I agree! They assume we do this because they do it. Its funny the surprised looks and reactions Ive gotten when the assuming person finds out that I dont compare myself to others, or im not jealous of how someone else looks, etc.
@@Psych2go please reconsider using "will delete in X" in your titles. I love this channel and it's been helpful to me but clickbaiting and threatening to time limit your helpful resources damages the credibility of everything else you do. Not everything is applicable right away, I've watched some of your much older videos recently because it's what I needed to learn about. Stressing out your audience by suggesting that these helpful resources will not be available to come back to is just wrong in my opinion. Thanks for everything you do and the help you've been but I urge you to reconsider this direction. ♥️
@@Psych2go honestly this is such a click - baiting method... are you even serious..? Just to make few more views you're going to use this manipulating technique ? I'm really dissappointed and even though I think you're making mostly good videos, I won't approve this kind of manipulation... its really cheap...
@@angee7024 I'm sorry, but can you explain how this is "manipulation"? I'm not trying to be rude in anyway, I just want to see your perspective of it being "manipulation"
I swear it’s reaaaallly hard to heal from self-hate…I’m trying to heal rn and so far it’s been difficult…but you’ll make yourself lose the progress you gained when you give up on yourself.
I know what you're going through. I think the hardest thing is going out to unknown territory (mindset,) because, at least in my case, there are things that you're emotionally/spiritually tied to, and the posibility of this status quo change leading to untie these bonds, which have been an anchor for oneself so far, induces internal resistance, and I dare say fear. That is my biggest struggle in this journey, but what I want to try to keep in mind, is that my initial mindset (at the start of the journey,) can't take me any further; And if I want to go further in life and as a person, changes have to take place. I know it feels like jumping off a cliff, that's what I feel, but when I think about it more objectively, that's how little birds learn to fly.
Keep going, never give up even if it seems you keep falling down. Im not over all my self hate yet, there are still triggers from the past. Mine was the result of trauma and tragedies and thru therapy learned this: self hate/abuse coming from these things is very common. It is however, a cruel irony how we turn against ourself, when none of it was our fault and we had no control over it.
Don't delete this please, this is so important, it's taken me years to realise this and that self love isn't evil as I told myself over and over, I still struggle and sometimes fall back into the cycle of hatred for myself, your video will help people and on a personal level is important to me, don't delete💜
@@santorasampson3430 that's sweet of you to say, thank you😊. I hope this video stays up, people shouldn't burn themselves in their head and curse the name or hate ever aspect because of others. I could go on but what I learnt is to value myself and see my positives. I still think others are better than me and put them first but I do not hate myself as I once did, sorry for the long message
@@brassy9425 No need of sorry for writing a long message, it's not easy to pour so many emotions into lines, I am not surprised by seeing the length And the thing I wanted to say is that,most of the people out there make one common mistake that is capable of ruining your both physical and mental health, *comparing yourself to others* which causes a number of harmful thinkings like, I am not good enough,why am I so bad at simple things likes this,their life is so perfect and mine is not etc,we shouldn't be comparing us with others, *We should learn to compare us from the past us than comparing us to others and this will help us to love us more*
@@merinskitchen1455 you hit the nail on the head, it's difficult to accept that we are all different and have our own skill sets and can't do it all, comparing myself to my past helps me see that I have come far and does give me confidence. No one's ever done growing and that's okay😊
This isn’t meant to be disrespectful, but I agree with the majority of these comments saying we’re tired of the clickbait titles. I 100% would’ve clicked on this anyway, but clickbait title makes it seem like you’re trying to hard. The fan base youve amassed will like and watch your videos without the manipulation of a fake timer on how long they have. Don’t let the RU-vid algorithm make you think you have to do things like this just to get views
*If you feel that you don't deserve love,Then remember this* "You were born to be real,not to be perfect."-suga "Remind yourself that, it's ok not to be perfect."-suga *And if you're feeling down, and done with people judging you,remember this* You have to fight through some bad days to earn the best days of your life "Never change your originality for the sake of others because no one can play your role better than you."-Jhope "In the end,some of your greatest pains become your greatest strength."-suga "You will regret someday if you don't do your best now."-JK *Believe it or not,one day you'll be able to say it proudly that you made it,if you try hard and have a heart to do hardwork*
I certainly hope so because I feel so behind and inadequate I wonder when I’ll ever achieve my true goal of having a family since so many are against me and pity me for wanting a family. It’s difficult and sometimes I feel selfish for wanting this. It’s terrifying because I know when I do have a family, there will be hints of me in my kids, but thankfully they won’t be me, lol.
@@minsugagenious I am not a Army but appreciate and love BTS songs and their inspiring words, that's it, was it obvious 😅,But It's really nice to meet a army here🤗
@@EBThisThat I would never call 'wanting a family' selfishness,if that's what you want, wanting a family is a need to make yourself 😊, not selfishness 🤦🏻♀️. I don't know if I am right now but I think sometimes most of the people out there feels that way,feeling that they are not worthy of the things you have or want the most,feeling that you are just a piece of trash and is not even worthy of living But let me tell you one thing *You only have one life,only one,so live it to the fullest, don't let others ruin your life*
One of the hardest things to do is to self-love when others don’t like you. Kinda hard to like yourself when others don’t validate it. Especially when everybody complains about what you aren’t.
Steps to Achieving Total Self-Love Stop comparing yourself to others. ... Don't worry about others' opinions. ... Allow yourself to make mistakes. ... Remember your value doesn't lie in how your body looks. ... Don't be afraid to let go of toxic people. ... Process your fears. ... Trust yourself to make good decisions for yourself.
@@pyschologygeek hmmm.. they r mostly unavoidable situations. Do u mean to avoid the negative feelings and thoughts and focus on something else so then I will stop having such habit? :)
@@Lydiaa7 focus on one thing at a time ! Focus on what one of these are the worst for you then focus on trying not to compare yourself or something. Just a tip I guess srry if not helpful-.-
This came right on time for me. I’m starting a new chapter in my life and that includes separating from my husband / divorce because of lots of damage that happened in our marriage for 18 years. I feel that he’s hasn’t help me at all feel confident and only made me not love myself because I stayed with him so long when I should’ve left. I just started to realize in the passed few months I have very low self esteem and a lot came from him and my childhood and also a passed relationship. I feel now is time for me to be happy in my life and that I finally told him we need to be done for my metal health. I feel being by myself I can only learn to love myself and get my self esteem back. I don’t want to be in a relationship for a very long time. I want to make sure I love myself first before someone else can love me. I know when I do love myself I would’ve put up with half or none of the stuff I have.
Come to think of it, just about all 10 of these things are coming true for me. However, I do have my Psychologist, and she's been a big, big help! I am able to see so many more things that I never thought I'd be able to see. Yes. It's not easy. These past 4.5 years have been the best years of my life! Thanks for this video. Please do keep this format, or this one. I thought it was one of your best so far!
It's my honest belief that as long as you're decent good person that truly Don't have No bad intentions for others. then all those types of people. deserve to have Both platonic Or non platonic love. That's always shown far more than Words Could Ever express
@@Psych2go Even Tho I'm Definitely Not flawless Or some perfect angel . But from the bottom of my 💗 Those are the kinds of relationships I want for the rest of my life.😅 Even Tho I know it's Not gonna be Easy especially for someone like me that's a loner introvert also quite shy .I've been Desiring that deeply ever since I was a kid & still to this Day .My outlook on life is Thanks to a certain old man . That I'll never forget in fact I wouldn't even be alive for wasn't for him .Thanks to him he helped me Maintain the Mindset to try to be Humble & Polite as much as possible . i enjoy & appreciate your channel very much I'm glad that someone like you truly exist 😅🙏🏼 Also my apologies for any long comments
Hello 👋🏻 this click-baiting method isn't gonna work for a long time since you're already a good channel and don't need this! Your channel helped me a lot with my mental health problems and this channel is really good! Just please don't click-bait since that's probably gonna be your future problem for you all and new fans or viewers of this channel! I'm just trying to help but yeah! I hope you all listen to your viewers and don't be the greedy channels like I've seen alot of times before!
Most of our deepest wounds come from the fact that we don't love ourselves enough. When a trauma occurs, it shakes up so profoundly to our core being that we end up criticizing and hurting ourselves, instead of feeling compassion so we can pour the love all back to the self. So loving yourself is the key to reclaiming undesirable pieces of our being and make smtg beautiful out of it. That's how we become whole and our most authentic self. The road to self-love is the road to self-healing.
This sunstantiates my own general posit; my own behavioral development being either in recession or progression towards a better me. I love psych to go! They give you all that you need to survive this hectic life.
1. self love 2. Your realathionship may change 3. You will build your confidence 4. Your self worth may improve 5. You wil, develope a sense of style 6. How you realte to your family and friends might change 7. Self love helps you find happyness 8. Youll feel less insecure 9. Makes you more resilient 10. You will be more humble Meow
The one I need to do a lot more: self-care I always put others ahead of myself. Pushing them to be better, be a non-judgmental shoulder to cry on, sharing lessons on hard work, self-awareness, etc What ends up happening is I burn out. How can I help others if I’m not at my best? Remember: Self-care is NOT selfish!
I've enjoyed this channel until now. How to make money on You Tube: 1. Post clickbait title. 2. Have hundreds of people - mostly teenagers - innocently believe it and beg you to not delete the video. 3. Have many complain about the unethical clickbait which breaks the trust of subscribers. 4. Collect revenue from each comment (minus the popular anti-clickbait ones which you've deleted. This will probably be deleted, as well It's too honest.) 5. Leave video up. Claim it's not deleted as was threatened in the title because so many wanted to keep it. 6. Repeat cycle because clickbait earns more revenue for reasons stated above. And, finally, Sacrifice many subscribers who leave because we always counted upon you to be better than this.
I'll be start practicing no. 6.checking relationships 9.more resilient. Not beating about the failures 10. Humble with yourself n others. Accepting the acceptable and non acceptable
This was a much needed experience 😌 I'm going to be more appreciative of my flaws, rather than fret over them. The sphinx doesn't have a nose, yet is regarded as a monument of awe.
1)it can improve your health 2)your relationship may change 3)you will build your confidence 4)your self-worth may improve 5)you will develop your own sense of style 6)how you relate to your family and friends might change 7)self love will help you find happiness 8)you will feel less insecure 9)self love may make you more resilient 10)you will be more humble
I love this channel, but for a mental health and psychology channel to manipulate and scare us a little with time limited messages, just please don't. A lot of watchers have enough stress, please don't add to it by suggesting that these very helpful resources will not be available to come back to ♥️
Love the constant flow of content from this channel. Probably won’t be viewing much of it right now because I put my cat I’ve had for 11 years down today, but I’ll have plenty to catch up on when I get back.
Your videos always have an important lesson or message in them, this video is no different. Please don't delete it, your videos can really change the world. :D
Loving myself makes loving others feel so much better. It's like my heart is truly open and not afraid to do what it wants, because I'm there for myself in the long run. It's honestly amazing.
cannot believe how pshyc2go videos make me feel like looking forward to becoming a better version of myself every day. your daily content always cheers me up and generates gratefulness to my own self. i love your vids so much please never stop!!
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-cBd8mbXsWbM.html I think most important things that I should learn to live peacefully is self love. Thank you for your helpful videos 💞
Thank you psyched to go I’m in the middle of watching this video it disappeared on my phone I need this so bad I’m suffering so bad I just love the video I’m gonna finish watching it I can’t thank you enough for being in my life God bless you and everybody who’s watching these videos
Number 3 of this video is definitely me Cuz of a life lesson that I learned as a Kid .Someone told me that in order for Others to truly love Another regardless if it's romance our friendship. is if The person can accept all of you the good Side & the bad side
Por favor no lo eliminen. Esto me ayuda a seguir intentando amarme incondicionalmente. Día a día me siento atacada por pensamientos devastadores y sin mucha confianza. Así que gracias.
I rlly wanna be a phycologist someday and I love this channel so much, helps me learn stuff about phycology, learn ab myself, and learn how to make a better life for myself, thank you 😊❤️✨. And I’m on a journey right now to fully loving myself, it’s very very very hard but I’m getting better, and anyone can get better, u have to realize that most of your insecurities are things other people don’t even notice and much of the way you see yourself is magnified and it’s not what it really is. We overthink so much about ourselves. Please keep going! You can do it! ❤️❤️
Thank you so much for making this video, Psych2Go. I've been having a very difficult time practicing self-love lately, mainly because I suffer from gender dysphoria. I've been comparing myself to other girls at my school a lot lately, and it's really been bringing down my mental state. After watching this video, however, I realized that self-love is an achievable goal and that I want to have it more than anything else in the world. I want to be able to look in the mirror and tell myself things like "I am beautiful" and "I am worth it". Also, the way you described swag in this video really helped me realize that I need to stop spending my money frugally and start using it to purchase clothes and other things that will make me feel more comfortable in my own skin. Once again, thank you so much for making this video. I can't thank you all enough for the amazing impact that your videos have had on my life. Love you all.
@@Psych2go I want to start too. But I'm stuck in this love hate relation with myself instead. J don't know... but it started because I constantly feel like everyone hates me. And I don't understand how.
I feel like making sure you always get the appropriate amount of sleep and making sure you always eat healthy is crucial. Even at your lowest of lows, it can really make a difference. And after that, slowly processing what people around you have told you. Are they mean comments? Even if they are real, is the intention to hurt you or help you? Did the person that made them mean to boost their own confidence instead of yours? If yes, never seek the company of that person ever again and even if you can't avoid them, detach yourself from them and also defend yourself. Speak up to them. Also, I think self love is about you also trying to help people around you through good deeds or simple words of encouragement. If you feel like you bring people happiness and help instead of misery and self consciousness , then you live with yourself a little bit better.
I am taking my needs more seriously now. I need to sleep so I can feel more well rested, I need to eat well in order to feel well and perform better. And I need exercise to help keep myself healthy and working smoother and feeling better about myself. I know I will fail, I have failed, but I haven’t given up. And I won’t shame myself 🙂
I want to work on self love but people and circumstances won't let me. This is an important because in order to start to become a better person I need to change the way I think about myself. So I won't give up no matter what life throws at me and you shouldn't either.
Please don't delete the video. Its so important. Even if I see this video today I will need it anytime later this is so important. Loving yourself is the hardest challenge in the world and also is easily forgotten by many. So please don't delete it
Psych2Go - do you not think that stating ‘this will be deleted in so many hours’ on your videos now might increase people’s anxiety & panic???!!! You could potentially be adding to people’s problems by using what seems like a ploy just to get many views.
I lost my self loving someone who was just playing with my feelings, but now I am working my way through loving myself back. Thank you for this helpful video. 💕
Just a question: How many of those videos were actually deleted? I love your quality content, but I highly dislike dishonesty. And no matter if you say it is just a push in the right direction, or clickbait or an experiment or whatever at the end of the day it is just dishonesty. Maybe that's an unpopular opinion, but I'd rather see it taken down as promised than getting lied to. I know that my opinion is very strong in this regard, but honesty is one of my core values
Wow😍 Amazing video! Thanks a lot! I bought two books about verbal-self defence😍 Because Im working on selflove and I dont want to be humiliated from others and I decided to treat myself as nice as I deserve! 🥰
The healthiest part of self-love to me is being willing to be alone, letting go of toxic relationships with friends/family. I have the entire universe, so I am never really ALONE.
Pls don’t delete It’s such a nice and important message Everybody who worries about their self should not worry, they should care and love themselves the way they are! ♥️ *Pls pin this*
Neverrrrr everrr delete this ....I needed this so badly....idk how but U posted this at the right time....so plzz keep it..and tysm for teaching me about self love💜💜
Don't delete. Was said so well & I saw things from a new angle. This really helps put things in a healthier mind perspective. Thank you for this & other videos. 🤗
Yeah you are right I became more confident about everything after keeping distance with that toxic friendship and relationship. Now the only thing I see is my career. Before I used to hesitate in every little thing like dressing up sense and many other little things but now I can over come my own problems by my self I think its the power of meditation also but I am happy then before I feel like I don't need anyone rather then my family. I don't actually care about what other's talk about me😊
