7 Reasons Why Introverts Are So Attractive 

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Introverts can talk a lot when they are with people they are comfortable with

"İntroverts are good listeners" Me who zones out in the middle of conversation: 👁👄👁

Being an introvert myself, I always found it funny that my high school peers would freak out when ever I spoke up or when ever I laughed about something in class. They would always say " I have never heard you speak or laugh before" .

The problem is that some people just don't understand introverts and they often judge them superficially. I consider myself an introvert but if I have the right person in front of me I became really open. People cannot imagine how big is the universe in a mind of an introvert. Give chances to introverts to converse with you, insist also if the situation becomes awkward and you will see that you will not be disappointed.

"Why introverts are attractive" Every introvert in the world: *DOUBT*

"Introverts are attractive" People to me: Why r u so weird?

"people are really attracted to those who can go out on their own from the crowd and be okay with it"....I'm so glad to hear this.

To all extroverts out there, please dont ask us too many questions. Idk about other introverts, but too many questions just make me uncomformtable. Also when we dont talk much, it means we are uncomformtable and dont feel like talking. Im not attacking any extrovert, im just saying. Have a great day/night :)

"Why Introverts are so attractive" Me: Don't do that... Don't give me hope.

_Imagine being the "mysterious and cool introvert type"_ -this comment was made by the "mysterious but nerd and awkward" gang-

I am an Introvert, though once I feel comfortable in your presence I will talk more and my full personality will show. I usually don't just go up and talk to people. If people come up and talk to me I will be quiet but I will talk back. When you first meet me you might think I'm shy. But in reality I'm just with new people I don't know. If your in my friend group then you know your special to me. And if I come up to you first then your really special to me.

why introverts aren't attractive: -being mysterious is usually seen as being weird (in my experience) -being a good listener makes you a good friend (& nothing else) -powerful (others can take advantage of silent people, since they don't talk back/doesn't seem like we got much power) -not annoying (I definitely embarrass myself a lot, but idc/there's more ways to be annoying than saying dumb things) -introspective (having a clear vision of how life should be doesn't mean your life is actually that way/example: I wanna go out more; have a hobby; find a girlfriend; start a family. reality: I sit at home; watch a youtube video; comment what's wrong in the video; watch the next video) -people complain about me staying inside, not having a life, being a loser (they clearly don't think I'm cool/having a party by myself?) -people usually don't want me to be there & invite me mostly out of politeness (if they invite me at all, which is usually not the case) I did like the positive side about all of these that you mentioned, but as an introvert/pessimist/realistic thinker, I know this isn't the case most of the time (or maybe I'm extremely unlucky & I just happen to meet all the wrong people & live at the wrong side of the planet)

Introverts are extroverts when they start talking to their best friends.

Other people: "This introvert has it together" Me: *screaming internally*

The thing about making others feel special...one of my friends told me about it. She told me how happy she was when she could be my friend. She said that "she admired me". I felt embarassed suddenly, and I still get the same embarassment when I think about it, because I'm just a normal person, not a star or something. I had a pretty good academic history and I was also a quizzer. But that doesn't make me special, or atleast I thought so. This friend of mine, she used to tell everyone around her soo proudly about how she's close with me. It made me laugh sometimes. I had no idea why she's so happy about it. She also told me that she thought I looked distant, yet somehow cool before becoming friends with me. I thought she was joking. But after watching this video, I wonder if it was indeed true. I'm now watching more of such videos to know what others think of me. I think it's not really as bad as I think of it 😆

"This introvert 'has it together'!" Best line in the whole video. 👌😂 I humbly believe that I do, so if that's what others perceive... Perfect!

"Introverts are attractive" People to me: She looks so scary and serious

"introverts are good listeners" - me, an introvert, who skipped the whole video and just looked for the key points

I'm always in my head. Thinking, processing, questioning, and improving!

Why do all of these points apply to me! Thank you for saying these things in a positive way instead of you know, saying they are just shy n choose to say in or nerdy. This makes me feel good about myself. I'm glad i got your videos as yt recommendations!😃💛

And still we are single. And without friends. Are we really cursed or something ?

“hell is other people“ this is such an introvert thing to say

Hey there! Just watched your video on "7 Reasons Why Introverts Are So Attractive" and I absolutely loved it! As an introvert myself, it's refreshing to see our strengths being celebrated. Keep up the great work and keep spreading the introvert love! 👍

0:24 Mysterious 0:39 Good listeners 1:04 Powerful by being quiet 1:32 Less annoying overall 2:11 Introspective 2:41 Cool? 3:25 When u speak to em u feel special just like TWICE

Strangers:she's so quiet and mysterious My best friends: dhfjesj no she's a loud ass crackhead

"Why introverts are so attractive" * Looks in the mirror * *Ya no.*

Omg I can’t believe you just made me proud to be an introvert, it’s something I’ve had insecurities about especially how much time I want to be alone and because of that I find it hard to maintain close friendships

This video is the most accurate for true introverts among all other videos on RU-vid, you did a really good job man 👍

*After watching this video* Self-esteem: *Improved* Confidence: *Improved* Optimism: *Improved* Reality: "YOU THOUGHT"

Expectations: Vs Reality: Too nervous to make friends, people think your snobby and mean, doesn't interact with people because afraid of judgements, actually wants to socialize but is scared of what people would think if they made a mistake

Thanks so much for this. You really spoke to my heart!

Back in the school days, I used to be the hot, mysterious musician introvert guy and people were curious about me. Now in adulthood, everybody just thinks of me as the creep that stands by the window in parties🤣

"why introverts are so attractive." me, being one : *aRe yOu sUrE aBoUt tHaT?*

to all the bullys and people who tease introverts for being quiet REMEMBER- 'no on plans a murder out loud'

This was a great confidence booster. Thanks Frank!

Worst thing for introvert is that when your best friend leave you because he/she finds new one 😢😢

"Tension creates attraction" -- that's awesome news because I'm tense all the time ahaha... ha...

"Hell is other people". YES! 🤣

This is the first positive review I'm watching on introverts. Thanks Frank👏🏽 going to look for "Quiet" now🚶‍♀️

*BIG APPLAUSE for those that being an introvert's person & had given a quality comments. THANK YOU, FRANKJAMES for all of your informations are so true & I'm so glad that out there, I'm not alone & others will gain knowledge about us neither they misjudged us as Antisocial/Ego/Negative's person. By the way, I'm already hit your subscriber. Keep up the good work!!!*

When I don’t talk, people find me scary not attractive lol

This guy is the most extroverted introvert ever.

You know , Your helping many people with these videos frank , Thanks brother hope life is bliss and prosperous !

want to create me own destination without caring what others think of me or about my age. feel intense shyness inside, outward appear grim. hesitation stops me to think one more time before doing things. conscience is my best friend in helping making decisive steps. staying calm is the best option rather than leaving superficial topics.

“They wonder what’s going on in your head” *whats going on in my head* Wii music

Disclaimer: These are only true if you are visually attractive

Introverts are the most calm people and have a great heart !!

Thankyou so much sir, you shared such useful insight. I came to know myself, preferably MY OWN POWERS because of you. I'm an introvert . And thankyou for explaining myself to me so well. 🙇🏻‍♀️👍🏻

"introvert are good listener" Me daydreaming during math class : •-•]

When introverts gets comfortable with their fav person they become extroverts...😁

Honestly, you presented really nice points ! Well done 👍

I consider myself an introvert but in a one on one conversation I love talking and talking and talking

“Introverts are good listeners...”Me: trying to listen but half way spacing out lost in a cloud of thoughts. “or at least they appear to be good listeners.” Me: Snaps back to reality, feeling personally attacked.

I'm an introvert who says ONLY annoying things so talking less doesn't help at all lol

I am an introvert. I hate talking to people and starting conversations. I never liked going out and would always spend the whole day at home and alone. Yet when I got into high school, our class was so well assembled that every time I entered the classroom I suddenly became one of the most extroverted students. Introverts can become very open if you give them time to make themselves comfortable around you.

These videos make me feel understood. I appreciate it!

Introverts in a conversation with another introvert: .... 3 hours later: sooo

Extrovert: Hey, you wanna hang out this weekend? Introvert: * actually has nothing better to do this weekend* Sorry, I already have plans, maybe next time Extrovert: Wow, I guess he's too cool for me

Great points, especially appreciated the one about introverts being introspective.

As a fellow introvert I love your extremely informative content! Great hair btw!

I'm introverted to a point where people find me intimidating and well that sucks because they don't talk to me and of course I'll never start a conversation so I just end up alone lmao :(

"...or at least they appear to be good listeners." I'm dead.

This made me so happy about myself, thank you.

Party of one! Yeehaw! Love it, live it ❤️

Me being an introvert. Students in class: Why are you so quiet?? *My mind: because I don't want to talk.🤷‍♀️

When he says introverts does a lot of internal processing to figure things out. Me arguing with myself and creating imaginary situations and day dreaming all day.

They definitely don’t think I am cool for turning down their invitation...I can tell you that 😂😂

This is eye opening, thanks

Only people I'm not attracted to think I'm attractive.

Introverts are calm and quiet Untill you put them in a room with their bestfriends

Wow this really gave me a confidence boost

I stumbled upon this video discussing the reasons why introverts are attractive and found it to be an interesting perspective. The video offers a refreshing take on the positive qualities that introverts possess, It was a thought-provoking and uplifting watch that reminded me of the unique strengths that introverts can bring to any situation.

The “introverts give themselves fewer chances to say annoying things”- not true for me because every time i say something it turns out being annoying and i regret having opened my mouth once again

The idealized version of an introvert, sadly. Most people don't put much thought into why a introvert skips out on a party

It's all about who will give you the most energy and be the most interesting. Because we like to receive but not to give(mostly).

i was an ambivert before pandemic....but now i am more into introvert....i was wondering why i became like this, even my friends were asking...thanks for comforting me through this video 💞🥺

As an extrovert who loves introverts.... I humbly request a video about what introverts like and don't like about their extrovert friends/partners. Though I'm scared, I'm more curious... hahaha! 😆

Me who does all of these: I'm such a boring person. People probably think I'm weird. *Sees an Introvert with all the same traits as me* Me: wow they're so cool and mysterious 😍😍😍

Very well said.. introverts are always there to listen not thinking twice to stay with you.. until u feel better.

Loved the book recommended here. Quiet was a great read.

"Why are Introverts so attractive?" Me: *So who's gonna tell him?*

„Why introverts are so attractive?“ Me, to myself : WE ARE??

Thank you so much for this video. I live it, I’m an introvert.

Love your video James

It’s like a roller coaster with this channel FJ: INFPs are the best girlfriends Me: :) aw yay FJ: are INFPs dumb? Me: uhh.... FJ: why introverts are attractive Me: : , )

"Introverts are attractive." Me, an introvert: LIAR!

I'm totally different person when I'm comfortable to that person

I really love your videos! I also use it to practice my listening in english. Hugs from Brasil!

Don’t you just love it as an introvert when you say something profound, like say in a class, and then later someone comes up to you and says, “that was so interesting! You should talk more!” (Cringe)

“Why introverts are attractive” Random person: “Why do you look so depressed all the time?” Me: literally just glances at them Them: “I’m sorry, I’m sorry if I offended you really! I’m sorry” *runs away* Legit happened today 😂

Ty for making me feel better about myself ^-^

An amazing book. Highly recommend it for all intros out here.

FJ: "Introverts are mysterious. This is simply by virtue of them being . . . quiet." My crippling tendency to overshare: Am I a joke to you?

"Why introverts are so attractive" Sixteen years of singleness: "?"

Attractive Introvert: Mysterious, cool Unattractive Introvert: Creepy, Nerdy

The next video in my queue was about the same book he mentioned at the end lol

Me as an introvert reading the title: "I'm sorry, what?"

“Introverts are good listeners or at least they appear to be” Did he just call me out like that-

I've been an introvert myself for a long time. That's something I'll always be proud of. Whenever I'm outside by myself of a small group of people I usually just walk or stand around contemplating life and hear myself breathing with my mouth closed listening to the sound of the ocean. 😊😊😊