I’m an extrovert, and I can clarify that these are all true. A tip- if you see an extrovert in a large group of people they’re friends with and you and ONLY you are leaving, and they get upset, that’s a sure sign they like you
I don’t agree with all of it, but excellent point about the person leaving the group. That is true, if I am really enjoying your company I will notice when you are leaving and either ask you to stay or try and go with, or make plans to meet you again. If that is as more than a friend, I will probably try and set it up as just the 2 of us.
i mean i’m an extrovert but most of the time we just come out and say stuff where as introverts hide stuff which we don’t get because we simply can’t relate to it
"An extrovert's worst nightmare is being alone for a long period of time." Well, as an introvert, my nightmare is being around people for a long period of time, specially ones I don't know. Really nice video :)
nier89 I don't think that's true. I'm an extrovert and I'm totally fine with loneliness. I sure as hell like reading and I often even seperate myself from groups if they're doing stuff I don't like. Conversations between an extrovert and his loved one are special because the extrovert thinks more about what he's saying. This leads to him stumbeling and being a little shy.
Yeah same with introverts. I find it easier for The introverted side Since You know more than Extroverts know about you. For friends I have a better reputation with Boys since their loud And girls aren't loud And More likely Introverted.
I like how this channel makes both extroverts and introverts seem unique and special. Even though I'm an introvert, it's always bothered me how everywhere on the internet introverts are the only ones that get the spotlight.
Fanceh Mudkip lol and as myself an introvert, I hate this spotlight because I just want to keep things to myself. Even though, yeah I am introverted, I'm constantly labeled as one and idk I don't like being what people call me
as an extrovert, i can confirm that this whole video is true. honestly, the amount of times i have just been talking with someone and its been mistaken for flirting is unreal.
black beanz , I constantly have that problem, people misread me assuming I'm shy which is absurd . if I'm flirting I'm much more forward and interested, ,it drives me crazy because I enjoy talking with people.When flirting I'm extra friendly and boldly forward, there's no doubt if I'm interested . You'd have to be a zombie not to catch on.
Yeah, totally! But we have layers, and people don't understand that xD I always try to be careful now, I worry much more about what the other might think, and try to keep it very low key with people who don't know my humor or my personality, because they might missunderstand xD
Bernard Valentin it’s extra weird too bc if I’m just talking to someone random and they see me talk to a girl who happens to be my friend. Almost 100 percent of the time they are like” bro stop flirting”
I'm am introvert and my crush is kinda an ambivert (aka a little of both)/extroverted and I've had a crush on him for like 1 and a half years and I really started liking him when he would be the only one to pay attention sometimes. This year its kinda different tho bc there's 2 more ppl in our small hybrid class 😂
Mikha'el 777 I went to a new high school as a sophomore and everyone was new there and I was super shy right there I didn't talk to anyone and now I'm not so shy anymore and I don't have any friends and I realized that not everyone knew each other at first so it's my fault I don't have friends 😕
omg introvert-extrovert relationships are so cute xD i see them in real life and my best friend (she's extroverted) is dating an introvert guy and i think he's shy and quiet around me and to other people but when it's my best friend he's talkative and all smiles hahaha
I'm the introvert in my intro-extro relationship. It's hard sometimes, because I feel like he's the only one I can really talk to and confide in, but it's obvious I'm not the only one he feels that way about. He always wants to go out and party, while I prefer to spend time alone together. I wish he showed sign #10, but I honestly think he's happy with just about anyone. He's also very easily influenced by his "friends", which I strongly dislike. It's not always the most enjoyable type of relationship, and I've heard before that we're better off with our "own kind", but if you truly love someone then you'll find a way to work.
My boyfriend is extremely extroverted and I'm extremely introverted. Looking back, he showed a few of those signs before me and him got together. And although he has a ton of friends and always has someone to talk to, he freaks out if I don't respond to his texts for an hour. Some people might find it a bit clingy but I find it sweet actually. He even offered for us to skip prom this year and just cuddle and watch movies instead because he knows I don't handle social situations well.
For my job (bartender/barista) I have to act as an extrovert, make conversation, be interesting and bubbly while I'm very quiet and prefer to be on my own in my free time. I sometimes have customers mistaken my cheerfulness for flirting, as if I'm only nice to them personally.. and they start to ask me personal stuff and want to go out with me... and I absolutely don't want them in my personal life! :/
Nati Whatever I have similar situations, being a cashier in a grocery store. I don't generally get anyone flirting with me but I have had a couple moments where someone said something kinda flirty to me. and i also have to act extroverted while I'm at work but in my personal life I'm an extreme introvert.. so it makes for confusing new friendships
I am feeling so related ...it is really difficult for me to find the borderline between a normal extrovert talking and a flirty talking , as I am just faking to be an extrovert ...plus I have to look straightly at ones face when talking to them to tell my brain - now listen or my brain ignores the words ...which make my situation definitely worse...
This is why I don't like meeting new people who are over the top extroverts. Not to flatter myself, but being THAT friendly is just unheard of for me!! Hahah.
Oh gawd, I'm an extrovert and I once liked a guy and talked to him everytime plus sometimes I would even hug him and tell him "I like you" so I though that he would know, but no! He though I was just being NICE since he was an introvert, he liked me and observed me so he told me "you're always being nice and extra so I thought there was nothing special about me"
As an introvert, I can confirm this is exactly what we think 😂 extroverts always seem so friendly to everyone, we spend a lot of time wondering if you actually like us or we're just one more in the bunch
@MonicaRios Hahaha I feel the same way as this guy with an extravert man who always tells me I m cute and hold me in hos arms when he s a little bit drunk... But never call up ,never send me messages. We used to work together and he always felt the need to talk to me during pauses, lunch, coffee etc... But once separated, no talk. So I sometimes have doubts but then I feel like he just needs to be listened and likes having me when I m around, but doesn t look after me if I m not.
It's funny, even though I'm a huge extrovert, I become so shy, quiet and nervous around my crush. Which never happens! We haven't said more than hello to each other. ahhhh young love..
I'm an extrovert, and this is pretty accurate. But honestly real extroverts don't beat around the bush. We will straight up tell you "Hey i like you, lets hang out." They're pretty cut and dry.
pumkinpie27 I dunno about that. Maybe it's true about the majority, but believe it or not someone can be an extrovert and insecure. The main difference between an introvert and an extrovert is that they refuel in a sense either by being around people or being by themselves (though both need some time doing both). The thing that despite extroverts enjoying being around people, many of them are in fact plagued with the whole "I'm not good enough deal" causing them to shell up. The difference is that when an introvert shells up (to a certain point) it brings them joy. When an extrovert shells up, there is no chance for them to not be miserable, because they still need human contact. So many extroverts, despite being friendly and socializing, wouldn't confess romantic attraction due to feeling like they aren't good enough. Maybe I've thought about this too much? Also please don't take this as me being rude to you, I really don't mean it that way, sorry
It's rough being a pretty female extrovert. I am constantly being confused as being a flirt when I'm just being friendly. And there is nothing I would like more than to have the chance to be able to say "hey, I like you!"
Very true. I'm dating this girl at the moment. The way I asked her out was I approached her at work, looked her dead in the eye and said "Hey, do you have a boyfriend these days?", she replies "No", to which I said "Cool. Let's go see a movie sometime." And that was that lol.
My crush is an extrovert. He is a bit of an asshole and a joker. When we first met, he fucking teased the hell out of me and almost got me in trouble. I fucking hated him for like 1/3 of the year. Then we became friends because we were both weird and I realized we had a lot in common. After a while, we shared the most sensitive sides of ourselves. We were both suicidal and depressed. Outside, he's super funny and impulsive. Inside, he's very kind and intelligent. It's just that he doesn't try hard enough. I thought that he also liked me back since he was sharing his hidden side. Whoops. Rejected. I'm so glad we are still friends. He's a great guy once you get to know him. It's just that he's often mistook as the bad boy type.
Could you guys possibly do a video on manipulation? Like conditioning, Pavlov dogs, how companies use propaganda and one sided commercials (colors, songs, logos, etc.) to get you to buy things? Thanks, Blade
For everyone who kept asking us to do a video on extroverts, here's one we did on how to tell if an extrovert likes you! Let us know what you think! Also, please welcome Hilit to our team!
Guys, *please* be careful. My extrovert friend used to do all these things with me and he definitely was not interested in me that way; sometimes these are just the signs someone is an extrovert. It's best to just ask them if you're not sure, and rest assured it won't be as awkward with an extrovert. You can even do it over message if you are scared.
Other ones: -They give up group time to be with you instead! That's a big one, as friends are so utterly important. -They act a bit shy around you, unlike they usually do! A sign they are really mad about you.
I'm an extrovert AND an introvert and yeah, that's pretty hard. You never know when your social skills suddenly stop working, when i'm alone I suddenly want to be around people and the other way around:(
As an ambivert, whenever my crush's around, I try to act as social as possible and if they approach me, act cold and distant. Sadly this causes them to think I hate them.😓
I've been an extrovert on my life even as a kid. Some of this is just stereotyped weirdness. I don't always need to scream and bounce off the walls. I enjoy reading when I'm home, I'm a college graduate, an educator and a lifelong learner. Occasionally I do enjoy being obnoxious. And I'm definitely not afraid of being alone. Insecure people I don't like creep me out. Somewhere in my life I figured out how to turn people on, and how to talk. Sometimes I make awful impressions. Some extroverts can be agonizing even to other extroverts.
"their friendliness and warmth can be misinterpreted as flirting" story of my life right there, it made me feel a lot more hesitant about being my normal self around people in case they take it the wrong way XD
This video is spot on! Being an extrovert myself, I can tell you that we definitely like you if we're with our group of friends and leave it just to go talk to you personally. Also, taking the time to research about stuff you like. We have many friends so we don't have the time to do that for everyone, so if we do it for you we definitely have an interest in you.
I feel like I’m watching a documentary about how to understand some kind of animal or something, but it is about “my kind of people” and it’s WEIRD and oddly accurate (not on all points but ok) (AND WE ARE NOT CHOOSING TO TALK TO YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE THE “LAST ONE STANDING” WE TALK TO YOU BECAUSE WE LIKE YOU.)
I myself am a mega-extrovert, and I have to say that not all of these signs are true. Something like introversion/extroversion is so complex and diverse that it can't be boiled down into 10 easy signs. It is entirely possible that this extrovert you're talking about does have feelings for you, but they just don't display these particular signs. One thing this video got right for 90% of extroverts though, is that it's best to just ask them. We'll usually be honest with you about things like that.
It depends on the person. She could be hiding it well, and extremely shy. I do that, buuuuuut it's pretty obvious tbh, because I go derpy, shy and blushy. Not everyone is the same. Why not make the first move yourself? If she is romantically shy, or has been hurt in the past, she might not be able to talk feelings more than you can be able to initiate that talk.
@@estiako8544 The video itself has said that an extrovert will make sure to make your confession not at all awkward, and that they'll be more understanding. So no worries!
omg this video is so accurate, as an extrovert i feel so identify, for me the last 2 are like the top of the top. love your channel keep the good work!💕
Nunya Business have you guys talked recently? distance can be the worst, so if it isn't summer for you yet pull him aside, tell him honestly how you feel one-on-one, and ask for his number so you guys can hang out and keep in touch :)
phia nguyen We've been talking, but my best friend had a weird experience with him and I hang around her a lot and she hangs around him more than me (stick with me) and since I'm pretty much always near her and vice versa, it's really hard to get a word in around him; she just interrupts me and he leaves to his friends. He's almost never alone, and she keeps preventing me from saying more than a few words.
I think that your best friend's not only being rude, but subtly manipulating you. You probably had a feeling, but I think she likes him.. My word of advice is, if you want to clear your conscience, figure out how strong your feelings are within yourself and decide whether or not to tell him depending on if you still like him or not. He made the first move and told you he liked you, and in front of a few people! That takes guts, so he may be genuine. All you have to do is fill in what was unsaid. I wish you the best :)
+Who Cares I was in the exact same situation, but I built up the courage to just ask her out anyway, in the middle of a completely unrelated conversation, while she was with her friends. It was really scary, but, it worked out and we're together now. :> Just do it. If he really likes you too, it'll work out.
@@chrisding1976 well im an extrovert now if i like someone i say about it right away, but back then i was an introvert and YEAH I CANNOT TELL SOMEBODY IF I LIKE THEM OMG 😂 it was hard time
I was ready to stand up outta my bed to start studying for my English Test tomorrow... *Psycho2 uploads a new video* Me: RUN, CLICK THE VIDEO AND ENJOY!!!!
1. Not really. he talks to me, but only if I'm the only one around. 2. I had to invite myself. I made friends with everyone else, and just started hanging out with them. 4. Nope. 5. Nope. People teased him about it since we are friends, but he said over and over he didnt 6. Eh 7. I don't even have his number. 8. Already did, said no. 9. What comfort zone? He basically will do anything with anyone. 10. Okay, they probably want me to leave. I think he hates me honestly. Okay, he no like me.
I had a crush on an extremely extroverted girl last year. I eventually figured out that she was interested in me but it wasn't obvious. She talks to everyone the same, she gives the same kind of attention to everyone, tons of guys stop to talk to her everyday. I had trouble figuring out if I was just an other guy talking to her, that annoying guy she wants nothing to do with but doesn't want to come off as impolite and tell me to go away or if she really liked me. I'd say my best hints that she was interested were that she made an effort to look at me every time I passed by her and said "Hi" even though we weren't that close, Wanted the conversations to keep going even though I'm about to leave and strong eye contact.
I went to see her at her job one time back when she worked as a bar maid during a slow day and we were pretty much the only ones in the bar and she was all over me. I'm not gonna go too much into details because I don't feel like writing a wall of text but she was looking at me intensely, she was being touchy and she was pretty much begging me to kiss her. I've quite honestly never kissed a girl so that was pretty new to me and didn't get the hint so I just walked out of there without doing anything. After thinking about how she acted with me prior to this event I came to the conclusion she was into me before I was even into her because of what I described in my previous post.
Psych2Go My best friend from last year just kind of stopped talking to me once the school year started. I mean growing apart is one thing but he's actively avoiding me
As an extrovert mostly attracted to introverts, I watched the introvert video without truly believing in it. Then I wanted to watch this one for fun. It's so exact on my personality I am almost shocked. (The 16 personality types test put me at a magnificent 99% extrovert, so I think I am a perfect example of an extrovert). Now I am going to watch the introvert one again and trust it a lot more. It's so accurate it's almost scary
I'm actually with an extrovert now. Now that I look back on it, she showed just about all of these signs. Wish I would've found this sooner, would've made figuring things out so much easier
I think this video is pretty spot on, not 100%, but generally correct with great examples. I am an extrovert and my boyfriend is an introvert and these videos have helped out our relationship immensely. It may seem obvious, the things that the videos talk about, but sometimes it is the obvious things that are overlooked. It is super important to understand the the differences of personality traits between you and your partner if you want a long lasting and happy, comfortable relationship for both people.
As an introvert, I can never take an extrovert seriously when they show affection, because they’re friendly like that with everyone 😂 One embarrassing story: I had an extroverted friend that was very charming, expressive, and touchy-feely, so whenever he called me cute or adorable, hugged me and patted my head, and showed affection towards me I never took it seriously. I just thought “this is how he is” and since I was the only girl in our group of friends, I thought he might be like this with other girls. Later I found out he had a crush on me. I was totally shocked and disappointed in myself for brushing off his feelings, and thinking we were just friends. Sadly, I liked him too, but he had already moved on and so had I. So, if there are any people out there in a similar situation, be strong and have courage to be honest, or at least try to see what the other person’s intentions are so you don’t miss out on a romantic opportunity ❤️
I'm an introvert and my boyfriend is an extravert, this series is so funny to me because we did both aspects of this at the beginning of our relationships. It would be cool if y'all did a video series on relationships. Like extravert extravert relationships, introvert introvert relationships, and introvert extravert relationships!!
As an extrovert: If you ask me I will tell you how I feel. I’m a little uncomfortable because obviously it’s embarrassing and I’m flustered because gah but I will always tell you if you ask me. I’ll try to drop subtle hints to try to get you to think that I might like you. That’s what I usually do when I like someone
+Psych2Go not exactly about what an introvert will do to their Crush if they are just super introvert they have very very bad social skills and they can't get near their crush even though they like them
+Psych2Go not exactly about what an introvert will do to their Crush if they are just super introvert they have very very bad social skills and they can't get near their crush even though they like them
Because this has been me a long time ago....look at the crush a lot. Maybe stare at them too long. But it would depend on the introvert's personality too.
most of my friends are extroverts which is so funny because i’m an extreme introvert and when i first meet extroverts they always annoy the shit out of me or sky rocket my anxiety but if i like you and you’re a super social energetic extrovert: you’re a rarity in my life
same. I'm an introvert too and my extroverted friend always annoy me because they give me constant anxiety. They also make me tired ugh. Except I mean, at least they're kind though but they're just too overwhelming. I REALLY relate to you han.
This was actually so brilliantly relatable as an extrovert, though Im not sure wether I can feel love... I often get really fond of people super quickly yet im a forever alone gamer... This video truly helped me understand my behaviour! Thank you
I'm an extrovert and all of those points are true. Tip: If you're in a group of people with the extrovert and they specifically look at you and talk to you they probably like you.
im an ambivert, but more on the extroverted side so i kind of identified a little with this video, but maybe its because i have social anxiety but most of the time when i like people i act extra shy to them like im afraid of them or something when in reality im just afraid of being rejected. but is it possible you could do one about ambiverts?
I'm an Extrovert and this video is 100% correct. I have introverted people in my life and I still love them. I hate when people don't talk to me and just stay alone because social interaction is a must for me, but I do get why introverts like to stay alone a lot, and I'll let it slide no matter how much it upsets me that a person rather be at home than outside having fun. What a lot of extroverts will feel between their introverts friends is that the introvert one is not trying. It's like they care more to you than you to them. And that sucks, even if they don't do it on purpose. Oh, and I hate when all of my friends say that I flirt with everyone, and I'm just looking at them like *???* I guess they just don't get it, although I've said this to them one million time.
Thank you. I just realized my extroverted friend likes me just like a friend 😂😂 but he's sooo friendly and always want to helps me. That confused me. But it's just his natural self !
