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Not gonna lie, sounds like lazy ownership and that you wanted your dog to be an accessary rather than family. The dog was adopted meaning there was something negative in her past. She clearly had separation anxiety. I might be wrong but id dare say you got her during covid and you didnt wanna be alone. So dog was with you 24/7 to then suddenly feel like your abandoning her everytime you went out so she was stressed to the max. She was a crutch for covid loneliness but then when things got back to normal you made her less of a piority. Then it seems like as soon as it got difficult you washed your hands of her with little to no effort. I feel safe saying you just couldnt be bothered putting the time and consistency in to train her into better behaviour , or even get professional help. I normally wouldnt jump to judgement on people because we never know intrincisities of folks lives but this "covid dog" trend is sadly not rare and also given how inconsistent and rare your video posts are, it screams lazy ownership. You seem like a pretty decent kid but your intentions/reasoning for getting phoebie were the wrong ones and now, a dog which obviously had abandonment issues demonstrated by the separational anxiety behaviours, you abandoned her for good . Did you even try pro dog trainer, behaviourable therapy etc. Im just saddened and hurt for the dog and think giving her up was more for yourself than for what was best for the pup 😢 Unfortunately ill have give your channel a miss from here on out ☹️🙁😫
my neighbor went to NY to get a pit, a month later her frenchy that had the wheelchair for lame legs was dead and so was the pit a few days later from being put down
Your biggest fear is well justified. Once you were no longer able to see without glasses, which was probably about the same time you started wearing contacts. The fear of running out of contacts and losing or misplacing your glasses and not being able to see should be very scary to you. Of course that was never a fear before you started wearing glasses and even after getting glasses you were still able to see well enough without glasses to get by and be afraid of not having your glasses to wear. But once you stopped taking your glasses off that should have become an instant gear for you. When you stopped taking your glasses off your eyes simply felt like they no longer needed to do anything to help you see anymore. In other words your eyes got lazy because hey had your glasses in front of them. And then if you took your glasses off your eyes went into shock because they suddenly were unable to see and they had totally forgotten how to see without glasses anymore. I'm a retired optician and I can't tell you how many, mostly young women, came into our store in a total panic because they woke up with an eye infection and of course couldn't wear their contacts. But they never considered something like that to happen so they had never bothered "wasting" money buying glasses that they had no intention of ever wearing. And of course they all claimed to be nearly blind without their beloved contacts on their eyes. But eye infections take time to go away which of course they claimed they didn't have because they couldn't see to drive and even if they got a ride to work they probably wouldn't be able to se well enough to do their job if they got their. They really weren't very happy with me when I told them it would be at least 4 - 5 days to get them glasses. By the way over the years I had somewhere between 30 and 40 with this issue and only one was a man. The rest was all attractive young women. So you at least have done what you needed to do to eliminate at least some of that fear you have. By the way when you wear contacts you are always at risk of having an eye infection or an eye ulcer and even something worse. Having a blood vessel grow into the side of your eye. Now thank goodness that is very rare. So always have at least one pair of glasses along with your contacts and if you were to stop wearing contacts then always have at least two pairs of glasses in your current prescription or at least very close to your current prescription. That was another thing i saw quite often. People that wear contacts tend to make their contacts their primary concern and not really bother getting their glasses prescription updated when they have a change in prescription. Shockingly, many had 4 or 5 increases in their contacts but never increased their glasses. Of course their glasses were then pretty much useless by then. Even after I retired I was trying to help a friend out with getting new glasses. She had picked out 3 pairs of regular glasses and a pair of prescription sunglasses she wanted and she faxed me her prescription and PD measurement. She told me that her glasses were several prescriptions old but she claimed she could see pretty well with them. I told her to be sure to bring her contact lens case so she could put her lenses in it so I could fit her glasses on her and make sure her glasses were made right. We were meeting at a local restaurant to have lunch as well as fit her with her new glasses. I waited for her outside. When she arrived she was white as a ghost from fear. She was wearing her glasses which I had warned her not to do. She admitted that she nearly hit cars several times because she wasn't able to see like she thought she could. I told her being able to see across the room in her house after taking her lenses off was much different than being outside and needing to see things much further away. I took her glasses off of her and compared them to her new glasses by looking though one lens of each pair and her new glasses were much much stronger than her previous glasses. Once I put the first pair on her she was amazed at how well she could see.
Thank you for actually showing what the end product looks like so many tutorials just show you how to do it and leave you wondering of its going to look ok! Nice job thanks!
It's been well over a year since you got glasses from TIJN and likely even longer since you had your eyes examined. So as a former optician I always recommend people to get their eyes checked just before the end of the year so they can have all of the next year available in case they need some type of vision care. Waiting until after December 31st means once you use your insurance you can't use it again the rest of the year. I know you got those last glasses from TIJN and even they are much less in cost than glasses from a local optical store it may surprise you that there are a number of glasses sites even less than TIJN and very good quality as well. Here are three sites i highly recommend thanks to the lovely attractive young ladies I was lucky enough to work with. Not too surprising that they all were glasses wearers and they were all only mildly nearsighted. Several only started wearing glasses after being hired. Even though our company provided each of the with yearly eye exams and a free pair of glasses every 6 months that wasn't enough glasses for them. So they were often found going into various glasses sites and ordering even more glasses from them. So I was able to get a very good look at their glasses and decided the sites that were the best were Zenni Optical, Lensmart and Payne Glasses. They each have really nice selection of glasses for under $7.00 and that includes the lenses in whatever prescription your eyes need. Of course they also have hundreds of glasses for under $20.00 as well. Don't forget since you usually wear your glasses low on your nose so your lashes don't brush the inside of your lenses add an extra -.25 or -.50 to whatever your current SPH numbers are By wearing your glasses further away from your eyes your weakening the prescription slightly. So either one added should work very well for you. It should sharpen things up for you.
When you have quite long lashes and they brush the inside of your lenses when you wear glasses the only way to do that is by wearing your glasses slightly down your nose to avoid the brushing effect. Are you aware that most guys find that extremely sexy when a woman wears her glasses low on her nose. But in doing that you're eyes aren't being fully corrected by your glasses because your eyes are further away from your lenses in your glasses. So since you are able to order your glasses on-line I would suggest next time you order new glasses add an extra -.25 or -.50 SPH to whatever your current SPH's are. Either one will work fine. If your wondering I'm a retired optician. trust me this will sharpen your eyesight up very nicely. By the way has anyone told you recently how cute you look wearing glasses and especially low on your nose?
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Love your wall mirror with your existing decor. Black countertops work with industrial feel. I would paint your wood dresser white for a more seamless look.
Well this was a welcome surprise! Although it seems you were trying to do yourself a mischief it's lovely to see that you're alive and well! Well done lady! My idea of a 'virtual' marathon would be done lying down! 🙄 Did someone steal your friend's shirt? 😳
@@SamanthaCoria Sure I understand it's the same with me I took a long break from RU-vid as well, when you update again I'm looking forward to seeing your content..
can i ask what size you got in octave? i recently bought octave (all they had was large) and theyre HUGE. thinking of returning for st michel... because the octaves were so huge, idk if i should get medium or small in st michel!
