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Exploring ADHD & Autism w/ Hayley Honeyman
38:14
5 месяцев назад
The Existential INFJ: Working Through a Crisis
18:27
7 месяцев назад
The 4 Stages of Existential Crisis. PART 2
18:13
7 месяцев назад
Are you in an Existential Crisis? PART 1
11:48
7 месяцев назад
Hidden Agendas: Unravelling Covert Contracts
23:33
10 месяцев назад
Do INFJs Feel Misunderstood?
23:44
Год назад
INFJ Masculinity
15:22
Год назад
Can INFJs Live in the Moment?
10:04
Год назад
Do We Need God to Be Moral?
28:32
Год назад
Do We Value Control Over Freedom?
34:14
2 года назад
INFJ Friendship: INTJ vs ENFP
23:56
2 года назад
The INFJ Door Slam Revisited
21:13
2 года назад
Is Science a Belief System?
6:39
2 года назад
5 Tips for Becoming a Healthier INFJ
27:03
2 года назад
Exploring an INFJ + INFJ Relationship
1:02:03
2 года назад
The Truth about Love
29:32
2 года назад
Rebuilding After a Toxic Relationship
27:39
2 года назад
INFJs in an SJ (Guardian) World
37:00
2 года назад
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@irontaylor9992
@irontaylor9992 2 часа назад
alot of christians come across like they are better then everyone else and very judgmental
@irontaylor9992
@irontaylor9992 2 часа назад
one of the things with me is my faith was shakien and a lot of unanswerf prayers and somethings in the bible stopped making since i felt like God left me i tried praying and reading my bibe and it never helped and a lot of the people also they way they acted
@melliness123
@melliness123 4 часа назад
Can you tell us about your genetics and if certain personality types are common is certain ethnicities? or are some personality types formed from environment/upbringing / parents?
@denvercarlstrom8874
@denvercarlstrom8874 5 часов назад
I agree with much of this, and appreciate these issues being brought to light, but I must admit once I made my private person completely separate from my public, my life improved greatly... I say be VERY careful telling someone in public life 'what you really think.'
@cspace1234nz
@cspace1234nz 12 часов назад
Yep, there is no going back because that would necessitate a loss of dignity and integrity. I think the door slam happens not because we think and scheme about it but because we feel deep down inside that it’s the right thing to do and because there is no other option without compromising our authenticity. It actually seems to go against our nature which is why it hurts like it does. We do it because we must, it’s that simple
@hazen-kain
@hazen-kain 18 часов назад
Been watching your videos since I found your channel about a year ago Clay, and now I can confidently say that even if you didn't mention anything about mbti I'd still happily watch them. Keep pushing your great unfiltered (heh) opinions and insights man, they are super helpful and appreciated. Here's hoping you never remove that camera from your office!
@DAUNTESLETTEBAKI
@DAUNTESLETTEBAKI 22 часа назад
I'M SORRY I CANT FIND MY OLD NEWSLETTER I DID! IT HAD OVER 150 TO 200 3-D EVIDENCES OR PROOF! THE OLD HOLY BIBLE STORIES ARE TRUE FROM THE HOLY BIBLE! I WILL JUST LIST A FEW EXAMPLES OF PROOF! EXAMPLE....JACOBS WELL-FOUND! NOAHS ARC-FOUND! ON SIDE OF MT ARRAT IN TURKEY! STILL THERE! (THE WHOLE BOAT WAS IN FULL FORM BACK IN 1983! BUT NOW THE MT HAD ERRODED IT SO ITS JUST A HULE NOW! SEE NATIONAL GRAPHIC AND NOVA SPECIALS ON NOAHS ARC! VERY GOOD PROOF! AIRIAL VIEWS FROM HELICOPTER AND MORE! VERY DETAILED! ALSO SEE.... SODOM AND GAHMMORAH VIDEO SPECIAL NOVA! TWO SCORCHED CITIES FROM AIRIAL VIEW! AND WHEN THE YOUNG KID WENT THERE TO FILM! HE FOUND THE RUINED GATE AND LOTS OF WHITE PING PONG LOOKING BALLS ALL OVER? WHAT?? BRIMESTONES!!!-FOUND! AS THE HOLY BIBLE SAYS FIRE FELL FROM THE SKY!! YES! ALL THOSE STORIES ARE 100% TRUE!! YES THEY DID HAPPEN! GO SEE FOR YOURSELF!! PROOF!! ALSO LOTS WIFE!!!-FOUND! STILL A PILLAR OF SALT ON THE HILL YO! AND MAY I MENTION...SPEAR OF DESTINY-FOUND!,ARC OF THE COVENANT-FOUND! SHOURD OF TARRIN-FOUND!, EMPTY TOMB-FOUND!, EGYPT-FOUND!, NEBBACANEZZARS PALACE-FOUND! (STILL THERE!), RED SEA-FOUND!, NATIVITY-FOUND!, BETHLAHEM-FOUND!, JACOBS WELL-FOUND!, (SORRY NORTH STAR POLARIS JUST RECENTLY EXPLODED!), GALALLIE-FOUND!, DEAD SEA-FOUND!, JERUSALEM-FOUND!, UPPER ROOM-FOUND! AND MANY, MANY MORE! PROOF!!! THEY EVEN HAVE SAMPLES OF THE WOOD FROM THE CROSS!-FOUND! DATES BACK TO BIBLICAL TIMES! SEE NATIONAL GEOGRAPHIC AND NOVA SPECIALS ON THESE FOUND ARTIFACTS AND SEE CATHOLIC CHURCH ARQIVE AS THEY HAVE MOST OF THEM! RESEARCH THESE AND MORE ONLINE AS WELL! AND PAINTINGS OF JESUS CHRIST! OFTEN FEATURED IN THESE PLACES AND DOCUMENTED IN TAPESTRIES, VASES, PAINTINGS AND ART, AND ARTIFACTS DATING BACK TO BIBLICAL TIMES! ALSO READ UP ON ALL THE PERSONAL APPEARANCE ACCOUNTS PEOPLE HAVE HAD OVER THE YEARS, WHO ENCOUNTERED THE REAL JESUS CHRIST/GOD IN PERSON! MANY, MANY OVER 50 YO! SO READ UP! KNOW THE TRUTH!!! JESUS CHRIST AND THOSE HOLY BIBLE STORIES (SEE DEAD SEA SCROLLS AND KING JAMES HOLY BIBLE OLDEST VERSION IN PRINT TODAY 1700'S!) YEP! ITS ALL 100% TRUE!! GO SEE FOR YOURSELF! DO THE RESEARCH! LIKE I DID YO! DONT GET IT TWISTED! NOT ABOUT GOD'S EXISTANCE! HE IS ALIVE AND WELL! AND DOING FINE!! WHY NOT PICK UP A HOLY BIBLE AND HAVE A CHAT TODAY?? CONNECT WITH YOUR CREATOR GOD/ JESUS CHRIST TODAY! HE IS AMAZING!!! GET TO KNOW THE REAL GOD! HE IS AWESOME AND AMAZING YO! YOU WILL BE GLAD YOU DID!
@DAUNTESLETTEBAKI
@DAUNTESLETTEBAKI 22 часа назад
GOD HAS BROUGHT ME SO MANY BLESSINGS OVER THE YEARS! SO MANY BLE$$INGS, RICHES, NEW FRIENDS, GOOD TIMES, FAMILY, WORK AND SCHOOL OPPORTUNITIES! I LEARNED TO TRUST GOD MORE, LOVE THE LIFE I HAVE! ENJOY THE JOURNEY! DONT GET IT TWISTED YO! FILL MY HEART WITH GODS LOVE AND ABUNDANCE! YOU WONT GET THAT FROM ANY DEVIL YO! YOU GET NOTHING BUT A HAUNTED HOUSE YO! BAD!!! BOOO! SO RELAX MORE AND JUST ENJOY THE JOURNEY! LIFE IS FOR LIVING! WHEN YOU HAVE A MAJOR HEALTH DISASTER OR BRUSH WITH DEATH! YOU QUICKLY LEARN WHATS IMPORTANT IN LIFE AND LOVE! SHARE THE LOVE ALL! ITS ALL ABOUT THE LOVE! D : ) SMILEY! SHARE THE LOVE! ALSO AVOID DRUGS AND BOOZE AS THOSE THINGS CAN FRY YOUR BRAINS OUT! AND YOUR GOING TO NEED THAT TO DO ALL THOSE FUN PROJECTS!
@DAUNTESLETTEBAKI
@DAUNTESLETTEBAKI 22 часа назад
SAD IF YOU ARE HAVING A HARD TIME RIGHT NOW? AS I COMPLETELY UNDERSTAND! LIFE CAN BE HARD SOMETIMES! BUT IT GETS BETTER! HAVE FAITH IN GOD! PRAY FOR WHAT YOU NEED? GOD BLESSES! HE CAN DO ANYTHING! HE IS GOD!! BE OF GOOD HOPE AND COURAGE IN DIFFICULT TIMES ALL! ENJOY THE JOURNEY!!!
@DAUNTESLETTEBAKI
@DAUNTESLETTEBAKI 22 часа назад
I'M IRISH/ENGLISH/SWEDISH AND I CAN DO ANYTHING!!! YO! I GOT ABDUCTED BY A REAL HYBRID GREY ALIEN AND THEY EVEN LIKE ME!!! AS THEY DIDNT EAT ME! AND RETURNED ME THE NEXT AM!!! I AM A POWERHOUSE AND LOVE LIFE!!! LIVE IT TO THE FULL ALL!!! ENJOY THE JOURNEY! ITS SUPPOSED TO BE A FUN TIME ALL! I LOVE GOD ALSO!!! D : ) SMILEY! CARES! I LOVE GOD TO THE MAX YO! DONT GET IT TWISTED!!! LIFES GOOD!
@DAUNTESLETTEBAKI
@DAUNTESLETTEBAKI 22 часа назад
I REALLY WISH YOU WOULD RECONSIDER YOUR FAITH IN GOD! I ENJOY YOUR CONVO! BUT I DONT KNOW WHY YOU WOULD WANT TO LEAVE THE CHURCH? I'M NOT SURE WHAT TO SAY? SO I'M JUST GOING TO TELL YOU MY TESTIMONY OF MY LIFE? MAYBE THAT WILL HELP YOU SOMEHOW? LETS GO WAY, WAY, WAY BACK TO THE PREHISTORIC DAYS OF THE DINOSAURS! (ONLY KIDDING! HA, HA HA! I'M NOT THAT OLD YO! BUT WIND THE CLOCK BACK TO 1965 SEATTLE, WA! A BABY GIRL WAS BORN INTO A SECULAR FAMILY! AT FIRST MY MOM DECIDED IT WOULD BE A GOOD IDEA IF WE WENT TO CATHOLIC CHURCH! SO SHE HAD ME SPRINKLED AND BAPTISED THERE! SO I WAS DEDICATED TO GOD AT 1 YEARS OLD! I REMEMBER GROWING UP AND SITTING NEXT TO MY MOM AND HER (PHONE BOOK SIZED CATHOLIC HOLY BIBLE! I LOVED LOOKING AT ALL THE COLOR PAINTINGS AND PICTURES OF JESUS CHRIST AND THE BIBLE STORIES! I WAS FIRST RAISED IN THE CATHOLIC CHURCH! AS I DO REMEMBER LIGHTING THE MANY CANDLES THERE! AND SITTING NEXT TO MY MOM DURING SERVICES IN THE WOODEN PEWS! I LOVED GOING TO CHURCH! AND NEVER HAD ANY BAD EXPERIENCES THERE OR GROWING UP IN THE CHRISTIAN CHURCH! LATER WHEN I GOT OLDER IN JR HIGH! THE BAPTISTS GOT AHOLD OF ME THROUGH A FRIEND AT SCHOOL! AND I STARTED GOING TO THE BAPTIST CHURCH AND ATTENDING BIBLE STUDY THERE! I ALSO JOINED THE SINGING ENSEMBLE THERE! GOT BAPTISED THERE! AND PARTICIPATED IN PLAYS, CHIOR, ENSEMBLE (3 YEARS), TAUGHT BIBLE STUDY TO THE KIDS, DID OUTREACH GROUP! LOTS! IT WAS FUN! AND MADE A LOT OF FRIENDS! AND MET A LOT OF REALLY NICE PEOPLE THERE! (MAYBE YOU WENT THERE ALSO?) ANYWAY, IT WAS A FUN EXPERIENCE! LATER IN HIGH SCHOOL MY FAITH CONTINUED TO GROW! AND I ATTENDED OVERLAKE INTERDENOMINATIONAL CHURCH! WHERE I DONATED MONEY TO GET THE MEGA CHURCH BUILDT DOWN THE STREET! I LOVED THAT CHURCH ALSO! LATER AS TIME WENT ON I MOVED BECAUSE OF WORK AND SCHOOL! I OFTEN HAD TO MOVE AND TRAVEL DUE TO WORKING AS A FLIGHT ATTENDANT AFTER HIGH SCHOOL AND COLLEGE! I SAW THE WORLD AND TRAVELED! BUT WHEN I WOULD FLY HOME! I WOULD ATTEND SUNDAY CHURCH AT THE LOCAL BAPTIST CHURCH EVEN OUT OF STATE! I LOVED GOD AND GOING TO CHURCH! SO I ATTENDED ABOUT 6 VARIOUS CHURCHES! SOMETIMES GOING TO TWO DIFFERNT CHURCHES AT THE SAME TIME! ALTERNATING! I WOULD GO WITH MY GIRLFRIEND TO HER CHURCH CASEY TREATS LIFE CENTER! AND LATER I WENT TO THE RIVER CHURCH IN RENTON, WA! WHERE I MET THE PASTOR AND HIS WIFE! FANTASTIC PEOPLE!! FUN CHURCH THERE ALSO!!! SO I ENJOYED LOTS OF CHURCHES OVER THE YEARS! (I HAD MY FAVS!) AND MY CHRISTIAN GIRLFRIENDS WOULD OFTEN GO WITH ME! WE LOVED ALL THE MANY PLAYS, CONCERTS, CHIORS, DINNERS, BIBLE STUDIES, PICNICS AND EVENTS! IT WAS A BLAST AND FREE! AND MY FAITH GREW AND GREW! EVEN THOUGH I MOVED AROUND A LOT BECAUSE OF WORK! 5 STATES, 12 APTS, 12 CARS! I WOUND UP BACK HOME IN SEATTLE, WA! HOME FOR ME WHERE I WAS BORN AND RAISED! AS I LOVE THE COOL WEATHER, FRESH OUTDOORS AND FEELING I GET LIVING HERE! ITS HOME TO ME ALWAYS! SO I MOVED BACK HOME THE THIRD TIME FOR GOOD! BUT DURING MY COLLEGE DAYS I DID HAVE THE UNFORTUNATE EXPERIENCE OF GETTING STUCK IN A REAL HAUNTED APT! I WAS STUCK THERE FOR LIKE 5 YEARS IN RENTON, WA! THE PLACE WAS TOTALY HAUNTED YO! AND I SIGNED A LEASE SO I WAS STUCK THERE! AND COULD NOT MOVE OUT! I WAS ALSO GOING TO CHURCH AT THAT TIME ANYWAY! SOME OLD GEEZER HAD DIED IN THE PLACE! AND I GUESS HE DID NOT KNOW HE WAS DEAD! ANYWAY, ALL THIS WEIRD STUFF HAPPENED THERE! AND IT WAS WORSE THAN AMNITYVILLE HORROR HOUSE! IT WAS BAD! AND I COULD NOT TELL ANYONE! OR THEY WOULD THINK I WAS LYING OR JUST MAKING UP STORIES, OR A WEIRD-O! BUT I WAS COMPLETELY SANE! AND I WAS BEING ATTACKED BY A GHOST! IT WAS HORRIBLE! ANYWAY I STILL CONTINUED TO GO TO CHURCH DURING MY WORK AND COLLEGE DAYS ANYWAY! I DID SOME MODELING, AND SPORTS AND RECREATION WITH FRIENDS! AND CHURCH! ALWAYS CHURCH!.... BECAUSE I LOVED IT! AND I LOVED GOD! AND THE PEOPLE WERE NICE I MET THERE! NOTHING COULD SEPERATE US! AS ME AND GOD ARE GOOD OLD FRIENDS! SO I FINALLY GOT FED UP WITH THE MESS (HAUNTED APT!) AND MOVED OUT! I WAS NEVER SO HAPPY TO GET OUT OF THAT HELL HOLE APT!!!! THEN I TRIED LIVING AT MY SISTERS PLACE OUT IN THE COUNTRY IN A TRAILER! IT WAS THE YEAR OF THE HUGE SNOWSTORM! AND I WAS FREEZING TO DEATH OUT THERE! AND I WOUND UP TALKING MY MOM INTO MOVING BACK TO HER PLACE! MY FAMILY HOME IN KIRKLAND, WA! ITS NICE THERE! PEACEFUL AND NICE! SO I LOVE LIVING WITH OTHER PEOPLE ANYWAY! I PREFER IT REALLY! AS I HATE LIVING SOLO! I GREW UP WITH MANY SIBLINGS SO I'M USED TO THE TV ALWAYS ON! AND LOTS OF NOISE ALL THE TIME! KIDS RUNNING AROUND TEARING THE HOUSE APART! AND NOISE, A LOT OF COOKING AND YELLING GOING ON! NOISY HOUSE! I LIKE THAT! AND LOTS OF FAMILY EVENTS, BIRTHDAYS, DINNERS, BBQS AND HOLIDAYS! I GUESS I'M JUST USED TO IT! THEN COVID HIT FOR THREE YEARS! AND THEN I GOT REALLY SICK AND ALMOST DIED! WITH 6 HEALTH DISASTERS IN A ROW! BREAST CANCER SCARE, SARS FLU (PAINFUL!), BLEEDING ISSUES, COVID, MORE BLEEDING ISSUES! THEN WOUND UP IN THE HOSPITAL WITH DIABETES! GOD KEPT HEALING ME FROM IT ALL! VERY NICE! GOD IS GOOD! ANYWAY, I AM NOW WORKING OUT, ON A SUGAR FREE DIET, AND SEEING MY DOCTOR AND DIETICIAN ON A REGULAR BASIS! I THINK THEY THOUGHT I WAS HAVING A HEART ATTACK AT THE ER HOSPITAL? AS THEY HOOKED ME UP TO THE EKG MACHINE AND KEPT ME THERE 6 HOURS RUNNING TEST ON ME? TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHY I KEPT HAVING THESE FALL DOWN DIZZY SPELLS! (I WAS REALLY SICK! ALMOST DIED YO!) AS MY BLOODSUGAR WAS LIKE 900! THE ER WANTED TO KEEP ME AT THE HOSPITAL FOR 4 DAYS! I JUST WANTED TO GO HOME AND SLEEP! SO THEY BROUGHT MY BS DOWN TO 389 AND LET ME WALK! THEN I WENT HOME TO REST AND GAIN MY STRENGTH BACK AGAIN! AND I HAD SEEN SEVERAL UFOS WHEN I WAS DOWN IN PHX, AZ IN BROAD DAYLIGHT! LIKE 3 VARIOUS UFOS DIFFERNT ONES! A MOTHER SHIP, 3 BLACK TRIANGLES WITH COLORED LIGHTS, AND THE GOLDEN ORBS THAT COME OUT OF SOUTH MT. DOWN IN PHX, AZ! SO I TRIED TO LIVE DOWN THERE LIKE 3 TIMES! BECAUSE I LIKED THE SUNSHINE! BUT I KEPT PASSING OUT DUE TO HEATSTOKE! SO I HAD TO MOVE BACK HOME TO SEA, WA! AND I GUESS THEY MUST HAVE FOLLOWED ME? BECAUSE I HAD AN ABDUCTION EXPERIENCE WHEN I GOT BACK HOME! SOME LOCAL GUY DOWN THERE SAID...THATS BECAUSE THEY LET THEM LAND DOWN THERE AT THE MILITARY BASES! LIKE DULCE, NM, PHX, AZ, DEN AIRPORT (BASEMENT LEVEL), AREA 51, AREA 52 ETC! MILITARY BASES YO! KNOW WONDER!!! ANYWAY, I GOT ABDUCTED! WHEN I WAS AWAKE!! I DO THINK THEY WERE KIND TO ME! AND TRYING TO HEAL ME SOMEHOW? AS I WAS SOOO SICK AT THE TIME! AND GIVE ME A BLOODTRANSFUSION OR SPACE VITAMINS? ANYWAY IF THEY WERE MEAN, THEY WOULD HAVE EATEN ME! I DONT KNOW WHAT THEY DID TO ME? BECAUSE THEY BLACKED ME OUT WHEN THEY TOOK ME OUTSIDE AND UP, UP, UP TO THE NIGHTS SKY!!! BUT THEY (GREY HYBRID ALIEN!) I SAW UP CLOSE IN MY BED!! (9 INCHES AWAY FROM HIS FACE YO!) RETURNED ME THE NEXT MORNING ALIVE AND FEELING BETTER! MUCH BETTER!!! AAAHHH SOOOO.... NOW I'M GETTING BETTER! EVERY DAY STRONGER! THANKS TO THEM! AND MY DOCTORS AND DIETICIAN! OH WHAT A LOOP MAN! LIFE IS SURE STRANGE! ANYWAY, I HAVE BEEN THROUGH A LOT! BUT NOW THAT I'M GETTING WELL AGAIN! AND DID NOT DIE! I HAVE PLANS TO GO TO FILM AND FASHION SCHOOL! (I DESIGNED 100 EVEN GOWNS AND WEDDING DRESSES) AND WANT TO GET THEM INTO A STORE AND CATALOG SOON! AND I ALSO WANT TO TAKE A CINAMOGRAPHY CLASS TO KNOCK OUT 3-4 MOVIE PROJECTS I HAVE ON THE BACK BURNER! ONE OF THEM IS MY UFO EXPERIENCE AND HAUNTED APT MOVIES! (I'M TOO SCARED TO GO BACK TO THAT APT WITHOUT A GOOD FREIND TO FILM THERE! TOO HAUNTED YO!) SO I'M LOOKING FORWARD TO MANY PROJECTS IN THE FUTURE! BUT I'M GOING TO NEED SOME HELP WITH THESE PROJECTS! SOOO LIFE IS GOOD! AND GLAD I DID NOT DIE!!! HAPPY ALIVE! D:) SMILEY! LIFE IS WEIRD! YOU HAVE TO ENJOY THE JOURNEY! LIFE IS GOOD!!! PS* I HOPE ALL OF YOU HAVE A GOOD LIFE, RICH AND MORE ABUNDANTLY! AND GOOD FRIENDS, FAMILY AND FUN PROJECTS TO SHARE! AND FUN TIMES AT CHURCH! FUN PLACE TO MEET NEW FRIENDS AND PEOPLE YO! FUN TIMES! ALSO WA STATE FAIR OR PUYALLUP FAIR AUG 30-SEP 22! FUN TIMES FOR ALL!!! D : ) SMILEY! CARES!! SMILE!
@realamk
@realamk День назад
Would you consider doing a video on the cognitive functions? I think I understand Ni mostly because I am pretty sure I'm also INFJ and I really relate to it, but it is still a bit vague to me. I find Ti, Fi, Fe, and Se more concrete and easy to identify and understand. However, I find the descriptions of Te, Si, and Ne a little bit confusing and I'm not sure I fully understand. I find your videos extremely relatable and they help me put words to some experiences I've had. I would love your take on all the functions & how to identify them
@malgorzatamagalska6033
@malgorzatamagalska6033 День назад
When people speak of "ppl pleasing" or chameleon abilities in infjs, I call it the ability to speak in a language of others so that you can communicate ur feelings and thoughts in the language others can understand. But there is also an inner need to make ppl happy, I agree. Sometimes, I feel like infjs need others in life as a motivator to exist and yet existing around ppl is making them disappear. It is a paradox that before discovering 16 personalities I couldn't understand about myself, and traditionally guilting myself about it. Thank you for sharing ur thoughts on a matter, it is easy to listen to you for sure.
@malgorzatamagalska6033
@malgorzatamagalska6033 День назад
U just spot on infj into its core. Dont sell out our weeknesses 😂🤪🤫🫡
@barneydi2783
@barneydi2783 День назад
That's they best most comprehensive explanation iv heard - my GF and I been fighting over this - very helpful - thank u
@lorna7958
@lorna7958 День назад
I am an INFJ-A and am now 70 yrs old. I had never heard of myers briggs until working as a school nurse in the 80's when we were asked to complete myers briggs personality questionnaire etc. It was never explained in detail to us ( the results) and in my working life in the school setting, surprisingly. I was again instructed in my 40s to attend another course as a work requisite. It's only now reading and watching videos like yours that the INFJ-A personality has been researched and explained in greater detail. I now realise why perhaps my youth thoughts varied considerably from my peers, and I have in my lifetime been described as a little weird for always😂 reliable, will say whilst watching a tv show, just watch the show, why do you want to know in depth about this or that. So, thank you for explaining in detail your experiences, I can relate to most of them in life. 😊
@unterdessen8822
@unterdessen8822 День назад
🤔 Is this about an@l? Or foot fetish? Or koprophilia (do NOT image search that, ffs)? Because then I (f) don't want to know. You can have that with someone else, no problem. I'm very much pro outsourcing sexual stuff, that I don't agree with; because, let's be honest, I agree with very little anyway. And if you do this with someone else, all I want to know is, that I don't have to worry about you bringing home STDs. So - please - do not be open and vulnerable with me, if you need to wear a dog collar or do it in a dumpster or are super into CBT. I seriously don't want to know.
@Multichick
@Multichick День назад
🙏🏼💜⚖️ thank you
@pinkrose4824
@pinkrose4824 День назад
OMG this is so familiar. I always have questions. Never get a straight answer. INFJ: Notorious for noticing things that other people don’t want noticed, and being told to “move on”.
@Fay_YaYa
@Fay_YaYa День назад
Aging in reverse! So true! And the aggression is real. The more I heal and cut off toxic relationships, the more I feel liberated to explore my authentic self. I was just thinking of joining a kickboxing club to release all that aggression within me. In the meantime, I've started doing more running and weight lifting. Great video and welcome back!
@adriaopaulo
@adriaopaulo День назад
Welcome back!!! 🎉😊
@Fay_YaYa
@Fay_YaYa 2 дня назад
I think before the physical door slam of blocking that person on the phone or social media, there is the real door slam, which is the emotional one. Once the emotional door slam occurs, there is no going back. And this, of course, occurs after many attempts of trying to reconcile and improve the relationship.
@carlmorris2370
@carlmorris2370 2 дня назад
Dear Clay, I just checked out your 14 logical fallacies video. Great stuff! I think there's a chance though that you have unwittingly placed a straw-figure as an argument against Christianity. The straw figure is Christianity with a protestant understanding of Sola Scriptura. This straw figure argument is completely circular however as you point out in your video. As a Christian I believe not because the bible but because of the authority Jesus gave to the Church to interpret the words of God both spoken through tradition over 2000 years and those written down in scripture. The bible in itself is good but really only a straw figure of that which is truly the word of God encompassed in the person of Jesus.
@jenphillips661
@jenphillips661 2 дня назад
You really nailed it with this video, thanks so much from a fellow INFJ ❤
@hydratanksamari
@hydratanksamari 2 дня назад
Yeah, just probably a few years ago. Understand why I always felt out of place and could not yoke with larger groups of people that seems so normal but now understanding and much more aware of what my needs are and then also identify all the people are introvert with them
@hydratanksamari
@hydratanksamari 2 дня назад
Sorry, my voice to text isn't perfect. When I learned I was an IFINFG I was perplexed that our commonalities nearly perfectly described who I am.
@michellevillaca1307
@michellevillaca1307 2 дня назад
This is the best video differing the two personalities that I've seen. Thank youuu! I was so confused about my personality type, but now I feel more confident to say I'm INFJ after all
@saskiaseaglass9504
@saskiaseaglass9504 2 дня назад
Just rewatched this video. It’s all insightful , but 20:30 onwards is gold! Remember, you can’t make all of the people happy all of the time! 😊… and if you are an INFJ you probably don’t want to! 😉
@rabbijacoobbenjaminisraelb7095
Muslims are likely more respectful because they see a chance to try and persuade you to try and join their religion. While christians might be mad because they know its a lost cause theres no way to get someone like you back into their cult anymore. If you were an ex muslim and talking about leaving islam it wouldnt be just passive agressiveness but constant death threats and the usual threats for hellfire. doxing and all that stuff. There are such christians too but its the minority.
@muma6559
@muma6559 3 дня назад
What kind of photographer is Lexie ?
@muma6559
@muma6559 3 дня назад
That is precisely what I would do with a therapist, it would be a long questioning and understanding of their persuasions... FIRST
@muma6559
@muma6559 3 дня назад
This is brilliant Clay, salt of the earth
@muma6559
@muma6559 3 дня назад
Are you able to say what type your ex is ?
@muma6559
@muma6559 3 дня назад
Just for statistics, nothing personal
@NONONannette
@NONONannette 3 дня назад
Thank you :)
@pinkrose4824
@pinkrose4824 3 дня назад
I am STUNNED that you described the exact same sleep issues that I have. I have even had recent bouts of Exploding Head Syndrome (for real). The simultaneous wake/sleep issue made my jaw drop. I wake up and still see things as well! Most recently a bee! There was a bee in my dream, I woke up and it was still there, in my bedroom, flying about two feet away, then faded….
@ettiennebotes7832
@ettiennebotes7832 4 дня назад
Hello, I quick want to talk real. My grandmother, grandfather, aunt and business partner all had cancer and got healed through Christ, and there are still pastors that carry power, not faith, power. But they are extremely intense. Such as Pastor John Anosike, Ian Cleyton, Nancy Coen.
@ClayArnall
@ClayArnall 3 дня назад
@@ettiennebotes7832 I’m always confused when Christians claim that cancer healing is a miracle. Cancer heals all on its own! Call me when an amputee has their arm grow back, or something else happens that has no other natural explanation.
@ettiennebotes7832
@ettiennebotes7832 3 дня назад
@@ClayArnall okay, but there are also AIDS that were medically healed, which is not medically currently possible
@Clevelandsteamer324
@Clevelandsteamer324 4 дня назад
33:02 they love conflict. They get off on it. It’s literally called “crazy making”
@refreshingtwist
@refreshingtwist 4 дня назад
I feel like my personality type (INFJ) and my attachment style (fearful avoidant) explain EVERYTHING!
@dallasfluff3347
@dallasfluff3347 4 дня назад
I’m going to wager that the person who gets very upset when he disagrees and feels as if they are being attacked is his mother. Maybe only bc that’s my problem 🤷🏿‍♂️
@dje3.16
@dje3.16 4 дня назад
I love your video man! You should listen to music it always helps <3
@dje3.16
@dje3.16 4 дня назад
When I die, f*ck it, I wanna go to hell Cause I’m a piece of sh*t, it ain’t hard to f*cking tell It don’t make sense, going to heaven with the goodie-goodies Dressed in white, I like black Timbs and black hoodies
@jekalambert9412
@jekalambert9412 4 дня назад
Beautifully presented. Thank you as I grapple with my own search for meaning. I'm in a very dark place as at almost 70, I look back on my life and the multitude of challenges I've experienced personally. I also see a lot of darkness when I look at the state of the political climate in the US and beyond, the endless suffering caused by the world economic structure, the endless violence that continues to persist globally in the form of war, as well as the abuse and violence that's so persistent in political, interpersonal and intimate relationships. The obvious implications of climate change cannot be ignored either. On a personal level, I'm single. I used to have a wide circle of friends as well as several close friends who I could share with emotionally. All of my closest friends passed within months of each other 2 years ago. At the same time, I was forced to move more than 500 miles from the place where I'd spent most of my adult life because I could no longer afford to live there. I feel a profound lack of connection with other people despite making a concerted effort to make new friends. As I face more and more health challenges, it becomes harder and harder to do even basic stuff. My best friend is my 13 year old cat that I've had for 3 months. I'm grateful to have an affordable roof over my head, but that's not enough to make up for the absence of interpersonal connections. I don't understand why I incarnated and what I've learned or contributed to the good of the world through my incarnation. It all feels meaningless.
@LindaChapman-u2c
@LindaChapman-u2c 4 дня назад
Thx for checking in. Canada seems so quiet. I was wondering about you. Good to hear from you again.
@pandajung666
@pandajung666 4 дня назад
This video has been extremely helpful, thank you!
@spaceoddity5674
@spaceoddity5674 4 дня назад
Just see a sort of jaded tired intellectual ism ...in these videos . people growing up in a Christian sub culture ... and tired of it ....not necessarily tired of the real Jesus ..😊
@ClayArnall
@ClayArnall 4 дня назад
@@spaceoddity5674 I can tell you didn’t actually watch the video if that’s your conclusion.
@Fred_Free
@Fred_Free 4 дня назад
17:20 Is it really a boundary when at the same time you need to give a series of reasons and excuses why?
@sphblr3767
@sphblr3767 5 дней назад
i can understand and relate to every word you are saying ...may be we are just natural philosophers and writers...
@DamskoDam
@DamskoDam 5 дней назад
Damn never felt more understood before but not getting understood about specifically these topics by my peers is what make me a little aggressive sometimes because they judge me about not getting a job and be sensitive but are not able to understand where its coming from what i think is very childish
@rickemmons7300
@rickemmons7300 5 дней назад
First, Christianity doesn't need YOU. Your ideology seems to accept nothing that doesn't make sense to you, the me, me, me entitlement that entraps everyone who can't accept truth, beyond what they want it to be. Deconstructionists are lazy, immature and cowardly. So you rejected Christianity....so what? Set up your own temple of worship with your diety's picture out in front- yours.
@Fred_Free
@Fred_Free 5 дней назад
4:16 The expression (title) "No More Mr. Nice Guy” comes primarily from Alice Cooper's 1973 hit single, from the album “Billion Dollar Babies”. Also the band Sparks made a song in 1971 called “(No more) Mr. Nice Guys”. 😎
@DarraghMcCarthy
@DarraghMcCarthy 6 дней назад
Power dynamics explain a lot of the irrationality in the world, both material and perceived. If you embrace irrational beliefs you can optimise for personal gain, sidestep feelings of guilt, and make life difficult for those motivated to hold you accountable for the consequences of your actions. I think the same holds true in organisations. Irrational beliefs that empower the organisation empower members, especially those with seniority. In a sense, the sacred posturing of overtly irrational beliefs and communal enforcement lends power to the organisation. If you challenge those beliefs, you weaken the reputation of the organisation, weakening the reputation of its members. Collective narcissism.