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Don’t want a guy with kids… but they have 3. Don’t like that you’ve dated a few Filipinas, but they have greeted several guys at the airport. Don’t like that you’re divorced, but they are still legally married. Stalk you on FB, but they have several accounts, many you’ll never know about.
Come on, the reason they ask if it's our first visit is to know if he is an easy prey. The new guys can fall for their tricks. Predator will always look for a fresh and unexperienced prey. No other reason.
I couldn't imagine thinking all filipinas must be potential scammers. Why would you even watch this channel or even be interested in filipinas at all if that's your thinking? 🤔
I chatted to a Filipino single mum for 6 years.finally went and meet.finally go to meet the family and she last minute telling me she has another child I didn't know about
I have noticed filipina tell lies and are good at it ..lots of secrets and hide things from you..for this reason I went to Vietnam..thailand ladies were also very truthful about having kids ..but also scam ..
Well I hoped you learnt your lesson. Never send money to a stranger despite the dilution that she is not a stranger. Until you meet (and perhaps even then) you are merely an offshore ATM
It's amazing. When I was looking many dropped things with me once I told them i grew up there as a US military kid and have been back for business over 60 times. They look for guys who are clueless. 🤣😂😅
A lot of these are just women things haha. I don't like Tampo but it never bothered me. Gonna ignore me? Okay, I can binge video-games and netflix for 3 days and be fine. Let's see who wins. I always won and it taught her how to have a voice like an adult.
Looking good this morning! A lot of these questions stem from insecurity and while not all filipinas are like this, plenty are. And if she already has an idea in her mind of what you are and what you're about - you could spend a lifetime "proving" yourself and never change her mind. Find the woman that thinks you're the prize - then prove her right.
Hahaha, that's true. Same in Thailand. They want a guy who is new, who does not speak Thai. Fresh off the boat. And the same in Japan. They don't want a guy who speaks Japanese. Lol. But there are also many who love it that you speak Tagalog and know the culture.
Most western men already know these are "no matter what way you answer these we are going to fight about them sometime in the future questions" she is just building a catalog of future fighting questions to choose from. I will tell her the truth like yes there are lots of Filipina women better looking that you and lots that aren't as good looking as you. If I asked that question and I was told I was the best looking I would know she is lying to me. Asking loaded questions in a relationship is asking for drama most western men have left the west to get away from drama. I will not lie to a woman, if my future Filipina looks beautiful or does something I find cute I will let her know. I will affirm her all the time for her to know that she is secure and that she is mine wholeheartedly but I will do it with zero drama or expectations and naturally and I expect the same from her. I am looking for a no drama Mama.
There are various ways to interpret these questions. 1. Have you been to the Philippines before? A) I want to be your first Filipina and make you feel special. B) I want to make sure I can manipulate you. 1. How long have you been in the Philippines? A) I want to be the first Filipina. B) I want fresh meat I don't want someone who is switched on and able to deal with TAMP, JEALOUSY, or able to spot the fact my brother the trike driver who regularly drives me round town is actually my Filipino boyfriend or maybe husband. 3. Do you have a social media acvount? Yes I do with about 15 people on there friends who I have known for years who moved abroad we exchange social messages about life and interests. I live my life in the REAL WORLD!
Some but not all Filipina want a newbie to take advantage of him. You should tell Filipina if you are on vacation or live in Phil's. Filipina like to keep an eye on your social media to see if you are a PLAYER. Foreigner should look at Filipina's social media. Foreigner should ask Filipina if she has kids, ask Filipina for a Cenomar. Ask Filipina if she dates other men or has BF. To be truthful most if not all men look at physical appearance. I'm thin so I like thin girls, but some guys like heavy set girls.
Yep! I've been ask all these questions. But so what? I ask at least as many. What else are we going to talk about? The Dodger's or the Yankees? If I'm not their cup of tea, I understand! I'll move on.
1) I would be honest about never having been to PH before, but I will also make it clear that I might not stay in PH permanently, or that I might plan to go live in a different country far from her family. 2) See Q1 answer 😁If I get ghosted then that's fine, it just shows that she's not worth my time. 3) No I don't have FB or IG, or X, or anything else. Good luck to any woman trying to stalk me online. James Bond has a bigger online presence than I do. 4) I have two. They're grown up teenagers so I don't need to worry about their schooling any more. 5) Yes, but we'd been together 15 years and she was an alcoholic so give me a reason why I wouldn't have divorced in the end lol 6) Yes. And if any Filipina can't handle that then she's not emotionally strong enough to deal with me. I'm sure as heck not going to lie about the fact I find certain women attractive. Let her tampo, that also shows emotional immaturity and shows she's not the right person. 7) Maybe. There's a massive world out there though so I don't see why I can't spend time travelling. Again, if she can't handle that answer then she's not the right person. 8) Weight isn't specifically an issue for me, it's all about the person and not what size they are. Acne comes and goes, again if the woman has the right personality then her skin complexion won't be any problem to me. But, if it's an excuse to go binge on puddings all the time then that IS an issue because it shows she doesn't respect herself. Suits me all these questions, gets the wrong women away from me quickly!
The reason the ladies don't want the guys that are experienced in the Philippines . Is so they c,an run their games . It used to be that many ladies wouldn't talk to a cano unless they were already in the Philippines. That way they knew that there was a good chance of meeting the guy. And not having a fruitless long distance relationship !
@@stephilipinas On the other side of the coin the guys that have been here for a while , some of them anyway. Will try to run their own games on the ladies. That is if they are still in Sexpat mode OR JUST PLAIN DOGS ! In my 12 years here I have met a few guys that just are no good and are out to have ex eehm as long as they get laid !
I will be visiting Cebu for my first time in the Philippines in February. I will stick to my morals and be honest with these types of questions. I am a nice respectful person until games start being played then i stop being nice. I wont toss my morals or myself in the dumpster for any women.
Same here. Visiting for the first time February 2025. I try to watch as many videos as I can to be prepared for the tsunami of Filipina scams. 😉 All joking aside, I do watch videos like this to be prepared and have the best possible time there. I sure don't expect to find a future bride in 2 weeks.
Well, there is a few questions that foreigners also have as well as the questions that the Philippina ask. (Foreigner should be looking for red flags) Most men don't want a woman that was Married or separated, oh wait there is no divorce on the Philippines, major trouble for anyone in the Philippines. A woman with a high body count is a no. A woman that has kids in a previous relationship, because of her ex might show back up, is a no. The authority might not be passed to the possible stepfather, no. We have some of the same questions that Filipina asks. Plus, there more red flags to look for. Would I date a single mom anywhere in the world, that answer would be no.
Once my Filipina wife and I were watching a movie, and she asked which I thought was prettier, her or the actress. I'm not a complete idiot do.I immediately said, "you". She said, " right answer".
Yeah, but ask her if she has some male actor crush and you will be suprised hahaha. In my opinion it's better to deal with tampo than with wife that is uninterested in you. Filipinas get used to abusive boyfriends. And if you will act so loyal as they "expect", she will definitely want to cheat on you in time, with some other dude that is just on the vibe of fun.
@stephilipinas But I'm not naive to not believe there are good filipinas out there. It's a process and you have to be careful and not rush into things.
Sounds terrible judgemental. 1. A foreigner just coming here for the first time might end up leaving after he had his fun. 2. Somebody who stays here for longer might have dated multiple Filipinas but also he is already experienced with the dating culture. I would be cautious about somebody who never was in a committed relationship here.
No i havent been to the Philippines yet so no ive never slept with a Filipina. Yes im divorced but i never did anything wrong so no i dont cheat but dont want to be cheated on . Yes i will live in the Philippines and do want to travel with my partner when im in a relationship. Yes i do have a 14 year old son ive raised him to be a very good person with kind heart . Id love to have a baby girl with my guture wife but a child is forever . When im in a relationship i only have eyes for my partner i never have any contact with any ex i dont have any female friends i want to give all me love & attention to my future partner . No its ok if my partner put on weight as long as we stay healthy togeather . I also dont have a problem with my partner doing youtube there should be trust in a relationship cause we could do youtube togeather. I might have missed some questions if i did let me know but i hope this helps Steph . ❤
I would prefer to live in the US. Especially if she has kiddos. Can go back to the Philippines every year or so. Still...I could live in the Philippines👍. Each person should stay in reasonably good shape. It's important to eat right and exercise. It's especially important for the old foreigner to be as healthy as possible.
Sure, If she wants to be lied to, I can tell her I have never had a social media account before and ask her to help me set one up, I have never been to the Philippines before, I have never been married before and never had kids and she if the most beautiful woman in the Philippines. I can also tell her I am a 66 year old virgin if she believes all that. Just so you know, I got my Filipina by being 100 percent honest with her and told her she could either accept me the way I am or I can find someone else. I do not lie and I do not ever cheat.
Hello steph.!! you raise a very good point but this is a double-edged sword because if a Filipina is going to ask if a Westerner has a been married or divorced or have children or not and doesn't want to date that person because of that reason then that Westerner Should revaluate whether or not he wants to date that filipina because it seems to me that what is good for the goose is not good for the gander is feeling the same way about a Filipino because most of them have children And are not divorced or are married still currently Or separated looking to be in a relationship for whatever reason so that's kind of being hypocritical don't you think.??? a lot of these questions that are being asked you know if you're trying to get to know someone you say that you like them or potentially start a future with. that you should be a open book but My personal thoughts are just stay single and don't be judgmental. judgemental.?????
These are mostly all sort of irrelevant. She is welcome to look at all my sm accounts as well as my emails I don't lie and never cheated. Unfortunate that the assumption is that people are lying. I don't have kids. But I am thrilled if my prospective partner has kids. I have never been married. Interesting vid ! It appears I will never have a Filipina partner🙃
@stephilipinas I put down 9 of the 14 questions, but when I was waiting on the 10th question, the video ended and went to a video when you were with ya dad. It ended the video by itself, and ALL I PUT was gone.
That is kind of a messed up value system Filipinas have about whether a guy has visited their country and/or how long they live there, but oh well it is what it is. IMO they are only hampering their chances at finding a good guy if they severely limit their search like that.
as a musician she wouldn't like my Fb which I haven't been on in 2 years ,, lol most were cool on my fb page never had or put up with drama etc ,, just almost 5000 supporters and yes many were women , but hey welcome to the entertainment business
Do you find other women attractive is such a dumbass question. If you can't handle the fact that this planet has 9 billion people on it and most likely up to 25% of them will be more attractive then you then that is a you problem that you need to figure out, just because other women are attractive doesn't mean im going to pursue them. But yeah I will look, I'm 45 I'm too old to play these childish games.
hmmm ... if she ask me if i find other Filipinas attractive then i have to answer the truth and say yes ... if that is a turnoff for her then it not going to work out because a jealous woman is dangerous women... a man regardless if he is Filipino or foreigner has eyes and will always look ... that is man nature ... just as a women will always look even if she say she don't ... it is women nature ... human nature is that way ... they should not worry if they are looking as long as you trust each other and don't pass beyond looking ... plus if a man is in the Philippines is because he likes Filipinas ... it will be a lie if he say he don't look
Looks like it’s all no for me except the last two questions. I’d hope she wouldn’t be so firm about living in the Philippines. We all change and you never know. Appearances change with age as well. The main thing is that we all stay as healthy as possible for each other and except whatever faults we may think we have.
Love your content, thank you very much.... but... with regards to the questions... do you want a sack of lies, half truths, or do you want honesty? I think honesty should be at the top.. let's face it, Filipina's are easily jealous.. it's a fact
@@moshzilla1961 and you have to ignore all the men she has slept with and don't worry about her kids either... only your sex life and offspring are offensive
I won't be there to play 20 questions, I'm too old for immature games. It's more like an inquisition to me. I don't care about their past life, none of my business. I've met three, been screwed by two and I'll never "westernize" a filipina. Half the relationships I've seen here fail after 5-10 years, funnily enough after they get permanent status. I have divorce papers, but they don't show a cenomar, most can't even show a birth certificate ... Lol. You can go for a shower and they'll open your phone. Tampo? I'll go to another Island sight seeing for a week, that should cure it ...
I would think Filipina's would want someone who has been here before or lived here already as they would already have learned the culture here. Lots of Filipina's have more than one FB account and that could mean she already has a bf or already married. I have heard many stories of Filipina's lieing to foreigners about there relationship status. I have also heard of Filipina's not telling that they have kids. It is hard to find a girl here who does not have kids so why would they be turned off by a guy who has kids? Maybe the guy got divorced because his wife cheated on him of other reasons. I have heard lots of Filipina's cheat on their partner. Being jealous of a guy looking at other women. That is the fastest way to end a relationship. Tampo is another bad thing. One needs to talk things out being silent does not resolve anything. I would never take my Filipino partner to the west except for a visit. I have no plans to ever move back to the west. So many Filipina's say they are on a diet cause they think they are fat when in fact they are not. If someone really loves you they would not care if you gained some weight. So based on this video I have no chance to find a good partner here as I have been in the Philippines 3 times before moving here and have lived here for 2 years already
This video is very funny. How Pinay would react if those questions were asked them back ? As far as I know, they would not like your questions very much, and the overall feeling would be she is asking me if I'm vulnerable enough. But the true reality is, and this is not a filipina issue as western women are still lost in that stupid questions, the list is so wide that nobody can pass that judging test. Definitely. And every filipina will fail passing the same test too. That stupid heart-police interview is useless and can make good men walk away in no time, let me tell you. But worst of all, there's a huge bias here. None of this questions validate what filipinas wants to know. For example, you can be divorced and still be faithful, loyal and kind. You could stay in the Philippines for years, with no commitment with women, possibly not finding a matching one, and enjoying knowing the culture. There's no direct relation with the question. There's no better way to get to know someone than by giving them a chance. Spend time together as if they might be the right one. If after a year or two there are no major issues and the love remains strong on both sides, then that person is likely the one. And if they're not a good match, you'll usually know within a few weeks, of course. Don't conduct an inquisition; instead, take the time to get to know the person. Also, because I typically steer clear of such channels, most guys aren't interested in women who flaunt themselves on social media for all to see. It's a major red flag.
You make a lot of video about negativity...It make's the Filipina look bad...I watch some of your video and there a lot of insecurity there. On one hand you want the truth...and ask about if you find other woman beautiful....AND YOU WANT US TO SAY NO...What wrong with you???????????
@garytibo younger filipina are becoming bad... they are getting more westernized, and if you want fluff and happiness, there are plenty of filipina channels that sell you the dream....
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