10 Subtle Signs They’re JEALOUS Of You 

It's so cringe for anyone to leave any mean or backhanded compliments in this day and age. These are immature people.

I have experienced all of this with family members. When someone acts like this I take the hint and leave them alone. I don't have family in my life anymore and I like it that way.

If someone is neurodiverse, they can use stories/analogies to relate to you. I'm glad you mentioned that. Hijacking a story can come from being neurodiverse. It doesn't mean they're jealous or want the spotlight. They want to connect with you. Just something to keep in mind.

Wow. The amount of jealousy I was waiving off as my own hypervigilance, trauma, or overthinking is shocking. The manipulation is stronger than the force at this point. Jedi mind tricks

0:12 Oh my goodness, yes!!! I’ve been betrayed by a few people in my lifetime, and they were almost always people I least expected. To say it’s hurtful and traumatizing is an understatement!

Backhanded compliments. My ex husband posted on social media how he was so relieved that our daughter got her looks from me and her brains from him…. Wow

My “best friend” whom I have confided in about going through a harder time financially, came to visit me and kept talking about how much everything she bought cost, how much the house she’s going to buy will cost, she was throwing money away left and right buying everything she liked in the shops and suggesting all these extra activities we should do that would cost me extra money. I was hoping that once I told her about my tight budget once I wouldn’t have to keep mentioning it and feeling bad. I told her I would like to get a dog and her only response was “you know they can be very expensive”, then she told me she’s getting one (before i mentioned i love dogs more, she was always a cat person). I told her I’m considering freezing my eggs so i dont have to rush into finding the right partner, her only response way “that’s a very expensive thing you know” - no encouragement or support. When I got a promotion recently with a pay rise she asked me “do you think your landlord will increase your rest this year”. Am i going crazy or what!!!! She wants me to be her maid of honour but I desperately want to decline 😞

This confirms my suspicion. Humanity has either crashed or I attract some really rotten people. 😬🤔. Great video. ✌️

There's also under the breath remarks from strangers in public. Who being cowards "knowing they're in the wrong"move away quickly before you front them. Even though you may look 100 percent better than the culprit, have a better aura and dress to the 9s..they still can't reign in self control when it comes to jealousy and envy.

rule no 1 is just don't trust anyone, it's impossible to get surprised this way, only trust yourself

My covert narcissist ex boyfriend was jealous of me! He'd always joke around and say "I hate you😁", and also "you're too perfect", "I don't deserve you", yeah you don't you cheating POS. I'm a woman and my boyfriend was jealous of my own good character! 🤦‍♀️

5:50 Making things into competition that don’t even matter, that makes a lot of sense! I’ve experienced that from a friend recently. She told my mom that I “don’t like health food,” but that she does. And also told my mom that I probably couldn’t even get to work on time if I worked a “normal day shift.” (I work evenings & love to sleep in, but I used to have an 8 am job, and made it there on time no problem.) Friends like this try to take digs at you just to try to make themselves look better, but in this friend’s case, it backfired and made her look worse.

I feel like I am wearing some special glasses now. I see narcissistic people everywhere in my life 😂. I always thought I was weird for not wanting to hang out with these oh so charming people. But every encounter with them made unsettled me until I replayed our conversation and found all the subtle insults and patronising comments. So I keep them at arms length. This video just confirmed that my gut feeling was always right.

I share my stories with my daughter and she always calls me out. I’m a person who can relate to others and to me that is a part of a conversation. I never try to make her feel badly about herself and I always try to compliment her on her motherhood and true talents. And I’m not making up my compliments. I try to remember that she doesn’t like my relatable stories and end up feeling bad because I annoyed her. Sometimes being a mom isn’t always easy.

im never invited anywhere! lol most likely just too busy

Spot on. Thank you for great observations and advice. I don’t want jealous people in my life. They despise you secretly. Not any more.

When you're not invited, to your face. A couple years ago, my MIL was demanding that my husband save money so they could go to London. I was excited and went "I've never been to London," but got a "Well you've been to other countries." The invitation was clearly not open to me, wife to her son.... I've always known my MIL to be the jealous type because my husband was enmeshed with her until I left him 1.5 years ago. (I even had her wedding.) Now, we limit contact with this family.

When you notice _every_ one of these red flags in the workplace from your so-called “leader” 🙄

The fact that she won’t oust the people who give her backhanded compliments in the comments, proves her integrity.

One upping. My mother would literally try to one up. And not just with words. Like if people were oohing and ahhing over something I got, she would go buy a similar thing just to get them oohing and ahhing over the thing she bought. “Gossip” also can be in the form of fake “concern” for you to others. My mother did all of these at one time or another which means that she is utterly consumed with envy. Great insight tho on their jealousy about our contentment in our solitude. She also was the queen of “poor you” fake “concern.” I finally saw it one day tho and I just started saying things like I’m doing just fine but ok. If you want to go around worrying about non issues, that’s your choice. 🙄🤷🏻‍♀️

I ve experienced all of these with my mom...

I hear many say this sharing similar experience to be a bad sign. I never would see it as an attempt to one-up me to be honest. Not letting me tell my story in order to be it all about themselves on the other hand does get tricky avoiding one sided conversations. Then there is people who just don't have much to say and prefer listening more

I used to be a Narcissist more than a decade ago. Today I don’t even care about my looks anymore.

My narcissistic friend would never compliment me or say anything kind about anything i did. But would copy everything i did. I had a Winnie the Pooh themed baby shower and she had a Winnie the Pooh themed baby shower a couple months after. She did this with multiple things. As soon as i posted about liking anything she would like it 100x more than i did. But still wouldn’t say anything to me and would just immediately start copying me. She doesn’t like any of my posts on social media or comment on anything. Just will immediately post something almost identical a few days later. Even when i cut my hair short she said she wouldn’t do it and a few days later had short hair. I don’t know what to do in this situation to get her to understand I’m not playing this game anymore! She currently went no contact with me. No idea why. I just don’t know what to do for myself to heal and move forward since it’s clear i won’t get closure. She’s done this before and we didn’t speak for an entire year until i reached out. I’m just feeing very drained from the situation.

I've had some pastors treat me like this. You don't expect your spiritual leaders to do that, but it happens.

That's why I have to single out so called friends 😮

Oh my gosh… thank you. I needed this. It explains SO much.

Thank you for the video!

Wow! I can relate to 4 signs in two people in my life, and I mean 4 signs each. Great video, and I bet you do get back handed compliments, which is a sign of your success.

I think i v been thru all of these signs around my life by now..rilli nice video

Exactly what I heard from my Narc Ex

Thanks Christina for your video's ❤

omg yes❤❤❤❤

I wish I saw this years ago

🎯 Excellent.

I had my pic in the newspaper showing me with my severely disabled students. And guess what? He ACCIDENTALLY tore the article!!!

People please understand thst narcissists can still be neurodiverse. Neurodiversity doesn't mean someone is innocent

I know many creepy people!

😒Not sure whos copying who nowadays?🤔

Ill cuddle

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