A 33 year old dreamer who has multiple passions and has sometimes difficulties to choose one path. I'm childfree by choice and have gotten a lot of criticism because of that. My goal is to inspire others to follow their heart, no matter what other people think, even though it can be difficult, but regret is even worse.
It's so liberating for me to be childfree because in my society many women have children. Being childfree gives me great freedom and joy. Also, Jesus Christ will return soon so I'd rather prepare for that than raise children and worry.
I have read that in Sweden there is almost no violent crime or criminal gangs or drugs issues. So that news is Wrong, the reason for not having crime it is said that due to equality and social security. It is sad that even in Sweden there is violent criminal gangs and violent Crimes. Sweden is said to one of the safest and peaceful country to live in.
@@Fan-zx1lz well, I have witnessed a lot of shit in Sweden.. my friend got knife robbed (got a stab wound in the leg) when he went grocery shopping.. there are a lot of shootings, explosions etc
The world is nasty is the reason I don't want to have kids. I don't want to bring them into this world of drugs, gangs and all other things which makes Life unbearable.
Having a child who grows up to be a productive, sane citizen is a gamble in today's world. You might end up birthing a deranged lunatic that ends up ending your life. It's not really worth having kids today, but if everyone thinks this way, eventually there will be a huge population decline and collapse of economies. I do think people should be more responsible about having kids.
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If you’re lonely there are so many others you can connect with or just be on your own. That is fine too. Happiness comes in different forms. Childree ❤❤❤
I needed this after being shamed by 2 women I thought I was genuinely close to bc I don't want kids. Its one thing for strangers to say you're going to die alone and something is wrong with you at a fundamental level if you don't want kids, but its another when it comes from people you thought understood and respected you.
I don't want to bring kids into this world to suffer from diseases, the fight for money making and the usual fitting in the societal expectations. I hate to make them go through this. My country is the most populated place in the world, so there is no need to bring more humans into this existence.
You are very to the point and straight. No nagging and topic dragging. I have subscribed to your channel. I am a solid Childfree man from an Asian country, here it is very very Hard to be Childfree, because the societal pressure to get married and have kids is very intense and people are mad towards the ones who don't follow the regular pathway of Life.
Thank you for your kind feedback! <3 I feel with you, it is very difficult when you become the outcast just because you don't want children... it's so sad :(
The main reason I prefer to be child-free is the reduced stress, responsibility and financial obligation. I have a job so I can't just run off and do whatever I want when I want, but at least I have more time around my work schedule to relax and do fun things occasionally.
Most of these benefits are just the general advantages of not doing things in life. For example, if you do not travel for vacation this also saves money, time and energy and more opportunity to do the things you really want. However, I would save in many other areas before I would have to concede that I cannot afford kids. Also, a woman who wants children could team up with a man who has the same plans and they could mange their finances together.
Absolutely, but to say that it's just as easy with kids as it is without kids is just a lie :) You can do all of these things with kids as well, at the cost of something else. And me personally, as like other people, are not willing to sacrifice these other things, either way it totally fine as long as you choose what's best for you. For me - it's to be without kids and I do not regret my choice
@@a.medved I agree it's a matter of preference. As I wrote, I do not like travelling to far-off places where I know nobody, so that's an easy choice. The most serious disadvantage of having kids is the adverse career impact. One of the two partners at least will have to take it slower. On the other hand, having a family also keeps us from dedicating our souls to our employers and to our work, which can help maintain a healthy balance.
@@erikt1713 absolutely! And usually it is the woman who makes that sacrifice or choice depending on how much the career matters to that individual. Don’t get me wrong, I admire people who choose to have children and dedicates their lives to raise great kids, but it is definitely not for everyone, there are always pros and cons, the question is what is more important to an individual! Thank you for a very nice discussion regarding this topic! I appreciate that ☺️
I fostered a premature kitten to hand feed for 2 weeks. I was beyond exhausted. Middle of nite feeding nearly floored me. I remember saying how the hell do parents do this? When kitten was adopted l slept for 3 days. The relief. No l don't want children. No
I can relate! I adopted my cat when she was 4 months old, and she was a very curious and wild kitten...She made me cry multiple times thinking "What have I done?" by adopting a cat so young lol The experience made me not want to have children very much just based on how exhausting it was to keep her out of trouble.
Thanks for doing this video im glad that celebrities are speaking up about being childfree also some other celebrities who are childfree John Cusack Debbie Morgan Christopher lloyd Christopher walken The late ginger Rogers
Great video! I love hearing famous people being vocally child-free. It is important because it's something the whole of society needs to hear. Many people still assume it's just a part of life, you just do it. They never think of the consequences, and worse they build this negative image around people who simply don't feel maternal/paternal. I love Ricky Gervais - his comedy bit about being child-free is funny, sad and so true. 😹
My favourite childfree celebrities besides these people are Betty White (RIP), Dolly Parton, Ricky Gervais, Kim Cattrall, Wynona Rider, Sandra Oh, Margaret Cho, Michelle Yeoh, Helen Mirren, Chelsea Handler, Sarah Millican, Renee Zellweger, Stevie Nicks, Tracey Ellis Ross & Sarah Paulson
Actually Michelle yeoh is childless she wanted kids but when she married her first husband she found out that she couldn't have kids that's why her first marriage ended
Maybe they didn't really change there mind. Maybe just when they was younger some people didn't realise they didn't want kids maybe they wasn't fully thinking
I have seen the norm it looks awfully boring and terrible you are a lot of fun don't ever change enjoy your hobbies enjoy the way you live do things your own way don't Bray up with the rest of the Sheep please be happy and please be well❤
Sorry that this is often topic from childfree. But because people might miss them and they might have nasty new nabers. They could even say that moving might be selfish
Because it's possible to quit if they really want to or try hard enough. I think a caring mum would stop smoking when pregnant or even before they get pregnant
There can be lots of ways how people wouldn't make a good parent what they don't even think about. Like smoking when pregnant or in the house around there kids that is selfish
Smoking when pregnant or in the house around there kids is selfish. There can be lots of ways how people wouldn't make a good parent. What they might not even think about
If they are selfish and they don't bother with there parents or siblings. I dosen't look like it would be a good ides for them to have kids. Possible not even a partner
I can have a hard time trying to live by myself without kids yelling at me telling me, "Mommy where are going?!" And whether I know it or not, someone might kidnap one my kids while I'm trying to find a place to stay.
I'm convinced if pregnancy was automatic, the world would be filled with people looking for ways to be childfree. It's largely because of the work to get there people think children are inherently valuable and worthwhile. You have to find a man. You have to build a commited relationship. The next step is kids. Why? Cause. If kids were mandatory they wouldn't be special and more people would wish to opt out than those that now wish to opt in.
