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Yeah no, you're not going to fully trust anyone after even with all the therapy in the world, that's like trusting the potential of carnage won't happen by being in that particular arena, that's just not going to happen, those people if you can even call them that, alter forever how a person's ability to trust in their own capacity to see the monster in others and see signs of the monster that lay in waiting under their suit they display to the world and those they interact with that, that's impossible for a person to fully immerse themselves in the trust process. In this day and age with the potential destruction they can unleash, especially with how they are enabled by technology to be more effective and efficient in making these dangerous creatures absolutely lethal metaphorically and literally.
When my ex husband got very sick he wanted my daughter to make all decisions regarding his care. I didn’t see it until I left. She was living in our master bedroom with boyfriend in less than a week after I left. He is still living in the basement where I left him.
OMG every word you're saying is so true and my ex he is a secondary psychopath narcissistic covert narcissistic personality disorder schizophrenic has every symptom of every disorder that's on the cluster b dark triad, it's actually insane he's definitely possessed by demons try to kill me three times abused me in every single way and now is in prison for what he did to me
I’m an empath that came from a narcissistic family and married a narcissist with a narcissistic family. I’ve observed these demonic creatures all my life. Narcissists are so dumb they pretend they know everything but they know nothing. Their so shallow and so full of false theatrics that people believe. Satanic beings nothing more. They have satanic traits such as lying, sexual deviancy, heartless, evil, false theatrics, heartless etc. Run from them and don’t ever look back. Go NO CONTACT FOR LIFE as I did now I’m born again!
My narcissistic ex mother in-law is so evil. If she wanted to wrongly accuse me and bring me down she would turn around and tell people that I said something so horrible to her that I didn’t even say. That’s how satanic she is. I’ve gone NO CONTACT FOR LIFE now with all the narcissistic family pack and I feel born again.
It wasn’t funny 16 years ago when I got out of the relationship but it’s good to be able to laugh now. Sometimes those horrible 14 years I was with the narcissist seems just like a horrible nightmare…
Spent 30 years with a narcissist. It’s been five years since I left and I can finally see the truth. Thank you for explaining all this. You totally get it.
Should everyone that had a relationship with a narcissist got to therapy even if it wasn't a long the relationship (about 1 1/2 year) and didn't contain as intense abuse or do you think it's possible zo heal without?
The infancy of research into mental health, neurogenic disease is unforgivable. Research gets praise for obvious illness resolution. It's the hidden depression, early rare disease onset and the unnecessary diseases of the elderly that don't attract attention. Their research was left behind just like the victims. Thanks for the update.
Get strong. Know yourself and your weaknesses. If you expect someone to make you whole you're not healed. A complete person is wholly in acceptance of themselves. Carrying baggage into another relationship even if the new person is good and decent can be ruined by unresolved issues within you.
YES. My ex who hasn’t had a full-time job in 24 years is now in graduate school to become a therapist after gaining tools in therapy to use against me. I’m going to be supporting her until I die it seems. 💀
I'm experiencing so many people in Canada where I live, playing the victim with both the narcisist and codependant in relationships trapped in a sense of entitlement. Validation of this egoic identity and this sense of entitlement stay trapped and stuck with social media help websites. Could it be, mothers giving a subjective view and fathers giving an objective view of the same issue with most children stuck with a mostly a subjective view of understanding of life. Without objective thinking you get a generation of complaining children not able to objectively seeing a way out. I honestly see a problem of child abuse in Canada. A life coach online explains this as "smothering mother syndrome" happening, keeping their children subjectively stuck and still living at home in their 30's. Objective and subjective gives children their individual independent identity needed to deal with life issues is missing in a lot of Canadian children today.
Richard has spoken about this in other videos. If therapy didnt help, its not the right therapist for you. Go to another one. And anothrr. And another. There are so many out there and not all are experienced in this arena ❤ always be there to do good for your own self.
Since now is more known and talked about. NPD RU-vid it !! And Google it !! Get all the info like reading a real good book to know the small or med or red flags of there ugliness hidden !! Dating or Not GET to know them for yrs bc you can’t tell who’s a Narcissist . Better safe then miserable bc you sleep with one. Make sure you test to see if he or she is very patient most aren’t in very way.
So powerful a message. And ironically, all the issues I currently realize I need to resolve. I have shut down, become a people "disliker" and definitely don't enjoy life like I used to. I feel trapped in myself, shut in my own mind and escape with books on other people's travels. Even 5 years after contac with my Narc hubs.... its a realization that I knew...but ignored. I am smart, i read physics for fun,work hard, have a great immediate family ... but that relationship changed me in unseen ways, even with no children. 1.5 years of human degradation suffered... 5 years later, still rebuilding me.
We just lost our 4.5 yo Lucy 3 weeks ago. She was an amazing and very loyal pooch. The pain in my heart is unimaginable. We have 3 fur babies and she was our first to lose. I’m still in shock. It was a tragic accident and we’re devastated. She has been sending me signs though. She was larger than life and still is in death. Her personality was huge and she is still making me so proud with it as she is still shining thru. God is so good. We are so blessed to have had her at all. ❤
Forget the therapist! They'll only help you leave the relationship via suicide because the therapist is the narcissist or the Flying Monkey! Don't go there because the therapist have no training in narcissism, victims of abuse, or NPD of any kind.
I waa joyful and full of love to share but then he lied, tricked me, threatened to hang me, had me deported, tried to take my kids, destroy my reputation, destroy my life, put me in court for 8 yrs for no real reason whilst he remarried, rang me after I finally won court and said "I will always love you" whilst he is still married to the 3rd wife. After recovering from that, 15 years later meet someone, he lied, cheated, etc etc and now I don't need anyone for anything. I got away from the narcs and they won't be seeing me ever again. I also have no reason to let anyone into my life. I do have love but its not for anyone except my children and dogs cats and all the starving children in the world. Not in that order. If you really care about what's right you will also put the starving children first. How evil is it to let children starve! Stop thinking about yourself and your stupid relationship which is just to meet your needs. Go find some starving children who really need us all. Once you become an adult, being needy is over.
That's my Point, i not only feel guilty, there's more. The last few weeks, and finding Your Channel were mindblowing, and so much happen in this Times, and idk why but i reached the Point when i was crying for hrs and there was this Moment...i realised the Essence, there was this one Question in my Head: how can i forgive myself, and why i did not safed myself.... And tbh i cried like a Baby, like i felt myself with all the fu***** Pain and i just felt the need to hold myself, all the Pain my Body went through. Hard to forgive and understand...
Oh yeah. Me. Still. 2 years no-contact. 5th long term relationship. After 13 years celibate. And i held my boundaries and always stood up for myself. Laughed at the silly tantrums. Growled back when growled at. Let them walk away and let them return. With the last 2 returns the worst punishments of my life. Almost to my death. 2 years also seeing the flaws and loopholes in the law, in the courts, all being exposed by this demon. I am a foot soldier conscripted by my Creator to fight the good fight for Mumma Earth and also expose these demons. Really bring them into the light. A light so bright it has the potential to burn the vermin ❤
I think that you make a mistake with a covert narcissist...friend ..that is really difficult to see. And you now it when you discover that they don't listen to you. And they get bored when you speak.
I agree with the part that they don't listen, and if they act like they listen and answer You, specially when You talk about what they did and how hard it was, my Ex used to answer and talk like another Person, like he did not hurt me, sometimes i believe he has 5-6 diff Personalities. Today i had to talk to him, and as always we talked about what happend, and i told him how hard some of the Years have been, how much i suffered. He had his Phone reading Jokes, and said: oh my God i found a funny Joke, wanna hear? And i learned it makes 0 Sense to argue or tell him that it's super wrong, i just replied: sorry i'm not in the Mood for Jokes, and sorry for my Behavior i didnt wanted to annoy You....and walked away. I dont know what i expected, but there was no: Sorry that was rude or: i hope You will be fixed soon or: i hope soon there will be someone who is giving You a Hug and make You feel safe. Nope, not a single Word...i guess i was right to Apologie to him, bcs there was no complaining, that's crazy..
