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1) overconfidence/arrogance 2) poor hygiene 3) not listening 4) being too needy/insecure 5) lack of ambition 6) bad manners 7) talking too much about yourself 8) being overly aggressive 9) negativity or defeatist mindset 10) being inauthentic
I couldn't care less about impressing a woman. It's MY resources she's after. I don't "need" her. She's the one auditioning for a relationship, not me.
That is my feeling about this video. Why should men worry about any of this? I make good money and I live an enjoyable life. I have women in my life but I don’t bend over backwards to impress them. This video feels like “cater to women by doing these things”. My feeling is I just need to be a good person and focus on my personal development. A woman can decide if she wants to be a part of my life or not. If she doesn’t, it’s ok. Some other women will want to be a part of it. But I’m not going to worry about whether I check every box to impress women. I treat myself (and others) with respect. That’s all I need to do.
@@SISU_LIFE "This video feels like “cater to women by doing these things”" You need to get out the house more. She simply gave a list to show what women like in men. Every male on youtube would list what she said. Stop being so weak.
Every day its all about these women on what they want from men n the do and donts. woman in america dnt stop and think about what men want and the do and don't men dnt like when it comes to women. Alot of these women are fake gurus on RU-vid preaching to these foolish men who have no sense but in reality yall just like the same modern day women all about yall self
I understand her topic, but there are a lot of women out here who claim they want good men, but say they are too nice even though the men have themselves together. They want guys who are not boring, but then turn around when they hit their wall at ages 35 and up with 2 and 3 kids ,claiming that there is not any good men out here, when they have overlooked them in the past. There must be a catch 22 somewhere💯
The catch is ur nit getting the message..... Its simple...take care of ur self mentally and physically and women will chase you...then u can pick a good one...that wasnt so hard was it? You can do it! Quit ur crying and find the female thats good for you...but remember..if ur not right in ur life ur gonna attract trash.
Just to provide a counter argument, not trying to argue, could one say that the desire is a balance between the two? Wanting someone who isn’t a pushover and is strong, but is still polite and kind. Seems like the desire is a balance between the two sets of behaviors. Similar to the balance of confidence vs. arrogance. Someone that is confident and strong but not overly boastful.
Those women need to get right before 25. Men should not marry thereafter. Look past the appearance, most of them are not marriage quality. By choosing deliberately, you are avoiding a lifetime of pain for making the wrong choice. Never give the benefit of the doubt. Hold them to a specific set of standards, which they typically will not meet.
It changes..the context and the level to which they want it changes daily..hourly...monthly. Take this with a grain of salt for sure. For all the one's she named, every man has experienced/seen a chick do the extreme opposite, or voiced the extreme opposite...then only later to say its "this or that". There's science behind of it all, and one moment she says she doesnt like something, then the next is that I like it. "overly aggressive" - it depends on when , in what context, is it during her period, is she emotional/vulnerable at the moment...complete 🎪 act
@@detroitvcw I think i can summarize it like this: Be your best self for yourself. She can take it or leave it. They love a man who puts themselves first and demonstrates that they'll be alright with or without them.
10 BIGGEST Turn Offs for Men Most Women Do.. 10. Can’t cook a LICK 9. Dirty house / apt 8. Laundry piled up clean or dirty 7. Dishes piled up in the sink 6. Body count bragging 5. Drama talk about past and present boyfriends 4. Ghetto fabulous look but broke…no gas in car, bald tires 3. Argumentative 2. SNOBBISH ATTITUDE 1. BAD BREATH…..EWWWW!
This is why people go MGTOW . We ain’t tryna do a whole list of things just to make somebody happy . Everything is conditional. Don’t get married, don’t invest your time into somebody else when the whole thing is conditional. Come on guys wake the hell up. Live your life on your own and be happy.
Most of your points are valid. However, Half the time, women do not know what they want and every man must realise " Never listen to what a woman says, watch what she does. " Also, never, ever underestimate how ruthless and deceptive every woman can be .. harsh, but very true.. "
Damn, but you must believe that there are good ones out there. I got lucky, at least so far. I see lot of negative here though :( Is it really so bad out there ?
Over confidence and slight arrogance is actually a secret turn on IF it is coming from a place where the man really has something to be arrogant about ….
From a Man's POV, I would encourage younger men to put off dating for a while to execute their strategy to accomplish goals.. In order to be a 99th percentile man, he has to direct his time, energy, and money very carefully.. Something my Dad told me when I was younger but I didn't listen.. I chased women!!
Agreed! And when you do find a woman, continue executing your plans and she can decide if she wants to be a part of that or not. If not, you still have yourself and your plans and that's more than enough.....not to mention there are plenty of other women.
What Olivia says about being a great listener, confident and mysterious is spot on Women love to talk let them talk. As a man you listen to what she says. Ask questions to keep the conversation flowing. When she reveals herself you gain her trust Don’t talk about yourself that’s how you talk yourself outta 😻 Remain a mystery to women. Only reveal certain information about yourself that will make her more attracted to you Remain confident and genuine. Authenticity is what most people look for. Never pretend to be someone you’re not just to make someone like you. Like yourself first the rest will follow
What about ambitions that are not wealth oriented? I get a strong feeling that most women will ignore those. Even though those kinds of ambitions make a much greater difference in life.
Think they in general only care about ambitions that benefit them. If it's unlikely to result in money or glory by association for the woman, probably won't mean much. That's why studies have shown women in general don't care about a man's intelligence, only his titles/degrees. Many of the greatest artists and writers of all time were off the radar until old age or after death. I don't doubt that women mostly ignored them.
The number one thing men do to turn women off is not giving them money, energy, attention, and time. Their MEAT. All of the stuff listed would be tolerable and not a problem as long as said woman is getting his MEAT 😂
Yeah and my biggest "EW!!" for a woman is being masculine, being indoctrinated by feminism, and having a high body count, but that doesn't stop the average modern woman. Stop putting these chicks on a pedestal, fellas. THEY need to impress YOU at this point.
Get your passports. It's not men's job to cater to how a woman feels. That's the road to nowhere. No results, and no happiness. Because the alignment should be oriented to the Man--bar none--pursuant to 1 Corinthians 11: 3, says exactly who supposed to listen to who. If women don't know anything, let them hit the streets, period.
Great list, I just disagree with the last one. The whole "women's intuition" thing is more of an idea than an actual quality that women have. If females had intuition there would be less children born out of wedlock and they would know the difference between a male who just wants to have sex and one who actually wants to get married.
Yup, they're usually "hope" strategist. Believing in some impossible fantasy and hoping that it turns out in a way that they made up in their head. In fact, women loose their " intuition" once they experience enough hardship. They'll start basing their "intuition" on bad passed experiences and connect it with their current experiences.
I can understand the narcissistic part and the whining/complaining all the time and staying clean as you can but I'm not gonna try to be someone I'm not just to be with no female and I wouldn't expect the woman to do it either. I'll stay single the rest of my life before I act like something I'm not
One of the biggest turn offs in a woman is men that are good smart don’t let a person run all over them,nice respectful honest brings good vibes-woman can’t stand that ,they may say they like it but there actions don’t - always watch there actions-it speaks louder than words,most woman don’t like commitment cause there not commitment with themselves-they need a scavenger hunt to find some type of drama or something wrong with a man,they don’t like men that’s not in the streets or not thugs or don’t look street or don’t look like a thug- they see it as a man being weak or gay,,,,mannnnn I had woman think and called me gay cause I don’t dress street so they that’s what they think known I’m not,, I had woman that called me a sellout cause I speak proper and not ghetto and don’t have a ghetto mentality,and most woman don’t like a working class man or sometimes the rich man because it’s a man of power and degnity and know that man won’t alow that woman to control them- they look at men that mentality got them selfs together is scums of the earth and it’s full proof of the truth in that,,,most women like a backwards lifestyle- not forward
You are a gem of a guy, refusing to embrace the ghetto mentality that makes your community either a laughing stock, the butt of racist talks or subject of patronization. Never change 👍
The average woman thinks she’s better than the average man. All the Love Language BS won’t change that. Be attractive. You can make 0 mistakes in the initial phase because she has 30 guys in her inbox and is looking for reasons to next you
To me, this list goes both ways! I get that there are different aspects of thinking when it comes to men and women. Ultimately what she is saying needs to be reciprocated.
Yup. The list applies just as well in reverse, and it also applies to all human relationships (male-male and female-female, too). It's a list of basic character traits or habits that everyone should develop. It's just being sandwiched into the male-female frame here.
I just threw this to the streets . And they're eating it up. This is food for the Gods.I can look in their eyes and see they're being revitalized. God is with you sister and so are we. May you be blessed in all of your endeavors.
This video is 100% relevant to men. Good job Olivia. Some of the males in the comment section still think like children. They think it doesn’t matter how they make their women feel? Big mistake. Just as women should learn what men enjoy, men should learn what women enjoy. As a male, if you don’t care how your actions affect a woman, you are still immature and are just as bad as the apathetic “bad wives” you dislike.
These mens are not immature, but this list is clearly outdated and need to be updated to the new 304’s standards. I give a few updates for: 1.These 304’s are mobile portal potty and could care less about a man hygiene. 2.It always better to be cocky than to be timid shy guy. 3. Every female fantasy is to be shared with or without her man permission. 4. Women are graduating from college to be combative in the relationship. 5. She ain’t trying to find a man she trying to becomes the man her father never was. 6.She will sleep with bums no reservation needed and act petty to good guy candidate. 7. They will spend your money and save theirs 8. They have no problems lying to you or deceive you, in any forms necessary.
I mean it all depends on how the woman treat the man back,,, we can't just be all nice and respectful and have chivalry in our hearts if she treats you the complete opposite way,,,,, far as I see it,, you dish out what she dishes out,, this ain't no one way relationship,,, I'm not gonna try to keep a woman happy that's not doing her part for me,, doesn't make sense
@@Coach_Maxwelle Those are the blackpills guys have to take in order to fully grasp the true evil. It's not for nothing that the uterus looks like the baphomet.
Do not get married! It is not worth it. Stick to just dating and friends. Dont have to worry about all the bs that goes with it. Not worth the stress either. Live your best life men in whatever way that is. Single or in a relationship. Its your life so own it
Married life is so blessed though, much more blessed than anything else. The security of it, the unity of it, the freshness of it. It's a new life, one of giving rather than just taking and benefits. That's everything. I'll know that feeling one day 🤞
@@adedejiadesida5091 i totally disagree but i truly hope people find it. I really do. It isnt secure. Nothing is with another person. They will drop and run and wont tell you anything. In my experience it was nothing of the words you put together. Good luck to you
I respect what was said and can tell that you told your truth. Don’t be demoralized by all the negative comments. Some of us appreciate the honest evaluation of what high quality women look for in their partners. Thank you
The key to getting any woman can be reduced to two points: 1.) Make money/be successful 2.) Don't give a shit about women, i.e., focus on yourself and stop simping, All these "tips and tricks" on dating videos essentially lead to the same principles above. Of course, you should dress nicely, have good hygiene, etc. But it would be best to do that whether women are around or not. 100% of women want financial stability, and they want men who don't want them, i.e., they like mystery and chase. Let them win you, not the other way around. Stop putting them on a pedestal; most females have nothing to offer but sex. And you can buy that anytime you want. Rich, fat assholes with poor hygiene get more tail than middle-class gentlemen with nice teeth. You remember that, and you'll win.
Imagine getting on bended knee to ask for a chicks hand in marriage while you're expected to provide majority of things. She should be asking the man... Tf.
Biggest turn off's for women Being able to see through their bullshit and the defence mechanism commonly known as denial. This goes for both genders though.
These are all spot on nail on the head, and only fair. Problem is, even if you meet all these requirements on your part? Women will always move the goal posts even if you meet all the requirements mentioned here to see just how much more they can get out of you/how far you'll go for them. It's all about them and never you in the end, and I'm done with that.
Hey olivia.... sweetheart... are we trynna find love or date... because in the dating world this video is VERY great... but if you looking for love... and understand your worth...as a grown man or woman we laugh at the abomination of people that "nitpicks". Look here if you a man or woman looking for love... LOVE = take the bad before the good because you wanna end on a good note #1.. #1 if you cant take me at my worst... dont bother at my best.. nice productive video... just not so relevant in todays world when it comes to love...
I’ve always wondered what is a lack of ambition? Everyone does not want the same things. I think often times women confuse what they want and what a man wants. Perhaps he is ok re ting an apartment, or driving a Tercel vs. owning a home or driving a Benz. I think you should find someone that wants what you want instead of knocking them because they may be content in their lifestyle.
Your points are valid and common sense. ...if you're raised right. A lot of the men in the comments section think you've identifed too many hoops to jump through. Frankly, if you're a decent, self-respecting MAN, you should be this man ALL THE TIME regardless who you're getting to know.
1 biggest turn off for a man: Having to tippy toe around the turn offs of a women. If she difficult to please, shes not the one for me. Relationships should not have to be rocket science
Damn this girl speaks truth, thats comment for previous video. Please more real women speaking these things , in simple , straight language so we men can understand. Communication is always the key. 10 years married and still looking for right ways to communicate with my wife right ( Most of it is because we are bad at hints. Just tell us and we will do all you need and wont be confused . Thank you for doing these videos :) I can only give you a like and subscribe, but you might make my relationship and life better ;) For all the Ladies from me as Gentleman, we love you, we love your femininity, your care and all other thousands of things that makes you unique and irreplaceable :*
I will literally go two months without a shower. For the modern world it's probably not the best but at least it's swimming season when I flip off my pond deck. I'm myself and I ain't neva gonna change. Dis hillbilly neva gonna change, eva
Amused and astonished that Poor Hygiene needed to be mentioned! No pun intent, you are smart, informative, concise and confident. I like you and enjoy watching your videos Olivia.
You know what turns me off woman promoting to people how men should treat woman ?? Umm how about we start treating people like Equal human beings ? 🤣🤦♂️💯
100% agree with every single point you mentioned Alexa and I'll admit ive made most of these mistakes, some without even realising. Funny how much backlash there is in the comments, you need to grow up and have some respect for yourselves.
I am married, and I understand that I made a vow to God to be responsible for my wife, until I die. That being said, if I ever God forbid lost her, I would not look for another woman. Most women today are despicable and disgusting. If your body count is over 3, you already have more baggage than I would ever deal with again. BUT! For now, this is EXTREMELY good information for myself and many other men. I know that I need it spelled out clearly so that I can be a better husband. I only deserve a wife that's as good to me as I am to her. I DO have to avoid being a simp, because I understand she doesn't want that at all.
Be honest at the beginning...but dont be "too" revealing...dont be an open book when youre dating because she will see you more like a patient in a counseling session that an actual partner prospect.
Sounds like a man has to do a lot & woman just has to cook, clean, take & buck a good rick. Lol!! Seriously though, everything she is saying men have to do on constant basis is why men get tried of their woman and cheat. Imagine doing all that, all the time for one and another chick just wants you for you. That's what a man is really looking for. Sometimes we you cheat just to feel it for a moment from another woman. Ask yourself this!! Which woman can you really relax and enjoy life around?
It's almost impossible for women to give relationship advice because their construct or instruction manual is written for personal gain. If women wrote a relationship book it would be titled "How to love your work husband" because things are obviously falling apart at home. Women can only remember love, remember a time when the future was not a worry. then reality sets in, men and women love the same "school" divided our feelings and organized our expectations. Love is abstract, and is finding less space in our efficient world. We are building routine not desire. Desire is compounded not added; Meaning a little goes a long way if it's actual desire. For some reason desire and need have become interchangeable. For example, Men desire sex, but "need" water lol.
I watch coz I like your vibe and what you’re doing. You talk sense but I’m beyond repair. I don’t even want a woman anymore, not even the pregnant one I’m with now. Which brings me to a question I need answered. How do I break up with this bih without turning her into an opp?
That's a lie because I've ran across plenty of women that couldn't supposedly smell themselves down there. Also it's a major turn off when a woman lacks ambition as well. I dealing with this issue now. Smdh
Avon2Alpha 1 second ago 10 biggest turn offs for men, that women do 1. Entitlement 2. Broke 3. Cake on makeup 4. Weave 5. Out of shape 6. Kids 7. Social Media 8. Eating for free 9. Cumbrellas 10. Inconsiderate
Oh i love the topic of Hygiene, because i never got a response from women on that. I was married to an algerian woman for 15 years, we lived together in algeria for 8 years. Hot country, i was sweating a lot. She told me"In Algeria it is common to wash your Body in the morning and after work". Maybe you ask how to wash yourself propperly in Algeria. This goes for Women and Men. You get a 10l bucket of water and a bar soap. You wet your body from head to toes, rub the soap in your hands and clean your body with your hands. Then rinse your body. And repeat. Is that enough Hygiene for women and man?. Absolutely!!! Do I really have to mention dental hygiene!?
I have to agree with the brother who hit it on the head when he said,"Women don't know what women want nowadays!" That's definitely facts and I've witnessed it more than I care to realize unfortunately. They just seemed so confused or thinking that its all about themselves, when its truly not.
If your looking for a long term then these actually do apply which is a understandable but at the same time change can be uncomfortable so remain your self someone will except you..
Ok fellas what's the take away 1. Brag and be an asshole 2. Dont shower 3. Dont listen to a woman and dismiss her. 4. Ghost her and dont trust her. 5. Have ambition for yourself not her or a family. 6. Have terrible manners and dont care. 7. Always talk about yourself. And interrupt her when she talks about herself. 8. Be overly aggressive. 9. Be negative about her not yourself. 10. Be what u gotta be to get the bait and for nothing more. 11. Have a pair of balls 💯😎.
Have you installed cameras in my home or what? Psychology was my minor in college. Just amazing and yes the bed must be worn or broken in the home of a woman who knows and lives this life right.
