Do you feel abused by a Narcissist? Are you in a Narcissistic Relationship and want to get out of it? Do you think your friend, loved one, or workmate is a narcissist? We upload videos that will help and educate you on how to fight, handle and survive People with Narcissism, Narcissistic Abuse, or Toxic People. Each video aims to help those who are trying to stay happy and healthy as they deal with narcissists' toxic behavior.
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I'm the scapegoat of a narcissistic family. Been called a liar so many times. Now I save all receipts so I can prove where I've been all the time. I have receipts dating back to 1995.
Excellent content. Important stuff. Concise. Really appreciated the focus on interpreting behavior and being armed with boundary-preserving comments. The value of self care makes all the difference in the world. So very important to spot these narcissistic people right away. They exist for one purpose only-to make your life miserable and that’s putting it mildly. They may be physically very attractive but don’t be fooled by their good looks their charm and flattering comments.
IBS symptoms can actually be Celiac Disease! Make sure you get checked out as this condition can be triggered by stress! I’ve just been diagnosed with it and have no family history of CD but have been struggling with Narcissistic Abuse for decades and finally walked away! Look after yourself! Stay safe and stay strong! 🙏🙏🙏
All of these points are relevant and largely true in my case, but just an observation about the video itself: I kept being distracted by the images - snippets from films. It made it harder to concentrate on what was being said.
My abuser went to jail . My divorce was final in 1996. Im still alone at home and do not seek external anything. Ive seen therapists. Doesn't seem to help. Im now 64. Do whats the point? I have ailments hes caused and i cant do anything to heal my spine. These kind of men are disgusting!
This is 💯.. I suffer from all these. I’m constantly getting yelled at because my hair is everywhere. Random rash flair ups especially on my arms, I’ve had bad stomach issues ever since I got with this person, I’m always drained, it’s like my life is slowly being sucked out of me, and his answer is “Why don’t you go to the hospital “ he also says “There’s no way I’d sit there and through that(physical pain)”
ThankU painfully accurate. One trait you highlighted: the deeply embedded core belief that lethal violence is imminent. Family of origin, parents & older sibling were a triangle of rage. A narcissistic system. I'm obsessed with the comet/asteroid that's going to crash in to the earth. "The sky is falling", 🐔 or the volcanic eruption that envelops the earth in black smoke. Glad I'm old 🤣
(watch this video),is getting the message to me"why would the regulationsridden tooyube,wich are strange to say it easy,i accept as my Dad...better listen.?.
Thanks so much for posting this video, made something in my life very clear to me and helped me get the ball rolling to exit that relationship and fully leave it behind me 🙏🏼💞
Living well is the best revenge. Don't let anyone silence your speech, your thoughts or your desires. Participate in some group activities like a garden club, kayak club, cooking classes, etc & do some fun things in safe groups!
I fucken left 10 Mark ass narcs at job site trying pull their big egos out their assholes 😂… they need to be humbled … and act like everyone else here … they have a royalty mindset and it’s not adding up killa😂
This video is informative, but that dang filter they used to make it look like an old film in this video has got to go. I couldn't focus on what was being said as much because of it. Please do not overuse this filter again.
I quit maybe 15-20 jobs within 5 years because I needed to isolate myself; I was so drained from family, workplace, relationship and recently roommate narcissistic abuse. I attract so many narcissists that solitude is my safe & happy place. 💜
What if you feel and do all these things listed on this video but could not recall having any narcissistic relationship through out your life? Is it just a weird dysfunction? A quirk?
2 years in one... Got out this year and got out of the hospital after my health was in dire life and death. I survived my life and i can't trust anyone ever again. Long distance relationships are dangerous as well as real close relationships locally. Im glad i found this video.
Cleaning 🧹 is because you're trying to erase any trace that you were in a room or used an object to avoid criticism (in case we weren't supposed to use the object or go in that room). Think of like cleaning up a crime scene, only you're just trying to make breakfast.
Im in the process of getting out of isolation. Every monday I go to a tabletop game shop and play games with a group of people. And instead of cutting off my entire narcissist family all at once I have been doing it very slowly over the last 4 Years. Instead of "don't ever speak to me again, it was "lets talk soon" and I waited for them to reach out to me for once. If they didn't then I have effectively let the Narcissist cut themselves out of my life. The last 2 are my parents and I am using them just as much as they use me. The last step is having more to do and people to do it with, so I am too busy to see them more than once a year.
1,2,5,6,7,8,10 plus she keeps my kid from me to the point she admits she has daddy issues and then, you guessed it, blames me. My whole goal in life was to be a better father than mine who abandoned me and she knows that so she keeps my daughter from me to hurt me. She deserves prison time imo.
Gramma did it. Grandpa did it. Mom did it. Dad did it. Brother does it. I have fought my whole life to be light. This junk is my junk. Getting involved with narc made it worse especially during covert discharge. I started to go crazy & when things got worse I was sent away. The stuff was full of messages. Disrespect of my stuff & method isn't ok. I am still a good person. Very painful especially when love bombing phase encouraged me. Move in. Let's get married. Dream come true became nightmare. In end I will survive. Wiser. 1 in 6 are naracisstic.
Actually, your channel has been the driving force enabling me to approach my. Clutter without fear and anxiety. Your channel popped up unexpectedly in my notifications one day and has become my "Narcissist Toolbox" as at the age of 74 I am living in "Narc Hell" with not one, but two of the abominable Creatures! Due to a host of circumstances going NO CONTACT is not an option for me. Your exceptional channel has given me the tools necessary to not. only survive in my unbearable situation but to THRIVE!! Your STN wisdom and lots of prayer have given me the "tools" necessary to find peace (what a Narc Victim craves), happiness, and yes ~ even joy again!! I owe you a depth of gratitude that my happy heart cannot express!! I cannot change the Narcissistic Creatures but I CAN change the way I react to their abuse! With your channel I feel as though I have been given access to the best therapy possible free of charge!! Thank you for your work and time spent in sharing your wisdom. You are literally changing lives for the better. You are indeed living "a purpose filled life". My gratitude knows no boundaries!!
I feel the same. I wonder what would happen if two people like us got together. There's a girl I liked but she can't sit still always going somewhere. She needs to be doing something, often sex. She also needs to dominate which I wouldn't allow her to do. They can't have peace like that
