Yeah… I don’t care one way or another. I’ve done things for money that I needed to do for survival, and that includes my time in uniform (which I never discuss with anyone) She’s more likely to have more in common with me if she’s lived the life. Good on her for being a survivor!!!
I just ended an LDR. I am 65 and she is 39 living in Cebu. My crush wears a man's Rolex that she claims was given to her by a Chinese businessman when she worked in Dubai. Money complaints are commonplace but she always seems to come up with cash . She was giving me the signs that she is losing interest in me. I did not fall off of a turnip wagon yesterday. Her money maker is paying the bills and got her a Rolex.
If you have your brain in your head and not down in your pants, you hire a "detective agency" that checks out the lady BEFORE you take the big step to marriage, they are everywhere in se-asia and pretty cheap.
Agree with "red flag", social media site addiction and continual postings of herself in scantily clad outfits; serves as advertisement for potential new "customers".
Hi guys, Great tips on spotting prostitutes/bar girls. Can I add a couple of comments? If she has tattoos, it doesn’t necessarily mean she’s a bar girl/prostitute. But it does mean, she might be rebellious against her family, she could be the “black sheep”, of the family. This could “still” be a red flag for us. Chrissy is a sweetheart of an Angel, and it’s cute that she’s never been to a club, or seen a live band. So, my question is this. A woman may “say”, she’s never been to a club, bar, or seen a live band. But how do we know, if that’s really true, hmm 🤔??? Great blog guys, keep them coming, 😎😉👍🏼❤️.
@@Chrissyinlove1993 thank you for taking the time to respond, Chrissy. I’m sure you’re busy, creating & responding to everyone’s blogs. Keep the great blogs coming, take, God bless, salamat, 🙏🏼😊❤️.
I used to date a lot in Cuba. One way to find out if a woman is half way intelligent , is to ask her some very basic general knowledge questions. The ones who didn’t know the most basic math, was probably a jinetera.
Dear Chrissy and Rob - again an interesting video. But I found it a bit monotonous. I personally believe that the same applies to the male part. Many men are not honest either. Best regards from Denmark
SE Asian society is still conservative. They still look down on women smoking and having tatoos (except in bargirl culture). If your love interest has multiple tattoos or large tattoos- that's a big red flag. If she has just a 2" butterfly 🦋 on her back, it's not a concern.
I’ve heard you mention in other videos that Chrissy has “the look”. Yeah!!! In spades. Pretty face, light skin, classy style, intelligence, and friendly personality. 🥇 You did good!!
I think a year is a good idea. But in your case you may want to make it 2 years. 1st yr just with Chrissy. 2nd yr with Chissy son in the house full time. Right now, your #1 every day. With her son in the house full time, your #2.
I Dated a couple of bargirl online, some treated me better than the average girl. some bar girls were honest about what they do, not lie about everything all the time like regular pinay
Tattoos are usually a good indicator. It is not 100 percent, but the more tattoos a woman has in Asia, the higher the odds are. I have lived and worked in Asia and there are three types of women you will meet. Professional, mistress, and western curious. Watch out for the first two. The best advice I got from my Asian friends was if an Asian women is serious about you, she will spend your money like it is her money. You would be amazed how cheap an Asian women can live.
When I was searching and I saw a tattoo anywhere, immediately I would not give the like. I have since seen a vlogger or two, with tattoo and have softened on that position a little. However, that is now mute for me as I have found my ONE and I met her wonderful family the day I got off the plane.
I married a working girl...she was working as a teacher and working on her masters in education degree. There are other options with Filipinas than bargirls and poor province girls.
I would have a problem with witch woman is working or not. They are all so beautiful. Maybe by the way they dressed or by they way you described I would get it.
I don’t do tattoos . no disrespect for people who have them . i have seen some cool ones but it is a turn off for me to see women with them. sorry . just my personnel opinion.
I'm sorry guys but I think this video was a bit judgemental, especially at the start. You talk about how a 40yo I might meet had "questionable" income sources in her 20s. Who am I to judge her for 20 years in the past. I'm sure both of you also have "secrets" still from each other, that are long in the past. If I am dating her in the now, and she is misleading or lieing in the now the that is different, as is outright lieing. But trying not to reveal all the secrets of our past is human natrue and I believe a right of passage that comes with ageing. I have things Id rather keep "buried" and I do not believe there is one person on this planet who would not rather keep some things about themselves in the past or private.
Just on a side note…when you mentioned Chrissy watching Korean dramas, so much makes sense about her demeanor and my perception of how she thinks. I was raised on Korean and Japanese dramas…and I love them. They provide such good examples of human nature, both, the good and the bad. But, almost without exception, they are high in morals, and as such, they are excellent models for individuals, and for society as a whole. I personally think Chrissy could be a good actress in such dramas as she has the subtlety of facial expressions along with feminine grace in body motions…with the plus that she can sing, just as could actresses of old in America. On the topic of prostitution, I am far more forgiving of women going into it as a means to economically survive in locations around the world without enough economic opportunities. I, too, believe people can redeem themselves, although, I also know that most people never do. What counts is if, once having built enough funds, they had set themselves up with another way of funding their lives. The example Chrissy brought up about a woman who had given up that life for five years. Yes, if that were the case, I personally could live with that, so long as the woman had inherent redeeming qualities, such as a high maternal instinct, a deeply loving and affectionate nature…etc. For the most part, especially if she had told me from the beginning, a person’s past is his or her own, and so long as she left it in the past and fully gave herself to a better future with me, I could embrace the new her as well. Such a woman could far more easily leave her past behind than could a woman who were willingly very promiscuous, one who had multiple partners just for her immediate gratification. Such a woman could never pair bond deeply. But a woman who did it for economic necessity, and not for short term thrills, could. The inner drive for their actions were different, and motives can mean everything in the determination of future actions. Now, would a previous prostitute be my first choice? No…however, it would not be an automatic exclusion, so long as she were honest from the beginning. Actually, for her to have been honest from the beginning where she didn’t have to be would make her a rare find, as she would have been willing to lose an opportunity, for, ironically, morality. On tattoos, I think anyone having them, there should be one basic reason to have on, one way to get one, and the placement of which should not be for public showing. First, the tattoo should have a deep personal significance…a deep meaning. Second, it should be high quality…a work of art. And, the placement should never be on the face or neck. When a person does so, barring cultural significance, they do it not for themselves, but for the attention they get from others, whether good or bad. Well, you certainly hit upon topics I was not expecting. However, they were tastefully covered, and so, I greatly enjoyed the video.
Why bother taking a chance on a woman who works in a bar? Does working in a bar guarantee a girl sleeps around? No. But, with millions of eligible girls, just move-on to a girl not working in a massage parlor, bar, karaoke studio, or gentleman's club.
Your right and wrong. Your right there no 100% statistic that girls that work in bars are whores. But, your wrong to suggest that taking a chance on a bargirl may lead to happiness. The reason a girl works in a bar is to extract $ out of men. Guys: do NOT try to find love in an bar. There are girls throughout Asia who look pretty and have normal day jobs. Make an effort to approach them instead of waiting for some bargirl to approach you.
Is anyone's past perfect.!! Think the filipino has more to worry than the old expat.!! Especially the old guy who is pretending he's as pure as the driven snow!
A lot of what you covered sounds like dating in the USA, so due to my experience in that area I feel prepared to deal with the pinays in the Cebu area thanks to the poisonous snakes here. In my LDR I kept looking for inconsistencies from my pretty pinay, but after 100 mails I got none. She did send me many pictures to back up what she told me though, wonderful, BEAUTIFUL, conservative pictures. I'm starting a photo album. HA! Good advice! Thanks for keeping us informed. 👍 🌟🌟🌟🌟
