Roy Erikson probably because he didn't want to burden her?Likewise, his own members didn't even know that he was going through that much pain and suffering. Just like how snsd members know about Taeyeon's burdens, shine members probably knew that Jonghyun had burdens as well but that they left them alone because the two of them do not want to burden their own members with their own burdens.
살면서 행복한 일도 있지만 얼마나 힘든지 고독한지 외로운지 살아가고 있는 저도 이해가되요. 힘들어도 당장 옆사람한테 짐이될까봐 쉽게 털지못하는 응어리 지는 마음들도 정말 공감가요. 진짜 나의 모습은 아무도 궁금해 하지 않는다는 점도 정말 공감이가요. 감정적인 사람들 사느라 지쳐있는 사람들 있는 그대로의 마음을 진실된 표정으로 공감해줄 수 있는게 제일 위로가 되는거 같아요. 그렇게 해주지 못해서 미안해요. 저 또한 위로해주지 못한 남 일뿐이었겠지만 앞으로 살아가는 동안은 사람대 사람으로 그 사람의 진짜 모습을 보려고 진실되게 살아갈께요. 정말 많은 생각과 고독함속에서도 살아가려고 애쓰는 모습마저 강했고 수고했어요. 정말 아픔이 없이 좋은 길 가셨으면 좋겠어요.
사람은 살아가면서 다양한 상황속에 놓이고 아픔을 마주하게되죠 사람은 힘든 순간마다 진실되게 자신을 이해해주는 사람이 필요할지 몰라요 혼자서 그 아픔을 견뎌내야하는게 익숙한 사람은 드물겠죠 글쓴이님깨서 사람을 진실되게 마주하려는 마음을 가졌다는거 자체가 너무 멋진거 같아요 상대방의 고통을 마주보고 이해해 주겠다는건 죽어가는 생명을 다시 살아갈수있게 도와주는 아름다운 일이죠 쓴이님깨서도 힘든일이 있으셨고 때로는 차가운 사람이였던적도 있으시지만 누군가의 감정을 위해 따듯함을 품으려는것 종현님처럼 힘든 상황에 놓여있는 사람을 도와주고 싶다는 마음 저에게도 그 감정이 전해지는거 같아요 쓴이님 사랑을 실천하는데 혼자서 애쓴다고 느끼신적이 있나요? 다들 상처를 입으면서도 상처를 아무렇지 않게 주는데 익숙해져 있죠 사람들 틈 속에서 쓰니님도 많이 지치신적이 있다고 생각이들어요 쓰니님 저는 사랑스러운 쓰니님깨서 하나님의 은혜가 함깨하길 바래요 쓰니님을 사랑하는 형제 자매님들도 계시고 하나님이 계세요 하나님이 동행하시면 사랑을 실천하는게 더 자연스러워지고 쓰니님의 상처도 많이 나아지게 될거에요 경험담 이에요 저도 이러한 감정을 느낀지 얼마 안되었지만 좀 더 여유롭고 멋진 사람으로 변화되는게 느껴져요 하나님이 함깨하시기에 사랑을 두려움없이 전해주는게 가능해졌어요 따듯한 마음을 지닌 사랑스러운 쓴이님 쓴이님 앞날을 위해 기도할게요 사랑해요 화이팅!!!
NOW I understand why JH is looking at TY in such a way people thought it was just for the performance...he's broken, he's really feeling the loneliness and pain and OH Jonghyun~ 😞#Jonghyunyouareloved
Jonghyun's passing is especially hard on Taeyeon because she understood him. She knew. They were that close. He wrote this song with her in mind because unfortunately she's suffering as well.
She knew everything... she just couldn’t stop him she was in the same boat as him. But she promised that she will not think of going away anymore since jonghyun passing. This friendship out of mutual sadness and love for music had such a tragic ending. Hopefully he is watching her from heaven keeping a smile on her face.
jonghyun looks so sad here. i feel like this song was a cry for help but nobody realized what he was going through Rest in Peace Jonghyun you will be forever loved
dicemarta I got anxiety myself and it feels as if its eating me slowly day by day. Jonghyun really needed help comfort. I'm not really angry about that psychiatrist. Im just questioning uri Shinee members. I'm glad that i have someone to get the most dear comfort from and wish someone was there for angel voice......
It should be the opposite. The psychiatrist is a professional trained to help people with EXACTLY the kinds of problems he had; he/she should know more than anyone else how serious it is, how to treat him, help him get better. _Not_ blame him. The members - they have not said anything, and they probably won't for a long time, but they are his close friends who were probably of the most comfort to him. The friend he left his last note to said she tried, and his family tried, to stop this from happening but they couldn't. They were there to listen to him, offer him a hug, tell him he IS good enough, all the things he wanted to hear the most, but it just wasn't enough. Would you blame them too? How do you know the members weren't there for him? Do they really have to make a public announcement that they were there for him? Jonghyun's family consider the boys like his family too; they are standing in place of immediate male family members at his funeral. They did not have to do that, and his funeral is not the time to make a "public image statement." No one would blame them if they did not do that because the members are not his relatives. I have/have had anxiety and depression myself. That's not the same as wanting to commit _______. At all. For me, both were different. When I had anxiety, I was comforted by my friend's hug. And it was only instances. Even in the worst of it, I knew it would eventually fade out again. (And start up again, and fade again...which is tiring but doesn't make me think life is not worth it.) Depression? It was every second, every day, and I pushed everyone away, purposely hurt them, ESPECIALLY those who cared about me. I couldn't stand having them around me all the time. I didn't _want_ to be happy. It wasn't as severe for me as it was for Jonghyun, but reading his words... I think I understand a little bit. Living for someone else, even your most beloved people in the world, his mom and sister, is only enough for so long if you don't want to live for yourself. He was hurting every day and he just wanted to end it.
according to taeyeon instagram jonghyun said he write this song when he thinks about taeyeon I guess jonghyun is more of like sharing this feeling with taeyeon
+Irma Oktavia thankyou so much:")❤ it really means so much for us, yeah shawol have to move on because i believe that is the only one that jonghyun couldve ask for. he want people who loves him live their life to the fullest
Please, always remember to think twice before you speak. Always remember that idols are human too. Always remember that love is always the way. Don't forget to look after your loved ones when you still have the possibility to do so, remind them that life is precious, humanity sucks but you can change your situation by spreading love. If we all had this mentality, people wouldn't become so desperate, so depressed to the point that nothing is important for them...to the point that Death seems the only way out. Please, people. Before doing anything think twice. To all the people who contributed in making him feel hopless, shame on you. But writing it doesn't change the fact he's not alive anynore. Please reflect on your actions, and never take your words for granted.
I met Jonghyun a few years ago. My Uncle works for SM Entertainment an introduced me to him. We had lunch together and remained friends ever since. When I got back to the United States we remained friends and emailed each other all the time. We talked about everything, especially his close bond to Taeyeon. He never mentioned to me he was depressed but he did say he felt alone a lot, especially after his concerts. I'm still in contact with his sister though. We talk on the phone.
Key .. In between recoding sessions I asked my Uncle if I could meet him and my Uncle talked to him and after a long session of recording Jonghyun came over to me and shook my hand. We had a nice conversation. And ever since we became friends. Then I was also invited to his rehearsals also to watch. I could see how hard they all worked getting all the dance moves just right. I could tell they were exhausted and even overworked. He said videos were really hard to do sometimes as they had to go over and over it to get it right. Jonghyun was a perfectionist. My Uncle still works with SM Entertainment.
his pain is so noticable in this song... the way he stares at taeyeon cause he feels the song.....he feels the lonliness. he looks so empty and wants her to understand or to see that he needs help!
Jonghyun's passing is especially hard on Taeyeon because she understood him. She knew. They were that close. He wrote this song with her in mind because unfortunately she's suffering as well. Jonghyun didn't hide the fact that he had depression. He didn't hide it from his family, his close friends nor his fans. He was in so much pain for so long that he just wanted everyone to say "You worked hard" at the very end because he endured it for as long as he could.
I asked myself before why jonghyun was so emotional in this performance but now i know how much this song meant to him rest in peace 😣 you will be missed😭😭
i was feeling very lonely and depressed after hearing the news, i miss jonghyun. listening to this makes me cry more. i hope taeyeon and other shinee members are doing fine. . .
I was grieving over the loss and went to shower with a heavy heart, wondering why was nothing done to help him. As tears started to well up and questions kept surfacing, the Lord spoke to me in reassurance that he is saved (: Jesus at the moment of his unconsciousness came to minister to him, and came to him as his personal lord & saviour. Now the artist is safely nestled in the Lord's embrace, free from the sting of death and pain of the world (: Then a verse which I rarely read was brought to my memory by Abba, Psalms 34:18 'The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.' And He did (: we might ask why was the artist not attended to before his death then? I do not have the answer, but I know God loves His children far more than we can comprehend, and surely heaven is a better place than earth. I am just glad that Jonghyun does not have to battle on with pain in his earthly life anymore, and that the lord has saved him from eternal death (: take heart, all is well :) God has got this instagram.com/p/Bc4xkknj5zn/?taken-by=leexinyi_van
im so sorry if we are too blind to see, too deaf to hear your weep. im so sorry if we failed to save you from the depression that silently eating you. im so sorry Jonghyun. I hope you are happy wherever you are.
The way Jonghyun looks at Taeyeon feels like he's been in love with her since decade. And you know what, Taeyeon can date any of Shinee members because it also feels like they'll be good at Taeyeon and so what Sones and Shawols are always in good terms.
He suffered so hard but we weren't there for him ...now this tragedy happened and I don't now what to do...thinking we have to life without this beautiful human being from now on breaks my heart into million peaces . You will forever stay in our hearts and we pray you are happy where you are now ... RIP KIM JONGHYUNG 08.04.1990 - 18.12.2017
THIS IS NOT COLLAB OF THE YEAR BUT THIS IS COLLAB OF THE LIFE😭THEY VOICE BLEND TOGETHER EVEN TAEYEON HOLD LAUGHTER WHEN SHE LOOK AT JJONG😂 BUT THE EMOTION THEY PUT TOGETHER HIT ME HARD..THANK YOU FOR WORKING HARD BOTH OF U #SONE #SHAWOL
Yagmur Yeliz yes it is, he wrote this song with Taeyeon in his mind because he knows that Taeyeon knows how it feels. Taeyeon suffers from depression too that's why.
@@bachaparty6593 Yes she did. The peak of her depression was in 2014 where the issues like her relationship with Baekhyun and Jessica leaving the group completely took toll on her, it completely devoured her. She really loosed a lot of weight that time and she couldn't even put a smile on her face for a long long time. And we haven't heard her ahjumma laugh for a couple of years since then. But now, it seems that Taeyeon already recovered and is genuinely happy already.
Dude, Jonghyun's stare!!! Even I got a bit shy through my computer screen hahaha he's such a great singer along with Taeyeon. This is a really great duet.Truly shows how talented they are. Such an eargasm to listen to this.
형..올해 12.18이 되면 종현형 3주기네.많이 그립고 이렇게 형의 노래 부르는 영상을 통해 듀엣을 통해 형의 얼굴표정,목소리,잘생긴 외모를 볼 수 있어서 진짜 보고싶고 그립다.사랑하고 참 사랑했다.그립다.종현형 그거 알어.내가 쑥스러서 콘서트 못갔지만 마음만큼은 얼마나 가고 싶어했는지..고마워 종현형 .♥
I recalled that when they sang the "Breath" duet in 2014, there were people complaining that they did not have any eye contact when they sang. Now when it comes to "Lonely", they start to improve on that LOL. But the whole thing is weird, as this song is quite sad in some way, and so they need to keep the poker face (esp. Jonghyun). This is really embarrassed as they know they aren't sad at tht point lolllll
Heidi Wong i think of how she once said if she looks at him she will laugh. so she closes her eyes. but now that she looks at him, she gas to hold in the laughter. its funny
LOL me too bc i know she can't laugh so i laugh for her when they sang "Breath" taeyeon said that she couldn't look in his eyes so she decided to look his ear instead lol
Remember that gaze forever as the gaze of someone crying out for help. So if someone ever does look at you the way Jonghyun looked at Taeyeon... please, reach for their hand and help them.
Taeyeon will miss you so much. It must be really painful for her to see you go. Thank you for giving us a chance to listen to your extraordinary voice, rest now our angel. You worked hard, its time for you to rest.
Songs and performances like this are why kpop kills western music. Theres nothing like this here in the US. The variety of music in kpop is what makes it special. Jong hyun and tae yun killing it as always. Tae yun tho
Haha I know. The thing is I choose not to go with the romanization. Eo doesn't sound like u to me so I go with u. I'm just not a fan of romanization. It often leads to mispronounciation for people that don't know korean. For ex, so many people say tae yang instead of tae yahng
BEST COLLABORATION FROM SM EVER! Taeyeon and Jonghyun are the best sm artists to collaborate 😍😍😍 SHOUT OUT TO MY CO SONES AND SHAWOLS WHO DIED FOR THIS COLLABORATION ❤❤❤
Coming back after the news of Jonghyun's death 😣 I will miss JongTae moments. Jonghyun is one of the most talented idols in KPOP. Stay strong shawols. #RIPJonghyun
Hanashi Cross It’s sad how that wasn’t the case… it was a look of sympathy because they understood each other’s thoughts and feelings. I really miss him ㅠㅠ
anyway you don't know what feelings he had towards Taeyeon just sympathy, friendly feelings or anything else. he said he thought about Taeyeon while writing this song tho
Jonghyun's stare at Taeyeon tho, it can melt.. but Taengoo looked like she's quite holding her laugh specially at the end, that little smile she did is so cute 💕 Their vocals are so soothing and calming 💖💖
i always love shinee snsd interactions without getting bashed:') btw, jonghyun and taeyeon really have an angelic voice, i think i must listen this song for second or third time to love this song like other's sm song, but i fell in love with this song and their voice in just a second
