I speak about topics in the realm of spirituality, philosophy, psychology, inner healing, meditation and anything else that may interest me. I am dedicated to sharing my insights and knowledge with the world in hopes that they will help others.
BA, Psych
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Email (best way to contact me): evanthomasgill@gmail.com
Instagram: @myselfasevan
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Disclaimer: The information I offer on this channel is based on my own life experience and research. I am not a licensed psychologist, medical doctor, or health care professional and my services do not replace the care of psychologists, doctors or other healthcare professionals. If you are experiencing a mental health emergency, please call 911.
Celibate for many years and recently have chosen to quit drinking beer or any alcohol...finding it easier to not even notice women....I don't want to be social and have no need for human friends...my dogs are my friends ..I do like the idea of being Like a kid again ..and I also see nature as my friends the birds, the sky, the trees, the wind...I'm never alone
You are so right. We live in a world where people are supposed to be 'busy' all the time as a badge of honor. Rushing around, never settling down, always focused on the next thing they 'have' to do. Life just passes them by. Solitude is essential for some of us, and knowing when we have "enough". I have friends, and I need them, but being alone much of the time is a natural state for some of us.
For the first time in my life today, I thought.. "if I'm single for the rest of my life... So be it-- I got my back". I'm using ONE dating app, and if someone doesn't come along who is also self-aware, loves themselves and on the same page as me.... I'll just continue to be happily single, thank you. Thank you for this video!
your perspective is spot on. Society has brainwashed so many people. Once you have hobbies you are passionate about and goals ; being single is peaceful. modern dating is also messed up
Fame : I don’t care and don’t need too Relationships : I don’t care and do need too ! Money : Yes 😂😂 but Anyone who says he/she does not need money in his/her life is a liar ! 😂😂 Unless the person is a monk or nun . . . Money is necessary because 99% of our problems are solved by it ! After, each person to find its limits on what it still needs or not ! And you can’t say what it is the limit for that person because it’s up to everyone to know their own needs for their life !
Great video -- I just managed to have one of your videos pop up in my RU-vid channels and glad that it did. I'm looking forward to listening to more episodes as time goes on. Thank you 🤘🏼
It’s so true about society putting that narrative on getting married and how it makes some of us seem incomplete if not reached.. you hit it on the nail! I’m so glad I feel more at peace on my own and working on myself in the meantime until I naturally meet someone 💯
I'm crushed.. 22 years he became alcoholic and started to blame me for everything and anything and accusing me when I have NEVER been anything but 💯 with him... So a few months later my dad passed he breaks up w me same damn night. I cry n try to make it work. Fast forward 11 months and he quit drinking 1 month n I find out right B4 he quit and right after he had been cheating! Nd at that time he was I almost lost my mom and I thought we were doing good and have pictures of the exact days he cheated and beautiful Happy looking pics and good days I thought ... I find this a month later.... WTF do I do w this??? Mind u we have ALWAYS thought we were soulmates and after 20 years still have this spark and this feeling that usually goes away and idk how tf to deal w this...... Nd he has Always called me baby never my first name and of course that's what he called one of the girls he was talking to on the phone on a chat line.🤦Now every time he says it I hear what he says.🤦💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
I love your videos. Even though I finally healed and fully accepted ending things with him. You’re still helping me get over a breakup because every now and then I have intrusive thoughts and rumination on the good times. I’m Muslim and pray 5x a day bowing down and standing etc. But I also added mindful meditation to my daily routine so I can be more present and ground myself. And your videos are a part of my routine. Thank you so much. You are amazing 💖
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Here’s the thing don’t let the emotions get to you don’t let it control your mind believing that’s the one and you’ll never be happy without them is a trick that will mess up your mental health letting go is the best option it hurts yes but it’s the best choice because in the end you’ll be happy at first you’ll struggle but once you keep going and when you reach far you’ll finally realize your happy again you’re smiling glowing and living life you’ll look back and see the dark place you were in and you’ll feel proud you made the right choice in moving on
Actually, only the now exists anyway. Everything else is an illusion. And yes: Something is never right for people. If you have one million, you want the second. Happiness doesn't lie on the outside anyway...
So true. If something feels confusing or not good, even if checks the boxes.... I am out of there. Nothing wrong with whatever it is, it's just not for me.
So grateful I found your channel, it is jam-packed with wisdom and insight, and seems to be so relevant to what I am experiencing at any given time. Ultimately, the things we are told by society to pursue (whether explicitly or implicitly) hold little to no value whatsoever. External validation, career success, our 'other half', stuff...they serve to adorn the ego and take us further from lasting happiness and inner peace.
O my goodness to get this mindset @ such a young age priceless, well done young man. Just by people watching you will have an effect on them, just keep doing the work. ❤
Great video. I have recently been noticing more how great my life is, even though I am *doing* less activities than ever before. It's easy to question if going out less means there is a problem but actually there is a lot of value in appreciating what we have and have spent years creating. When is enough enough?
