered the Fads channel and I'm really enjoying your down to earth thought sharing. Very humble and inspiring. Keep up the good work!

@Anja_Pearson Год назад

Thanks so much for the video! Short, sweet, and very thought-provoking! I love your channel ❤️

@yellowberrio Год назад

This was beautiful, I love it!! About to send this insightful video to all the people who are so uptight, so judgmental, and just can't seem to embrace/tolerate any kind of 'cringe'

@jinsflsg Год назад

This was really insightful. As a person who cringes alot this gave me a perspective and i think its going to be so much more relief if i just let people be thay way or do whatever they're doing instead of judging it aw cringe, normal or cool.

@Kalliope-ut8cz Год назад

This is one of my new favorite videos. I'm so glad I found your channel!

@johnmarkther2218 Год назад

What I would give to have had someone like you in my life as a kid! If someone had been so kind to explain this to me, I could've saved myself and others a lot of trouble You make wonderful videos, and it's a comfort to know i'm not the only one thinking about these things.

@reported5135 Год назад

cringe is just being self aware how stupid people are alot of the time or just the funny things we do like. when I do something cringe and I'm self aware it doesn't mean I'll not do it again infact I might want to do it again on purpose cuz its fun to make people feel awkward. Thats what people do all the time.

@karan_kataria0713 Год назад

Crazy how quickly you’ve become one of my favorite content creators. Hope to have a channel like yours one day :) inspiring and thought provoking

@Filman99 Год назад

Glad you came up on my feed!! Love the content 💖

@md.279 Год назад

Great vid, absolutely changed my mind about cringing👏🏻 your channel is so underrated man we don’t see much of this awesome content elsewhere

@julienbiessy7548 Год назад

thank you for making the world a better place, one video at a time ! please never stop :)

@falcon2624 10 месяцев назад

YOOOO just found you. Love your work man. Please continue!

@shivanshparkhi6459 Год назад

Great video, sometimes i too feel out of touch when i do not enjoy simple activities like dancing, singing etc. while others are having great fun. It is important for me to accept the cringe as it is and just go with it. oh, and also another thing ,in the video at 1:41 there is a typo misspelling embarrassment

@swiftandbold9132 Год назад

your videos are always very well made and im always excited to watch new posts, i cant wait to see how far your amazing channel will grow!!

@dinnerwithlydia Год назад

Really appreciate this reality check today, and I learn so much from your videos!

@porkydorky Год назад

Hey man, I just wanted to say I found your channel recently, and it is some of the best content I have ever seen. Production and all that is great, but the messages/themes and the intelligent display of said messages, is fantastic. Your videos have moved me emotionally multiple times. Keep it up man fr

@Fads Год назад

Wow, thanks! I definitely willl!!

@isabellejoubert1075 Год назад

I love this

@lynax6980 4 месяца назад

this makes so much sense! especially because i realize i cringe the most at things i relate to, like if i see someone else going through an “awkward” phase that i also had at some point.

@CR-yz1wt Год назад

I thoroughly enjoyed hearing this concept through this viewpoint. Definitely going to examine this principle in myself !

@Sabadikulforever7273 6 дней назад

Omg I needed this today while I was cringing and crawling out of my skin !!!

@Axolot2705 Год назад

Man this channel looks amazing. I just found you man and just the names of the videos show your quality. Gained a new subscriber.

@chauKlet Год назад

Really glad to find your channel im wishing for your continued success

@hungarianmodel9465 Год назад

Love your videos, they're so enlightening! Also, I think people must have felt cringe when Galileo said the Earth is round.

@Jay-xr2cy Год назад

quickly becoming my favorite channel

@let_it_sin_kin Год назад

so happy i found your channel ♥️

@matrat6648 Год назад

Great video as always

@iluvsyphonfilter Год назад

I'm binge watching your channel, very good videos!

@katydennington8046 Год назад

You seem so open minded I love it!

@gobble_gang Год назад

3 videos deep and 3 brand new perspectives that recontextualize how I think about myself and the world that surrounds me. Damn.

@emanuelerenda7002 Год назад

Oh man Ive seen many of your videos now and I genuinely appreciate your work, I like the content, I like the vibes. If you like this too just keep up and I'm sure you will reach much more visibility. Wish you the best!

@filipinaandtheworld698 8 дней назад

I really like your thoughts on this. I have always been creative, but the only thing stopping me from creating like making a business, making videos, art, is the cringe. I think a lot more people would be willing to produce and create if we got out of this barrier of cringe

@cwinchcarwash2629 11 месяцев назад

Brilliant points made. Very wise ❤

@anitalopes6879 7 месяцев назад

Wowww I´m so glad to finally see a video with the same opinion I´ve had for years!! I feel so understood, thank you.

@camscoggs Год назад

Your thumbnails are super intriguing, I just had to check the channel out. I like the content, keep it up 👍

@insomnimaniac58 Год назад

You've been putting out so much quality content, man. Subscribed, hope you get more popular!

@hairypooper1236 Год назад

I love this video and your message in the end!!!! Be the cringe you want to see in other people 💪

@ameliagates8125 Год назад

Very well put, amazing video 😊

@WreckingBallers Год назад

Great analysis for a difficult concept to cover

@Eliza-ie3zx 4 месяца назад

5:55 this made me smile. Everyting i like it apparently 'cringe'. Once my friend thight i didn't know what something was so i told him i knew what it was and had a better version of it. He said it was cringe and i literally said this: 'i didnt know when your proved wrong or something you hate is now cringe.'

@alecsteeves9997 Год назад

Found you in recommended. You’re about to blow up dude 👍

@ojikakun Год назад

Imma say the same, you make great content, and it feels nice to find some inspection of things we feel but we cannot really understand. Thx for you work I kinda feel like i dont want you to blow up too much coz' i dont wanna share that great content with dumb peeps haha, but i wish you a lot of success on the plateform.

@TomInTheSky2001 Год назад

Bro you're killing it. Your videos are awesome, I can take a lot of inspiration for my channel from you and your style. Keep it up man, you can reach the top.

@Leticia-rc4dy Год назад

Fantastic video!

@picklepirate 3 месяца назад

This was such a wonderful video

@SirQuantization 7 месяцев назад

Awesome video, learned a lot

@MontCerene Год назад

I may be cringe but at least I'm having fun being it

@CareerDropout. Год назад

This and something else I've read today has encouraged me to further compose something specific in music.

@maxgoldstein7202 9 месяцев назад

Do it bro !!

@Doctor_Drew Год назад

No better video than this on this topic. thank you!

@marsxtheplanet Год назад

i love your videos! ✨

@RazorOnYT Год назад

Banger as always

@princesszii Год назад

Love this video.I'm automatically drawn to you for some reason😁keep it up!❤️

@sam-fm3ky Год назад

this is so interesting! loved the video :D

@blued6425 Год назад

Great idea. Except impossible, You can't just kill cringe.

@Soooooooooooonicable 11 месяцев назад

"I would really prefer if you'd be quiet"💀

@kelowna1366 Год назад

I feel like this channel will blow up very soon

@TruffulyCake 8 месяцев назад

A great moment for me was when I realized that cringe is actually usually a great opportunity for ironic humor

@cassandranoble2649 Месяц назад

Well said! Showing this to my college freshmen who called Hamilton "cringe"

@andrewr888r Месяц назад

"The ones who cringe are the average, also known as being valueless; feeble. Their minds have a box - that box is a cage. Whereas other people who don't cringe are rarer, thus possessing more value, and their minds are free; open. The latter is the wiser." - Andrew Benitez (me)

@HappyHolyHealthyLife 10 месяцев назад

Love it! ❤

@reinhard5921 Год назад

This really needs to be spread

@bebe8842 10 месяцев назад

neah! cringe is for selfish, empty , unaware minds. but it's good cuz we detect them exactly when the cringe happens. nothing to learn or admire in cringgy folks. they highlight issues!

@an4189 Год назад

“Maybe we could all try being a bit more cringe” please god no there is too much already I can’t take it 😅😂

@aybruv1284 Год назад

Thanks man

@ronk6836 7 месяцев назад

Best video presentation 🎉

@TheSpellKaster 7 месяцев назад

i feel like cringe culture disproportionally targets queer and neurodivergent folks aswell, which is (and this should go without saying) bad

@reported5135 Год назад

cringe is great cuz it makes us aware of how stupid alot of human behavior is from narcissist to just rude people.

@inciseinfinity 11 месяцев назад

youre cringe

@FireTheNuclearMissiles 10 месяцев назад

@@inciseinfinityNo, you're cringe

@nessmarie6044 8 месяцев назад

but most of what is considered cringe tends to be relatively harmless. just a bit silly, and yet these people get death threats and harassed to no end about it. if anything, the assholes are the people participating in cringe culture (not that i’m any better tho, im kinda being a hypocrite in saying this but its still the truth)

@geministrial950 13 часов назад

Once you realize and start accepting that everyone does cringe things and that cringe is a fundamental part of the human experience, you feel less affected by it. At least i do.

@abrilsolsona 5 месяцев назад

Thank you!!!!!! hahaha this fixed my cringe

@moserboser Год назад

Great video! :D

@rolipoli7601 Год назад

Well to me, I have the freedom to cringe at people and people also have the freedom to cringe at me because cringe is completely harmless, and everybody cringe. Just like how I have the freedom to judge people and people have the freedom to judge me. Just accept that everyone judges, same thing

@LiLiotL Месяц назад

My main issue with myself right now is cringing at myself for liking things intended for a younger audience. I love splatoon and warrior cats and despite the fanbase being mostly people my age, since i became an adult i suddenly feel like im not allowed to like these things anymore. Ive had people call me a pedo or cringe for liking things marketed towards kids that ive never experinced as a minor and it really hurts. Even though i love these things so much i feel like forcing myself to avoid them because i have to "act my age" whatever that means